So I met this guy online and we were chatting for about a day and he wanted to meet up with me for dinner. I don’t usually like to meet so quickly but he was really nice and we had great conversation so I obliged. We live in NYC, so he suggested I come to his neighborhood because he knows of a new place. We agreed to meet one night after work (i had a very long and stressful day). We had a certain spot we agreed to meet and when I got there I saw him walking around talking on the phone. He saw me and kind of held up his hand signaling ‘I’ll be right with you”. So I stood there for about 5 mins until he got off his call that he couldn’t end early you know, seeing that he invited me on a DATE. Anyway he finally got off the phone and didn’t even apologize and then asked me what I wanted to eat. I said you asked me here and said you knew of a new place. Then he said it’s near here then we proceeded to walk for about 20 mins and it was the hottest day of the year so far! We get to the place finally after he got us lost and we sat down. The waitress tells us the specials and then mentions that they only take cash. So we said ok. He proceeds to look at the menu and decided on what WE should have and said let’s split this and this. I was confused if he meant let’s only split the food or food and the bill so I tried to be careful how I asked because I always offer to pay my share but I know gentlemen always insist on paying especially on a first date! I only had my card on me so I said I guess I should go outside and grab some cash. He said “yeah there should be an ATM around here.” I was so annoyed at this point that he made me take 2 trains and a bus, walked 20 mins in the heat after a long day to then split the bill but now have to search for an ATM. I got up and said I’ll be right back and just went home.