I'm single for the first time in 8 years. Honestly. Only having to take responsibility for my own wellbeing and not someone else's too is making my anxiety so much easier to handle! I can just... do the things I've wanted to do without worrying how it'll affect someone else.
Honestly depends on the conversation. I've talked to guys for weeks and had no growing desire to meet, and I've agreed to go for dinner with someone after like an hour cause he was witty and nice to talk to.
My best friend is quite a big guy. One of the reasons I'd trust him with my life happened when we'd just met. We were sitting on the grass outside campus having a beer Friday night, and this guy I'd talked to a little joined us. He kept flirting with me and trying to touch me, I told…Â
Ok but a grown man should actually be able to do things of his own accord without needing instruction. Saying you need to ask for help still implies that the initial responsibility is on the woman rather than a shared effort. Sure everyone should ask for help if they need it, but…Â
I've had much... much worse... you know there's lot of "wanna fuck" boys. I had one demand I give his friends BJ's while he watched. In the first message. That was how he introduced himself... I'm thinking about getting 50 cats.
Let's see... we were living across the country from the family so when she offered to host his 30th birthday we agreed cause then we wouldn't have to get people to cross the country, we just came there. Well... she invited his ex girlfriend!? Without telling either of us.
Also. I…Â
I had a guy colleague joke about how in Should hook up with the like 30-years-older -than-me instructor at a course we took. I literally just said "Well I am bi but She's way too old for me" and got a shocked "eeeeew too much information!"... like... what? It's only ok if it's a joke?…Â
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