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1. An FTM fantasy stroker, which is 4 inches long and has an opening just under an inch wide, offering a tight, but stimulating sensation that can be controlled with a simple stroking motion.
If you want to up the ante, because the opening goes all the way through, you can insert a bullet vibrator at the opposite end to create suction and add some rumbly pleasure.
Promising reviews: "(I'm a returning customer.) Aesthetic? Beautiful! Love the way the colors are balanced and swirled. Design? Inclusive, new, fun. The internal texture is so THOUGHTFUL! It's what initially drew me in compared to other transgender-friendly strokers. Use? Everyone has a unique body. I have been on testosterone for about 2+ years so far, some bottom growth, and I'm a very heavy guy. I used a "pump" beforehand. (I recommend reading more reviews for tips to improve your experience!) It's pretty intense and gender-affirming for me. My favorite part is the open back. Not necessary, but it's a perfect fit for my bullet vibe. So awesome. It works for me. It's custom, affordable, and you can tell that there is love that goes into the production of this store's body-safe toys. From aesthetic appeal, function, and customer service: Perfect!" —Christopher Wilcox
"I’m a (recently) post-op bottom surgery (simple meta) trans man, and this toy is PERFECT. I don’t know if I would have had the same amount of success pre-op, but maybe. Anyway, this toy is amazing. I have a couple strokers from my pre-op days, and they simply don’t compare to this one at all. This one is super soft, has such lovely textures on the inside, and honestly is gorgeous. The only learning curve for me was learning how to hold it down and go at it, since I’ve not really been able to do that before. But that feels just as amazing as using it purely as a stroker. Highly recommend, 10/10, but you definitely need substantial bottom growth to get the full effect." —deCoverly
Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $44 (available in custom color combinations).
Fantasticocks is a woman- and queer-owned small business based in Ohio, creating premium-quality silicone sex toys designed for all bodies and desires.
2. The Trio Plug by B-Vibe, which boasts a triple motor design with eight intensities and nine vibration patterns to deliver a *very* full sensation with pulsating thrusts. Not to mention, it includes a wireless remote effective up to 30 feet away for hands-free play.
Promising review: "I'm a big fan of the Trio. It’s a slim anal plug, so it’s great for folks who are new to anal play. The remote control is perfect for combining with other kinds of sex (or going out to dinner). Plus, it’s rechargeable and made from body-safe silicone. It’s an amazing toy." —Charles
"This is an amazing product! At first glance, the plug looks a little big but it is a perfect size. It is such a new feeling to me that it's hard to describe. Definitely going to have a lot of fun exploring the different settings." —Michael
Get it from B-Vibe for $129.99 (originally $145) or Amazon for $102.83+ (available in purple and black).
B-Vibe is a small business focused on designing a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products and founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
3. The extra-sleek and ergonomic Kip lipstick vibrator by Dame designed with waterproof silicone and five powerful speeds, so you can enjoy pinpointed clitoral stimulation.
Promising reviews: "It’s my first toy and so far really digging the compact shape and different vibrations as I work up to climax." —Pia P.
"This is my first time using a toy... I have been using it for about three weeks now, and have found that it has added a new, fun layer to my (and my partner's) sex life. Although I thought it was a bit pricey, the ethos of the company, the design of the toys, and the packaging ultimately sold me. I highly recommend!" —Claire L.
Get it from Dame for $75 or Amazon for $95 (available in lavender and lemon).
Dame Products is a woman-owned wellness company well-known for their uniquely engineered sex toys (in gender-neutral hues) that encourage and heighten your intimate moments.
4. The Water Slyde, a unique sex toy alternative if you enjoy masturbating in the bath and want to make things a bit easier by bringing the water to you. No more needing to contort yourself in the tub for pleasure!
Make a night out of it with the Bringing Sexy Bath kit, which includes a Water Slyde, massage candle, arousal balm, hair towel wrap and privacy door hanger, so you can enjoy your me-time without interruption.
Promising reviews: "Know what, I was skeptical about it. But I really like how easy it is to use. Imagine being your very own pillow princess. You tell yourself to just relax and enjoy it. It’s empowering and refreshing. You could have your hands free for whatever — for an additional stimulant, for a good book, for anything on your phone, to massage a hair mask into your hair — or you could literally just kick back, because it does the trick on its own too." —Anonymous
"I had been eyeing the Water Slyde for a few years and finally made the purchase! It did not disappoint. It's easy to use and I like how I can just comfortably lay down in the tub. Highly recommend!" —Anonymous
Get it from Lovability for $35 (available in three colors).
Lovability is a woman-owned sex boutique championing inclusive and empowered sexual health with body-safe products and accessories that won't break your budget.
5. A pair of eight centimeter plastic discs designed with a spiked interior to deliver a delectable touch of pain (or pleasure).
BTW, these are designed to be pressed on or have pressure applied to dig into the skin and not for hitting. If you want a similar, but thicker product designed for thwacking or paddling-like impact play, reach out to the seller!
Promising reviews: "What a delightfully painful toy!! My sub hates them. I think they’re an amazing addition to the toy box!! I’ll have her use clover clamps the night before and then wear these for the entire day at work. They certainly have a ‘bite’… Perfect for a discrete punishment!!" —R D
"Holy shit these are incredible. Just the right amount of OW and the right amount of wearability/subtlety/ability to behave normally with them on. I went 'ouch' hand washing them before using them, and 'ouch' when I first pressed one on. I feel very sexy and get really wet with them on my breasts. So basically yeah, super into them. And when you whack one...oh my god. Intense. If you're into light-to-strong-medium levels of pain, you'll like these." —A L
Get a pair from Bondatrix on Etsy for $45.28 (currently only available in gray and black with two pattern options).
Bondatrix is a UK-based, woman-owned small business that specializes in unique BDSM gear and accessories that are perfect for any submissive!
6. A hand-crafted porcelain dildo designed with a bulbous dual-ended design, so you can pick your pleasure. The curves are designed for direct G- or P-spot stimulation and seven inches of length make sure it'll reach. Also — just how cute is this eggplant-and-peaches design!
It's lightweight, dual-ended, designed to reach your favorite spot and seven inches long. This one-of-a-kind beauty doesn't need to vibrate to show off it's elegance. See the rest of the design options here.
I'm going to be real with you, this is the lightest sex toy I own. It's so lightweight that I was honestly afraid to use it because I was like, "this porcelain will shatter inside of me" even though they literally address it in the FAQ, smh. We all know I got it because it's pretty, plus the design is right up my alley! SO. After months, I decided to try it. PEOPLE. Not only did this dildo not shatter inside my vagina, but it also applied the most delectable amount of pressure to my G-spot (I went with the larger end, btw). I also explored using it as a clitoral massager (because that's definitely a thing) and it was fantastic: girthy and smooth, while the design adds a minimal amount of texture. Of course, my pro-tip is that you pair it with a suction vibe for DIY dual stimulation.
Promising reviews: "The Dalia is, as we Americans say, THE BOMB. It is beautiful, excellently crafted and the little book that comes with it is a wonderful, unexpected primer on self-love! I broke mine but am buying another — it's very durable, but don't drop it on the floor in the heat of passion." —M.
"It reaches all kinds of spots that have needed love ❤️ different than any other toy I’ve ever used, so I’m excited to experiment more." —Jessy M.
Get it from Désirables for $141 (or get the original for $117).
Based in Montreal, woman-owned brand Désirables creates luxurious, handcrafted porcelain dildos and massage stones that deliver a one-of-a-kind erotic experience.
7. An improved version of the OG, the Magic Wand Plus has the same reliable plug-in cord, with an updated silicone head and four powerful, rumbly vibrations that might just end up shattering your worldview on pleasure.
The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. Also available in Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).
Promising reviews: "Let’s just say it massages everything better than anyone can massage…" —Matthew
"This product has not only made me ejaculate and given me an explosive lips still vibrating orgasm, it accomplished this in the course of 5 minutes on the "low" setting no less. This is better than anyone I've ever had. Who needs a gigalo? How doth they market themselves? lol! This has been the best single night ever. I may just stay single for this. This is the mack daddy the ohmybegeezers of ohmybegeezerisms. I really am considering cancelling my date this weekend." —Alice Springs1234
Get it from Amazon for $67.25+ (available in four styles).
Vibratex was founded more than 40 years ago by Suzi Spielberg and is currently run by her daughter, Shay Martin. This company is the sole importer and distributor of the iconic Magic Wand vibrators in North America — and lemme tell you, business is booming.
Here's even more wand vibrators if you're in the market, right now!
8. A delectable glass plug with a textured teardrop-shaped bulb and bejeweled flared base for effortless removal and insertion.
Besides looks, this plug boasts a width of 1.5" or 1.8" and a little bit of weight around 4 to 5 ounces, so you'll definitely feel it.
Promising review: "Having purchased, and really enjoy, the Rosebud Delight — green and pink my beautiful lady decided that I needed some further stimulation so she bought me one of these with the medium bulb. All I can say is that if I could only have one plug for the rest of my life this would be the one. It pops in easily and provides amazing sensations. Our only problem is that it looks so beautiful that we really want to use it as an ornament placed in pride of place in our living room. It seems such a shame to hide it in my back passage." —William L.
Get it from Crystal Delights for $134.95+ (available in small and medium).
Crystal Delights is a woman-owned small business that specializes in handcrafted glass sex toys.
9. A Jack 2-in-1 stroker and packer, boasting representational hues and a ribbed cavity that provides suction to the wearer for a stimulating stroke session.
For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.
Promising reviews: "I love this product! The hole is big enough for many sizes to fit and stay on with suction. Amazing and intense stimulation. I tried after using a pump and it helped me stay erect. Best packer I've ever owned and I've owned most of 'em." —Jaki
"My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and 3 years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).
Here's even more sex toys loved by LGBTQ+ reviewers, if you're looking for something more inclusive!
New York Toy Collective is a Black-, queer- and woman-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.
10. An oil-based, hemp-infused massage oil by Coconu that'll help you get in the mood for ~play~ whether you use it topically for extra stimulation or internally as a lubricant.
Promising reviews: "I think this is my very first Amazon review and, wow! This is the absolutely best lube I have tried, and I think I have tried them all! I saw this brand Coconu all over Instagram and was excited to see they’re finally on Amazon for free shipping. The good stuff — it is SO moisturizing both externally and internally, absolutely perfect for every type of massage and intimate action. This is a serious game changer, it’s unlike any other of its kind on the market and you can see from the product photos that it’s completely natural!" —Marie
"What a great product. It's a perfect consistency and really makes a difference. I've tried other brands, but I'm so impressed with this one. It's gentle and it's so comforting to know I'm using safe and natural ingredients. So glad to have found this." —RR
Get it from Amazon for $39.99.
Coconu is a woman-owned sexual wellness brand that designed a line of travel-friendly and body-safe lubricants for all bodies, including the first USDA-certified organic coconut oil-based personal lubricant.
11. The Puff compact suction vibrator boasting five pulsation intensities to help spread the love, leaving you breathless, lusting for more and wondering why you didn't have one before now.
Ah, good ol' Puff. *sighs dreamily* Every time I think I have found a new favorite sex toy, I go back to this one and am reminded all over again why I love it. There's only five intensities: simple, to the point — and I like to start at 3 and end at 5. It's incredible for edging, if you want to enjoy a longer session and it's also perfect for quickies. It's my go-to shower toy because it's waterproof, and I have actually considered just leaving it in the bathroom, but I won't. True story: it died on me the other day mid-session for the first time (I've had it for over a year and maybe charged it...twice?), so the battery lasts longer than you for the most part. Anyways, this is the toy I recommend to all of my friends and I have several who own it, and it's also the toy I recommend to random strangers I meet who are looking for new ways to come because yes...when you're a sex toy writer, that's a thing that happens. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my Unbound Puff review.
Promising review: "Baby, it is the everything for me for real. Puff is my go-to vibe because I know they will get me there every time. (My Puff is non-binary.) The climaxes I have experienced with Puff are life-changing, I even experienced my first long squirt with it too. Don't walk, run and get it." —jugger
Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).
Unbound is a queer- and woman-owned sexual wellness company that breaks the mold with a growing collection of bold dildos and body-safe vibes, not to mention a line of *very* chic BDSM accessories and gear.
12. The innovative Lioness 2.0 vibrator for the tech-savvy masturbator who wants to get off and later read all about it, thanks to this unique vibe that tracks your body's response to arousal and stimulation. Get a vibrator that's both smart and sexy.
Perfect for any research lover, or Virgo for that matter.
Designed with built-in sensors, the Lioness 2.0 helps track the body's response to arousal and stimulation to create "pleasure data" that can actually be seen and read on the phone! They also launched a new feature that allows for long-distance play via remote control in the app, so now both you and a partner can enjoy your orgaasm data!
Idk about you, but I'd like to see what my body does during orgasm in a scientific manner. 🤓
Promising reviews: "The customer service was great when I had issues and followed up to make sure I was taken care of. I know the product is a little bit on the pricier side, but with the features / app / game and honestly the product itself... IT'S WORTH IT. 10/10 would recommend to my friends and family." —Jenn
"For the longest time I was convinced that an orgasm before bed (nice and relaxed, ready for sleeping) was the best I'd ever have. Turns out I'm more likely to have stronger, longer lasting orgasms in the afternoon, and shorter (but just as strong) orgasms first thing in the morning. Having access to multiple graphs, and being able to tag sessions with info that only I would know (after a work day, used THC lube, watched a sexy movie...) really helps me understand how different factors effect my experience, and keep track of details I would otherwise forget or dismiss. Data improves practice. Practice makes perfect. I'm getting so good at orgasms, you guys." —Stormy
Get it from Lioness for $229 (available in purple and gray).
Lioness stems from the lack of research on sex, especially female sexual wellness and pleasure. What better way to answer questions and learn more about the female orgasm and pleasure than enjoying them? And so, two women teamed up to develop the world's first smart vibrator.
13. A hands-free Eva vibrator by Dame that can be used alone or with a partner in case clitoral stimulation is a MUST for your guaranteed satisfaction.
Formally known as the Eva II, the flexible wings are designed to tuck under your labia to help stay put and out of the way during all kinds of play.
Promising reviews: "I was so nervous about trying Eva due to the design and diagrams provided on the website. When I saw there were free returns, I decided, 'Why not?' When Eva arrived, the instructions recommended I try it out without a partner first, so I did, apprehensively. My mind was BLOWN. Not only does Eva make my personal orgasms so much better (and I get to them much quicker), but it has also made reaching simultaneous climax a lot easier to achieve with my husband. I love love love Eva, and can’t recommend this product enough! Even if you are nervous, trust me — you want to try it out." —Louisa C.
Get it from Dame for $135 (available in orange and ice) or Amazon for $145 (available in four colors).
14. The Courtney Harness is a classic chest harness perfect for wearing solo or paired with a plunging top, and it boasts a sturdy O-ring in the middle and two buckles around the neck and back for a halter-style design.
Get it from Kolby Brianne for $100 (available in six color options with custom measurements).
Kolby Brianne is a queer, Black woman based in Connecticut who creates premium handcrafted leather goods to be enjoyed by any and all bodies. All products are available in customized sizes for comfort.
15. A textured vibrating butt plug designed with a tapered end for easy insertion and a T-shaped handle for easy removal. Because sometimes, you just want to feel something.
This delectable collection was designed by B-Vibe and sex educator Zoë Ligon, the self-described "dildo duchess." The small (bump texture), medium (swirl texture) and large (twist texture) plugs each have different textures along with six vibration modes and a splash-proof design. I'm not encouraging you to buy them all but to ask yourself, what's the harm?
Promising review: "The texture plugs are fantastic. The medium was my first B-Vibe product and turned out to be a gateway plug. The medium has a fantastic shape and is easily used in both partner play and the shower. The large has heft and the motor is extremely strong. Time, lube, and patience makes them so easy to enjoy. These are well constructed products worth their premium price." —Kevin
Get it from B-Vibe for $53.99+ (originally $90+ and available in three sizes).
16. A customizable silicone grinding pad offered in whimsical color mixes and designed with silicone ticklers and ridges — over 80 individual nubs — to stimulate your favorite external genitalia.
This unique grinding pad comes with two straps, so you can attach it to a pillow, bathtub ledge or even your lover's thigh or forearm. It can also be used as a sleeve when held in the hand.
Promising review: "INCREDIBLE OH MY GOD??? Product feels so good on bottom growth (people on testosterone rise up plssss) and it’s amazing for solo or partner play, easy to clean and maintain AND I strap it to my thigh for my partner to grind on. :)" —Jillian Mckenzie
"SO easy to use and SO good! Def recommend if you're ftm/trans-masc (especially with bottom growth)!!! One of my first toys and I was stunned." —stinky frijoles
Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $53 (available in custom color combinations).
17. Runi's Play Primer is an arousal cream created with aloe vera gel, CBD, and hyaluronic acid for a libido-heightening product that offers a lot of slip to your sessions.
Promising reviews: "As someone who suffers with pelvic floor dysfunction, I always love trying new products to help with pain during intercourse, and this is so much better than anything else on the market. My only complaint is that I didn't buy more!" —Estie M.
"BROUGHT THIS ON VACATION, AND WOW MAMA — had me moaning like I have never moaned before! Thought I was going to get kicked out of the hotel for a noise complaint. I came four times in one session; I was on fire! Buying three more because I'll be having sex five times daily." —Samantha B.
Get it from Runi for $44.
Runi is a Black, woman-owned sexual wellness company founded by a "Zillenial" hoping to cultivate a community of women who celebrate pleasure as an essential aspect of sexual health.
18. A minimalist vibrator that boasts three speeds and a tapered tip for targeted stimulation. This vibe includes a convenient canvas carrying bag for when you eventually decide to take it on the go.
Promising review: "Somehow, I’ve made it to 29 years old never taking care of myself. I know, it’s crazy, but it always weirded me out; so keep that in mind for my review. This was a great intro to self-care. It’s the perfect size and not intimidating at all. I found that other types were a crazy size or function. It was overwhelming and a little scary. But I’m really glad I bought this. This is perfect size and features for me. It has three vibe strengths and are constant vibes. The material is soft. I used this with the aloe lube (I don’t know if that’s a thing but I did it) and really liked the combo. It comes with a little zip pouch to store it. The mini lube + toy + charger all fit so it’d be good for travel. I think it would be fun to use with my partner, too. If this is your first, I highly recommend it." —Amy
Get it from Maude for $49 (available in three colors).
Maude is a female-founded wellness company that prioritizes quality and function over aesthetics, offering a simple line of sexual wellness essentials that boast a modern and minimalist design.
19. A nylon resin male chastity cage that offers a smooth and comfortable form of orgasm denial to anyone with a penis. This well-ventilated cage comes in three sizes with only three pieces — cage, ring, and lock — making it perfect for beginners and experienced kinksters.
Cage lengths offered are: 1.77 inches, 2.56 inches, 3.35 inches, 3.74 inches, and 4.13 inches. Each cage comes with four rings, so you can find the perfect fit (ring sizes range from 1.69 inches wide to 2 inches wide).
Promising reviews: "It's super comfy! I've slept in it, worn it to work, out doing physical activities... I only wish there was an even smaller cage option for additional fun." —Morgan A.
"So! Medium is my size! Yay! I have so many colors now I can kinda mix and match. I'm very happy with this cage. Colors are great, they are very smooth with next to no pinching. I don't know much about other cages, but I'm a big fan of these. I'm definitely going to get another! 😅" —noah b.
Get it from The Taboo Boutique on Etsy for $39.99 (also available in black).
The Taboo Boutique is a woman-owned small business based in Raleigh that specializes in making comfortable cages for your favorite penis.
20. A dual-stimulating vibrator to make your eyes roll way way way back into your head with its rotating internal G-spot shaft and "licking" clitoral arm. You deserve simultaneous orgasms whenever you're in the mood.
There are seven patterns in the shaft and seven intensities in the external arm, not to mention this toy is waterproof and versatile (AKA, yes, you can get in a different position and get a rim job if you want).
Promising reviews: "My new favorite! It vibrates on both ends and you can change the settings so they both vibrate at different times. Long battery life. 10/10 recommend." —Danielle L.
"Love it! Super soft to the touch. Gets the job done as you like it. Many different options as the rotator and licker can be on separately and reach having several setting. Feels great and relieves stress! The licker makes almost no noise. The rotator however is a little louder.. the rotator not very discreet. Love that it is waterproof as well since I love a hot soak in the bubble bath!!" —Candance S.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $68.99 (originally $79.99 and available in three colors).
Honey Play Box is a sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure being positive, inclusive and accessible.
21. A popular hand-sculpted Shilo dildo by New York Toy Collective designed with a poseable core, so you're always ready to pack and play with this toy. It also comes in flesh tone and whimsical hues, so you can make sure your dick is the perfect extension of your truest self.
The Shilo dildo is harness-compatible and anal safe, and boasts an insertable length of 6.25 inches and 1.5 inches of girth. A prominent realistic tip offers targeted stimulation to G- or P-spots.
Promising review: "This dildo is seriously impressive. As a pack’n’play toy, it offers a wide range of value! It folds comfortably and discreetly into the pants (albeit with some effort initially) for long-term wear, feels soft between the legs when walking and sitting, pops out to an impressive length (and girth) when readying for play, looks and feels ultra realistic to the touch (except bigger, according to my girlfriend), and gives an incredible orgasm, to me as well as my partner, surprisingly! The large base pressed right up against my clit through my spareparts harness! Not as intense as a vibrator or double ended toy, for sure, but a pleasant sensation nonetheless, and my partner gets the benefit of the huge bulbous head rolling across the G and A spots, as well as the soft, almost skin-like texture massaging everything else, and the realistic veins add a nice touch as well! Altogether, a WONDERFUL experience, from start to finish. I definitely recommend this for people who like experimenting with gender expression, but it would be a delight for everyone else too!" —Anna
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $159 (available in four fleshtone and seven whimsical colors).
22. A popular boxer brief harness that offers comfort and does away with complicated buckles and straps, so you can focus more on the actual pleasure of the moment.
These cotton-blend boxers are double layered for dependable support and can accommodate dildos with a 1.5-inch O-ring diameter on the base. Two interior pockets for bullet vibrators are strategically placed around the O-ring to add a little more rumble. Check out the site for more colors and prints!
Promising review: "Rodeoh boxers are possibly one of the best inventions for a lesbian couple. They are just 'normal' high quality boxers that my wife wears under normal clothing and within seconds we can be 'playing!' None of the faffing about with silly harnesses, it’s just simply put on and put in!" —S&V
"I am a bisexual female, and my boyfriend happens to be a bisexual male. Rodeoh opened a whole new world for us. Strap-ons have been very awkward and uncomfortable for me, which took away from the experience. This morning we were finally able to make love in an entirely new way. I feel in love with my sexy bottom boy all over again, and then all we had to do was slide them on and start round two. Thank you so much for such an awesome product!" —Carmen
Get the banana print from Rodeoh for $49.99 (available in sizes M–3X).
Rodeoh is a woman-operated small business based in San Francisco that designs and curates inclusive and gender-affirming sexual wellness products.
23. A unique, strap-on compatible dildo equipped with an ergonomic base that grinds against the wearer's clit, so you and your lover can both get off no matter which role you like to play.
Promising review: "I've been on both the giving and receiving side with this toy and really enjoyed it. My girlfriend was able to orgasm from topping with a strap-on for the first time with this toy. The texture and firmness of the toy are also great." —Anonymous
Get it from Wet for Her for $59.35 (originally $65.95; available in three sizes).
Wet For Her is a lesbian-owned sex shop that offers toys designed specifically for queer sex, such as strap-on harnesses, scissoring toys and even dildos that take the act of fingering to an entirely new level.
24. Unbound's Clutch is a dual-stimulating vibrator designed with a wide ergonomic handle for effortless use and positioning, so you can find the perfect angle to enjoy it. Did I mention it has dual motors, so the internal and external arms can be controlled individually and offer up to 120 setting combinations? Well, now you know.
The internal arm has a rumbly thrusting motion with five intensity and five speed settings. The external arm boasts seven vibration intensities and five speed settings. Each can be controlled by its own individual button. And of course, in true Unbound fashion, this vibe is waterproof.
I've never had a thrusting toy before, but one of my besties raves about hers. And of course, rabbit vibrators can be difficult to line up with your anatomy and not a one-size-fits-all option. But Unbound is all about making sure their toys are accessible for both able-bodied and disabled users, so Clutch has a lot more flexibility to play with than other rabbits. Now, I love dual stimulation, but for me, the thrusting function is the best part of this toy. Chef's kiss, spot on stimulation — I definitely explore the different thrusting modes more than I do the external arm, they are that good. The clitoral stim is great too, typical vibrating settings, but I've found that it doesn't apply a lot of pressure without some manual help (because not all rabbits are perfect). But once I have it lined up, it's off to a whole new world for me. Make sure to pair it with lube, of course.
Promising review: "I have a few other rabbit-style vibrators and expected this to feel much the same. Well, I was wrong. It is a completely different feel and awesome addition to my collection! The vibrations and waves are unlike anything else that I have and great for switching things up!" —Taylor R.
Get it from Unbound for $98 (available in mint/sea and quartz/coral).
25. An oh-so-convenient Ohnut set constructed with a stretchy, body-safe material to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration.
This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation. Though it's stretchy, Ohnut is designed in two sizes: Classic and Wider, which can be determined based on condom sizing!
Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.
Get it from Ohnut for $65 (available in jade and aloe).
Ohnut Co. is a women-founded and small business wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.
26. A fantasy packer for trans guys designed with a flexible tentacle in soft silicone, so you can adjust it to whatever fits your most authentic self.
The packer is 5.75 inches long from the base to the tip and has a girth of 3.75 inches near the base.
Promising review: "I've been using this product for a while now and the gender euphoria is very real for an enby like me who wants the feel and shape of a packer without it looking like an anatomical human phallus. Amazing customer service too after a misunderstanding on my end about the color. This maker truly cares about your satisfaction and was very easy to work with for me, I would definitely recommend them!" —Sam Brown
"My friends 'sponsored' my recent purchases here and had very specific requests to customize each item so they could be based on experiences from a recent trip together, and this was one of them. I'm impressed by how well the shop owners honored those requests to make some beautiful tentacles. This is my first packer I've ever owned, and I love this little guy so much. My friend asked for an ocean wave aesthetic for this one, and the result is breathtakingly gorgeous in person. It's a small packer, which is what I was looking for, and it looks cool seeing the outline of the tentacle suckers through my underwear. It stays decently in place even without a packing pouch, and it feels great to the touch. The material and the pour makes it very stimmy on a visual and tactile level. Very happy to have this one as my first packer. :)" —Myles
Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $49 (available in assorted custom color combinations).
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27. A Horoscope Pleasure Kit that includes a gemstone necklace for your zodiac sign, a clitoral enhancement balm and a chic, minimalist bullet vibrator to help you manifest an orgasm.
The clitoral balm has a warming effect to help increase your pleasure as you play and the miniature vibrator has three intensities and seven vibration settings. A convenient elastic band helps keep it in place around your finger. TBH, the zodiac gemstone necklace does nothing to help you orgasm, but it's cute, and also helps make this trio a perfect gift for the Scorpio, Sagittarius, Capricorn, or Aquarius babes in your life!
Promising review: "This is a great quiet convenient device. The balm is a nice scent and the necklace is nice. I wish the clasp on the necklace was a little larger as it is difficult to open once on the neck, but not impossible." —Andrea L.
Get it from Bijoux Indiscrets for $40 (available for each sign).
Bijoux Indiscrets is a woman-owned and -led company that designs intimate cosmetics and pleasure toys that stand out from typical depictions of female pleasure to help women feel comfortable exploring their bodies and sexuality.
Here's even more finger vibrators if you've been wanting to do more hand stuff!
28. A silicone Fin vibrator from Dame because it'll transform your fingers into all-powerful orgasm machine. From sensual massages to classic fingering, this toy definitely ups the ante on all hand stuff.
A removable tether allows for more or less control, while the pointy tip and squishy side offer different sensations to your favorite spots.
Promising review: "I was looking for a vibrator that was easy to use, that would allow me to stimulate my clitoris while my husband was penetrating me and Fin is the perfect solution. Comfortable to use, without getting in the way, and semi-quiet so there's no super loud, annoying, and distracting buzzing sound. Soft/smooth, glides nicely, great quality, and three varying speeds for just the right amount of pleasure." —Cristen M.
Get it from Dame for $55 (available in three colors) or Amazon for $66.37+ (available in four colors).
29. An eye-catching glass anal plug filled with glittery glass beads and adorned with a crystal on the flared base, making this a #MustHave ass-cessory for your booty.
Promising review: "This was the first item I got from Crystal Delights. When I tell you this thing is prettier in person, it is! It’s comfy and cute! A win-win for sure." —Nyla D.
Get it from Crystal Delights for $39.95 (available in seven colors).
30. The RockHer scissoring vibrator by Wet for Her, designed for wearability with a textured G-spot bulb and vibrating clitoral ring that deliver 10 scintillating vibration modes with a wireless remote control.
Promising reviews: "It’s been great for my transmasculine nonbinary partner and I trying to switch things up in the bedroom. I use it with a strap on." —Tina
"A must have for lesbians :). Thanks." —Megan
Get it from Wet for Her for $79.95 (originally $88.45).
31. The Namii is a two-in-one clitoral stimulator equipped with five suction intensities and five vibration settings. It's ergonomic shape fits effortlessly in your hands, and even better, can be used hands-free!
This soft silicone sex toy is also waterproof, making baths and showers a true delight. Plus, the charger works as a nightlight!
Promising reviews: "A true delight. The texture is soft and pleasant. The ergonomics are perfect. The suction and vibration mix brings incredible sensations. It has proudly taken place in my collection of sex toys." —Nathalie F.
"Namii has its own place on my bedside table! I love playing around with the different modes, my favorite being putting the suction and vibration on at the same time and squeezing it between my thighs!" —Meghan R.
Get it from Biird for $119 (available in three colors).
Biird is a woman-owned small business based in the Netherlands that's creating unique sex toys (like this one) and sex-positive accessories.
32. The XO chrome vibe by Le Wand, a unique internal massager designed for dual stimulation with dual motors in the tip and and tapered base to stimulate your prostate, A- or G-spot.
This vibrator has six intensity levels with 15 vibration modes that rumble through both the tip and base to simultaneously stimulate the clit *and* G-spot or *perineum* and prostate (or A-spot!). It's also shower-friendly, if you want to get a little wet, and has a travel-lock for when you want to take it on the go!
Get it from Le Wand for $159.99 (available in three colors).
Le Wand was founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair and is known for upgrading everyone's tried and true favorite, the wand vibrator, to a more luxurious and tech-savvy version.
33. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. Whether getting off alone or with a partner, this pillow will be there when you need it.
This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.
Promising reviews: "Everything it’s promised to be and more! Also can be used as a yoga cushion prop! Such a win-win!!" —Jeannie Z.
"The angle was incredible for both of us. My wife had never experienced a G-spot and clit orgasm at the same time, ever! Also she didn’t want to stop! It is a bit firm, but we feel that lends to the pleasure. We have had other pillows in the past, but way too bulky and big. This is priced right too." —Kerry D.
34. A faux leather paddle with "inappropriate" words mirrored on it, so when you spank your lover or sub with a love tap it leaves a readable impression.
Options for words include "XOXO," "Slave," "Love," "Slut," and "Ouch."
Promising review: "I absolutely LOVE it. I got the ‘love’ paddle and I can say it works perfectly 🥵 plus the item quality is great! Thanks again x." —Kaytee Louise
Get it from Pretty Inappropriate on Etsy for $19.19+ (with nine word options).
Pretty Inappropriate is a family- and woman-owned small business based in Illinois that creates naughty keepsakes and gifts.
35. The Le Wand Feel My Power 2022 wand, a limited edition vibe that includes universal chargers, lots of swag, and also quite possibly be the most powerful rechargeable wand you've ever encountered.
This is quite literally my favorite wand because of how powerful it is! The patterns and the vibration intensities have a wide range and you can enjoy them individually rather than having to scroll through all 10 vibration intensities and then 20 patterns. Also, it's so fucking cute. Be careful, it has a bit of weight to it, which I don't mind very much, but it definitely comes into play depending on what position you want to use (ex. sitting, grinding, lying back, etc.). This is one of my go-to sex toys for when I want something quick and powerful or I'll put it on the low settings for some edging.
This limited edition wand includes branded stickers, a keychain, an iron-on patch, an embroidery kit, a limited edition storage bag, postcards, and a pleasure guide.
Get it from Le Wand for $99 (originally $225).
36. The Whim by Pelle is a set of two unique silicone grinding toys that offer broad stimulation with dual-sided designs — one with waves and one with grooves — and versatile use for grinding, rubbing, and definitely exploring.
Word on the street is that you can also use this as a DIY stroker. 👀 Warm up Whim by placing it in warm water or holding it close for awhile to retain body heat. This toy is waterproof, body-safe, and compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants.
Promising reviews: "I bought these because they're unlike anything in my collection. Of course, they're fantastic for humping / grinding, but I think my favorite way to use them is to wear them inside my underwear when I'm home cooking, running errands, or stuck in traffic. The Pelle whim provides just the right amount of pleasure for me; not quite enough for a climax, but certainly enough to keep me smiling when I'm out in public. And no one is the wiser. ;)" —Amber
"I was super intrigued but also really hesitant at first. It almost seemed too good to be true. I'm so happy I finally decided to splurge, I wish I'd done it way sooner! The whim(s) are soft, easy to clean and discreet. Out of my large toy collection this is definitely my favorite. Perfect amount of stimulation without being overwhelming." —Blu
Get it from Pelle for $98.
Pelle is a queer woman-owned small business that created an innovative, soft, and gentle sex toy for people to hump, grind, and explore their bodies. Each toy is handmade in small batches and compatible with all bodies.
37. A harness and dildo combo kit whether you and your lover are experienced strap-on users and looking for something new or you're a beginner exploring new territory.
The lightweight harness boasts adjustable straps and an O-ring compatible with dildos up to 2.25 inches wide. It is also machine washable, and once you've found your perfect fit, you can simply slip it on and off like a pair of underwear. Meanwhile, the included dildo boasts a gentle curve and is compatible with water-based and hybrid lubricants for a feel-good time.
Promising reviews: "This was my first strap-on purchase and I am impressed by the quality and value of this product! You have made two lesbians very happy." —Anonymous
"Thank you for making a toy for lesbians. You know, women who love women, not realistic veiny penis lookalikes. This little gem is firm but soft enough to give in the right spots. I cannot say enough about the thoughtful design. You have to hold it to understand fully. We will be buying another in a different size to change things up. I prefer smaller, my wife likes larger, and WFH has us covered!" —Meredith
Get it from Wet for Her for $152.92 (originally $179.90; harness available in three colors and sizes XS-5X and dildo available in two sizes).
And make sure to check out this round-up of sex toys to help elevate your relationship!
38. A CBD-infused water-based lubricant to keep things slippery and fun while you play. It's also odorless and flavorless, meaning great for oral sex!
Promising reviews: "I wanted to try something new and BAAABEEE!!!! WE love it😉!!! It doesn’t have a smell and no taste!!!" —Love
"This stuff is incredible. Hands down the best I've ever tried. When they say it mimics they mean it." —D.P.
Get it from Earth's Dew for $59.99.
Earth's Dew is an LA-based, Black- and woman-owned small business creating everything wellness-related from tea blends and body butter to CBD and hemp wellness products. They use organic farming practices and prioritize all-natural and ethically-sourced ingredients for their products.
39. An ice serpent ovipositor dildo that comes with three silicone eggs for anyone who's wanted to feel the rush of laying an egg.
The ovipositor has an insertable length of seven inches, and each egg is 1.75" H x 1" W with a flat bottom. Recommended for vaginal use only with water-based lube.
Promising review: "Came almost as fast as I did! I was super impressed by the packaging inside, not something I've gotten from other sellers so that was a really nice surprise! The colors on this guy are really vibrant and the smooth texture and squishy consistency make it really easy slip him in and get started! I've owned a couple of different ovipositor toys but this one by far is my favorite!" —Yue Cheung
Get it from Mythical Toy Creations on Etsy for $109.48.
Mythical Toys is a woman-owned, UK-based small business boutique that sells fantasy sex toys to enhance sexual desires.
40. Lorals latex underwear offers hands-free STI protection for vulva owners during all forms of queer sex, including rimming and cunnilingus. Plus, they look cute AF!
Lorals are designed to look exactly like underwear and created with a thin, but stylish latex material that allows for maximum sensation while still preventing skin-to-skin contact without sacrificing pleasure. All Lorals are single-use, vanilla-scented, made of natural rubber latex, and available in bikini and shortie styles for sizes 0-20 (US).
There are Lorals for Pleasure, designed for use during fingering, rimming and oral sex; FDA-cleared Lorals for Protection*, which are specifically for preventing the transmission of STIs, bodily fluids, and harmful pathogens; and Lorals for Comfort.
*Lorals for Protection are cleared by the US FDA and only available for purchase in the United States.
Get it from Lorals for $25 (available in sizes 0-20, two styles and two colors).
Before Lorals, there were dental dams (reappropriated from dentistry), cut-up condoms, and Saran wrap as the go-to forms of protection for vulva owners during oral sex. This queer- and woman-owned company wanted to change that by creating a chic form of protection for vulva-owners that did away with dental dams by keeping things sexy and comfortable in the bedroom and beyond.
41. A silicone eggplant dildo that's so realistic I had to double-check that it is indeed a sex toy, and yes, this behemoth is 7.9 inches long and 2.4 inches wide at its widest point. I bet if you come while using this you scream out OH-bergine!
This dildo is designed with thermochromatic pigments, so it changes from dark purple to blue as it warms up to your body temperature.
Promising review: "I'd been coveting several SelfDelve toys for many months before finally treating myself to them for Christmas. I really couldn't love this any more, it's maxed out my love. It's an absolute delight. Its size, shape and firmness are absolutely spot on, the colours are beautiful and I love that they change when warm, the seller was super friendly and communicative, everything about it is divine. The packaging was beautifully thought out; it came in a breathable bag with a seal that showed when it had been opened and was packed with black tissue paper in a tin it can be stored in. All around a tiptop experience buying from SelfDelve, highly recommend." —Domino
"Absolutely great!!! The material is super pleasant, beautifully processed, not too hard and not too soft. It can be introduced wonderfully from both sides, so you can slowly approach the size. The color change is a nice additional effect. Very friendly service and fast delivery. In short, a really nice product and highly recommended!" —Sabine
Get it from Self Delve on Etsy for $98.51.
Self Delve is a woman-owned, small business artisan sex shop known for their line of realistic "Garden of Eden" inspired sex toys. All of their sex toys are created with premium silicone and thermochromatic pigments that change color when they reach body temperature.
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42. The Try Me box includes a variety of sample-sized lubricants, massage oils and stimulants, assorted vegan condoms, and a travel-friendly, body-safe sex toy.
It also includes a small sexual wellness book for anyone who wants to explore their pleasure.
Or, skip straight ahead to the Indulge Me box which includes the same things as the Try Me in travel or sample sizes, except the featured sex toy is valued up to $100 — because with this box, you already know what you want and you want it now.
Promising review: "Wonderful items if you're not sure what you will like or just want to get started. I was really surprised by the quality of the products. Nothing was to intimidating and the value is definitely there. Will probably be purchasing again in the future. We loved everything we got but wish there was more of a way to customize preferences prior to receiving the box." —Jessica D.
Get it from Organic Loven for $55+.
Organic Loven is a Black- and woman-owned online retail shop with specially-curated collections of sex toys and wellness products, ranging from books and lube to adult subscription boxes and even personal shopping consultations.
43. An automatic masturbator designed with an actual handle for effortless stroking. Plus, this toy has seven vibration patterns and four thrusting patterns to deliver a sucking sensation during play.
Promising reviews: "I recently broke up with my partner and was getting sick of my left hand. I then found this gem, and WOW, is it like magic! It has just the right tempos to bring you to that point of no return and the right grip to push you over the edge. Now, I'm not even in a rush for a new partner! :D" —Matthew C.
"This is an easy masturbator to use; you just stick your member in, and the machine does all the work. The variation of speeds will make this work for anyone, whether you like it quick and sturdy or you like to go slow and steady. You surely will be happy with the outcome of this machine, and your member will thank you. The hammer shape makes you feel that you are holding the one and only but in sex toy form. You will truly feel like Thor when you use this masturbator, and feel the lightning-like feeling from your member to your toes. That ultimate tingling sensation when you release. Grab the hammer and just let it do its magic." —Alex
Get it from Honey Play Box for $89.99 (originally $113.99).
44. A G-spot vibrator from beloved minimalist intimacy brand, Maude, that boasts five powerful speeds and a girthy curve designed to reach your favorite spots.
Spot, the G-spot vibrator, is designed specifically for internal stimulation with water-resistant, soft-touch silicone. The toy includes a charger and carrying case for discretion.
Promising reviews: "For background: I’m a 22-year-old woman and have owned 6–10 sex toys in my life. This one’s awesome and my favorite. For one: it isn’t purple. Why is every vibrator purple? Second, it’s only straight vibration so no patterns to awkwardly click through. Next thing I love: it’s so pretty. And such a good size! Not too big, but not too small. Alright finally, the brand itself is so simple. The colors are simple and aesthetic. The design of the spot is pared down to fulfill what you want without any extra shitty extras. When every other vibrator is a jack of all trades, the Spot vibrator is the master of one — and I adore them for it. I love it. :)" —Kathryn M.
"Firstly, I got to say that I love the design! It's so minimalistic that I can display it like a piece of art on top of my nightstand. Its shape is subtle, as with all of Maude's sex toys, that I had to point out that it was in fact a sex toy for a friend to realize what it was by my bed! Lastly, it delivers! Both in its name and its performance, it really hits the spot. I orgasmed twice in one sitting with the help of this toy. Cheers Maude!" —Louis K.
Get it from Maude for $79 (available in three colors).
45. An innovative Pulse warming lube dispenser, so you can get the right amount of lube without the hassle of leakage, slippery hands or accidental stains.
This warming dispenser comes with four specially made lubricant pods that can be inserted with ease, warmed at the touch of a button and dispensed with motion-sensor technology. It includes two water-based lubricants and two silicone-based lubricants, for your pleasure (and both lubes have refillable pods you can purchase!).
Promising reviews: "What a brilliant and much-needed innovation in women’s sexual health. Where have you been all my life? This is a luxury I will no longer live without. A new way...having conveniently dispensed warm lubes and massage oil for personal use...now I can’t imagine it any other way. So nice and lovely. Everyone should have one bedside. You can unplug it like an iPhone and discreetly tuck it away when kids are around :-). I appreciated that I received an initial supply of each lube with the order of the warming dispenser. The personal lubricants and massages oil are scent-free and really convenient to use. If interested, I wrote separate reviews of each when I ordered more of all of them. I prefer Aloe-ahh for my lube but if hydration is more important for you, H2Oh! might be your preference; it is all so personal. :) Spoil Me is a great massage oil!" —Ann S.
"If you've ever been 'in the moment' and needed a little help with lubrication, you know how unsexy it is to stop, open a bottle, squirt (probably too much) lube into your hand and everywhere, and then try to get back in the mood again. The Pulse bridges that gap and makes it really easy to keep the vibe going without interruption. It dispenses exactly the right amount, warms it up for you so you/partner are not shocked with cold, and allows you to continue the fun. It's a nice change from the old routine, it feels amazing, and honestly I'm never going back. I ordered some of the additional pods and I'm glad I did because I'm going through this stuff at twice the normal speed now, haha. Seriously though, this stuff is a life-changer." —Billy
Get it from Amazon for $199 (available with lubricants or massage oil).
Pulse is a woman-owned and woman-founded company that created this dispenser because they wanted a mess-free and hygienic way to use lube and massage oils in the bedroom. Those lubes and oils are all FDA-cleared and developed with hydrating formulas.
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