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    14 Sex Toys You And Your Partner Will Want To Use Together

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    We asked the BuzzFeed Community what sex toys they enjoy using with their partners. Here are their ~tantalizing~ suggestions:

    1. A waterproof vibe that mimics oral stimulation with 20 speeds and dual vibrations to make you scream and your lover smirk in satisfaction.

    the lavender sweet vibrations clit sucker and its packaging

    "My boyfriend and I absolutely love the Girl’s Best Friend by Sweet Vibrations. One side is a regular vibrator and the other side is a clit vibrator. Both have 20 different settings and speeds. I got it because I’ve never been able to make myself come on my own and I wanted something that would really work, and boy this baby sure does the job. My boyfriend used it on me the other day and in five minutes I had five orgasms — it was amazing! My boyfriend loves it and I love it. Definitely a must-have!" —merrishaniquab

    Get it from Amazon for $54.99 (available in two colors).

    2. A wireless bullet vibrator so you and your honey can have sexy time on the go. Y'all have always been a little into exhibitionism.

    the 50 shades of grey remote egg
    Adam and Eve

    With all that said, even though getting caught is a part of the cheap thrill, don't ACTUALLY let anyone catch you, babies!

    "We got this wireless bullet vibrator that is controlled by a black remote control in the shape of a ring. We joke and call the ring the infinity ring. It has made plenty of boring car rides fun!" —devib

    Get it from Adam and Eve for $99.99.

    3. A penis sleeve with pleasure-inducing suction and groves that'll definitely come in handy during a frisky handjob sesh.

    the super head honcho masturbation sleeve
    Adam and Eve

    "It's amazing for the nights where he wants more than I do. We can even use it together!" —rueflower

    Get it from Amazon for $18.07 or Adam and Eve for $29.95.

    4. A rabbit cock ring your boo can place on their penis to keep them...uh, upright, while the little bunny ears give a great sensation that'll make your eyes roll into the back of your head.


    "It's hard for me to come from penetration alone, but my partner likes it. With the vibrating 'ears' I can stimulate my clit and climax from that — this way we're both happy. Bonus; the cock ring makes him harder and last longer!" —j

    Get it from Lovehoney for $49.99.

    5. A powerful vibrating butt plug totally controlled by an app so you and your long distance babe can have some toe-curling ass play. Bonding is so heartwarming.

    the LOVENSE Hush Butt Plug

    It has unlimited vibration patterns and can even go with the rhythm of your music and outside sounds. Sounds kinky.

    "Oh my goodness! My boyfriend and I use the Hush. It's a butt plug that vibrates, and connects to your phone via Bluetooth! He can control the vibrations with his phone via their app, or use pre-made patterns made my him or popular patterns made by other people who use the Hush. It's quiet and powerful and has taken us both to a whole new level. Worth every penny." —m

    Get it from Amazon for $119 (available in two sizes).

    6. A simple eight-inch vibrator to explore all of your ~passions~ with your lover. It even has a retaining ring for anal adventures!

    the satisfyer sunshine

    It has a rippled texture for those amazing tickles down under, adjustable speeds, and is completely waterproof for when you wanna risk it all with getting down in the shower!

    "Just a plain ol’ basic vibrator for me and my guy. I like him to use it on every hole I have, he likes to watch me use it on myself and I like to tease his taint with some vibration while I'm giving him head. Sometimes he likes for me to tease his ass a little bit too. The simplicity of our 'go-to' toy makes it perfect for both of us. We'll actually be using it very soon when he gets home from work...or maybe sooner?" —courtneyd

    Get it from Bellesa for $69.

    7. A legendary magic wand for those...good vibrations and much more amazing visuals for the person who's controlling the thing. You know y'all are THAT couple.

    the hitachi magic wand

    Listen, this baby is the MASTER for a reason. It only has two speeds — low or high, and both are kinda guaranteed to blow your mind.

    "The Hitachi Magic Wand (wireless or plugin, but we mostly use wireless because it's more convenient). For almost the first year of our relationship, I had never had an orgasm before, and not from either of our lack of trying. One day, I put a Hitachi in his hands and fifteen minutes later I had come about seven times, the last one so intense I thought I might actually die. I've found other methods to cum since, but Hitachi is definitely the most intense and quickest way — in fact, it's way better when he's holding and using it on me than when I'm using it on myself!" —emilyz

    Get it from Babeland for $64.95 or Amazon for $64.95. You can get the wireless version from Amazon for $90.

    8. A strap-on harness and pretty dildo so you can take control and finally get to pegging the hell into your baby's backside. Don't worry, you lubed em' all up and they love it! Moans galore going on in your bedroom right now.

    Amazon, Bellesa

    "Ok, so I could go on and on about sex toys but for the sake of this not being about all sex toys I will pick my favorites. As a guy who is open to all forms of pleasure, my girlfriend decided we should give pegging a go. We bought a Fuze Share (great toys by the way) and a Spareparts harness and let me tell you, she looked hot. Best orgasms of my life!" —chrisontkean

    Get the dildo from Bellesa for $49, and the harness from Amazon for $114.95.

    9. An adorable heart anal plug that'll increase the anticipation of a good sex appointment since they'll be slowly prepping their bootyhole all day.

    the Lovehoney Jeweled Heart Metal Beginner's Butt Plug

    "I'm a gay man, and my boyfriend is a total top and likes to be very dominant in the bedroom. He’ll toss me around and then tie me up to the bed. His favorite toy is a butt plug. He’ll want me to wear it all day while at work and then coming home for him to take it out, play with me and then top me. I’m not a huge fan but I do it for him. It’s like a dirty secret between us. He’s very aggressive and animalistic and then immediately afterward is very tender and caring." —alekt

    Get if from Lovehoney for $26.99, or a similar one from Amazon for $5.98 (available in 11 colors).

    10. A strapless vibrating dildo with a ribbed clit stimulator, because you'd like to feel as good as your lover while you're going to pound town.

    a model holding the Strap U Evoke Strapless Strap On

    "The vixen has amazing texture, but the Tantus Realdoe works SO great." —montanagirl

    Get it from Bellesa for $72.

    11. A surprisingly quiet wand massager that'll rock you and your boo's world, even on low. The powerful hits will just keep...coming, and coming, and coming.

    a model holding the doxy extra powerful massage wand

    It plugs into your outlet and has multiple speeds for anyone who really wants to explore the expansive range of this baby!

    "Worth every penny." —raynefox

    Get it from Lovehoney for $134.99.

    12. A couple's vibe with 10 different vibration modes and personalized rhythms, because just because you both are a country away, doesn't mean you don't get to get off.

    the we-vibe sync vibrator

    It comes with a wireless remote, an adjustable C-shaped vibrator, and access to the app to control the vibe from literally anywhere!

    "If you haven't tried a We-Vibe, you should've ordered it yesterday! It's remote controlled by an app or an actual controller, so when he’s out of town, we can still get down ❤️." —Katie Tunstall, Facebook

    Get it from Amazon for $143 (available in two colors).

    13. An adorable clit vibrator to use on the love of your life while you're stroking, because mostly everyone with a vagina can't come with just penetration alone. But, you knew that already, didn't you?


    "After a few months of being together, I mentioned to my boyfriend that I have a clit vibrator that I’ve been using for years. He wanted to know how it worked, so I brought it over one time and showed him. He LOVES this vibrator! He loves using it on me before sex so that it gets me going, and he even uses it while he’s inside me (he’ll alternate between thrusts and placing it on my clit) to give me the most amazing orgasms I’ve ever had! He loves to see me pleasured, so thank god I mentioned it when I did!" —francesireneh

    Get it from Lovehoney for $12.99.

    14. A vibrating dildo with five vibration modes and patterns to turn an oral session into a whole production, complete with "more," "don't stop," and "right there."


    "A vibrating dildo while he goes down on me. It works EVERY time!" —l

    Get it from Bellesa for $89.

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    Reviews here have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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