Sex

We Asked Gynecologists About Kourtney Kardashian's Vagina Gummies And They Did Not Hold Back
“This idea that your vagina is dirty and should smell like a flower or taste like a bakery is ridiculous.”

This Woman Had Two Vaginas. Doctors Said Her Pain Was Due To Stress.
“When they’d told me it was all in my head I just felt even more embarrassed and it left me feeling very broken.”

Don’t Be Embarrassed If Exercise Makes You Horny. It’s Totally Normal.
It’s not clear why exercise turns some people on, but research suggests it has to do with blood flow, hormones, and muscle contractions.

Forget The Candy, Get These Self-Care Gifts For Valentine’s Day
Whether you need a gift to show some love to your friends or a partner, everyone could benefit from more self-care in their lives.

Inside Virtual Reality’s Booming Underground Sex Scene
Explicit content is banned on the popular VRChat platform, but that doesn’t stop users with Bluetooth-enabled toys from indulging in hourslong erotic role play.

These Sex Toys For People With Erectile Issues May Help With Pleasure And Performance
Many sex toys focus only on pleasure. These may help with sexual performance issues as well.

People Are Sharing The Biggest "Mistakes" They Made Because They Were Horny, And I'm Screaming
"I had a double lap dance in the back room of a strip club. They made promises, and I gave them my credit card. Nothing happened except me unsuccessfully trying to fight a four-figure credit card charge. I am not a smart man."

Meet The Affordable Sex Toys That You Can Get At Amazon And Target
Here's what sets Cake’s sex toys, lubes and other products apart from anything else that’s out there.

Keke Palmer Just Shared The Best Sex Advice She Got From Whoopi Goldberg, And It "Changed Her Life"
Keke revealed that porn-style sex just doesn't do it for her. "I never actually had a happy ending from it, if I'm being, you know, lightly frank."

We Tried These Sex Toys This Year And 10/10 Would Recommend
We asked BuzzFeed staffers to tell us what sex toys they tried and loved this year. Here are their reviews.

"His Mom Had To Bring Him New Sheets": 26 College Hookup Stories That Are Embarrassing But Hysterical
"I lost my virginity at a college Halloween party to a guy who was wearing a Spirit Halloween Luigi costume."

Tell Us Why You Suspected Your Cheating Partner Was Having An Affair, And What Your Relationship Together Looks Like Now
The heart, at first, does not see what it does not want to.

People Have Mixed Feelings About STI Dating Apps
Some users say dating apps like Positive Singles, which is geared toward people with herpes, offer community, while STI advocates say they unfairly perpetuate stigma.

"Bigger Isn’t Always Better": Here Are 34 Lessons People Wish They'd Learned About Sex Before Having It
"For god's sake, everyone wash your damn hands before touching the fun bits!"

Here’s Why You Need A Sexual Health Emergency Kit And What To Pack In It
You probably have a first-aid kit and some sort of medicine bag for physical ailments, so why not have supplies on hand for the sake of your sexual health?

Here Are The Most Shocking Secrets And Stories About Marriage, Affairs, And Weddings So Far This Year
"The straw that finally broke it for me was when I left the hospital after the birth of our daughter. He couldn't be found because he was on a train to Florida with his girlfriend and her husband's tax refund check."


People Reveal Things They Never Knew Before Having Sex, And It's Actually Pretty Informative
"Sex without foreplay is like eating without chewing."

Adults Are Exposing The Tell-Tale Signs That People Are Having A Sexual Affair, And I Can’t Believe I Was So Oblivious
They need to teach these in sex-ed, because boy do I feel like an idiot!

People Are Sharing Feelings And Moments They Think Are More Climactic Than Sex, And I Never Thought Of Some Of These
"Yeah, sex is ecstasy, but this is better."

Things To Know About The Clitoris For People Looking To Maximize Pleasure
The clitoris is the body’s only organ with pleasure as its sole function. The more you know about it, the more satisfaction you and any partners will get out of it.

15 Celebrities Shared Their Coming Out Stories, And This Is So Important
"The universe has always given me the power to know I’ll be okay. Even at that time, when my parents didn’t understand, I just felt that one day they are going to understand."

People Reveal How Their Parents Handled The "Sex Talk," And How It Affected Them As Adults
"I asked to get birth control at 19, and my mom said, 'Okay, but I don’t ever want to talk about it.'"

Former Inmates, Tell Us What You Want People To Know About Sex And Relationships In Prison
Tell us whatever you want.

25 Shocking "Sex" Confessions From Celebrities About Their First Sexual Experiences That Are Kinda Wild
While looking for condoms, Joe Jonas "demolished" his roommates' room so badly that he thought someone had broken in, LOL.

16 Real-Life Sex And Intimacy Questions You’re Too Shy, Embarrassed, Or Worried To Ask About — Answered By Experts
"My partner and I are planning to have sex soon and I’m worried about disappointing her because this particular habit has followed me into my adulthood. I am 27 now."

We Can Guess Whether You're Aussie Or American Based On How You Design Your Fake Boyfriend
Your fake boyfriend will be delivered to your door in 5–7 business days.

Ann Summers Is Having A Huge Sale And I'm Just Saying, It Can't Hurt To Look
There's 30% off everything from toys to basques (yes, please).

Women Reveal Lies They Were Told About Their Bodies, And Some Of These I've Never Questioned Until Now
"My boyfriend commented on my boobs (areolas) having bumps. I was self-conscious FOR YEARS, not knowing it's common."

父の性教育。避妊について学ぶのをサポート、娘に低用量ピルをプレゼント
ある女子高校生のお父さんが、娘たちに低用量ピルを買ってきて「まあ頑張れよ、グッドラック!」と投げかけた動画が、話題を呼んでいます。

People Are Describing The First Time They Had Sex, And Let Me Tell You, The Range Is So Real
"Imagine a starfish and the Energizer Bunny together for two hours."

"The Greatest Anticlimax Of My Life": People Who Saved Sex For Marriage Reveal What Their First Time Was Like
"It was so bad that I had to consult a book on sex mid-act to see what was wrong."

These Underwear Were Just OK’d By The FDA For STI Prevention During Oral Sex
Lorals underwear can be worn during cunnilingus and rimming, and the FDA just OK’d them as an effective way to help prevent STIs.

People Are Confessing The Most Sexually Tense Situations, And I’d Love To Know Where You Stand On Them
"He did it so gently, and I didn’t know what to do with myself."

"I Believed Only Men Had Butt Hair": Women Are Sharing Things They've Had To Learn And Unlearn About Female Bodies
"I had a male gynecologist tell me that PMS has never been 'proven.'"

People Are Revealing The Trashiest Weddings They've Been To, And So Many Of Them Are Horror Stories
"We had porta-potties instead of actual working bathrooms, and I had to politely inform the best man he couldn't smoke in them."

15 Real-Life Sex And Intimacy Questions You’re Too Embarrassed Or Shy To Ask About — Answered By Experts
"I'm a 31-year-old woman who has never had sex. I had some health issues in college, so I feel like I missed the boat. The more time that passes, the more concerned I am to admit my inexperience to any future partner. If I do start seeing someone, is it ok to not tell them the truth?”

If You Have Questions About Sex But Are Too Shy To Ask, We'll Ask Experts For You
Ask anything — this is a completely judgement-free zone.

Straight Men Are Sharing Their Same-Sex Hookup Experiences, And It's So Wild And Fascinating
"I'd hook up with the husband before hooking up with his wife..."

Married People Who've Had Affairs, Tell Us If You Have Any Regrets
We want to know.

People Are Sharing The Exact Moment They Stopped Loving Their Significant Others, And Whew, This Is Tough To Read
"He walked out on me after I was diagnosed with a rare type of cancer."

Women In Their 30s (And Older) Are Sharing Things They Now Really Understand About Life That They Didn't Get When They Were Younger
"By your 30s, you realize you can make your own framework for life, and other people can choose to be in it if they want to."

Straight Guys, Tell Us About Your Same-Sex Hookup Experiences
I'm curious if you were curious.

Sex Workers Got Brutally Honest About The Struggles They Face While Trying To Date, And It's An Eye-Opening Perspective
"After a long day of work, you don't always want to have sex when you get home."

"I Watched Him Cheat On Me": People Are Sharing The Moments They Discovered They Needed To Break Up With Their Ex
"It would've been so much easier if we broke up because one of us cheated or we hated each other, but we actually were a really good couple."


15 Eye-Opening Secrets About Sex Parties From People Who Actually Attend Them
"There are mattresses, then chairs for people to watch." 💋

"I Asked My Boss Out": People Are Sharing The Times They Decided To Shoot Their Shots, And How It Turned Out
"After 12 months of no contact, I sent him an email professing my love and offered to move back to Canada for him."

She Dug Her Nails Into My Bare Leg": People Share The Abusive Behaviors They Recognized From Their Partners, Family, And Friends
"He literally had me crying in his car, while all my friends were inside because I did something wrong to upset him on my birthday."

Condomless Sex Is On The Rise. This Is Why Some People Don’t Use Them Anymore.
“Condoms are uncomfortable; maybe I haven't found the right [fit] for me, or like the best condoms that could work.”

If You've Ever Been Curious About Sex Parties Or Non-Monogamy, Now's Your Chance To Ask
We're gonna get answers.

30 Sexual "Never Have I Ever" Questions That Will Reveal How "Experienced" You Really Are
It's time to play a little game. ;]

People Who Have Been In A Throuple Are Revealing Their Wild Secrets, Stories, And Tips, And You Just Gotta Read It For Yourself
"She started to believe that she was falling in love with my husband and made it clear she wanted him to leave me."

"My Sex Ed Teacher Told Me Women Cannot Orgasm": People Are Sharing The Biggest Sex Ed Failures They've Ever Witnessed
"My male sex education teacher told our entire classroom that period cramps do not exist and that he would not accept them as an excuse to get out of gym class."

People Are Divulging Kinky Sex Things They Tried And Ended Up Loving, And I'm Honestly Impressed
"It felt way better than I thought, and the control is pretty hot."

"It's Impractical AF:" People Are Sharing Things They Tried During Sex But Ended Up Hating, And I Can't Stop Laughing At Some Of These
I feel kinda bad for laughing, but some of these are really funny.

Is It Okay For My Partner To Have His Ex's Nudes On His Phone?
"I just had a gut feeling about something being wrong."

We Talked To People Living With Disabilities About Sex, And Here's What They Had To Say
"Assuming a disabled person is nonsexual or undesirable to any able-bodied or nondisabled person is suggesting that disabled people are automatically excluded from the full range of the human experience."

These Sex Toys Are On Sale For Cyber Weekend And I'm Buzzing With Excitement
Pick one up for you — and one for a friend.

Women Are Opening Up About Being Objectified While Doing Normal Things, And It’s Frustratingly Heartbreaking
"The doctor lectured me, sternly and condescendingly, about how sex was 'not only a physical act but a spiritual one.'"

My Twin Sister Is A Cammer And It's Making Me Uncomfortable — Should I Tell Her?
"I hate that I’m so uncomfortable. I wish I wasn’t, but I am."

Women Are Sharing Stories Online About Sex With Celebrities
“I want it to be understood that I’m not scorned. I’m not sad because I didn’t get him as a boyfriend.”

25 Screenshots Of People Oversharing (Or Lying) About Their Sex Lives
Some things can (and should) be kept to ourselves.

Here’s Everything You Wanted To Know About Open Relationships But Were Too Afraid To Ask
“A threesome is actually a great place to start with open relationships because both primary partners are involved and you can kind of see how the dynamic works.”

Women Who "Dated" Older Men As Teens And Realized They're Actually Predators Are Sharing Their Stories, And It's Heartbreaking
"When I received attention from older men, it was affirming. It's sad to realize my self-worth was connected to male approval."

This Couple Is Struggling With Differing Opinions On Whether They Want Children
"I've come to a point where having children has become very real and it plays on my mind constantly. I feel like there's a hole that needs to be filled."

18 Things Men Said After Sex That Made Women Immediately Regret Their Decision To Sleep With Them
I feel kinda bad for laughing, but some of these are actually hilarious.

19 Just Plain Wrong Things People Believed About Sex Because Of Porn
"Water is NOT a good lubricant."

"Soaking" Has Become A Viral Conversation Because It's Apparently How Mormons Avoid Penetrative Sex Before Marriage
"I used to believe that a spirit would literally leave my body if I were to engage in sexual activity."

Here's Some Advice On Your Vagina That You Probably Didn't Learn In School
"PAY ATTENTION TO ME" — your vulva (probably).

This Woman's Video About Why You Should Have Sex On The First Date Is Going Viral, And It's Starting A Debate
"Months of getting to know this guy, getting deep with him, getting personal with him — out the door."

People Who Are Polyamorous, Tell Us About The Rules Or Guidelines You Follow In Your Relationships
Let's learn more about love!


Sorry If This Is Too Personal, But Design A Bougie Home And I'll Guess Your Body Count
It's time to finish what Adele's Instagram live started... 👀

15 Hilarious (And Sad) Descriptions Of What It's Like For A Straight Woman To Have Sex With A Man
♫ Is that right? I'll never be satisfied. ♫

What Really Specific Sex Kink Are You Into That Most People Don't Know About
Time to spice things up.

Couples Are Sharing The Ways They Get Around Having Different Sex Drives, And Anyone Struggling With This Should Take Notes
Breaking up doesn't have to be the only solution!

34 Sex Lessons Women Wish They'd Learned When They Were Younger
"I wish I knew I wasn't a 'bad girl' for having sexual thoughts and desires."

Anal Sex Lovers Are Sharing The Things Everyone Needs To Know Before Doing The Deed
The five rules of anal sex: lube, lube, lube, lube, and lube.


¿Estás de acuerdo con estas 18 opiniones controversiales sobre el sexo?
Di lo que piensas, sin miedo al éxito.

My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because Of Our Mismatched Libido — Should I Fight For It?
"Am I just holding onto something that would never work out?"

Tell Us About A Time When You Were Slut-Shamed, What Happened And Who Tried To Shame You
Slut-shaming is never OK or justifiable. And yet, it happens constantly.


28 Totally Natural Things That Happen During Sex But Are Treated As "Abnormal" By Society
"Not finishing! Some people (like myself) don't always finish and still find it satisfying."

Help Me Hameda — Our Brand New Advice Column
Say hello to your newest internet friend.

Women Are Pointing Out Things About Our Bodies That Men Just Don't Understand, And You Know What? They're Right
"The race against time when coming out of the shower when you are on your period."



¿Sabes mucho de sexo? Estas 13 preguntas lo van a comprobar
Pongamos a prueba tu sexperiencia.

Tell Us Something Normal About Having Sex That You Think Is Often Treated As Abnormal
Normalize period sex!

If You Love Anal Sex, What Advice Do You Have For People Who Are Doing It For The First Time?
Share your best advice, tips, and tricks!

People Are Pointing Out Things That Seem Sexy In Porn But Actually Aren't, And There Are No Lies Detected
"Getting caught by your stepsister."

People Who Have Pierced Their Private Parts: What Would People Find Interesting To Know About Having One?
Does it make sensation better?!

What's An Incorrect Sex Ed Fact You Learned In School That You Didn't Realize Was Untrue Until Later?
Tell us the most incorrect piece of information you learned in sex ed.

If You’re Waiting For COVID To End To Date, You Might Be Waiting A Long Time
"They are concerned and they’re cautious, but they’re sick of having to be and they want to live their lives."

Women Are Pointing Out Stupid Myths About Women, And I'm Gonna Rip My Ears Off My Head If I Hear A Man Say One Of These One More Time
"That we all secretly hate each other."

Men Are Sharing Sex Tips They Use And They're Specific, But Low-Key Genius
Very, very specific...


People Are Sharing Weird Things They Find Attractive, And Boy Howdy, They Mean Weird
"If they cook me garlic bread, we will be cuddling."