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    63 Valentine's Day Gifts That'll Put Their Ex To Shame

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    1. A handmade ring featuring the cityscape of your choice.

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    Get it from CaitlynMinimalist on Amazon for $28.62 (available in three finishes and lots of cities).

    2. I Choose You (Every Day & Always) — a charming and relatable book about how your love is a conscious choice and something you build together.

    Amazon

    It's llustrated by Yumi Sakugawa, who you might know from one of the most relatable comics of all time.

    Get it from Amazon for $8.87 or from a local bookseller through Indiebound.

    3. A Fizzics beer system that makes cans or bottles of beer feel like draft beer.

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    The system uses fluid dynamics and sound technology to change the texture of the beer. It'll give each drink a nice foam head and make it taste like it was poured fresh from the tap. I've taste-tested beers and ciders that went through the Fizzics system and I can confirm they taste fresher and smoother!

    Promising review: "I was very hesitant at first about making the purchase, but after using this for the first time, I’m so happy I did. If you’re a beer lover, this is a must-have in your home. I may have to buy more of these for gifts." —Shawn Woodward

    Get it from Amazon for $124.99.

    4. An assortment of nuts that walnut fail to impress this Valentine's Day.

    Amazon

    It has walnuts, almonds, cashews, pralenes, pistachios, and mixed nuts.

    Get it from Amazon for $29.95.

    5. A multi-use skillet with room to cook a bunch of food at once, so you don't even have to wake up that early to surprise your SO with breakfast.

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    Promising review: "Now that I have cooked a few meals with this pan I can honestly say that I will no longer be needing all my other pans. It just does it all. Cooking multiple ingredients at the same time and then infusing them together to mix the flavors is something that I have never been able to do before. Keep the pan at a medium heat to always get the best cook because food cook differently and you can take your time in preparing your meal. I recommend this to pretty much anyone that likes to cook and mostly to the ones that dread it! A++" —Dan S

    Get it from Amazon for $31.62.

    6. A couple's Question a Day journal that helps you two log and track your journey of ~love~.

    Amazon

    You each answer one question every day for a year, and then go back and re-answer those same questions for five years in a row. At the end, you'll be able to see how much you've grown and in what ways you've stayed the same.

    Promising review: "Only two weeks in, this journal has become much more than 'a fun little exercise.' It is something that I look forward to doing every morning when I wake up. It has become a part of my daily routine, and I can't wait to answer the questions day after day. My boyfriend most definitely feels the same way. Not only is it fun, this journal has been the beginning of a lot of great conversations in our relationship. Even the silliest questions, (ie "What's the softest thing you are wearing today?") are a cause for self-reflection and discussion, since I get to wear my PJs (I work from home), and my boyfriend's softest thing are his socks (poor sucker goes into a corporate office day after day). More serious questions have led to conversations about race (we are an interracial couple), culture, body image, etc. I am truly looking forward to seeing how our answers change over the years, and I can't wait to see all of the questions that are in store for us for the upcoming year!" —S.Kahlon

    Get it from Amazon for $13.74.

    7. A subscription to Winc — a service that mails them tasty wines right to their door.

    Winc

    I've used Winc a lot and I recommend it to pretty much everyone. All the wines are delicious and come in beautifully designed bottles. It's super convenient having a cache of wine ready to go. You never know when guests might stop by! Best of all, if you ship four or more bottles, shipping is free! Due to certain state laws, you can't mail Winc to people living in AK, AL, AR, DE, HI, KY, MI, MS, OK, RI, SD, or UT. Read my whole review of this awesome service.

    Get it from Winc for $13+/bottle.

    8. A pair of baseball park map glasses to celebrate their favorite team, even if you're a fan of the rival team.

    UncommonGoods

    Get them from UncommonGoods for $35 (available in 13 teams).

    9. A mini tin of Tabasco chocolate proving their theory that hot sauce really does taste good on everything.

    Vermont Country Store

    Get it from Amazon for $7.27 or two from Vermont Country Store for $14.90.

    10. A Nudes photo album you can fill with tasteful boudoir photos, or just regular photos of the two of you hanging out.

    Urban Outfitters

    Get it from Urban Outfitters for $14.99.

    11. An elegant initial necklace for a seemingly thoughtful gift, even if you buy it super last minute. Thank yooou, Amazon Prime!

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $9.95 (available in all the letters).

    12. A Schrute Farms sweatshirt worth giving a really good TripAdvisor review for.

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $24.95+ (available in sizes S–4XL and 24 colors).

    13. And a custom star mug you can give them, even if they forgot to go to Kelly's America's Got Talent viewing party.

    stampoutonline

    Get it from stampoutonline on Etsy for $17.99+ (available with or without a proof).

    14. Aaaand a game of Guess Who? to really test their Office knowledge.

    TheOfficeFans

    Get it from TheOfficeFans on Etsy for $49.99.

    15. A bag of Death Wish Coffee for people who like their coffee as black and intense as the Grim Reaper's cloak.

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    Promising review: "I AM DRINKING THIS COFFEE RIGHT NOW AND I CANNOT STOP SHOUTING AND WRITING IN CAPS LOCKS IT IS SO GOOD AND IT IS SUPER CAFFEINATED AND PUNCTUATION IS FOR LOSERS THAT LIKE WEAK COFFEE" —A. Smith

    Get it from Amazon for $18.99.

    16. Or a subscription to Atlas Coffee Club so their taste buds can travel to new countries every morning.

    Atlas Coffee Club

    Atlas Coffee Club sources their ingredients using sustainable farming practices, roast the beans as soon as you place an order, and make ordering a snap. You can purchase individual bags to sample (though some are only available with a subscription), or sign up for the delivery service so your loved one can receive different bags biweekly or monthly. See BuzzFeed's review of this coffee subscription service.

    Get a three-month gift subscription from Atlas Coffee for $60.

    17. Why So Ever Bards Dispense Profanity — a fun party game that uses actual Shakespeare quotes to create some pretty hilarious situations.

    Amazon

    The game works a lot like Cards Against Humanity or Know Your Meme. A player puts down a prompt and all the other players put down cards with Shakespeare quotes on them. This isn't for kids: The results can get pretty smutty.

    Promising review: "THIS GAME IS IMPOSSIBLE NOT TO ENJOY, whether you know anything about Shakespeare or not — it makes no difference. I had no idea how much wit and how much 'inappropriate' language are in his plays. It's extremely easy to learn so you aren't wasting time reading instructions. In fact, the very-brief instructions say to just play until you get bored. ;-) Nothing serious about this game!" —Long Beach Native

    Get it from Amazon for $24.95.

    18. A pair of heart mugs and bamboo spoons we're sure will be their cup of tea.

    Amazon

    And pick up some red-colored hibiscus tea for the full effect!

    Get them from Amazon for $19.97.

    19. A pizza box filled with 'za-themed socks we promise aren't too cheesy.

    Amazon

    Get a box of four pairs from Amazon for $25.99 (available in two sizes).

    20. A heart-shaped box full of jerky, for loved ones who are always saying they prefer salty over sweet.

    Man Crates

    Get it from Man Crates for $34.99.

    21. Or a salami bouquet to give to the best person you'll ever meat.

    Food52

    This gourmet salami comes from Olympia Provisions so it's more than just a novelty gift.

    Get it from Food52 for $50+ (available in two sizes).

    22. A five-pound bag of Albanese gummy bears to give to your sweetie with a sweet tooth.

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    Or are they more of a Haribo person?

    Get it from Amazon for $13.68.

    23. And a Quip toothbrush to make sure that sweet tooth doesn't get a ton of cavities after all that gummy-gorging.

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    I have a Quip and I'm never going back to ordinary toothbrushes. It has a pleasant buzz without being too intense and has a sleek design that fits nicely in your hand. Conveniently, they mail you replacement heads and batteries, so you never have to deal with worn out bristles. It also won our budget category for the best electric toothbrush on BuzzFeed Reviews.

    Promising review: "I was skeptical of getting an electric tooth brush but after the first day of use I was hooked! The sleek design and the carrier that sticks to the mirror is very aesthetically pleasing. I'm also one to stick to routine and the 30 second quadrant interval buzz helps feed to that. My gums were sensitive the first week but after using this more they are sparkly clean! My dentist said my teeth and gums are extra healthy and clean! I definitely recommend it!" —Mosancz

    Get it from Quip for $25+ (available in multiple plans).

    24. A beer-scented soap for the perfect add-on present when you want to shower them in gifts.

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $9.99.

    25. A book full of prompts on why you love them, because sometimes you need a little help finding the words.

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $7.50.

    26. Hot honey or truffle hot sauce to bring some 🔥heat🔥 to the relationship.

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    I've tried Mike's Hot Honey and I think everyone will love it! Read my review of that spicy ambrosia.

    Get the hot honey for $6.99 or the truffle hot sauce for $17.98 from Amazon.

    27. A custom pet pillow of their favorite furry friend, because double the pets is double the fun (when one of them doesn't have to eat or go for walks).

    aurespaces

    Get it from aurespaces on Etsy for $29.99+ (available in seven sizes).

    28. A shipment of American Wagyu beef staples so you can have a fancy as heck dinner at home and avoid the crowds.

    Snake River Farms

    It comes with two black grade top sirloins, two ribeye filets, black pepper-infused salt, and a SRF thermo bag. Sold separately, the value is $119, which isn't a huge money-saver BUT! you do save a lot of money by not going out to a fancy restaurant.

    Get it from Snake River Farms for $99.

    29. A felt letter board so you can really spell out how much you care.

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    Get it from Amazon for $18.99+ (available in four sizes and seven colors).

    30. A gin making kit, which might be a fun project to do together — almost as fun as drinking it!

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    It comes with two glass bottles, a fine steel strainer, a stainless steel funnel, juniper berries, and a secret botanical blend.

    Promising review: "Bought for a white elephant gift exchange...and my wife stole it from my family — which was awesome. She made it, and we're thrilled with the results! We have already gone through half of the gin she made (really, we don't have a problem) as it's both fine for sipping, as well as mixing with some of our typical gin cocktails. We're looking forward to making another batch." —Pete

    Get it from Amazon for $41.25.

    31. A subscription to Comma Vintage, a service that mails them fun vintage clothing every three months.

    Cratejoy

    Each box has one or two items of clothing and two to three accessories.

    Get it from Cratejoy for $45+/shipment.

    32. A Homesick candle scented like their home state, for a thoughtful and nostalgic gift.

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    Promising review: "I got this as a surprise for my boyfriend. He moved to my state from Texas for college. I wasn't sure about how it would smell but I figured even if he wasn't a fan, it would be neat as a decoration for his room. When I surprised him with the candle and he smelled it, he actually got very emotional and started crying because he said the smell instantly brought back so many memories of home. I don't know how they did it, but Homesick Candles managed to replicate the smell of home so well in this candle that it took my boyfriend back home immediately. Definitely worth my money. :)" —Bailey K

    Get it from Amazon for $29.95.

    33. A Breath of the Wild goddess statue that won't grant them extra life or stamina — but will look pretty nice in their garden.

    3DCentral

    Get it from 3DCentral on Etsy for $40+ (available in white or stone).

    34. A chocolate XBox controller to tell your partner that actually you do wanna play games.

    ChocolatesUnlimited

    Also consider a Playstation controller.

    Get it from ChocolatesUnlimited on Etsy for $16 (available in milk, dark, or white chocolate).

    35. A giant plush toy, chocolate lollipop, or trio of candles shaped like a D20 to give to the DM of your heart.

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    Remember to roll for initiative before gifting them any of these!

    Get the plush from 0InsideOut on Etsy for $118, the pop from 1201Designs on Etsy for $10, or three candles from Amazon for $30.

    36. The Perry Bible Fellowship Almanack — a celebration of 10 years of the internet's favorite dark comic strip. Just seeing the cover is making me so nostalgic for being online in 2005.

    Amazon

    I don't know about you, but I used to check pbfcomics.com almost religiously for updates. Even if you've never read the comics before, it's too never late to start. Here is my favorite. The book comes with previously unseen comics and sketches so I just know your partner is gonna love it.

    Pre-order it from Amazon for $16.59 (released February 11).

    37. A canvas backpack to show them that you always have their back — when it comes to keeping their school supplies all together.

    Urban Outfitters

    Get it from Urban Outfitters for $29 (available in four colors).

    38. Happily — a subscription box that sends you and your partner everything you need for an amazing date. Answer a questionnaire and they'll plan your perfect activity.

    Happily

    You can also go digital for $7.99 a month.

    Promising review: "We are busy humans doing busy human things, but this was an excellent way to take a minute and just be together. I highly recommend if you’re looking for fun ways to connect with your partner without having to leave your house." —Megan R.

    Get it from Happily for $23.09+/month.

    39. Ultra-soft and snuggly slippers with memory foam soles so they can feel like they're walking on air.

    Staheekum

    If you want slippers that are warm and as soft as a cloud, these are the way to go!

    Get them from Staheekum for $30 (available in sizes 8–13).

    40. A scratch-off poster so they can eat their way across the globe, and keep track for gourmand bragging rights.

    Mappinners

    Get it from Mappinners on Etsy for $28.80.

    41. A canvas weekender bag to encourage them to take more trips. With you, hopefully.

    Nisolo

    Get it from Nisolo for $198 (available in two colors).

    42. A sampler pack of tea drops — loose tea and sugar pressed into fun shapes that they can just just drop right into their mugs. Easy peasy!

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    Expect some sediment on the bottom of each cup. There are 25 drops in each large box.

    Get it from Amazon for $35.99.

    43. A pack of adorable bunny pens they can use in their journal to write about what a great Valentine's Day they had.

    Amazon

    It comes with two bunny and two carrot pens.

    Get a set of four from Amazon for $7.98.

    44. Tequila Mockingbird — a book that takes inspiration from literature to make punny and delicious cocktail recipes.

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $11.82 or from a local bookseller through Indiebound.

    45. A Baby Yoda jigsaw puzzle and greeting card to match so they know you think they're the cutest thing in the galaxy.

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    Get the puzzle from Amazon for $8.92 or the card from HolaJoy on Etsy for $5.

    46. A copy of Random Illustrated Facts that will arm your trivia fan with even more useless information. Even if they already know some of these tidbits, the illustrations make the information feel new again.

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $11.55 or from a local bookseller through Indiebound.

    47. Pride puppy stickers that'll make anything they stick to instantly more adorable.

    CatmintStudios

    Get it from CatmintStudios on Etsy for $4.

    48. A 12-pack of chocolate huckleberry bonbons decorated with Montana fly patterns for your beloved angler. When they're done eating the candy, they can use the tin to carry real fly fishing hooks.

    Posh Chocolat

    Get it from Posh Chocolat for $24.99.

    49. A shipment from BarkBox filled with themed toys that are almost too cute to tear apart.

    BarkBox

    Each box comes with two toys, two bags of treats, and a chew. There's a new cute theme every month!

    Get one box from BarkBox for $35.

    50. A colorful jewelry case that'll shine almost as bright as their jewels.

    Mark & Graham

    It's vegan leather with a soft linen lining. It even comes with a mirror. It costs an extra $10 to get the cool shadow print initials.

    Get it from Mark & Graham for $69+ (available in 14 colors).

    51. A pair of rainbow leggings you can present to them as their official Netflix and chill uniform.

    Torrid

    Get them from Torrid for $29.50 (available in sizes 10–30).

    52. A mesmerizing waterproof Bluetooth speaker that's so entertaining, turning it on will count as a date night.

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    This thing is great! It connects to Bluetooth very quickly and sounds great. The lights are truly breathtaking and I find myself watching them for embarrassingly long lengths of time.

    Promising review: "I bought this for my girlfriend for her birthday. She is a millennial and she loves to just have music playing wherever she is. So she carries it around her place with her — whether she's doing makeup, stuff in the kitchen, or elsewhere in her place, she just brings it with her wherever she is. She says it sounds WAY better than her prior speaker, and plays for hours and hours. She likes the lights as well." —Thomas W. Shea

    Get it from Amazon for $249.95.

    53. A set of matching Valentine's Day underwear that'll inspire a thank you note that'll be anything but brief.

    Tommy John

    Tommy John makes some of the most buttery smooth clothing around.

    Get them from Tommy John starting at $24: the men sizes here and the women sizes here.

    54. A bonsai tree growing kit so their mini trees can grow alongside your love for each other.

    Amazon

    It comes with four types of bonsai tree seeds, soil potting pods, burlap bonsai posts, printed bamboo plant markers, tools, and more.

    Get it from Amazon for $34.97.

    55. A couple's bucket list kit so you can start setting shared goals and always have something to strive to together.

    Amazon

    It comes with 100 idea cards!

    Promising review: "I love the couple's bucket list! It came packaged really well, and higher quality than I thought. At first I was just buying it for myself because I wanted some date ideas for me and my boyfriend, but then I realized it's the perfect gift for the weddings and showers I have this summer!" —esteve y.

    Get it from Amazon for $49.99.

    56. A beanie they can put on before saying "aight, I'mma head out and go watch some Spongebob episodes in bed."

    CryInTheCar

    Get it from CryInTheCar on Etsy for $24.99.

    57. A Nintendo Switch Lite that'll let them play all their favorite games while on the move.

    Nintendo

    It's really cool that the Nintendo Switch can hook up to your TV or pop out and become a portable device buuuut that thing is super heavy! Sometimes my fingers will go numb while playing. That's why the Lite is great for people on the move. Read more about why it might be a good idea to get the Lite even if you already have the classic Switch. Oh, and if you need some game recs, I recommend Breath of the Wild, Pokémon Sword, and Luigi's Mansion 3.

    Get it from Amazon for $199.50+ (available in four colors and with the option to include a memory card).

    58. A subscription to Book of the Month because they're going to need SOMETHING to do while hiding inside from the cold weather.

    Book of the Month

    This is a super fun subscription service that sends you a new or best selling hardcover book. Each month, BOTM features five awesome books, you pick one (or more), and it's sent right to your door. If you don't like any of the five recommended books, there is also a wider collection of older books to choose from, or you can skip a month. Learn more about this subscription box.

    Get it from Book of the Month for $14.99/month.

    59. Alcoholic gummies that have basically half a shot of booze in them. Chewing is the new sipping.

    Smith & Sinclair

    I've tried these and they are really tasty! You can taste the alcohol but it's not overbearing at all. They're a great way to start or end a night of revelry. The party box comes with two of each flavor: pineapple bellini, elderberry gin spritz, mandarin spritz, and passionfruit mojito. They also have mocktail versions if that's more your partner's speed.

    Get it from Smith & Sinclair for $24.

    60. A selection of Cadbury chocolate treats that'll let you bring them their favorite desserts from across the pond. It's sooo much cheaper than a plane ticket.

    Amazon

    It comes with one Curly Wurly, one Picnic, one Twirl, one Starbar, one Crunchie, one Wispa, one Dairy Milk Caramel, one Double Decker, one Dairy Milk, and one Flake.

    Promising review: "Just received several days ahead of estimated delivery which was very nice. All the chocolates/candy are very freshly dated and were protected by the packaging. The box itself was a bit dented but everything inside was perfect. I am very happy with this purchase. Several years ago, I went to a local British store and bought about $40 worth of candy for a British vs. American 'taste-off' for the kids, (we would read a book and then try to eat meals/snacks like the characters for a new experience). This was so much less expensive and I saved myself the two hour round-trip drive. Can't wait to show the kids and remind them of that taste-off picnic!" —dp

    Get it from Amazon for $13.48.

    61. A big ole' haul of scrunchies. Imagine how satisfying it would be to swim in a pool of scrunchies.

    Amazon

    Get a pack of 36 from Amazon for $14.55.

    62. A Lodge dutch oven that'll please beginner chefs and cooking whizzes alike.

    Amazon

    I received this beauty as a gift last year and love it. I've used it to cook beans, chicken pot pie filling, pasta, corn bread, and so much more. It's high quality and feels like it's going to last a lifetime.

    Get it from Amazon for $47.46+ (available in five sizes and 10 colors).

    63. And a sweet lil corgi planter ready to keep their mini succulent safe.

    Amazon

    Get it from Amazon for $12.99.

    And don't forget the best gift of all: love and support!

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