Referring to my wife in neutral language, e.g. "my partner" around people I'm uncertain about for the sake of my safety, and not correcting when they start using male pronouns for her until I'm dead certain they're a safe person. It really stresses me out if I'm with a straight person…Â
After my girlfriend (now wife) and I told a guy who had been chatting us up (yes, both of us) that we weren't interested and were a couple, he blinked, then replied:
"That's OK, I love lesbians! I watch them all the time in my porn." ...
Oh, screw these guys patting themselves on the back for their lesbian wedding episode! I'm a lesbian and trying to watch this show was genuinely upsetting - they run the laugh track every time someone uses the phrase "lesbian life partner", it's portrayed as super funny that Chandler…Â
Oh I totally agree there's horrible pressure on bi people to "pick a side" and that sucks! It's just not on to say the "we're all naturally bi" stuff because that literally erases every other sexuality at best and is pretty homophobic and aphobic at worst.
This is nice and all and it's great seeing people out and proud as bi, but dear God I need people to stop saying shit like "everyone is bi" and "you're born bi but society pressures you one way or another". I'm a lesbian. Society sure as hell didn't pressure me into that - society…Â
I was 11, so obviously a bit older than for most girls I know for whatever reason. A group of teenage boys (16-17 year olds) started catcalling and whistling at me as I walked by, yelling stuff about putting their hands up my short skirt. I was upset and scared, but when I told my…Â
My partner served a customer who had come in to return something to a major high street store. This woman spent the whole interaction screaming at my partner because the product had broken (even though she was being given her refund no problem) and at the end of the exchange demanded…Â
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