Sex & Love
Sex & Love
Red flag: "I like to feel wanted. So, if I'm planning all the dates, initiating all the texts, and initiating sex every time, then it won't work out. I’m gonna feel like you're not into me, and I'd rather not waste my time or yours."
Children Who Are The Product Of Affairs Are Sharing What It Was Like Growing Up, And Their Stories Were Unpredictable
"I was born when my dad was married to his now ex-wife. I always knew. My dad divorced her (he had two daughters with her) and started living with my mom. Shortly after my sister was born, he left my mom for another woman and had a son with her. "
"I felt unloved, unattractive, and unwanted. Then I met someone who made me feel all of those things."
15 Married Couples That Are Such Nightmares, Everyone They Know Is Just Waiting To Hear About The Divorce
"Yes, they are still together. No, they are not even close to being happy."
People Are Revealing More Of The Weirdest Dating Requirements They Have, But Some Of These Definitely Count As Red Flags
If a date tells you they don't like Dolly Parton as a person, you need to run (fast) the other way.
People Are Revealing The Unforgivable Things Their Ex-Spouse Did That Led Them To Divorce After Less Than A Year Of Marriage
"He really went from being the perfect, attentive boyfriend to the world's laziest husband.... He was not the same person, and it seemed as if he'd lost motivation to work on our relationship with fun date nights and quality time as soon as he signed the dotted line."
"He Was Seeing Me The Whole Time He Was Married": 42 People Revealed How They Discovered They Were The "Other Person" In Relationships
"I hear they are divorced now, but I lost everything, including my sanity, for a very long time!"
"When I Experience It From One Person In The Relationship, I Know It's Over": Couples Therapists Share Specific Red Flags In Relationships
"It's very unhealthy and a huge red flag. Always ends in a painful and messy breakup."
Guys Are Sharing Non-Sexual Things About A Woman That They Find Attractive, And A Lot Of These Are Actually So Sweet
"It's more important than looks. I swoon every time."
I Had To Look At These Cringey Texts From People's Exes Through My Fingers Because The Secondhand Embarrassment Is Real
If your ex is consistently asking for your Netflix password, please block them.
Women Who Broke Up With The Person They Thought They'd Marry Are Sharing Their Stories, And It Ranges From Inspiring To Heartbreaking
"I'm a smarter, happier, and more awesome person. My ex squashed who I was, and I didn't realize it until he was gone. When I found out he married the woman he left me for, I was hit with such a sense of relief and happiness that it wasn't me."
"Flagrant arrogance. I was with a guy who told me, very confidently, that he surely was the biggest I've ever been with. I tried to change the subject to avoid responding, but he said it again. I had to tell him that he definitely wasn't the biggest, and I silently realized that he was actually the smallest — and I hadn't been comparing before!" 😒🍆
People Revealed What It's Actually Like Dating Someone Much Older Or Younger, And Their Experiences Are Eye-Opening
"My boyfriend is 17 years older than me — I'm 33, and he's 50. We often have a good laugh when he references something that happened in the '90s (when he was in his 20s), and I'm like: 'Yeah, I think I was in preschool.'"
People Revealed Kinks That Have Made Their Sex Lives 100% More Intriguing, And Oh Boy, Am I Hot And Bothered
"Nothing makes me drip more than having my vagina slapped."
16 Women Who Had A "I Deserve Better" Moment Of Clarity Before They Ended Their Relationship Share What That Moment Was
"I realized this was not healthy for me anymore."
"Picking me up from my house on a first date! I don't know you!"
"It's A Turn On For Sure:" People Are Sharing Little Behaviors And Habits Men Do That Are Actually Really Hot
"A physician I work with always does it — and it’s very, very attractive."
These 15 Couples Broke Up Because One Of Them Did Something AWFUL, And I Can't Believe These People Walk Among Us
"He was just very moist. He'd sweat profusely every time we were intimate and slobbered all over me when he kissed me. And he ALWAYS had to be on top, so it was like I was getting rained on."
If You Think Your Love Life Is Bad, I Dare You To Read These 29 First Date Flops That Had People Running Out The Door, Blocking Numbers, And Deleting The Apps
"My date would not cut his toe nails and said he grew them on purpose because he preferred using his toe nails to scratch his legs. 'I don't have to bend down so often.' I got to see them. Folks, I ran. I ran."
Coworkers, cousins, best friends...cheaters really have no limit, I guess!
This Woman Is In A "Marriage Situation" And Needs Your Help After Her Drunk Husband Refused To Clean Up His Puke
"Bruh, even in a frat house, people have to clean up their own puke. Your husband treats you with less respect than I treat my pledges."
Women Are Sharing The Things Health Class Should Have Taught Them About Their Bodies And Sex, And This Whole Country Needs An Overhaul On Sex Education
"Wish we'd gotten someone that treated it like a normal part of a person's sexuality and not a Weirdo Activity for Perverts."
"I Realized That He Wasn't Coming Back At All": A 30-Year-Old Woman Was Ghosted Mid-Vacation By A Guy She Was Dating — The Internet Is Helping Uncover Why He Really Left
"A TikTok user direct messaged me offering to look into public records, and she was able to see that he purchased a house with a woman in 2020 with the same last name as him."
People Are Sharing The Moment They Knew They Had To Break Up With Their Significant Other, And My Heart Hurts
"I knew it was over with a live-in boyfriend because MY dog died, and he called into work the next day because he claimed he was too sad to go in because of the dog. This was the fourth job he'd had in a year, and he was always blaming everybody else for why he couldn't keep a job. I lost all respect for him after that."
14 "Ordinary" People Spilled Shocking Secrets About Dating And Marrying Millionaires, And You Should Brace Yourselves For All The Drama
"He was so ill-prepared for life. He had no concept of money (even though he worked to pay for cigarettes and alcohol). Mommy and daddy paid for everything — she was even convinced I was trying to get pregnant to get access to his trust fund."
"I Just Can’t Do It To Him": People Are Revealing The Secrets They'll Never Tell Their Partners, And It Ranges From Incredibly Sweet To Unfortunately Sad
"I slept with her best friend before they ever knew each other (back in high school). It's just something that doesn't need to be known."
Children Of Polyamorous Relationships Are Sharing What It Was Like Growing Up, And It's Super Insightful
"My parents didn't tell me or my sisters they were poly until their girlfriend came to visit for a few weeks. The girlfriend and mom broke up after a few years but she kept dating my dad up until a couple of years ago."
People Are Sharing Their Most Wildly Unpopular Relationship Opinions, And Honestly, They Have A Point
"Y’all's relationships fail cause you won’t change anything about yourself. You’d rather the relationship fail if that meant you wouldn't have to be held accountable." 🎤
“I’m Looking At Doctors, Lawyers, And Finance Bros”: This Woman Uses LinkedIn As A Dating App, And It May Prevent You From Wasting Your Time
"Anytime anyone adds me on LinkedIn now, I think to myself, 'Are they asking to connect with me for romantic reasons or for business reasons?' I think I've unleashed a beast."
"I want Mary Poppins to order me around in the bedroom and scold me and tell me what to do sexually."
"I Firmly Believed I'd Be Single Forever": 19 Heartwarming And Heart-Wrenching Stories From People Who Found Love Later In Life
"I’m 69, and my wife is 68. I was 41 when we met. We have five kids, two of mine and three of hers. I love her more each year it seems and can’t imagine life without her. We both screwed up big time in the first half of our lives, but we learned from our mistakes. When we met, we were ready for a real, committed relationship and went all in."
This Man's Wife Has 9 Months Left To Live, And Her Dying Wish Is A Pass To Cheat On Him With Her Ex; Now He's Conflicted
"So now I’m left with this: deny my dying wife a wish for my own ego, or let her go f– another man."
These Women Revealed What It's Like Being Stuck In Toxic Marriages, And I Commend Them For Their Honesty
"If I woke up before him, I had to cuddle with him before getting out of bed (otherwise he'd get upset). Then I had to be VERY quiet walking around if he was still asleep (he'd also get upset at that). Leaving him was the best decision I ever made — I just wish I didn't waste 12 years with such a loser."
This Woman Called Off Her Wedding After Her Fiancé Cheated At His Bachelor Party, And Now His Parents Are Upset
"He got all defensive and said, 'It’s what guys do on their bachelor party nights, it’s the last night we have being single, babe.'"
"A woman who likes 'guy stuff' is awesome and strong. She can out-do the guys. A man who likes 'girl stuff' does not get similar respect."
People Got Real About The Most Eye-Opening Things They Notice In Couples Who Don't Actually Stay Together
"The same way I know when employees are not going to last long. They don't look actually interested. If you look like you're about to quit, you probably are. Same thing goes with relationships."
"He broke my heart, so I broke his nose."
"Not living together before marriage — this is SO outdated and so counterproductive."
"Sometimes I feel guilty. I am not going to change my behavior though."
17 Times Men Voluntarily Said Unhinged Things That Made Women Ghost Them For Good, And As A Woman, My Jaw Is On The Floor
"I'm a social worker, so I was like, oh, he's the worst kind of doctor. Say no more."
In a marriage or relationship, the frequency of how often partners make love varies — sometimes by the week!
"Late Bloomers" Are Sharing How Their Dating Lives Worked Out, And Honestly, This Should Be Normalized
"Getting into the dating pool at that point was nerve-racking, but honestly, I don't think guys noticed much."
"We really hit it off great — we went on a couple of dates, and I loved her personality, but I just had one problem with her. She smelled like my grandmother."
Child-Free People Over 40 Are Sharing Whether Or Not They Regret Not Having Kids, And It’s Super Insightful
"I can tell you firsthand that the problem is not that you personally regret the decision; it's dealing with parents."
People Are Sharing What Prevents Them From Approaching Someone They're Interested In, And This Insight Is Really Interesting
"In my experience, if a guy's interested, he'll do the initiating. If they're not making the effort at the start, they won't be making the effort later."
Your body and mind will thank you for it 💦
18 Screenshots Of Tinder, Hinge, And Bumble Profiles That Are So Chaotic, I Have No Words Left — No, None At All
These dating profiles are so ridiculous, I can't believe they're real.
People Are Sharing The One Thing Their Ex Did To Make Them Break It Off, And Some Of These Are Literally Disgusting
I neeeed more context on the Mussolini one.
People Are Sharing The "Do It For The Plot" Reasons They Hooked Up With Someone, And Some Of Y'all Are Wild
"We were the only single people and neither of us wanted to go home empty-handed.
Women Are Sharing The Worst Dates They've Ever Been On, And It Really Shows How Hard It Is Out Here For The Single Folks
I told y'all the dating pool has pee in it.
"Normalize Breaking Up With Immature Men Without Guilt" People Are Roasting This Man's Toxic Masculinity After He Refused To Buy His Girlfriend Tampons
"It’s never just the tampons. Masculinity that fragile manifests in so many other ways."
People Are Sharing The Most Unhinged First Dates They've Ever Been On, And It's No Surprise None Of These Weirdos Got A Second Date
"I went on a breakfast date once where my date ordered two sunny-side up eggs. He proceeded to take two straws, poke one in each yolk, and suck the yolks up. Don’t even remember his name."
Toxic relationships are rife with this kind of language.
"I Overcame It By Getting A Divorce": People Are Sharing The Cultural Differences They Had To Work Through With Their Partners From A Different Country, And Sometimes It's Harder Than You Think
"I’m Australian, and my husband is Portuguese. When he’s speaking passionately about something, it’s generally at a level most chilled Australians would consider alarming. I hope he never changes."
I'm convinced online dating is satire at this point.
"The short of it is: I'm having an affair because I'm miserable in my marriage."
These Men Purposefully Had Sex With Girlfriends Who Weren't Theirs, And Oh God, Their Stories Are Unbelievable
"I fell asleep with my cousin's girl — she woke up and kissed me. If the respect was mutual between my cousin and I, I would've prevented it. But since it wasn’t (and he was a jerk growing up), I let it happen."
After I finish writing this I'm going to download Bumble again.
Women Are Sharing How The "Red Pill Movement" Has Affected Their Attraction To Men, And It Actually Perfectly Verbalizes How I’ve Been Feeling
"I honestly think it's made me a lot more aware of early warning signs in a guy."
"It took him three hours to realize I had left."
I can't unsee the video of barnacles mating.
Married People Are Sharing How They Found Out Their Spouse Cheated, And I Literally Have No Words Left
"I walked into my boss's office, and my husband's picture was on her computer."
These 21 People Are Sharing What Happened After They Left Their Partners For The People They Cheated With
And yes, we included emotional cheating.
23 People Just Got Real About The Reasons Why They Got Divorced, And You'll Be SO Happy You're Single
"When we were out for date night and I realized I'd rather be with literally anyone else I knew."
16 Shocking Red Flags From Marriage Counselors/Couples Therapists That Prove Some Relationships Aren't Meant To Be
"Refusing to compromise is a ginormous red flag. Compromise is a significant predictor of satisfaction in relationships, and it plays an important role in the long-term success of marriages and relationships in general."
"If we turn 30 and we're both single..."
Where are you in the dog-to-human relationship pipeline?
Guys Are Sharing Common Struggles They Have That Women "Will Never Understand," And I Definitely Didn't Expect Some Of These
"Modern society can view us as being totally useless — but somehow in charge of everything."
Like any great romance, this quiz is love at first AI.
"I want to go all the way in the fallopan tube." Um, excuse me????
People Are Sharing Things That Make Men Instantly Unattractive, And All The Men Out There Might Want To Start Taking Notes
"Excessive self-pity and a 'Woe is me' attitude. Especially when they make their issues everyone else's issues. We all have our issues, and it's perfectly fine to ask for help or vent about issues you have. Men should talk about their emotions. But constantly complaining about everything, never accepting help, and never working on self-improvement just annoys me."
"When My Mom Got Lung Cancer, My Ex Didn’t Want Me To Fly Home": People Are Sharing The Exact Moment Their Relationships Died
"A close family member had just died, and he was complaining because he wanted sex. Apparently, I was supposed to reward him because he offered to drive me to the funeral."
Over time, these simple habits help create the strongest relationships.
"Your Husband Was Being A Controlling A**": People Are Dragging This Man Who Ruined Everybody’s Dinner Over His Wife’s Typo
"He tried to make you feel bad and embarrass you. Frankly, it was a jerk move on his part."
People Are Sharing The Small — But Totally Justifiable — Reasons They Broke Up With Their Partner, And Some Of These Are Unhinged
"She would speak French to herself in the mirror at home, and then she would do it at restaurants thinking it made her sound sexy... Here’s the thing — she knew not one word of French... She just spoke gibberish that sounded VAGUELY like French."
"I was wondering why I'm still single and I decided to use AI to analyze my texts to my ex to try and figure out what's wrong with me."
"I've Witnessed Too Many Couples Break Up Over This": 19 Negative Qualities That Most People Overlook When Settling Down With A Significant Other
"One doesn’t matter much at all; the other is the thing that matters most of all..."
Daters Are Sharing The Things They Refuse To Tolerate In Potential S.O.'s As They Get Older, And I Wish I'd Read These When I Was 20
"They're not serious, they're not looking for something real, and they're just going to waste my time."
"If you want to put something in your butt, it should have a flared end to prevent it from getting sucked in too far and getting stuck. Safety first!"
"If He Couldn't Have My Back Playing Monopoly, He Was Never Going To Have My Back": People Share The Exact Moment They Realized They Needed To End Things
"My friend told me, 'You used to sparkle, but you don't anymore.'"
"Vaginas Are Way Further Down Than I Thought": Men And Women Are Sharing The Surprising Facts They Didn't Know About Each Other
"As a woman, I had no idea that most guys can't stop once they start peeing because it's either very uncomfortable or even hurts. This fact still blows my mind to this day."
"I Have Never Felt So Grossed Out Or Embarrassed For Someone In My Life": People Are Sharing The Very Specific Things That Instantly Make Them No Longer Attracted To Someone
"During the first week of college, my roommate’s boyfriend showed up with HIS roommate, Tate. Tate and I were left alone for a couple of minutes. We were chatting and he was going to show me something in his wallet. Then he said, 'Oops! I almost dropped my GUCCI wallet!' while smirking at me."
People Online Are Split Over This Woman's Decision To Live "Together-Apart" With Her Partner In A Duplex With Their Own Apartments, But The Perks Seem Pretty Sweet
"Since we were both previously divorced and we each have a child from our previous marriages, we knew we didn't want to live together in the traditional sense. However, two separate buildings and a bridge were out of our means, so we began talking about a duplex."
"It's like a SHARP STABBING pain on one side and light cramps on that day. Also, I can feel which side is ovulating."
People Are Sharing What Stopped Them From Divorcing Their Partner, And It's A Real Lesson In Communication And Self-Improvement
"You're allowed to fight, but you have to fight fair."
Ooh, a Renaissance soul? That sounds cool!
"If one person has champagne tastes and spending habits but, as a couple, you have a boxed wine budget — that is a problem. More than one marriage has been ended because one spouse is bad with money and refuses to live within their means."
17 Of The Most Useful Lessons People Learned In Couples Therapy That Were Total Relationship Game-Changers
"You'll look back and wonder how you ever got along before!"
29 Valuable Relationship Lessons Older Adults Wish They Would've Known About Earlier In Their Love Lives
"Expressing one's feelings may not lead to the outcome you want, but it's better to speak about things now than to hold it in and have it explode 10 times worse."
People Are Sharing The Weirdest "What Did They Just Do?" Moment In Their Relationship, And Some Of These Are Wild
"A guy I met online sent me a small care package including a 'painting' that was just an impression of his hand. I thought it was cute and sweet, and I sent him a picture of me putting my own hand over it. He got REALLY upset that my hand was bigger than his and stopped talking to me."
20 People Are Sharing Their Stories About The Weirdest Things That Happened To Them In A Relationship, And I Don't Think You're Even Remotely Ready For Some Of The Things You're About To Read
It's just going to be incredibly unhinged from here on out.
Women Are Sharing The Non-Serious Secrets They're Keeping From Their Partners, And Some Of These Are So, So Wholesome
"Listening to him sing along in the car is a little like nails on a chalkboard."
15 "Red Flags" That Can Signal Someone In Your Life Is A Man-Child, According To People Who Know Them Very, Very Well
"Everybody but the man-child in question will notice it."
"I miss having alone time. Like, holy heck, dude: I just want one weekend to be the disgusting, vile, wine-loving person that I am."
"The act of cheating (even once) makes you a cheater. It doesn't matter if you regret it afterward and/or you never do it again. I would never establish a relationship with a person who I know has cheated in the past. I wouldn't trust them, no matter what."
I thought dating was supposed to be fun...