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If you're here to shop as a couple *or* as a partner looking for something to pleasure your S.O., we've got a lot of great options!
When it comes to partnered sex and sex toys, communication is key — and not only for exploring new types of play. Consider what your partner likes and dislikes, maybe even conversations you've had, or hints they've dropped while cuddled up on the couch watching Netflix! For newbies incorporating toys into partnered sex: a wand offers external stimulation for both parties and is a great way to learn what kinds of sensations get your partner off. But don't worry, we've got things for the experts, too, like sex furniture for different positions and remote- or app-controlled sex toys for distance (or "public") teasing and play!
1. The OG Magic Wand that makes the perfect addition to any couple's toy box with its two rumbly speeds and simple switch. Not only does it deliver great massages, it can also lead to some serious satisfaction in the orgasm department.
The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. The same beloved classic is now available in Plus (an upgraded, corded version with multiple speeds), Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).
Promising review: "Always wanted to try one of these and let me tell you it was worth the money and wait! I was finished in SECONDS…very pleased and definitely suggest it to someone that wants one toy instead of a whole collection because it DOES THE JOB." —Tyler Feigt
Get it from Amazon $51.50+ (available in four styles).
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2. A cock ring equipped with a textured vibrating pad to stimulate your lover's clit or balls. Whether you're giving or receiving, it's whatever pleasure you pick.
The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos), and the vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.
Promising review: "It was way better than my wife and I expected. It super quick to put on and turn on. It's nice and small so it doesn't get in the way but definitely make a difference with the strong vibration. We actually found you can turn it both ways to use the smooth and rough surface. We are getting another one just to be sure we always have one charged. Amazing product!" —Joshua Juneau
Get it from Amazon for $39.66.
3. The scintillating Satisfyer Pro 2, which is basically the most popular clitoral sex toy on Amazon with over 40,000 5-⭐️ ratings (and 7,000 reviews to tell you why). Its sleek handle offers a perfect opportunity for partner play, since you can hold it between bodies with ease and deliver those 11 pinpointed and powerful intensities.
BTW — this Amazon favorite sex toy is a big hit with Trans users who've experienced bottom growth, and there's also a more in-depth review written by an Intersex Male person, if you're interested.
Promising reviews: "Bought this lil' fella for my GF so I don't need to work as hard. I spend thousands a year on tools because it makes my work easier. Why I waited until now to get the right tool for this job is a bit of a mystery. Anyways, to explain how good this is: almost no foreplay, stuck it to her, kissed her neck for a couple of minutes and she about broke her own back. Maybe five minutes! She thought she was done and pulled it off, I put it right back and kept going. Had to cover her mouth so she didn't wake up the kids. She had three by the time I had one, which works for me! TL;DR: buy it for your partner because you can't even try to compete with that." —Shaun F.
"My husband bought this for me as a surprise. We are pretty adventurous when it comes to our sex life. This thing is one powerful little machine. The highest level for just a couple of seconds has your legs shaking and quivering! You’ll need a few minutes to regather yourself after using this bad boy." —Brandon Jones
Get it from Amazon for $39.95 (available in three colors).
4. A Liberator flip ramp that can be used as a ramp or converted into an ottoman, so you and your partner can explore and enjoy your (new) favorite positions. Not to mention, it folds up neatly, so no one will know that "ottoman" in the corner of your bedroom is actually a sex toy.
It's a ramp! It's an ottoman! It's improving your sex life! This convertible cushion is created with high-density foam for comfortable support and a moisture-resistant lining underneath the removable cover. Flip the furthest side of the ramp on top for a versatile block shape or use the classic ramp shape to help find the right positions for superior stimulation alone or with a partner.
Promising reviews: "Awesome product. The flip capability opens up possibilities. The Liberator website has some suggestions of use, but with some creativity there are many others. This paired with the wedge and axis have had plenty of fun results. Highly recommend. Does clean very easy. The cloth outside does attract dog hair, but vacuums off easily enough." —J.B.
"Great addition to add some spice. Fabric is soft and soft stuff gets stuck to it easily. Thank goodness the cover comes off so you can wash it." —jen bardsley
Get it from Amazon $179.99+ (currently only available in purple and brown).
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5. An external vibrator designed with a flared and flexible tongue shape to stimulate you or your lovers erogenous zones, bringing a new toy into foreplay and a new meaning to the term "French kiss." 😘
The French Lover vibrator boasts four speeds and two pulsation modes to tickle, tease, and titillate your favorite body parts effortlessly. A wide-flared "tongue" is flexible enough to bend for pinpointed pressure or lightly caress, sending each vibration mode onto the skin like a delicate kiss.
Promising reviews: "I bought this for my wife and it's the first self-pleasure product that she has been able to use to orgasm successfully. Thanks." —Chris W.
"One of the most sensual toys I have ever tried. It can be gently slow and then go in a speed that will lead to climactic bliss. I very much recommend. It is perfect for a lonesome afternoon...slightly darkened room...a piece of chocolate and then going under the covers ready to greet your Smile Makers darlings again. This toy will not disappoint! It is my favorite...next to the Tennis Pro :)" —sumurun
Get it from Smile Makers or Urban Outfitters for $60.
6. A flexible rabbit-inspired vibrator that moves with you and keeps constant contact with your clit while still hitting your G-spot. Use the We-Vibe Connect app to engage with your partner over distances (be it the living room or state lines) and even create new vibrating patterns to play with.
Promising reviews: "Short and sweet: It's fantastic! Thanks for all the orgasms, Nova 2!" —Rosario Montez
"This is a great vibrator and has quickly become one of my favorites. As far as dual-action rabbit vibes go, this is by far the most comfortable as it is very bendy and adjustable and shows just how far this style of vibrator has come since those days where they were literally 'rabbit' vibrators with little bunnies as the clit stimulating part. The materials are very smooth and easy to clean between sessions and I suspect that this one will last me a fair few years to justify its higher price tag like other toys I own made by this company. Top marks from me, I love this vibe!" —Allie
Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $119 (originally $149; available in pink and blue).
7. A vibrating stroker, which allows all penis pleasure enthusiasts to up the ante on your stroke or blowjob skills with 12 powerful vibration modes to explore and a (much-needed) waterproof design.
This sleek vibrating stroker is inspired by the appearance and power of an actual manta ray. It's designed with waterproof silicone, six speeds and six vibrating patterns turn oral sex, masturbation and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.
Promising review: "I got this toy for my partner for his birthday. He's bought me lots of toys over the years and I wanted to gift him his own toy that we can also use together. He enjoys the pleasure it brings, in the bed or in the shower. It's pretty powerful, has lots of options and settings, and feels good on my clit too (though a bit too strong of vibrations for me). We've only used it once together so we still need to experiment a bit more with positions for it to bring us both to climax but this is a really awesome, high quality toy so I am hopeful!" —Lilliana
Get it from Amazon for $119+ or Fun Factory for $97.99 (available in three colors and jewel-tone).
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8. A very convenient anal training set, stocked with a beginner-friendly plug, a vibrating plug, and a weighted plug. Along with the toys, it includes a comprehensive guide to anal sex, a lube applicator, travel bag, and an enema to help you prep and keep things clean.
This set is perfect for anyone interested in experimenting with anal, whether beginner or expert level.
Promising review: "This kit made me comfortable and confident enough to try anal again. I had attempted it with a past partner years ago, and we did it ALL wrong. Fast forward a couple of years: I have a patient and knowledgeable partner, and I'm ready to try again. That's when I found this anal training kit, and let me tell you, it is well worth the money. Not only are the butt plugs of exceptional quality, but the Anal Guide is extremely informative. After using only the first two sizes of butt plugs, I'm having anal sex. Apprehension and fear have been lifted, and a whole new world of pleasure has taken its place. I'm seriously beyond grateful to have had such a comforting and helpful tool to introduce me to the magic of anal and butt play in general. Take it from me, if you're nervous but want to explore the pleasure your butthole has to offer, invest in this kit — or any of their beginner products for that matter." —Allyson
Get it from B-Vibe for $127.99 (originally $159.99; available in black and blue).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
9. A vibrating cock ring designed to amplify partnered play with an ergonomic and adjustable design that's comfortable enough to wear under your clothes for discreet sensations. Plus, like many We-Vibe products, this ring includes a wireless remote and can be controlled using the We-Connect app.
This waterproof ring includes a custom fit link for adjusting the size (35 mm without) and has 10 preset vibration settings to explore. But definitely download the We-Connect App, so you can have an unlimited amount of vibes to play with!
Promising reviews: "I got this for my bf who never tried a ring before and he loved it. He wears it a lot in bed and we also tried it in public once it was really fun. He can also put this around his fingers when he's fingering me which is basically a mini vibrator that I don't have to hold." —Haley
"It's very comfortable and would fit a lot of different penis sizes. Not only great to wear yourself but it takes finger play to the next level too!" —Brandon
10. A hands-free Eva vibrator by Dame that is perfect for anyone who NEEDS clitoral stimulation for guaranteed satisfaction. The flexible 'wings' are designed to tuck under your labia to help stay put and out of the way during all kinds of play. Introduce it into couples' play for extra good vibes and possible simultaneous orgasms!
Promising review: "I was so nervous about trying Eva due to the design and diagrams provided on the website. When I saw there were free returns, I decided, 'Why not?' When Eva arrived, the instructions recommended I try it out without a partner first, so I did, apprehensively. My mind was BLOWN. Not only does Eva make my personal orgasms so much better (and I get to them much quicker), but it has also made reaching simultaneous climax a lot easier to achieve with my husband. I love love love Eva, and can’t recommend this product enough! Even if you are nervous, trust me — you want to try it out." —Louisa C.
Get it from Dame for $98 (originally $140; available in orange and ice) or Amazon for $105 (available in ice and orange).
11. A stimulating cushion, offering versatile use as a comfortable base for your favorite dildo or strap-on *and* providing a contoured grinding pad to stimulate the wearer with each thrust. Avid peggers should add this to their collection, stat.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.
Promising reviews: "I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews
"My fiancé got this for me and let me just say…. This makes the world of difference in comfort, and pleasure. Jokes aside, I’ve never had a punani tsunami from pegging until this thing. Worth the buy. No sore spots and everyone wobbles away happy. 😉" —melissa mitchell
Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).
12. The *very* popular Joque harness, created for versatility with adjustable straps that fit waists up to 65 inches and an elastic O-ring that's compatible with a variety of dildo bases. If you don't have a penis, but want to penetrate your lovers, adding this to your collection is a no-brainer.
This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.
Promising reviews: "This is my favorite harness! I have had two myself and bought a couple for partners over the years. This is my go to and the only harness I ever recommend." —wordsspitout
"Bought for my girlfriend to wear for pegging. Looks great. Fits her great. Good quality material. Well worth the money." —Sarge
Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).
13. A petite precision bullet, which is a must-have for any couples introducing (or already using) sex toys in the bedroom. This toy boasts a silky silicone design and seven vibration modes to tickle your (or your SO's) fancy all over.
Promising review: "Great little toy! I bought it for the girlfriend who absolutely loves it. Easy to use with it’s one button control and battery lasts a long time with quick charge. I would definitely recommend this as it makes a great gift and fun toy." —William Roman
Get it from Amazon for $9.98+ (available in two colors).
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14. A Bluetooth-enabled wand vibrator for lovers who want to spice up their long-distance trysts. Not to mention, a wand is versatile enough to use by any and everybody, so imagination and consent are key to enjoying this one to the fullest.
This wand offers three vibration speeds and up to 10 rumbly patterns for you to program and explore solo or with a partner. Or pair it with the Lovense app to sync the vibrations to your favorite music and create unlimited patterns. Elevate your wand with a compatible P-spot attachment or a G-spot attachment.
Promising review: "New favorite toy, love the fact that light can change colors, super strong. Really, I personally can't stand more than half the power. It's got a pretty good built quality, app receives updates constantly and keep device sharp. Really there's not much to say more than you NEED to get it." —Joey G. Manchego
Get it from Amazon for $119.
15. A powerful suction vibrator featuring 12 pulsating intensities to rock your world whether you're playing with a partner in-person, from another room, or even from another city.
The slim, ergonomic design offers effortless handling on your own, but also easy fitting between you and a partner. And for more details on this suction vibe, see why it ranks as #1 in my personal ranked review of suction vibrators!
Promising review: "Very efficient! Love the interactive feature to use with my husband that works far from home. Works with both of our Apple phones fine. 10 and up. Sleek design easy to hold. Works quickly. My only small, menial complaint is that it is slightly loud and I worry about kids coming into my bedroom so I get caught! :) Not a big enough deal to stop me from loving it." —marybrnrd
Get it from Amazon for $119.20 (available in dark blue and coral).
16. A 4.6-starred stainless-steel dildo with curves that'll leave a permanent smile on your face. This 2-pound sex toy is the kingpin of internal stimulation, so if you or your lover have been craving a mind-blowing G- or P-spot orgasm, definitely add this to your cart.
At 7.5 inches long, this bulbous beauty steps into the ring and offers 2 pounds of weight for the full feeling your other toys might be missing. You can pop this metal toy in the fridge and let it chill, so you can really treat yourself, if you know what I mean.
Promising reviews: "This is the best toy I’ve ever bought for my wife! First couple of times she used it on herself. Last time I used it on her. Every time she has big time G-spot orgasms. She hasn’t squirted yet, but I believe that’s just due to her not being relaxed enough and letting go. Update: she finally squirted with it the other day! No other toy needed." —Donald H.
"Wife bought this for me and it is amazing. It took a while to get used larger ball end, but once in and rubbing against the prostate, it will not take long for you to EXPLODE!" —Kkelley
Get it from Amazon for $68.90.
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17. The Starsi vibrator, which combines function with full-on adorableness with its supple silicone design and unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations.
Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.
Promising reviews: "My partner and I have had so much fun with this! It's so soft and all the different parts have such different sensations. The bullet is so strong too, I can only use it on the first setting!! As a nonbinary person I've been so pleased with this toy, it really alleviates any dysphoria I have about playing and it's such a relief! What a lovely toy from an incredible company!" —Kate
"I absolutely love this vibe! Very versatile and I can regularly achieve my goals with the vibe. A surprising little side note, I started using it as a packer from time to time and the euphoria from having star shaped junk is 10/10." —Violet-Jane
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (available in coral and pink).
Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.
18. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. Keep things simple and *satisfying* by trying out a new position with the help of this pillow, whether on your belly, lifting your hips, or whatever you come up with (trust me).
This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.
Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.
"The angle was incredible for both of us. My wife had never experienced a G-spot and clit orgasm at the same time, ever! Also she didn’t want to stop! It is a bit firm, but we feel that lends to the pleasure. We have had other pillows in the past, but way too bulky and big. This is priced right too." —Kerry D.
Get it from Dame for $71 (originally $95; available in navy and oat).
19. The We-Vibe Chorus vibrator that can be controlled remotely from the app or with the included wireless remote that responds to innovative pressure technology, so you can control the vibration intensity with your grip.
This toy can be used in closer quarters or from afar, stimulating the interior (and penis, if there's one in there!) and the external arm delivering intense vibes directly to the clit for a dually stimulating experience. Whether you and your lover choose to play with the grip technology or use the pre-set three speeds and seven vibration patterns, this waterproof wearable offers sensations only limited by the imagination (and definitely not distance).
Promising reviews: "The adjustable internal is very well made and means you can adjust according to your partners body. Feels good for both partners when using during sex and easy to add or remove without ruining the moment. The app can disconnect you or your partner from the session sometimes but not enough to have an effect on things. With me currently deployed for four to five months we have had quite a few We-Vibe sessions and have even purchased another We-Vibe product to give my wife a bit of variety for our sessions." —Ooh No.
"How do I even start, let me just tell you this remote vibe is hands down the best. It fits to me so well, and it actually does what hubs wants, you can start and stop it with app or remote. Very comfortable too wear and walk around with too! OMG you need this toy in your life if you have a partner." —Tiffani J.
Get it from Lovehoney (available in four colors) or Amazon (available in five colors) for $167.20.
20. A 14-inch double-ended vibrating dildo with seven vibrations, so you can get closer than ever with a partner. With a length like that, you could certainly fill two holes at once...or at least try.
Promising review: "My fiancée is a trans woman, and I am a cis woman. This was delightful for both of us to enjoy. Good shape on both ends, great selection of vibrations." —Staci
"Have had this product for about 3 months. I am a lesbian and use it with my partner. Here are some comments: The material is super soft and comfortable. We both enjoy it. You might not even need lube. The shape is the most ergonomic I have ever tried. Much nicer than realistic dildos, which can hurt sometimes. The longer part reaches on various areas inside you, it's interesting. The vibration is very well distributed along the toy. The bump close to the middle of the longer side reaches the clitoris on the one using the short side, which is a nice extra. It has several vibration modes, so you will find one you like. Overall a good toy for lesbians who like penetration and both can enjoy it. Even the softer vibration mode is a little too strong for me, so it's best for people who like a little rougher and stronger vibration." —jess
Get it from Amazon $41.99.
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21. Carter — New York Toy Collective's largest posable dildo — boasts a girthy, premium silicone design and 7.5 inches of length that'll blow your (or your partner's) mind with its versatility for solo, partnered, and even anal play. If you or your partner have been wanting a fuller feeling, this dildo will definitely do the trick.
Promising review: "This dildo is AMAZING. I just used it on my partner and had to rush here to write a review because it was just such a pleasure to use. She loved the big head, and I loved how it kept its position. My partner has a big butt so we’ve always chosen lengthier dildos, but sometimes, that loses girth, and I can’t have the amount of push behind my thrusts like I would like, but this one was a great length AND girthy enough to translate some good fill. It is soooooo worth the money. This is our first NYTC dildo, but it will never be the last. I love that the company has handmade products made by the queer fam. Nobody gets our bodies like we do, and this product showed that for sure. I can’t wait to receive it! Thank you so much for doing you and making this amazing dildo!" —Armand Goldman
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $179 (available in eight colors).
New York Toy Collective is a Black- and queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.
22. A Love Bump to pair with your favorite dildo to deliver lifelike sensations with each thrust. It also includes a 10-function bullet vibrator to help you get in a good rhythm. So, if neither you nor your partner have a scrotum to make that slapping sound...New York Toy Collective has got you covered!
Oh, and if ball-slapping is not your thing — it also functions as a cock ring.
Promising review: "I feel like I’ve been missing out my entire adult life before this thing. Not only do they hang and swing in a pleasing way (which is nice for my identity as a trans man) but when I’m intimate with someone they create a new level of sensation that has led to some very exciting results. The design is complete genius. Thanks NYTC!" —Griff
"I love these so much I bought a second pair because my partners have all said they love how these feel slapping against them. Also great to flip upside down with the rechargeable bullet vibe for extra stimulation during missionary positions." —Hans Von Straphon
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $49.99 (available in four fleshtones and four colors).
If you want more toys that aren't too phallic or realistic, check out these round-ups of gender-affirming sex toys and sex toys beloved by LGBTQ+ reviewers!
23. An 8-inch splash-proof rabbit vibrator designed with a rotating head that has three speeds and a flexible clitoral arm offering seven different vibration modes for superior external stimulation. All you (and your lover) have to do is download the app to stay in ~touch~ from anywhere in the world.
Reviewers say that heterosexual couples should pair this toy with the above Max 2 for a reciprocal long-distance session.
But...if you and your partner both have vulvas and still want to enjoy some long-distance play, you could buy two of these and control each other's toy with the Lovense app (or if you both have penises, you could buy and control two Max 2 strokers!).
Promising review: "At first I was worried about ordering this because of mixed reviews, as I wanted it specifically because I’m in a long-distance relationship and wanted my partner to be able to control it. For distance perspective, my boyfriend lives 1,252 miles away from me. We had no problems using it: we downloaded the app, and he was able to control it right away, and there was no disconnecting. As far as how good the product is, the clitoral stimulation is fantastic, but I couldn’t feel the rotator on the inside as much, so it didn’t have much stimulation there. If you’re looking at this product for the same reason I was, I would definitely recommend it. My boyfriend and I had fun with it for hours." —DCN
Get it from Amazon for $119.
24. A Liberator wedge-and-ramp combination pillow, so you and your partner can gain some leverage and explore new positions without sacrificing comfort.
This pillow looks harmless, but it has patented interlocking technology that makes it so the two pillows cling together and can be used simultaneously without falling apart during use. Along with that, the cover is removable and machine washable while the interior foam is protected with a moisture-resistant lining, so you can truly go buck wild (pun intended).
Promising reviews: "This aid is perfect for those who are wanting more to their sex life. I am a heterosexual female in a monogamous relationship. My guy is able to put me in positions that would have previously been uncomfortable without additional support. Both the larger and smaller angle give gear support for the power player to make their moves and the receiver to stay in a great position for longer periods of time!
"The cover is easy to take off and throw in the washer! The only 'con' is the inability to discreetly store this item! Our bed frame is custom-made and not high enough for this to slide under. Be mindful of that of you have kids/other people in and out of your room/play space." —Lazy Shopper
"Love it. Valentine's gift for my guy. He has back pain and this puts us in great positions without causing him pain. Have recommended to all my friends. Try it you will love it." —Patricia Katz
Get it from Amazon for $205 (available in five colors).
25. The 8.5-inch Crescendo 2 vibrator by MysteryVibe, aptly named for what happens when you orgasm with it, BTW. This versatile and flexible vibrator boasts six motors, 16 intensities, 12 preset patterns and customization via app, so you can perfect the ultimate session.
You can even contort it into a makeshift cock ring, so there's a way to use this toy no matter what your anatomy!
Promising reviews: "The single best sex toy for couples — women AND men. Regardless of whether you’re cradling your testicles with it or using it to bring your G-spot to new heights this gets into all of the fun-to-reach places." —Jordan
"My Crescendo made me feel whole again. The creativity of the app helps me personalize the vibrations and makes every solo pleasure session is completely different! Six months in and I am still discovering new ways to orgasm. Thank you, MysteryVibe." —Heather
Get it from MysteryVibe for $181 (originally $279).
26. A harness and dildo combo kit whether you and your lover are experienced strap-on users and looking for something new or you're a beginner exploring new territory.
The lightweight harness boasts adjustable straps and an O-ring compatible with dildos up to 2.25 inches wide. It is also machine washable, and once you've found your perfect fit, you can simply slip it on and off like a pair of underwear. Meanwhile, the included dildo boasts a gentle curve and is compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants for a feel-good time.
Promising reviews: "This was my first strap-on purchase and I am impressed by the quality and value of this product! You have made two lesbians very happy." —Anonymous
"Thank you for making a toy for lesbians. You know, women who love women, not realistic veiny penis lookalikes. This little gem is firm but soft enough to give in the right spots. I cannot say enough about the thoughtful design. You have to hold it to understand fully. We will be buying another in a different size to change things up. I prefer smaller, my wife likes larger, and WFH has us covered!" —Meredith
Get it from Wet for Her for $157.99 (originally $184.90; harness available in three colors and sizes XXS-5X and dildo available in three sizes).
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27. An oh-so-convenient Ohnut set boasting an overall 4.6 out of 5 stars from reviewers. This neat accessory is constructed with a stretchy, body-safe material to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration.
This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation.
Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.
Get it from Ohnut for $75.
Ohnut Co. is a woman-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.
28. A flexible strapless strap-on featuring a dual-ended design to deliver nine powerful vibration modes to both the wearer and the receiver for simultaneous leg-quaking sensations.
The wearable bulb and shaft each have nine vibration modes independent of each other that can be controlled by the wireless remote. Not to mention, this toy is waterproof for extra wet play and designed with a textured clitoral base and realistic shaft to deliver targeted sensations.
Promising reviews: "My partner and I were very pleased (me especially) with this product! I was skeptical about it being strapless and staying in but boy oh boy does it work. If you are in a lesbian relationship like me, this product will definitely spice up your bedroom. Love this product!!" —Becs
"I got this for my girlfriend and me (lesbian couple) for Valentine's Day. I am totally impressed, and she (who has never used toys before) is in love. We first used it without the vibration going, with the short side in her and me on top. It felt great for both of us, we both came, I came harder. Next I got the short end with her on top, also loved it, I convinced her to turn on the vibration at the lowest steady setting. She came harder than I've ever seen her come. It does slip out as easily as I expected. The remote does not seem to turn it on proper, but it will go through the vibration settings. 10/10 recommend this amazing toy for any lesbian couple and I imagine it would be good for somewhat experienced pegging." —Sarah
Get it from Amazon for $32.99 (available in pink and purple).
And definitely check out this round-up if you're looking for the best strap-on dildos and harnesses for partnered sex.
29. Zeep! is proof that Cute Little Fuckers never misses. This versatile, gender-neutral cutie boasts a thin leaf design for pinpointed vibes or flip it over for broad, all-over stimulation. Its textured (smiling) design also offers even more sensation play whether solo or with a partner.
It's waterproof, versatile and comes with a bullet vibrator that has five patterns and speeds to explore.
Promising reviews: "Screams, moans, unbelieving gasps, and crotchal-to-crotchal vibrator sharing. Then there was a lot of lying back exhausted, breathing heavily, and saying of the word 'Wow.' Fantastic for couples without penii. (Probably fantastic in other contexts, as well, though I can't attest either way to that.)" —pretty squid
"I loved the Zeep vibrator! It felt great to place all over my vulva while the tip allowed for my sensation play along my clitoris. Also love using this hands-free while grinding on a pillow. It’s so cute too, and a regular part of my solo sex routine." —bananas
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $69 (tee hee; available in emerald and mint).
30. An interactive vibrating anal plug with customizable settings that sync to your favorite songs, ambient sounds, or even your lover speaking. Smooth, ribbed silicone offers comfortable insertion and removal, all you need to do is bring the lube and download the app.
You and your S.O. after a few rounds with one of these toys:
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