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1. A hand-sculpted artisan dildo, just perfect for play with several design options including gentle curves, a suction cup base, and a girth to make your eyes roll back.
The pictured dildos and plugs are all part of Blush's Avant collection, with several representing the colors of a specific Pride flag for their uber-popular Pride collection. Each dildo is a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong.
Promising reviews: "Small but fun. If you're looking for girth, this isn't for you. It's short and skinny but the texture is smooth and very fun. Colors are pretty too. Great for beginners or first timers at receiving!" —nich (on P3 Beauty Avant Pride dildo)
"First, this thing is HUGE, especially for a novice to certain play. My husband wanted to try it, with that kind of half afraid and half excited. We had tried smaller toys but they are often rather firm and frequently somewhat uncomfortable. Not only is this one pretty colors it is soft and flexible but with a firm enough core to use (big pink marshmallow is how my hubby describes this one). The head is very large and be warned that you need to prep the recipient a bit and take your time. The ridges can make vigorous play uncomfortable after a little while and this is a bit longer than the standard sizes. It has ended up being hubby's favorite, though. We would certainly purchase again and are even looking at others in this collection to change things up." —J. Heath (on D3 Summer Fling Avant dildo)
Get them from Amazon for $39.57+ (General collection) and $19.94+ (Pride collection).
2. The *very* popular Joque harness, created for versatility with an adjustable harness for waists up to 65 inches and an elastic O-ring that's compatible with a variety of dildo bases.
This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.
Promising reviews: "This is definitely worth the price. It has great variety in the sizing for the wearer. This is perfect for women. You can use a vibrating dildo with it and you feel the stimulation. Also there are pockets you can add items to for your stimulation. The ring is very hard to get the dildo into, but it works out because it does not come out during use. The comfort to the wearer is phenomenal. Recommend for any experience user." —Customer DBG
"I was so exhausted one night after my partner and I had some fun, that I fell asleep with it on and forgot it was still there. It’s extremely comfortable but super sturdy. Also, very easy to throw it in the mesh bag it comes in and toss it in the laundry. I let it air dry though. Great product!" —divertida9
Get it from Amazon for $119.95+ (available in two sizes and three colors).
3. A flexible strapless strap-on featuring a dual-ended design to deliver nine powerful vibration modes to both the wearer and the receiver for simultaneous leg-quaking sensations.
The wearable bulb and shaft each have nine vibration modes independent of each other that can be controlled by the wireless remote. Not to mention, this toy is waterproof for extra wet play and designed with a textured clitoral base and realistic shaft to deliver targeted sensations.
Promising reviews: "I bought this without telling my wife. Last night, I showed her, and she said, 'What am I supposed to do with this?' Well, after being a little apprehensive she said, 'OK.' She inserted the small end and then proceeded to get on top of me. I used the remote to turn it on as she began moving...it didn’t take but a couple of minutes before my wife exploded in ecstasy. She then continued to give it to me, and I too exploded... Let’s just say we now have a great new toy that both of us enjoy. This thing is great!!!!" —Rickmt
"This works amazing! My girlfriend and I used it with complete ease. It did not fall out even when standing. Super soft and very easy to clean. No issues changing the functions on the remote even while in use. I feel like this is a good product for beginners too. It was our first time using a harness-less toy, and it was honestly easier to use than something that requires a harness." —Anastazia Osborn
Get it from Amazon for $39.99 (available in pink and purple).
4. A really pretty cloud dildo created with supple silicone and light textured details that'll remind you of spring and warm weather year-round.
There's the idea of sleeping on a cloud, and then there's...well, whatever you plan on doing with this lovely dildo that ranges from 1.6 inches to 2.2 inches wide, depending on the size you get.
Early to Bed is a Chicago-based, queer- and women-run retail sex boutique committed to providing an inclusive shopping experience.
Promising review: "This is certainly a lot of dildo. Really. That being said, if you know what you're in for, this gives you the most bang for your buck, pun intended. It looks absolutely gorgeous and has had a resilient matte feel to it since day one, whereas a lot of dildos this large for this cheap come out of the box feeling tacky. The body is slightly textured, giving it an unexpected but welcome verisimilitude, while the head is completely smooth. It's very firm, especially since a large volume means less give, but again, if that's what you're looking for, it will totally deliver.
The only thing to note is that special attention should be paid to the slit and ridge of the head while cleaning. It boils well, if you have a pot large enough. Overall, if you want the biggest you can get for under $50, this is very high quality, and pretty to boot." —Ted
Get it from Early to Bed for $35+ (available in 6" and 8" lengths).
5. A fully adjustable strap-on harness designed with a jockstrap-style and top-loaded pouch to help keep the base of the dildo in place.
This harness has a fully adjustable cinching waist and adjustable leg straps, as well as an interior pouch for bullet vibrators and a flexible O-ring that fits small to large dildo bases.
Promising reviews: "Amazing Product! extremely easy to use and super comfortable to wear! my wife and I both love this jock and the Toy 5 we bought!" —Ali C.
"This is an excellent harness, in my very limited experience. I’m a size 20 (US) AFAB woman with a lower belly and this still placed the dildo in the perfect spot to feel everything and gave me really good control once I’d tightened it enough. 10/10." —Alyssa
"It's easy to put on with the straps and fits nice plus my WFH Union-toy (see #11) stays put in it all the time and in play thats pretty important. Looks cool too!" —Water C.
Get it from Wet For Her for $89.95 (originally $99.95 and available in sizes XXS–3XL and L–5X). You might want to check out their helpful sizing chart before ordering!
6. A double dildo *literally* shaped like two fingers, so you can penetrate your partner with 4.7-inches of length. Add a rechargeable vibrating bullet with five speeds to increase stimulation for both partners.
Promising reviews: "While there is a bit of a learning curve I do believe my partner and I will enjoy this device. The size, texture and flexibility are very good. I did enjoy the variable speeds offered but my partner found accessing the controls somewhat awkward. Again, likely due to the aforementioned learning curve. Overall pleased with purchase." —Anonymous
"Great! Perfectly flexible and stiff. Love the finger-like design and placement of bullet. Great design makes it easy to fit and hold." —Stephanie S.
Get it from Wet For Her for $89.95 (currently only available in size small and also purple and pink).
7. An über-popular boxer brief harness that offers comfort and does away with complicated buckles and straps, so you can focus more on the actual pleasure of the moment.
These cotton-blend boxers are double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!
Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.
Promising review: "When the RodeoH harness hit the scene, the trans guy community was raving about it. I saw it plastered on every Tumblr. I saw people gushing about the design and how comfortable it looked. And I couldn’t help myself — I wanted it. So when my boss surprised me with one as a gift, I was ecstatic. I could only wait a few days before trying it out. Now, strap-ons are not a usual part of my sexual repertoire. My dysphoria is such that I’d prefer to use what I have than replace what I lack. But the RodeoH changed that. It is immensely comfortable and the lack of things to fiddle with (straps, buckles, Velcro, ties, etc), was absolutely fabulous. If you’re like me and like your harness to be strapped down tight, I recommend getting a size smaller than you may be sized for. I was concerned about the elasticity of the fabric but it proved remarkably sturdy in practical application. While fucking, it stays in place, didn’t slip, didn’t pinch, and most importantly, I barely noticed it was there. For folks who are looking for a streamlined harness that won’t get in their way, or who are looking for a no fuss harness, the rodeoh is it." —Addison
Get it from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available in sizes XXXS–3X). You might want to check out their helpful sizing chart before ordering!
8. A 9.25-inch transparent confetti dildo — it's cause for celebration with just over seven inches of insertable length, a 1.37 inch width and, of course, a strong suction cup base. 🎉
This dildo is literally almost too large to fit into the frame?????? *adds to cart*
Promising reviews: "I.... I.... this thing is dangerous! At first it looks a little scary because of how thick it it but it is magical!!!!" —Jeé
"Boyfriend loves it, fits perfectly in my strap. I wouldn’t recommend this for beginners." —St0machac1d
Get it from Amazon for $22.99.
9. A set of three spiralized dildos adorned with a heart-shaped base that fits perfectly in your favorite harness. Each dildo is designed with a different width and length, so you and your partner can work your way up and enjoy the extra stimulation from the texture and slight curve along the way.
The smallest dildo is 5 inches long with an insertable length of 3.75 inches and a width of 0.75 inches, making it perfect for beginners. The medium dildo is 6 inches long, boasts an insertable length of 4.5 inches and a width of 1 inch. Finally, the largest dildo is 7 inches long with an insertable length of 6 inches and 1.25 inches wide.
Promising review: "I love the soft feeling of these. And they are the perfect size to start out my journey. The heart base is really cute and a nice touch. I haven't used them in a strap-on yet, but they do fit securely in the harness I have. I have also gotten compliments on their sleek look. Just an all around good set." —Nikki
10. A crotchless panty harness boasting an open-back design and delicate lace accents. A mid-rise waist design also offers support and control during use without sacrificing style.
The O-ring fits dildos with a base up to 1.75 inches wide. Check out the rest of Rodeoh's collection of crotchless panty harnesses here.
Promising reviews: "My partner and I were interested in trying a strap-on, and when browsing different harnesses this was the one I instantly liked due to its design. I love that unlike many other harnesses, this is both a harness and sexy underwear in one. The material is really good quality and feels durable. It’s really easy to wash, either by hand or in a washing machine, and easy to store in the drawstring bag. It’s really comfortable and fits me very well. The O-ring is great and very secure, and I haven’t had any problems with the dildo staying in place. I recommend this harness to anyone who interested in strap on play but finds themselves put off by some of the harness designs, which can be quite intimidating. When I received the harness I couldn’t wait to try it on. The lace and the open crotch design makes the harness look incredibly sexy, especially if worn with a corset and stockings. The harness is really sexy, easy to use, and definitely worth the price." —KYN
"Brillant. Anyone who is new to the whole idea of strap on play should seriously look at these panties! The quality is excellent and the ease of use is self-explanatory. Pop them on, insert preferred dildo, lube and away you go! We purchased these with a 7" dildo and we’ve had a lot of fun with it. Obviously they are crotchless, so there is the fun option of starting off with your partner, before she returns the favour. They can also be worn as a kinky set of briefs with easy access for a quicky. ;)" —StiXX
Get it from Rodeoh for $49.99 (originally $59.99 and available in sizes XS-XL).
11. A rechargeable strapless strap-on, so you can get a little closer to your partner. If that's not enough bang for your buck, it also vibrates on both ends.
You can spend less time buckling and adjusting and more on pleasure with this rechargeable strap-on designed with 12 speeds and eight vibrating patterns for endless thrills. Oh, did I mention it's waterproof?
Promising review: "I bought this when it was on sale, but I'd say it's definitely worth the full price. Since my partner and I are both Transgender men and this toy helps us have fantastic penetrative sex that stimulates both people — without having to wear a harness. The bulb really hits the G spot while the ears stimulate the clitoris. I've used other strapless toys but they would often slide out which is a problem I rarely experience with this toy. Since it stays in, it really allows you to get lost in the moment until it almost feels like it's your own penis penetrating your partner. The product itself is smooth and high-quality. However, it is also quite firm and a bit too slim for my taste when I'm on the receiving end, but a bigger and heavier toy would likely not stay inside the wearer. It's easy to clean and the battery lasts for a long time. Overall, my favorite toy to use with a partner." —Bi.Guy
Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99.
12. A strap-on set with delicate lace details and a corset closure. This set also includes an 8-inch realistic silicone dildo, so you can start playing as soon as it's out the box.
Promising reviews: "I am a plus-size female and this item is very comfortable and fits very well. The suction cup secures the piece very securely. This item would be good for beginners to seasoned users. It is that comfortable. Thank you for a superb product Utimi!" —Carri McComber
"We loved this. It was able to fit on both of us easily (we are plus size) and it stayed in place the entire time. The materials feel like they'll last at least a couple of years of use and quite possibly much much longer depending on how you upkeep the straps and back (where your cheeks sit, is softer mesh with lace). The dildo it came with wasn't terrible but wasn't great either. We aren't quite sold on it honestly, but the actual dildo itself felt like it was made from silicone (feels soft and fleshy). It's the shape thats the issue honestly, it's very slender at the tip and then at the base is a decent girth so it chances are its going to go into you or your partner too deep and hurt. So be warned. I'd probably get a different dildo that has a normal sized head so you don't need to go so deep to get the full feeling that they put at the base of this one lol It's torture! But the harness is amazing and really makes up for it all. It has numerous rings too so you can swap any dildo in and it will fit snuggly. A+++ Highly recommended for lesbian partners or even straight couples who want to peg or if they have erectile dysfunction. This harness will fit either sex, but guys with bigger packages will want to seek hollow straps as this would probably hurt." —Zero
Get it from Amazon for $25.99.
13. The Pogo suction cup dildo by Unbound, designed with soft silicone and a delectable curve making this a versatile go-to dildo that works with your favorite harness.
Pogo is 6 inches long and 1.5 inches wide at the tip. It's waterproof, and if you like can be boiled for sanitization.
Promising reviews: "Good for someone with a vagina on the shallow side. Mine is about 5-6 inches deep and the Pogo really hits the spot. It’s easy to clean, has a nice curve, and comes in discreet packaging." —M.W.
"This is the perfect size and shape for my strap, and it even feels great alone. The texture is very good too, smooth and just firm enough." —K.F.
Get it from Unbound for $37.
14. A 9-inch vibrating strapless strap-on — it's equipped with three individual motors in the tip, bulb and base of the shaft for strategic stimulation. The three vibration speeds and patterns can be controlled by the wireless remote for hands-free play.
Yes, it's 9 inches long, but you should only insert 6 inches into your partner. The strapless design and soft-to-touch silicone makes this vibrating dildo feel like an extension of your body rather than just another accessory. Plus, it's harness-compatible for extra support!
Get it from Rodeoh for $129.99.
15. A lightweight double dildo designed with a poseable core, so you can hit all the right spots — whether anal or vaginal — or switch positions seamlessly.
While the entire toy is 10 inches long, the wearer's end is 5 inches long and 1.75 inches wide. Meanwhile, the receiving shaft is 6.5 inches long and 1.5 inches wide for a very full feeling. It's waterproof and anal-safe, so you and your partner can do whatever you want (with consent, of course)!
I tested out the ShareLite solo, and my first suggestion is: LUBE. The wearer's end definitely has some heft to it even though the shaft is lightweight. Once I had it placed though, it stayed put and I was able to flex the shaft in multiple positions without it moving inside me or falling out. Finally, as a plus size gal, I would probably opt for something a little longer since I have a belly, but I imagine with a partner it will definitely bring all parties closer together. All-in-all, I'd recommend to anyone who wants to try out a strapless strap-on or a dual-ended dildo to pair with a harness.
Promising review: "With all the same features we've come to love in a double, but now 22% lighter than the original Share. The best part is the adjustable hinge means you get to decide if you want the harness or not. Now it's not a necessity. It lets you customize it to your body while still giving the wearer control and stimulation! It's even great for solo play, I love using it as a handle to make it even easier to reach." —Carly S.s.e.a.r.a.D.
Get it from Fun Factory for $119.99 (available in pink and teal).
16. A flexible silicone dildo because it has a unique texture, allowing for added stimulation with each thrust — plus a suction cup base to help it stay put.
This 6.9-inch dildo offers just over 5 inches of insertable length above its realistic balls and is 1.81 inches wide.
Promising reviews: "It's easy to just stick to really any flat surface, get it ready and go to town regardless of your level of experience. All that and it cleans up easily and has no obnoxious odor. Definitely a good place to start if you want a way to ease yourself in with something that has some texture to it. It also works well with harnesses and isn't really big enough to do much damage if your partner gets a little overzealous. It hits all the right spots and certainly does the job for relatively little, so definitely add it to your collection." —Zappa2.0
"This toy is perfect for my partner who prefers the smaller things in life! Out of the box it didn’t look too small but once I put it up against my fav Avant dildo the difference was more noticeable. It is almost just as girthy for half the price! <3 However, if you love firmness then maybe this cutie isn’t for you. The toy does helicopter around more than i’d like. Also fits my strap-on's 1.75 O-ring perfectly! my only real complaint is the silicone feels like jelly and attracts all the lint." —Regina
Get it from Amazon for $13.99 (available in nine colors).
17. The Union double dildo by Wet For Her, boasting a wearable "bulb" on one end and a 5.9-inch shaft on the other. A bullet vibrator adds five speed intensities to elevate the receiver's experience.
Made of medical-grade silicone, this dildo is compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants. It's also harness compatible!
Promising reviews: "This is such a high quality toy and so fun alone or with a partner. Shape works great for me on both ends and flexible enough. I didn't think I'd care about the vibe, but it really enhances this dildo and it's powerful enough. Not a gimicky add on at all! Worth every penny and then some!" —Kiki
"Fukken loved taking this and my partner loved giving it to me. Didn't realize the shaft was very posable as well as the neck of the bulb. We were using it in a harness and the vibrator was VERY strong, I could feel it in every part of the toy. One criticism, the vibrator is hard to remove for cleaning, maybe it could have some kind of texture at the bottom, so you can still grip it when it's covered in lube." —randy
Get it from Wet For Her for $97.75 (originally $114.95; available in three sizes and purple and black). You might want to check out their helpful sizing chart before ordering!
18. A strap-on harness fit for a queen because of its faux leather design and plush lining for comfortable wear. This easy-to-adjust harness fits hips up to 64 inches wide and offers a crotchless and open-back style, so you can let your creativity run wild.
The harness also includes three O-rings in different sizes to support a variety of dildo bases.
Peepshow Toys is an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique that promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and non-toxic materials.
Promising review: "This strap is so stunning✨ Super high quality, and durable!! I’m a bigger girl, and the size it was pre-measured at was great with plenty of space for expansion. Highly recommend in the red color!!" —Cleo
Get it from Peepshow Toys for $59.99 (available in gold or red) or Amazon for $44.10.
19. A big ol' realistic dildo measuring at 9.5 inches long with 7 inches of insertable length and 5.5 inches of girth, so you'll absolutely feel it whether you're using the suction cup base or attaching it in your favorite harness.
Promising reviews: "Believe it or not but have bought three of these now. They are perfect. Quality it top notch, far better than adult toys normally are. The absolutely perfect size for anything, girth is filling without overly stretching, length is deep enough to fill any void you might need filled. The texture stiffness is great, soft to touch and will squeeze down but stiff enough to stay going in the direction pointed but not so stiff that it won't turn a corner to reach a hard to reach spot. Perfect size and firmness to practice or learn to take it deep throat. Absolutely perfect for exit door entry with some patience. Loved the first one so much we bought a second for cleanliness reasons. Although it cleans easily and boils without worry to get totally clean.... When we hit the road this is the only thing that comes along for the ride (one left at a vacation spot it the reason we have bought three) In the end it's the right tool for the job no matter what job your looking to fill." —Michelle
"Soft enough but just hard enough. Beautiful and perfect for any orfice. Great for beginners and advanced players alike. Pairs well with strap on for lifelike comfort. I work in adult film and I give this 20/10!" —CCarter
Get it from Amazon for $28.99 (available in three colors).
20. A vibrating shareable dildo with a smooth, curved shaft to feel the five vibration settings from the removable bullet for both partners. This dildo is waterproof and anal-safe for versatile play.
Promising reviews: "This is my new go-to. I’m AFAB and never thought I’d get to receive a BJ that felt as well as looked good, but this delivers. My gf and I are in love with this toy!" —Amelia
"I'm afab with a AMAB partner and we both love this toy. I use it to peg him and the way the bulb stimulates your G-spot as you thrust is *chef's kiss*. The bulb is filling and feels mostly secure though with out a harness you do need to be mindful or just keep a hand on the base to keep it steady at times (which is standard for this category of toys so no biggie). With a harness it is game over, so good. The tip is beautifully tapered making anal a smooth operation. I also reach for this toy during solo play cause it is a beautiful experience especially as gender queer person to be able to experience a version of male bodied masturbation; again *chef's kiss*. Also it is amazingly ergonomical using it as a single player dildo and makes finding the right angle easy. As for quality, it is a beautiful hunk of luxurious silicone and feels wonderfully hefty. And it's forgivingly bendy (everyone's insides are in safe!) I love it. He loves it. We all love it. Thank you for making a toy that makes the emotional/intellectual high of pegging a deeply physically pleasurable one as well. Highly recommend to anyone interested in this kind of play." —Katherine
Get it from Fun Factory for $129.99 or Amazon for $124.98 (available in violet and pink).
21. A unisex harness by Doc Johnson that has a signature Vac-U-Lock plug, making it compatible with *any* Vac-U-Lock compatible dildo. Three O-rings are included in assorted sizes in case you want to convert the harness to an O-ring style and use your favorite dildo.
This adjustable harness fits waists 30 to 65 inches.
Promising reviews: "I'm a big guy unfortunately not so much where it counts. I'm 6'1" 320 lbs and this harness fit me well without being too tight, there's still room to spare if I had to increase the size. The combination of the peg suction holder and the straps with the retaining ring keep the big bad boys in place even during rough play with the wife. Got it to spice up our love life and she likes her new toys that attach to this harness. All around good buy without breaking the bank." —That dude
"I'm a lesbian with a Realcock2 'The Dirk.' This works perfectly for me. I have excellent stability in many positions. I'm also a stud with a massively plump ass. This strap fits perfectly around it. I'm 5'9 and weigh 237lbs. As for the Vac-u-loc and O-ring holders. They fit around the base of Realcock2. Get this harness. You won't be disappointed! For pro or beginner users." —Anonymous
Get from Amazon for $44.60.
22. An affordable strapless strap-on featuring nine speeds for you and a partner to explore effortlessly with the wireless remote that works up to 10 meters way.
Promising reviews: "This is a gorgeous toy! The packaging it comes in is sleek and discreet so no one will be the wiser. The toy has a velvety texture that's pleasing to touch. The size is perfect for both the wearer and the person on the receiving end. The toy itself is VERY powerful! It has nine settings so you're bound to find something you like. Also the remote control is a wonderful addition and very useful!" —Monica Sagumhay
"Just an amazing and surprising new way to have fun with my partner. I wanted to try it for a while and finally decided to take it. It is softer than the skin and with a perfect size for standard positions. Maybe not totally for beginners because of the strapeless, but the more you try the easier it is. The vibrations add a new level of pleasure and make it possible to have a more intense experience when you know how to wear it easily." —Mici
Get it from Amazon for $36.99.
23. The best-selling Mason dildo, designed with an 8-inch insertable length because bigger bodies deserve the same gratifying stimulation as smaller ones. Literally, this dildo was created for anyone who has and/or loves bellies, butts and penetration.
I'm a bigger gal and this dildo brings me so much joy. Just, yes. Anyways, this dildo is made with body-safe and hypoallergenic silicone, harness-compatible, boilable for cleaning and sterilization and has a girth of 1.5 inches.
Promising review: "WOW! I just got this today, and I can say that it is a beautifully crafted, lifelike penis. As a trans man, it feels very affirming to wear. I have yet to try it with a partner, but I appreciate it for the work of art that it is. It is pleasantly squishy but has the solidity of the firm inner core, and it can bend however you wish. Definitely-5 star! I am wearing it as I type this, because I can’t bring myself to take it off yet. =^)" —Trey
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $169 (available in four flesh tones and four whimsical hues).
24. A dual-density silicone double-ended dildo that offers a lifelike feel with a stable interior core. Both ends are 6 inches long, but the slimmer end is 1.5 inches wide and the thicker one is 1.75 inches.
Promising review: "My female partner and I enjoy this. While it is designed to be used by couples, she in particular has used it for solo purposes as well. The quality is high and the appearance is great. The smaller end is a little difficult to insert into an anus (it’s slippery), but all in all, both ends could be used for anything. If you see this and like the concept, you will probably like owning it. Would be great for all." —Anonymous
Get it from Rodeoh for $59.99 (originally $69.99).
25. A poseable vibrating strapless strap-on boasting a 6-inch textured shaft and 4.5 inches of girth. Not to mention it has a removable bullet vibrator with three speeds and seven patterns for the wearer and receiver to both enjoy.
Promising reviews: "We have had a lot of fun with this toy and would highly recommend it. The shape and size are just right and the pony keeps the toy in place well. I like being able to change the angle as it allows for a variety of positions. The bullet is ok, but could certainly be more powerful, however, it is well placed to give reasonable sensations to the wearer.One of the main things I love about this toy though is the aesthetic, my wife looks totally hot with her big blue dick. It was our first pegging toy and has been a great choice providing pleasure to us both as we explore power dynamics during sex." —New i.
"My girlfriend and I used this for the first time and it was AMAZING. The size and length on the dildo worked really well and the bulb stayed put. Only concern was that the bullet vibrator fell out when it got too much lube on it." —Sleepysex
Get it from Lovehoney for $79.99.
26. A rainbow-striped realistic dildo that's 8.14 inches long with a gently curved shaft, 6.22 inches of insertable length, and a suction cup base, so you could technically use it any and everywhere.
Promising review: "A magic rainbow dildo! The strength, the flexibility, the length, the girth.. this product covers it all! Used with a strap or on its own with the suction cup, this dildo will make your legs weak for sure. It’s super easy to clean and to store. It comes with a cute little purple bag where you can keep it in. Came in Amazon box but the box of the product itself is still discreet. The suction cup sticks to everything, it’s really powerful and won’t come off unless you want it to. This can very well be a dildo for beginners, you just need to take it slow the first time." —Val
Get it from Amazon for $17.99+ (available in three colors).
27. A 14-inch double-ended vibrating dildo with seven vibrations, so you can get closer than ever with a partner or explore new positions for masturbating. With a length like that, you could certainly fill two holes at once...or at least try.
Promising review: "Wow, this thing is wow just as expected. I usually try out something new for a few days before I do a review, but right out the gate this thing only needs once. We have a plethora of toys but this is up there! It's not the biggest or the strongest but even those will rank below this bad boy!! Thanks again Adorime for another amazing product. I promise you won't regret it!!" —Vincent Ciotti
Get it from Amazon $40.99 (available in red and purple).
28. A harness and dildo combo kit whether you and your lover are experienced strap-on users and looking for something new or you're a beginner exploring new territory.
The lightweight harness boasts adjustable straps and an O-ring compatible with dildos up to 2.25 inches wide. It is also machine washable, and once you've found your perfect fit, you can simply slip it on and off like a pair of underwear. Meanwhile, the included dildo boasts a gentle curve and is compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants for a feel-good time.
Promising review: "This harness is AMAZING! It is so comfortable to wear and holds the hardware so well and gives me more control than any harness I’ve ever used!! I was always a big fan of the brief style and different harnesses from Rodeoh, but I love the Joque so much I ordered a second one, so we’ll always have one clean. My girlfriend actually said it makes her feel closer than the other harness, and it feels more intimate as well. We are HUGE fans! Thanks for such a great product!" —Jamee S.
Get it from Wet for Her for $147.92 (originally $184.90; harness available in three colors and two sizes and dildo available in three sizes).
And just in case...here are some cushioning accessories that are compatible with the above harnesses and dildos!
A stimulating cushion that also serves as a comfortable base for your favorite dildo or strap-on. Avid peggers and grinders should add this to their collection, stat.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.
Promising reviews: "This was awesome. She used this on herself, and she took me from behind and drilled me like a star!!! Usually she can only handle a few min then she is sore from the toys, but with this she must have been up me for 49 min nonstop pumping away on me. Wow, this made pegging amazing and she used a 14-inch-long, 3-inch-thick toy and we both loved it. She said it gave her some pleasure also, that’s why she could do it so long and without the pains. Love this." —D man
"I kind of thought this would just get in the way, but it’s perfect. It really makes everything so much better." —Courtney Krevey
Get it from Amazon for $35.99+ (available in four colors).
Orrr, add some texture with this unique cushion boasting contoured tips for an extra-stimulating sensation, whether you're using it as a dildo base or getting your grind on.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25 inches wide.
Promising reviews: "Works great with a harness and pretty much any strap-on dildo my partner and I own. Would highly recommend. Easy clean and came exactly as described. Super-soft material. 5/5." —Jacquie
"This made the base of so many dildos much more pleasurable to me! I use it with and without the harness... Sometimes I will put it on the base of a dildo that I am using manually and then grind against it. Great stimulation!" —Blank
Get it from Wet for Her for $35.96 (originally $49.95; available in black or blue).
You, stepping out with your new strap-on harness:
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