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If You Love Anal Sex, What Advice Do You Have For People Who Are Doing It For The First Time?

Share your best advice, tips, and tricks!

Calling all anal sex lovers — or just people who have had it and want to offer advice and tips!

Please share your wisdom for anal first-timers! Like, maybe no one told you how to prep for anal sex, and it was really painful your first time. Do you now have a favorite ~pre-anal~ routine that you can share with others?

Perhaps having anal sex was scary for you at first, but you love it now. What advice do you have for people who are hesitant to try it?

What are some ~butt experiences~ you've encountered that people should know and be aware of before having anal?

Have you been a receiver or a giver or both?! What should people know before doing either?

And, finally, what can people do to maximize that sweet anal pleasure?!

We want to hear it all — nothing is off-limits! You can leave your tips/advice in the comments below — OR leave them in this completely anonymous form, and you could be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!