Yes, big is unhealthy. Yes, beauty is different to different people. The point is NOT for every single person to see the beauty, it is NOT to say that there are no issues with being fat, and it is NOT about defining “full-figured”. What this woman IS doing is showing that just because you have an imperfection (in this case, obesity) it doesn’t mean that you have to wallow in self-loathing. Maybe she’ll lose the weight - if she does, nothing changes. Her message is, in a nutshell, that everyone should love themselves, no matter what they actually look like. Her way of learning to love herself is to find beauty where others can’t see it.