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    The Best Sex Toys For People With Limited Mobility

    Lots of hands-free action, harnesses, long-handled toys for easier reaching, sex furniture, and books for learning more for yourself or partner.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. A sex positioning cushion to help you get in the right spot so your partner can get at the right spot.

    person laying across a wedge-like cushion

    The company Liberator specializes in a range of positioning products that'll help keep you propped up in a variety of ways in the pursuit of pleasure.

    Get this ramp from Liberator for $200+ (available in six colors).

    Also check out their cushions with sex toy mounts.

    2. A cult-status Hitachi wand with a long handle meant for external stimulation and powerful tennis ball-size head for anyone who need some seriously strong vibes.

    the wand with cord visible
    Adam & Eve

    If you have issues with reaching, the long handle on this will be like an incredibly helpful extension of your arm. Plus that 6-foot cord will help help you get creative in your space (or just get around a poorly placed wall outlet).

    Promising review: "I bought this vibe with high hopes and it definitely lives up to my expectations. I have only used the low setting cause it gives off just the right amount of vibes that my body likes. This is a great toy for women who have a hard time getting off. You will not be disappointed." —Anonymous

    Get it from Adam & Eve for $79.95.

    If you'd rather not deal with a cord, there's also a cordless version.

    3. Or a Doxy wand massager with buttons super easy to find while delivering 30% more power than the original Hitachi.

    person holding the doxy wand massager with three large buttons visible

    Promising review: "Having owned $1,000 worth of sex toys, this has got to be one of my top two. At first glance, it looked very intimidating, but my god does it pack a punch. You are guaranteed a very intense orgasm every time! Absolutely in love with this product! Buy it, you will not regret it." —Bre

    Get it from Lovehoney for $134.99.

    4. Wearable rings that feel like skin you can combine or separate to get the comfortable level of insertion for people who find penetrative sex painful. You can put them on a toy or your finger as shown!


    This FDA-approved wearable is made of four interlocking rings that can be used alone or together to deliver lots of sensation, even without deep penetration.

    Get four rings from Ohnut for $55 (also available in lighter green).

    5. A pelvic harness and a compatible dildo for anyone who has some difficulty with penetrative sex on their own. This one is designed with room for a penis (and a vibrator!).


    FYI, lots of able-bodied reviewers also use it for double penetration.

    Promising review (for the harness): "Great harness!! Fits like a glove. This harness holds the dildo in place no matter how rough the ride. My first experience was an hour ride. The harness performed well. It was comfortable no movement or pinching. Material is quality. Little pricey but you get what you pay for." —Don B

    Get them from Amazon: harness for $134.95 (available in three sizes) and dildo for $97.80+ (available in two colors)

    6. Or a hand harness with a spot to hold a dildo that'll be a welcome addition if you have a hard time grasping a toy, especially for long periods of fun.

    dummy hand with fingerless glove-like harness with a dildo secured into it for thrusting with your hand
    Pleasure Garden Shop

    Get it from Pleasure Garden Shop for $138.48 (available in three sizes and both hands) or Pinkie Winkie for $124.95 (available in XS/S right hand).

    FYI, Pleasure Garden Shop is a UK-based site that has TONS of resources you'll probably find helpful on sex and disability!

    7. And a thigh harness for people who have limited pelvic movement with a spot for your fave dildo. Lap dance anyone?


    Get it from My Secret Luxury for $24.99.

    8. A silicone plunge paddle that takes a lot less force to manipulate than a wood paddle. But! The ease of use doesn't mean that it's only suited for beginners. Reviewers say it packs quite the punch.

    the paddle with rectangular end

    Promising review: "The natural flex of this paddle is great, it kind of acts like a spring. With a small effort in the wrist it delivers a commanding slap. It's effortless and great for long periods of use. Basically, it doesn't sag/slouch much but when you begin to move it, it will flex quite a bit. I was worried this would be too sloppy, but I was wrong. It works great. My partner was satisfied as well. I was easily able to control how hard it hits and how much pain it delivers. This is important if you are still exploring pain thresholds with your sub. I never felt like it would accidentally deliver more than intended." —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $35.99+ (available in four sizes).

    9. A hands-free lube dispenser that'll also warm it to the perfect temp!

    bedside table with sleek white C-shaped lube dispenser that doesn't obviously look like a sex toy
    Love My Pulse

    Promising review: "Lube always felt like such a hassle before (the bottle, the spills, the mess), but with the Pulse, I am SO much more excited to add it to my intimate moments. It's a very discreet machine and looks nice on my nightstand." —Trystan Sill

    Get it from Pulse for $199 (and check out their collection of lubricants).

    10. And water- or silicone-based lube to have on hand to help things go smoother, especially for folks with conditions that may cause more vaginal dryness.

    bottles of Lube Life water-based lube and Wet Platinum silicone-based lube

    Just make sure you're reading the instructions on your toys to double check you aren't using the wrong lube! Generally, water-based lube is a better bet to have on hand because it's often cheaper and you can use it with all sorts of toys. Silicone-based lube sticks around longer because it doesn't evaporate as quickly as the water-based kind. As this detailed guide on lube from Bellesa Boutique points out, that makes the silicone variety great for shower play.

    Get them from Amazon: water-based lube for $10.99 or silicone-based lube for $9.99

    11. A pulsing vibrator made for people with penises to help you cum hands-free without any stroking, whether you start flaccid or erect. It has six vibration settings AND can be used in the shower. Tell your friends you'll see them next month.

    Hot Octopuss

    But! If you want to use it to stroke, all you've gotta do is add some lube.

    Get it from Hot Octopuss for $99.

    12. Or a vagina-like Fleshlight penis masturbator if dexterity isn't an issue for you. Plus, it's super lightweight because this is technically a travel version!

    the fleshlight with inner view of design inside the shaft

    Promising review: "I like collecting Fleshlights but have been pretty annoyed at how needlessly big they were. Fleshlight Go is the size all Fleshlights should have been, tighter, lighter and easy to store.

    This one feels great, a grade A Fleshlight. I hope they do more Go Fleshlights. I'm really looking forward to more themed Go Fleshlights like those Fleshlight freaks models. Hopefully we will get some around Halloween." —Joi

    Get it from Lovehoney for $59.99.

    But that's just the tip of the iceberg! There are lots more Fleshlights.

    13. A G-Force silicone handle dildo with a curve that makes it easy to maneuver to reach a G-spot or P-sport during solo or partner play. Plus! It's made of non-porous silicone so it'll be easy to clean (you can even throw it in the dishwasher).

    long dildo with bulb at top and textured grip that makes it easy to hold onto

    Promising review: "Okay, all I will say is that the best feature is the long handle. Perfect for us short chicks with short arms.... ;)" —fruitcake

    Get it from Amazon for $44.99.

    14. A hands-free vibrator with three speeds you or your partner can tuck under your labia so no one has to hold it in place for clit stimulation during solo rides, penetrative sex, or other fun activities.


    Plus it's waterproof!

    Promising review: "Love the hands free! I’m able to move and enjoy with comfort and ease." —Kelly K.

    Get it from Dame for $135 (also available in green).

    15. Or a toy combo with the same vibe and wedge pillow for tons of hands-free fun.

    the same vibrator in green with a wedge shape pillow

    Get it from Dame for $180 (only available with green vibe; total value includes $135 for the vibe and $95 for the pillow)

    16. A waterproof remote butterfly vibrator for clitoral stimulation you can easily strap on and then control with the provided remote for ~waves~ of hands-free pleasure. And it has a heating function!


    The heating function can provide 40 degree C constant temperature (which is pretty close to body heat). It has 10 vibe modes and the remote control works from up to about 32 feet away. Um, that's a pretty long way!

    Promising review: "Crazy fun stimulation. Remote control helps with self-stim or partner control — fast, slow, whatever you like. Easy to find with the bright pink color. Battery life lasts and lasts. Wash dry and put away for next time. Can also go with you wherever you want to pack it into." —Audre Hartman

    Get it from Amazon for $21.99 (also available in pink).

    17. Some bondage tape that'll not only be fun for its obvious intent, but will also safely keeping toys in place where you need them without leaving a mark.

    roll of red glossy tape

    Promising review: "Perfect product for simple hand and ankle tying and for any extreme bondage positions. It's also nice and soft on your skin so good for blindfolding or making a kinky outfit. It's easy to tear off the roll and very strong when twisted so won't snap without strong force. Brilliant for making everything stay where you want it." —BigDickRik

    Get it from Lovehoney for $8.99 (also available in black or purple).

    18. A ~flexible~ double-ended dildo that's 22 inches long with realistic veins for some extra sensation, meaning it'll be a fave for solo dual plugging or with your bae.

    person holding a very long realistic looking dildo in their hand with a smaller end and a larger end

    Promising review: "On arrival, I almost fainted at the size of the box! On first use I was skeptical at the idea of it needing to be so big, but I was wrong ,very wrong. The different-sized ends are a great bonus, and my partner literally can’t get enough of using this toy! Don’t be shy and just go for it. If it makes your mind wonder, try it." —Itsallarealfeeling

    Get it from Lovehoney for $49.99.

    FYI, if you wanna start out with a shorter or different design, check out more double-ended dildos on Lovehoney. They have quite the selection!

    19. A aerial yoga swing you can — like many reviewers before you — use as a sex swing for more stability and better positioning.


    Promising review: "I suppose you could use this for yoga too. But, what I typed into the Amazon search was definitely not a 'yoga' swing! However, my wife and I can attest that this works absolutely perfect for nonyoga activities. No problems with the product at all." —Binfordtools

    Get it from Amazon for $65.90+ (available in two colors).

    20. A set of pretty anal beads that have an easy-to-pull loop on the end so removing them won't require a tough grasp. Plus the gradual bead size will hep ya' feel increasingly full and once they're in, they're hands-free!

    a set of anal beads with a loop at the end and diamond-shaped indentions, another set  of slightly larger anal beads with smoother indentions
    Bellesa Boutique

    Promising review: "These silicone for these beads is super soft, I LOVE the textures to them, and the price for getting both is very reasonable!" —Sarah

    Get them from Bellesa Boutique for $19.

    21. A six-piece booty kit with a variety of toys to play with that'll be easy to insert and pull out thanks to flared bases that'll also keep 'em right where you want.

    the six-piece kit in matte black

    Includes a butt plug, a vibrating butt plug, vibrating anal beads, vibrating anal massager, and anal douche. Plus a vibrating bullet massager that you use with the other pieces for some goooood vibrations.

    Promising review: "Bought this for my wife as we wanted to experiment. The toys are all nicely sized for beginners with a good quality feel and no smell. The douche makes it very easy to prepare for anal as well! Overall, a great beginner's kit for the price and I would highly recommend!" —Richard29

    Get them from Lovehoney for $59.99.

    22. Or a beginner's vibrating butt plug in case you're not so into investing in a set but are still looking for a flared base for easy use.

    person holding black anal plug with thinner shaft and removable bullet vibrator that inserts in the flared base

    Promising review: "This was our first anal toy. After seeing so much hype about butt play, we thought we would give this a try. Initially I was slightly nervous as previously we had only slipped a digit in, but I knew I wanted something more. This was perfect. The tapered tip made it slide in easily with the LH anal lube and the vibrations really added that something extra. We used it during sex, and after it was in for a few minutes I was soon asking for more. To my delightful surprise, the whole thing was pushed in. I felt full, fantastic sensations, and I can't wait to use this again." —Forever his ♡

    Get it from Lovehoney for $26.99 (also available in purple).

    Check out a similarly sized plug without the vibrations.

    23. A finger vibrator that'll easily loop over your digits instead of requiring a grip. It has a smooth and a pointed side that'll feel like part of your hand so you can deliver the right sensation at the right moment... which is what we all want.

    hand with loop around first two fingers and vibration part of toy between those two fingers

    It's water-resistant, has three speeds, and is magnetic USB rechargeable.

    Promising review: "I'm amazed how comfortable and versatile the touch of the fin is. No more messing around with positions of sex toys and awkward angles that detract from pleasure. The Fin does what I want, just better!" —AMY B.

    Get it from Dame for $85 (also available in green).

    24. A vibrating cock ring made for vaginal penetration or clitorial stimulation. But! Its design makes it easy to hold in case you'd like to use it to stimulate parts while it's not slipped onto a penis. Looping your finger in the ring part can be easier for some who have trouble grasping toys.

    purple cock ring with gold portion at top
    Bellesa Boutique

    Ya gotta love a multi-use product! Oh, and it's hands-free and fully submersible in water!

    Promising review: "Description says it all! Seriously, though... this lil' ring is the real deal. Halo is right, this cock ring is heaven sent. I love it, he loves it. Used to use the little dinky ones they sell at the drug store for $10, ha! This halo will rock your world." —Bellesa Boutique customer

    Get it from Bellesa Boutique for $69 (also available in black).

    25. Soft padded cuffs for some restraint that won't bother or irritate your wrists.

    the velcro cuffs with soft padding on inside
    Adam & Eve

    Promising review: "Used these on my wife and they fit well. They are soft enough that they did not leave marks on her and tough enough that she could not get free." —Anonymous

    Get them from Adam & Eve for $32.95.

    26. A sex stool with a minimalist frame and supportive panels so you can get into all the right kinds of positions without having the wonderful view obscured.

    steel wire frame stool with two clear panels across seat with space in the middle

    It can hold up to 300 lbs. and is made with a heavy duty tubular steel frame. The seat is flexible, easy to clean, and is made from high-strength TPU.

    Promising review: "This stool came in handy when I was very pregnant. It's a great tool, keeps you comfy, and we have continued to use it and try different positions now that I'm not preggos." —Dee Dee

    Get it from Spencer's for $89.99.

    27. Nipple suckers to help you enjoy some stimulation above the equator. For even more fun, these change from purple to hot pink as things really get ~steamy~.

    hourglass shaped rubber nipple suckers with closed top and open bottom, pink at top and purple at bottom

    Promising review: "If your looking at them wondering whether to buy them... Just do it! They are amazing, looking rather unexciting but that's only until you've tried them! They stimulate all areas regardless of the fact they are on your nipples, everything suddenly becomes super sensitive — you can only imagine what happens if you temp your clit with it! Oh and be aware if on all fours, they will brush the floor with us larger-breasted girls increase pleasure a little further." —Ally27998

    Get them form Lovehoney for $14.99 (also available in red, gray, blue, and black).

    28. A encouraging guide on sex and disability to help answer some questions you have, whether you're affected by disabilities, chronic pain, or illness. Sometimes it helps to have an actual book to go to rather than googling down that helpful story you found about that one thing. (No offense to websites, I write for this one!)

    the book cover
    Cleis Press

    Promising review: "We are sexual beings. Some of us are dealing with disabilities that interfere with our sense of sensation and touch. We also are dealing with body image issues. This book encourages wholeness throughout the entire individualized process and offers tips to maintain or restore normalcy and romance to a relationship impacted by a disability." —Cherie C. Binns MSCN

    Get it from Amazon for $9.99+.

    29. Or an educational comic book guide in case you fancy yourself more of a visual learner.

    cover of book with an illustration of a group of people with visible and invisible disabilities
    Limerence Press

    This book is written, illustrated by disabled cartoonist A. Andrews. In it, you'll find basics, communication tips, and suggestions for accessible sex, along with common myths addressed. TL;DR, this will be helpful if you're disabled, your partner is, or if you'd just like to educate yourself on it.

    Preorder it from Bookshop for $9.19 (ships June 23rd).

    Reviews have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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