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Ain't no shame in dabbling on a little lubricant before or during sex, so here are some options that people lube — I mean love...
Promising review: "I have sensitive skin and have not had a problem. That said I haven't done extensive research into the ingredients, but they seem quite pure. The consistency is nice and feels great. The smell is subtle and bright. It's the happiest I've been with a lubricant so far." —Rachel B.
Get it from Dame for $18.
Like I said earlier, silicone-based lubes are great for providing a natural-feel during penetration and makes for an excellent slippery substitute. They also tend to be water-friendly (shower sex, anyone?) and fantastic for dabbling into butt stuff. Just keep it away from your silicone sex toys!
Überlube is fragrance- and flavor-free, so it fits into your routine effortlessly. It also comes in convenient travel-sized bottles for taking on the go. One reviewer even uses it to help prevent chafing on hot days!
Promising reviews: "I've bought this five times, and this is my second review, over a year after the first. I will still never use any other lube ever again. It is, hands down, the best I've ever tried. It's perfect for erotic massage and pretty much every sexual activity. It's never sticky, it doesn't cause irritation, it doesn't taste like anything. It's expensive, but, at this point, it's a necessary expense." —Aurora
"I found Überlube by searching for the best lube and found it on multiple lists. I have never purchased lube outside of Astroglide and that was 10 years ago. Überlube is more expensive than your drugstore brands and you can feel the difference! Because it's silicone-based it retains some friction and uses your body's natural wetness to continue lubricating after you apply it. It isn't so wet that there's zero friction. And the bottle is so pretty that you can leave it out. I had it out on my nightstand and was telling my friend about how amazing it is. She wanted to see for herself and asked where it was — it was right in front of her and she didn't notice. Do your body a favor and upgrade your lube. You'll be so happy you did!" —Lauren
Get it from Amazon for $18.19+ (available in 1.69-oz. and 3.38-oz.)
Promising reviews: "OK, how do you review lubes? Let’s see... This one is my favorite. It’s slippery and last longer than other products. Whether you are rubbing one out or putting it in, this lubes does well. It doesn’t not make your vagina or booty burn. That’s a plus. To clean off is not as easy. You need water and soap. That’s why it last longer than other products." —Enrike
"My boyfriend and I love this lube. This lube can be a little messy but it works! I love it because I can slide right into my boyfriend without any issues. He loves it because he can do his thing without any issues. Depending on the day, the lube can last longer than me. I highly recommend especially if you plan to do anal. Enjoy!" —ManlyMan
Get it from Amazon for $9.97+ (available in assorted sizes).
It's condom-safe and water-friendly for anywhere and everywhere play, and apparently it's multifunctional as a massage oil or moisturizer, but we all know why we're here.
Promising reviews: "I’m very pleased with this purchase. A friend recommended it and it’s a score. I like the way the bottle looks. Cool vibe. Kinda discreet. The lube is great. Last the full time. Feels nice. I am surprised it’s as cheap as it is." —ubettergetit
"Quality product! Even came with its own convenient pump. I have a pool and jacuzzi and the ladies love water action! 😃" —Joe Crouch
Get it from Amazon for $7.99+ (available in three sizes).
And for those who need it, there is a gallon-sized option.
Promising reviews: "It lasts pretty well and typically a second application is not needed...unless you're making a night of it. As for taste...it's synthetic lube...it tastes like synthetic lube, but hopefully if you have any in your mouth you're focused on something else 😉 Cleaning...be ready for a long, hot, soapy shower 🚿" —Ken Sidwell
"This is my go-to lube. I use almost exclusively. It is smooth, long-lasting, light and silky. It has improved my sex life tenfold and I will never stop using it." —Hannah M
Get it from Amazon for $10+ (available in assorted sizes).
Just avoid using anything oil-based with latex condoms or silicone toys as the oil will, literally, destroy them. Also, it might stain your sheets, so be careful!
It's also safe to use with your toys!
Promising review: "Not to overly sell this product, but I have wanted to be a bottom for years, but have never been able to. No lubes felt good. It hurt too much. And I was suffering a serious drought with my long-term partner. Boy Butter has literally saved our sex life and, thusly, our relationship. I'm not being dramatic; Boy Butter has completely changed our sex and I cannot say enough good things about this product. Price is great. Feel is amazing. Clean up is easy. Smell is pretty nonexistent. I love this product." —Joey
Cruelty-free, hypoallergenic, edible, made of natural ingredients and safe for external and internal use, okay well, *adds massage oil to cart* #selfcare.
Promising reviews: "I used this for the first time and I LOVE how it makes me feel in 'every' part of my body. It works wonders. I would highly recommend giving it a try for a relaxing and wonderful 'massage.' I will definitely be buying more." —mlmacin
"This hemp-infused body oil is the best!! I love to use this as both massage oil and lube!" —Chelise
Get it from Urban Outfitters for $35.
Ylang-ylang gives a delectable scent to this lube that can also be used as a sensual massage oil.
Promising reviews: "Best silicone-safe lube available!!!! It actually last a while while using (that's if you can last as long as me lol). I hate when lube stops being slick and turns to clumps, but this stuff works and keeps on going until you wash it off. I would assume it would be good for people with sensitive areas as well and should make your skin better as it uses natural based oils. It's also safe for your sex toys. Don't use silicone lube on silicone toys, over time the toy will melt or it will degrade to the point that the toy will harbor bacteria and mess you up." —Devlin Marshall
"This is by far the best stuff on the market. All natural and organic oils. Its silky smooth texture and amazing smell won my girl and I over when we received a sample. It's completely multifunctional also. Any extra on my hands that doesn't go to my area or hers goes directly to her butt or hips for a sensual massage. And also there's NO messy cleanup when the fun ends. 5 out of 5. You can't go wrong with this purchase." —Christopher Bialkowski
Get it from Amazon for $13.49+ (available in 2.5-oz. and 4-oz.).
Promising reviews: "If you've ever had problems with an irritated labia after dry or intense sex, this really helps. It's a great moisturizer, and a good lube. I also use it on my legs after shaving." —Jenny Gibson
"I was hesitant to try coconut oil in the bedroom because I am not a fan of the taste or smell of coconut. After reading many recommendations that this is the (second) best natural lubricant for sex I decided to give it a try. The coconut smell is not strong and the taste is not bad when you get it in your mouth. Being natural oil there is no fear of putting lubricated body parts in your mouth. I could not do that common synthetic lubricants as they taste awful. The product is a thick cream below about 80 degrees F that you need to lightly dig out with your finger tips, but it quickly melts when it comes in contact with skin. Works great as a massage oil as it does not leave an oily residue. Everyone should have this in their bedroom whether dryness is an issue or not. There is no such thing as too wet and coconut oil can make any body part suitable for intimacy. Seriously, TRY IT!" —Fat Penguin
Get it from Amazon for $11.97.
These top-rated flavored, sensation, hybrid and luxury lubricants are all about adding a little ~oomph~ to your sex life, be it for foreplay, bumping uglies or oral enthusiasts.
Promising reviews: "I don't understand the reviews that say this gets sticky. It absolutely does not (ok, it never has for us). It will dry out but not in a gummy way. Have noticed that the closer you get to the bottom of the container, the less time it lasts. Has NO flavor or aftertaste so compatible with oral activities." —Roberto E. Arance
"This is an amazing product. It feels very natural. I have tried many different lubricants and this one is my favorite hands down. There is no sticky residue, no smell, no itching or reaction with either my husband or I. We will continue to purchase and use this product in the future!" —Thetexascharmedlife
Get it from Amazon for $12.99+ (available in three sizes).
The glycerin-based formula of this paraben- and sugar-free lube allows it to warm with skin contact, whether by friction or gently blowing—so, it can be used as a massage oil as well! Some people love to keep it natural below the belt and some people love a touch of fragrance or flavor, whatever floats your boat.
Note: Fun Flavors 4-in-1 is not for those with sensitive skin.
Promising reviews: "I liked this product a lot. It warms up by touch and even warmer by blowing or breathing on it up close. It isn't too runny or too thick. It also taste pretty good considering it's lube. I'd buy this again for sure! Also doesn't stain the sheets. Easy clean up: just wipe off with wet rag or wipes and gone." —Precious Rose (on warming tropical explosion)
"I bought this for obvious reasons, it is yummy, stimulating and I had fun using. I got a sample of the whipped cream and it was awesome, if I didn't know what is was, I would have used it on an actual cupcake." —Heidi (on warming baked gooey chocolate chip cookie)
"Great brand it's easy to clean and great value for your money. It isn't really all that sticky like some other brands. If you do find it getting a little sticky, try a little bit of water." —Bethanne Hewitt (on water-based non-flavored)
Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in assorted sizes, eight flavors and seven 4-in-1 warming flavors).
Promising reviews: "OMG you have no idea what you are missing...you only need a small amount because this will enhance your sex life. I got this because I got tired of hubby not turning me in right. So this makes a quick, warm sensation so I get enjoy it and go back to bed." —Prettyredtricia
"I've been using this product for about three years and I've never had a problem with it. It does what its supposed to! Found this on Amazon for a great price! one of these usually cost about $15 alone so I'm glad I found a two pack for the price of one basically. HIGHLY RECOMMEND if you want to spice it up in the bedroom!" —Joshua
Get a pack of two from Amazon for $18.73 or a 5-oz. bottle from Amazon Fresh for $3.60.
A convenient spray pump allows you to simply spritz and get started. You ever hooked up at a carnival? Well, now you can imagine it.
Promising reviews: "Okay this stuff is AMAZING!! Seriously the taste is 10/10 it takes just like cotton candy flavored candy 😭 my boyfriend and I both joked that we'd like to just eat it in general as a snack lol. It is a bit sticky if you leave it on without rinsing off but that's how most lubes are so it's no big deal, I would definitely recommend getting this if you haven't!!" —Cailyn Brooks
"Water-based but it's thick and slick. No need to use a lot at once. This product is GREAT for those who like to 'add a little something' when having oral sex. Tastes good too!" —Mikey "B"
Get it from Amazon for $8.45.
This lubricant is made with premium coconut oil and organic hemp extract (contains no THC), meaning it is not waterproof or compatible with condoms or sex toys. One of my best friends raves about this lube and always brings up how it increased her sensation during sex, making it less painful and more enjoyable for her.
Get it from Revolve for $44.
Promising reviews: "I really thought people were overhyping these in the reviews, but bought them anyway. I personally have issues with sensitivity with most lubes. And for the ones that didn’t cause me irritation, I found they weren’t the most pleasant after some time or after re-application. Neither is the case for either of these. I have had no adverse reactions. And while I have found that both of these needed re-application (at least in my case), neither got goopy or sticky or weird afterwards. They both behaved as if they had been newly applied. My boyfriend and I both agree that these are the best lubes we’ve ever tried. Highly recommend. Trust the reviews. Just get them." —Jordayne
"Easy to apply, silky smooth to the touch, and natural in the nose, this is exactly the type of bedside accessory I was looking for. ;)" —Alexandra A.
Get it from Maude for $20.
This warming dispenser comes with four specially made lubricant pods that can be inserted with ease, warmed at the touch of a button and dispensed with motion-sensor technology. It includes two water-based lubricants and two silicone-based lubricants, for your pleasure (and both lubes have refillable pods you can purchase!).
Promising reviews: "What a brilliant and much-needed innovation in women’s sexual health. Where have you been all my life? This is a luxury I will no longer live without. A new way...having conveniently dispensed warm lubes and massage oil for personal use...now I can’t imagine it any other way. So nice and lovely. Everyone should have one bedside. You can unplug it like an iPhone and discreetly tuck it away when kids are around :-). I appreciated that I received an initial supply of each lube with the order of the warming dispenser. The personal lubricants and massages oil are scent-free and really convenient to use. If interested, I wrote separate reviews of each when I ordered more of all of them. I prefer Aloe-ahh for my lube but if hydration is more important for you, H2Oh! might be your preference; it is all so personal :) Spoil Me is a great massage oil!" —Ann S.
"If you've ever been 'in the moment' and needed a little help with lubrication, you know how unsexy it is to stop, open a bottle, squirt (probably too much) lube into your hand and everywhere, and then try to get back in the mood again. The Pulse bridges that gap and makes it really easy to keep the vibe going without interruption. It dispenses exactly the right amount, warms it up for you so you/partner are not shocked with cold, and allows you to continue the fun. It's a nice change from the old routine, it feels amazing, and honestly I'm never going back. I ordered some of the additional pods and I'm glad I did because I'm going through this stuff at twice the normal speed now, haha. Seriously though, this stuff is a life-changer." —Billy
Get it from Amazon for $199 (available with lubricants or massage oil).
The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.