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Married People Who've Had Affairs, Tell Us If You Have Any Regrets

We want to know.

People have affairs for a multitude of reasons. And sometimes, they may end up with a ton of regret.

Maybe you had an affair because sex with your wife was no longer spicy and exciting. But once she caught you and demanded a divorce, you lost your best friend in the world, and those moments of lust were absolutely not worth it.

Couple passionate in bed

Perhaps, you cheated on your husband with a friend, and once your affair was discovered, they got into a huge fight. Perhaps, neither wanted anything to do with you once it was all said and done, and you regret losing both your husband and friend in one fell swoop.

Person crying on the floor of a bedroom

Or maybe when your wife found out about your affair, she divorced you and took primary custody of the kids. Maybe what you regret most is the emotional turmoil you caused your family.

Sad child with fighting parents behind him

Whatever it is, we want to know. Tell us your feelings now about having an affair in the past in the comments below, and your response could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post. If you'd like to share your story anonymously, you can do so here.