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When a kid is going through a tough emotion and the parents say ‘don’t be sad/angry/disappointed etc’. They want to tell the kid to feel ok, but by telling them they can’t feel the emotion they are experiencing at that moment, they are taught to avoid emotions instead of working through… Read More

When my partner and I met and had a lovely first date, I was over the moon. It was a day date, going to multiple museums and walking around the markets in Amsterdam (I am Dutch), we bonded and flirted and all the sparks flew. It was safe and fun and healthy. We were already in love… Read More

Well, I think my first tattoo ever already has become kind of cringe… got an intricate TRIANGLE between the shoulder blades which was very cool when I got it in 2013, but I already feel like an annoying hipster when looking at it :’)

Number one: use an anal douche if you are worried about cleanliness. My stool can be irregular so not always sure if there are small bits that can come out while doing it and if those small bits are even hard… anyhow, it really eases my mind when I know that everything already ‘came… Read More

How I Met Your Mother… omg the main character was awful, we did not get to know the mom AT ALL and where to even start on BARNEY!! Yesterday I randomly remembered the episode where a guy tried a hookup trick by just sitting on the coach naked of a woman’s apartment and 2/3 times it… Read More

Crazy rich Asians: where the boyfriend brings his girlfriend into an unsafe situation with his family without preparing her on it. That shit made me so angry, could not watch the movie and enjoy it...

When I heard younger people where using mostly the Snapchat chat function instead of WhatsApp I just did not get it

The land before time, when Littlefoot’s mom is dying and also the scene when Littlefoot’s mistakes his own shadow for his mom and is then remembered of his grief. I am 28 and still can NOT watch it without histerically crying

So I have been diagnosed with a Personality Disorder (NOS) with traits of borderline, theatrical and dependent. And although it has been treated very well, I notice the effects on my experience of love. Let me explain: I can fluctuate in intensity of it. One day I’m over the moon… Read More

My parents never really talked about money and kind of pretended we did not have that much. Cut to years later, living on my own and studying in Amsterdam (I’m Dutch): I noticed that I was waaaaay more privileged than others. Our house turned out to be pretty big, my parents were… Read More