37 Things That'll Make It Easier To Actually Take Care Of Yourself
Because unfortunately, you *are* an adult. But that doesn't have to be a scary thing.
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1. A two piece Rubbermaid produce-saving container set to keep your fruits and veggies fresh long enough for you to decide exactly what to make with them. This set is perfect if your spinach dies .02 seconds after you unpack from your grocery bag.
Promising review: "I wish I would have gotten these sooner. I bought strawberries for my children, and then I forgot about them. I found them in the back of the refrigerator almost TWO WEEKS later, and they were still good. The real miracle is how long it keeps zucchini. Zucchini starts to get mushy in the crisper drawer after just a few days. Again, these miracle containers have kept it fresh for close to two weeks now. I've kept cut lettuce, cut cabbage, cauliflower, broccoli, cucumbers, zucchini, sliced bell peppers, strawberries, blackberries, cut jicama, and carrots in these containers. I've had fantastic results with all of them." —Laura
Get a pack of two from Amazon for $34.99 (available in six sizes).
To learn more, check out a BuzzFeed editor's review in "These Miracle Plastic Containers Keep Berries Day-One Fresh For Almost 2 Weeks."
2. A comfortable menstrual cup so you don't have to worry about leakage ruining your favorite pair of white pants. This bb can be worn for up to 12 hours and holds as much as four tampons can. Plus, if you take good care of it, it'll last up to 10 years!
Promising review: "I just bought a second cup, because I love it so much! I've been a pad wearer for over 20 years. I've always hated the way tampons feel. I finally decided to try a cup after I kept hearing about how awesome they are from so many people. This cup is seriously amazing! I've been using it for about three months now, and I'll never go back to pads! Once it's in, I don't feel it at all. There have been times when I've forgotten that it's that time of the month! I haven't leaked even on my heaviest days. And I love that I only have to mess with it every 12 hours. This cup is life-changing. I'm so glad that I finally decided to give it a try!" —RachelT
Get it from Amazon for $28.99 (available in two sizes and three colors).
Not sure if menstrual cups are for you? Check out "37 Menstrual Cup Tips From People Who Actually Use Them" to learn everything you need to know to make an informed decision.
3. A monthly bill planner that comes with helpful stickers and has space dedicated to receipts, goals, and expenses, so not one single bill catches you off guard this year and you're able to treat yo' self just a little bit more.
Now you can set financial goals and know that you have the resources to help you achieve them!
Promising review: "I have struggled with budgeting my entire adult life. I have made many resolutions that I was going to keep track of my spending and that I was going to plan for the future, but the resolution has fallen apart for many reasons, not the least of which was not having a way to keep track with which I was comfortable. This allows me plenty of space at the front to name my budget goals, and to keep track of my progress. Rather than seeing a budget as a life-time thing, which I think is what makes it hard for me to commit to it on a daily basis, this provides me with plenty of motivation to keep going from day to day and beyond. Budgeting now makes much more sense in my life." —Lorraine Berry
Get it from Amazon for $19.99 (available in 16 colors).
4. And a infographic guide to personal finance you can add if you need a little extra help managing your money. Its colorful pages break down everything you need to know about budgeting, saving, spending, debt, credit, investing and housing.
Promising review: "This is wonderful. The infographic format makes this book for appealing to people who have very little interest in finance as a topic, but need to learn the basics of personal financial management." —Tayo Fakunle
Get it from Amazon for $8.49.
5. A portable charger so small it'll likely fit in the same pocket as the very phone on 3% battery. Never worry about your phone dying *just* as you were about to order an Uber again.
And don't confuse this charger's size for its power because it can take their phone from 0% to 50% in only 30 minutes.
Promising review: "This is my first purchase from this company's line of batteries, and I am extremely thrilled. I have a Samsung Galaxy S9+ plus and finding battery chargers that consistently and reliably charge has been a hassle. But this little battery has been incredible. Plus, it says 10,000 mAh, but I swear it's much more than that. I have charged my phone two and a half times from 10% to full charge and this battery STILL has 38% charge remaining! I have bought many battery chargers in my life, and this is, by far, the best one I've ever used." —WestcoastJack
Get it from Amazon for $26.99.
6. A harmless but bitter-tasting varnish that'll keep you from biting your nails so you can grow the claws of your dreams. It also doubles as nail strengthener if you also have an issue with breakage.
Promising review: "During stressful times, I bite off all my nails. Once they're bitten off, it's hard for me to quit biting them so I thought I'd try this product. Well, it's been a week and I'm not biting them anymore. The taste if you do is just bitter enough to make you stop. And my nails already look better after a week. I highly recommend this product." —Cheryl Douglas
Get it from Amazon for $15.50.
Need a little more convincing? Check out "This Miracle Polish Just Might Get You To Stop Biting Your Nails."
7. An anti-fog spray to help prevent your glasses from fogging up while wearing a face mask. Just spray, rub, and rinse for steady sight!
Promising review: "I bought this product because wearing a face mask makes my glasses fog, even with the metal strip to form around the bridge of my nose. It works all day with only one application, unless I have been doing a lot of activity, then I might have to reapply. Just spray it on the clean lenses of your glasses then wipe dry with a clean dry lintless cloth, as simple as that. I was so impressed that I gave my second bottle to my team members for them to use. Delivery was fast. I highly recommend this product from this company. I would not hesitate to buy this again when I need more in the future." —Tonya Crippen
Get it from Amazon for $10.55+ (available in three sizes).
8. A supportive and durable yoga set because it is finally time to find your center. Complete with an ultra thick yoga mat, two yoga blocks, a yoga strap, and two towels, you'll have everything you need to become more flexible.
Promising review: "I loved this set! I really wanted to delve a little deeper into my yoga practice and this set was perfect! The mat is a comfortable thickness; it's not so firm that it puts more pressure on fragile ankles, but is firm enough that you feel confident in your practice. The blocks are awesome! I got the deepest, most relaxing stretch for my back with them. The belt is also incredibly helpful, especially if you are working on your flexibility." —Beth
Get it from Amazon for $42.99 (available in four colors).
9. A Burst Sonic toothbrush subscription that means consistent fresh breath *and* bright smiles! You'll receive replaceable toothbrush heads every 90 days. No more plaque buildup for you.
Promising review: "I love everything about this brush! The color, the tapered bristles that reach between my teeth, its ability to whiten my teeth, the four-to-six-week battery life, and the lifetime warranty. But my favorite part is that my teeth feel squeaky clean after I use it! This brush really is the best at removing plaque!" —Robyn
Get it from Burst Oral Care for $69.99 (originally $89.98; available in three colors).
10. A subscription to Ritual for daily multivitamins that'll help add some pep to your step. Customize your bundle to your needs and wait for it to land on your doorstep.
Ritual can even help you track your progress so you remember to take them every day.
Promising review: "I took the chance to try out Ritual over six months ago, with a doubt because it is kind of pricy. But it turns out it is totally worth it. I love the smell, and they don’t make me nauseous when taking them on an empty stomach like many others do." —Kristine H.
Start your subscription to Ritual for $30/month.
To see the benefits a BuzzFeeder saw after taking these, check out "I Tried The Pretty Vitamins That Are All Over Instagram And TBH I Love Them."
11. And a pill organizer if at the end of the day, you can't remember if you took your vitamins that morning. Open each compartment with the push of a button and stay on top of your health.
Each day is removable so you can take it wherever!
Promising review: "If you take pills twice a day, like I do, and a lot of them, then this is for you! It's easy to use, colorful, this dispenser even holds my horse pills (fish oil and vitamin E) and all the others easily, and the lids pop up on the press of a button and snap closed securely. The line of seven on each side can be removed from the tray. It's a bit large, but all in all, it's well-made and very practical." —Thomas A. Darby
Get it from Amazon for $11.79.
12. A five-year memory book so you can write down your memories today and revisit them tomorrow. See how much your life changes over the course of five years!
Promising review: "My husband and I have been using this as a sort of 'positive affirmation' daily journal. We write one sentence that has made us feel positive for each day. It has really helped brighten our moods despite our busy, stressful lives. And this journal is a great format for it. I really like it a lot, and think everyone should do something like this to force themselves to think about positive things every single day." —Michelle
Get it from Amazon for $15.20.
To see how this journal positively affected a BuzzFeeder's life, check out "This One Line A Day Journal Is My Most Prized Possession."
13. A luxe travel mug that reads "boss babe" because after that second cup of coffee, you'll be ready to run everything.
Effie's Paper is a Black woman-owned small business specializing in stationery, coffee mugs, and travel mugs for the bold.
Get it from Effie's Paper on Etsy for $25.
14. A weekly subscription to EveryPlate – it lets you choose one of 14 easy-to-make recipes every week. They'll ship everything you need to make a delicious meal in under 30 minutes. Spend less time cooking and more time eating with loved ones.
Promising review: "It takes out all the work of having to meal plan and grocery shop. It not only saves me so much time, but it also saves me so much money!" —Kelsey Brackett
Get a weekly EveryPlate subscription for $4.99/serving.
15. A cute and effective razor from Athena Club for a gentle and close shave every single time. And with blades enhanced by a water-activated serum, shaving cream may be optional but smooth skin is guaranteed.
Each order comes with: two five-blade cartridges, an ergonomic razor handle, and a magnetic hook for storage.
Promising review: "This razor is everything that it's advertised to be! It's got a sleek look and comfortable feel, and it offers an amazing shave that lasts! I am definitely keeping my membership! If you are hesitant to join, hesitate NO MORE!!! You will NOT be disappointed!" —Melinda S
Get it from Athena Club for $9+ (available in six colors).
16. A self-charging robot vacuum that quietly cleans under your couches and chairs, so you can focus on more important things. This smart vacuum has sensor to avoid falls and obstacles.
Promising review: "I absolutely love this! Living with four roommates that don’t clean (two dogs, one cat, one lazy human), I needed some assistance in keeping my place neat and free of hair tumbleweeds. This thing is AMAZING. It’s sleek, quiet, and does an incredible job on my hard floors, rugs, and carpet. It’s very quiet, honestly I had it run at midnight last night with no interruptions to my sleep. The suction is great, and you’ll see the amazing little trails on the carpet that clean people like me live for. I even have a higher pile rug in my room that I was concerned about, but my little guy went right over it with no issues." —Megan
Get it from Amazon for $149.99 (available in two colors).
17. A set of round acne patches or extra-large square acne patches loaded with zit-shrinking hydrocolloid and tea tree oil that'll help you stop picking at your pimples by getting rid of them altogether.
Promising review: "I’ve been experimenting with these for the last month and a half, and I am addicted. They are really thin and blend into my highly freckled face incredibly well...I have gone out in public twice with them on, because when I did my last second mirror check before I got out of the car, I didn’t notice I had them on! While they absolutely help clean out the skin underneath, the biggest thing it does for me is stops me from touching my face. When I'm stressed out, I will absentmindedly touch/run my hands along my face and jaw constantly. Now, when I notice I’m doing that, I run into the bathroom and put these on any spots I have. Since they are thin and stick really well, I am able to leave them alone and stop touching my face." —MelsBells
Get a box of 40 round patches for $8.50 and a box of 8 extra-large patches for $8.50, both from Amazon.
Check out "These Satisfying Acne Patches Deserve A National Holiday, Change My Mind."
18. A natural lemongrass-scented panty detergent designed to remove discharge stains so your undies look and feel good as new! Its formula is anti-bacterial, anti-yeast, and anti-mold, so you don't have to worry about any ickies getting back to you.
Clean & Cute is owned by a Black woman gynecologist who saw a need for a cleaning product that promoted vaginal health.
Get it from Clean & Cute for $14.99.
19. A Waterpik flosser whose 10 settings will ensure you get a custom (and thorough) clean. Use this for just one minute everyday for healthy gums that'll make your dentist proud.
Reviewers with braces say this a great flossing method for them!
Promising review: "I have been using this for a couple of months now and have to say I love this Waterpik. I have had dental work done and I put a little salt in a glass with some warm water and mix then put in my Waterpik. This really helps with healing my gums and keeps food out of any spaces that can get food stuck. The flosser part works great and you will not be disappointed." —H. Ginn
Get it from Amazon for $64.97+ (available in four colors).
20. Ultra light face lotion from Lather – it's formulated with squalane, safflower, and rose extract, so it gently moisturizes your face. See? You can get the spa treatment at home, too.
Promising review: "I have sensitive skin and need a face lotion that won’t irritate my skin, which is why I'm so glad I found this product. I love how lightweight it is. And it doesn’t leave my skin feeling greasy." —Elizabeth R
Get it from Lather for $24.
21. A portable Vicks nasal inhaler so you can breathe easy no matter where you are. Inhale vapors through each nostril to kick nasal congestion to the curb!
Promising review: "My nose is often stuffy, so I make sure to always have a Vicks inhaler around. They are a medication-free, mess-free and portable way of getting fast relief." —Mostly Maven
Get a pack of two from Amazon for $9.94.
22. An adjustable clothes folding board to help you take back control of your closet. In a few quick motions, you'll have your shirts, pants, towels, and more neatly folded and tucked away!
Promising review: "You would think folding is simple, but with this product, it's a perfect fold every time. It makes a pile of clothing so compact. Everything is uniformly folded. Makes putting clothes in drawers so much neater and more orderly. It makes my life easier." —S. Erhart
Get it from Amazon for $15.99.
23. A creamy plant-based exfoliator made with microcrystals that'll gently buff away dead skin cells, leaving you with bright and smooth skin. It's time you finally said goodbye to breakouts!
Promising review: "I cannot say enough good things about this exfoliator! I have very oily/acne prone skin, and I started seeing a difference after just one use! It says to use a quarter size, but trust me, pea size is all you need. The microcrystals are so fine that they really get the job done! My skin is smoother, has fewer breakouts, and has a glowy look." —Carson M
Get it from Versed for $16.99.
24. The Big Activity Book for Anxious People — if you've been feeling overwhelmed, stressed, and anxious, this combination journal/coloring book/funny self-help book will help you turn your bad days around.
Promising review: "This book is exactly what it says it is: a big activity book for anxious people! It’s got some great activities inside that totally keep me busy, keep my anxiety in check, and truly is a great time suck to keep my mind focused on the activities and an escape from whatever is consuming me those days. Cannot recommend this book enough!!!" —Alex R. Pepin
Get it from Amazon for $14.40+.
25. A migraine roll-on stick made with a blend of essential oils to help target and eliminate headaches and neck pains.
Promising review: "I have chronic tension headaches (I am a very anxious person) and this has completely saved my brain. I was worried about using it on my temples and forehead because I have incredibly sensitive skin, but it hasn't made me break out or anything. It's a good level of dilution to not risk skin burns, and the addition of lavender helps calm my anxiety. I use this almost every day, sometimes multiple times a day if I'm really stressed. I've found that extending it down to my traps and behind my ears makes it work even better. 6/5 would always recommend." —E. R. Sutherland
Get it from Amazon for $10.99.
To learn more about this, check out "Attention, Headache Sufferers: This Essential Oil Stick Will Change Your Damn Life."
26. A fruit-infuser water bottle so you can stay hydrated with ~flavor~. You'll even get an eBook with 20 refreshing recipes!
Promising review: "Love it, been using it every day. Since the infuser is full length, you can add a lot of fruit, cucumbers, and herb combos, I keep refilling the water all day and still get the flavors. Update: Six months later and I'm still in love with this bottle. I got it as part of my New Year's resolution to stop adding so many plastic bottles to our planet and to stop drinking flavored waters with chemicals. It's the first New Year's resolution I've ever kept, and do not foresee an end. I'd be lost without this bottle now, and it's also one of my favorite gifts or gift add-on to give." —Sannies
Get it from Amazon for $14.90 (available in nine colors).
27. A hypoallergenic overnight mask formulated with nourishing antioxidants, vitamins, and natural minerals that'll repair and moisturize your skin. Got sensitive skin? No problem! This soothing mask was made with you in mind.
Promising review: "In winter, my skin is super dry and very sensitive and reactive to most masks and lotions. I was skeptical at first, but it is a great hydrating mask that didn’t make me break out. I put it on last after my usual routine and woke up with wonderfully hydrated skin that stayed soft all day. I highly recommend it." —TaTReviews
Get it from Amazon for $12.76.
28. A microwave steamer because you haven't eaten a vegetable in far too long. With vents that release steam, you can easily cook veggies, fish, and more!
Promising review: "I used this large steamer for the first time today. I cooked fresh steamed vegetables in it. It did a terrific job. The vegetables retained their flavor and cooked perfectly. The texture was perfect, also. I fixed cabbage, carrots, and large Brussels sprouts. There was more than enough room. I could have easily fit in more vegetables." —Tuxedo Cat
Get it from Amazon for $15.89.
29. A Foreo Luna Mini 2 — this waterproof silicone face cleansing brush has eight pulsation settings that each provide a deep clean to remove dirt, oil, dead skin cells, and makeup.
Promising review: "I have used this in conjunction with my cleanser for about a week and have not only noticed my skin getting noticeably better, but also have received compliments about my now naturally glowy skin. I have acne prone combination skin and this is my new holy grail product." —Scout
Get it from Amazon for $119 (available in five colors).
Read a BuzzFeed editor's full review in "This 60-Second Face Cleansing Device Is A Game-Changer For Your Skin Care Routine."
30. A pack of Shout dye-trapping sheets so you can make laundry day go by faster by safely washing colors and whites together. These sheets catch dye floating in the wash water so they don't end up on your white tees.
Promising review: "These are an absolute necessity in my house! I have two little girls and I never have enough of their dirty clothes to do loads separated by color. I Just throw everything in together (yes, even reds and white) and nothing ever bleeds onto the other. My husband does his own laundry too (he isn't the best at separating), and this saved him when a red sock accidentally made its way into the whites. If you do laundry, you need these!" —Shannon Schneider
Get a pack of 72 from Amazon for $9.94.
31. A bi-weekly Black Girl Magixc Box subscription – it'll get you a curated selection of self-care essentials created by Black-owned businesses. It's high time you invest in your wellness.
Black Girl Magic Box is a Black-owned small business that thoughtfully curates products created by Black holistic health and wellness coaches.
Promising review: "I love it! I received so many products that I love: a co-wash that smells heavenly, lemongrass body oil which I love, and this incredible candle that I use as a perfume — yes I do girl! I love this box and the fact that I'm helping Black businesses and becoming more exposed to Black businesses. The products are top-notch and definitely worth it!" —Miss S
Get it from CrateJoy for $45.50/box.
32. An Elizavecca hair treatment packed with protein, Ceramide 3, and collagen that'll transform your heat-damaged or dry hair into silky soft and shiny locks. Because nothing about you is dull.
Promising review: "My hair used to be really shiny. Then I had purple hair for a year, followed by blue for six months. My stylist had to bleach the beejeebers out of my hair to remove all of the funky colors. Ever since, my hair has been dry, crispy, and definitely not shiny. This stuff really makes a difference! I used it maybe 10–14 days ago, and I just redid it tonight. After shampooing, I towel-dried my hair and then put a big blob throughout my long-ish hair and clipped it up. I left it on for quite a while, just puttering around and getting chores done. Then I rinsed it and my hair feels soft and looks much shinier. I will keep using this as long as I need to (it will take a few years to grow out all the damage while maintaining length). I'm really glad that I read that article and bought the product" —SHANNON FRASER
Get it from Amazon for $9.80.
Check out a BuzzFeed editor's full review in "7 Game-Changing Beauty Products We're Currently Obsessing Over."
33. A headlights lens restoration kit because if you're driving at night, it'll help if you can see clearly. And that can't happen if your headlights are cloudy, scratched, or yellowing.
This kit contains: a disc pad holder, sanding discs, finishing discs, a refining disc, rubber compound, masking tape, and wax protectant.
Promising review: "The headlight lens on my passenger side was so yellow and cloudy that I actually had a driver get out of his car on a red light and come over to my car to tell me! (yes, thank you, I know). I decided to try this kit because of its high rating and lower price. It really works! The instructions are easy to follow, with photos to show you how the end of each step is supposed to look. Don't be afraid of this if you have no one to help. I am a grandmother with (at the time) a bad shoulder, who had never done this before, and it turned out beautifully." —C. Ferry
Get it from Amazon for $13.14.
34. A reusable and plant-based surface cleaner kit that comes with a refill, because once you start cleaning with this powerful formula, there won't be any going back. And don't let its fresh scent fool you, this cleaner is tough on grime.
Public Goods is a small business based in NYC working to help people make eco-friendly and sustainable shopping choices when it comes to health and home goods.
Promising review: "I couldn't be happier. I've been using it on all kinds of surfaces including my granite counters and stainless-steel cooktop, and it works like a charm!" —Julie R
Get it from Public Goods for $7.50.
35. A bottle of makeup brush shampoo so you can stop throwing out your sponge applicators and brushes when they're dirty and spending money on brand new ones. Instead, easily remove makeup from them with this hypoallergenic formula.
Plus, it's all-natural and cruelty-free!
Promising review: "This cleanser is great! It fully removes all makeup from the brushes without leaving them feeling beat up (I'm not the most gentle when it comes to cleaning brushes). I use a thick foundation that soaks heavily into the bristles, but this removed it all. At first I thought it was a bit thin, but after using it, a little bit goes a long way. It has a nice lather, but very nicely and easily rinses out." —Kryssy
Get it Amazon for $6.99.
Learn more about this makeup remover by checking out "I Tried The Makeup Remover With Over 1,000 5-Star Reviews From Amazon To See If It Really Works."
36. A variety box of tasty protein-packed cereals to replace the artificially-flavored ones currently in your pantry. These gluten- and sugar-free cereals will make you feel like a kid again (but without the sugar high)!
This variety box comes includes their fruity, frosted, cocoa, and blueberry cereals!
Promising review: "Cereal is basically my favorite food — breakfast, afternoon snack, after-dinner snack, always snack/meal. I used to LOVE getting 'sweet cereal' (as I used to call it), but these days I tend to stick with boring 'adult' boxes as I don't want to overload on sugar. I'm so excited about Magic Spoon — it is literally magical, because it has all the yumminess of sweet cereal (I especially love the cocoa and frosted) without the downsides." —Thea A.
Get one case (four boxes) from Magic Spoon for $39.
37. A jam-packed beauty box from Curlbox if you've been unsure of what your skin and natural hair need for a little too long. Your new hair- and skincare regimens await!
Curlbox is a Black woman-owned haircare company dedicated to making caring for natural hair affordable and easy.
This box contains: Skin + Hair Triple Threat Cream, Skin + Hair Collagen and Rice Water Toner, Skin + Scalp + Hair Vitamin B Serum, Skin + Hair Refining Vitamin C Cleanser, and Eye + Neck + Lip Restore Youth Cream.
Promising review: "My experience with Curlbox has made my journey with my natural hair such an amazing and easy experience! Curlbox never fails at getting the best and hottest products to their customers without breaking the bank. Curlbox has saved my hair!" —Saudia
Get it from Curlbox for $50.
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