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    26 Things For People Who Never Take Time For Themselves

    We all know that selfless angel. It's time to treat them!

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    1. A faux-fur throw that'll feel luxurious (without the matching price tag) so they can nuzzle into this while they watch the game, read a book, or just rest their eyes for a moment. OK, like two hours.


    Get it from Amazon for $29.98 (available in 19 colors).

    2. A Tarte greatest hits set with a few basic essentials for those days when perking up everyone else's life leaves them feeling a bit blah.


    Includes an Amazonian clay 12-hour blush in natural beauty, tarteist quick dry matte lip paint in xoxo, and tarteist lash paint mascara. PLUS, 10% of the purchase price of every (TARTE)RED set will go to the Global Fund to fight AIDS with (RED)!

    Get them from Amazon for $35.

    3. An argan oil hair mask as a beauty bandage for the babe who keeps having to skip salon appointments because life happens.


    I use this and a little goes a long way! Also, if your recipient washes their hair once or twice a week tops they can get away with using this in lieu of regular ol' conditioner. That's what I do! (And I need to reorder atm, actually....)

    Get it from Amazon for $11.50.

    4. A super comfy seat cushion in case they log lots of hours sitting in a subpar desk chair, driving, or they just experience back pain.


    Promising review: "I was on the brink of buying a new desk chair when I came across the ComfiLife gel cushion. Many of the desk chair reviews said they hoped they could get a year's worth of comfort from their new chair. I thought about that, and decided to try the ComfiLife cushion instead. Thanks, ComfiLife, for giving my old desk chair a new life and saving me a bundle in the process!" —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $34.95.

    5. Or a memory foam pillow to lure them into actually sitting down on the couch for a spell.


    I bought one for each of my parents for Christmas after reading my coworker's story about stuff for people who never leave the couch. It is squishy but supportive and wide enough to fit across the full width of a recliner chair. I gave them a test run while home for the holidays and they're delightful!

    Get it from Amazon for $24.87.

    6. And a foot massager they can use once you've lured them to the couch. Or while they pay bills. Or while they're working! So many great sitting possibilities.


    This uses infrared heat and six rotating massage heads for delivering some serious relaxation.

    Get it from Amazon for $59.99+ (also available in big vibration). Also check out a manual rolling massager.

    7. An artisenal French food box in case they're saving up for that bucket-list trip to Paris but still have a ways to go 'til you can say bon voyage!

    Bon Appetit Box

    Includes Duck Rillettes (Duck Breast Pâté) to be enjoyed over crunchy Petits Toasts and topped with Cornichon (tiny French gherkin). Also included, an exclusive Tapenade from the South of France made with black olives.

    Get it from Bon Appetit Box for $30 and check out more gourmet food options.

    8. Or a box of Cadbury chocolate bars if your overworked sweetie unwinds with British murder mysteries and chocolate — when they can spare an hour.


    Includes 10 full-size British candy bars.

    Get it from Amazon for $12.69.

    9. A wireless, waterproof vibrator that'll make 'em wanna block off some time on their calendar.


    Promising review: "I have never felt compelled to review anything in my 12+ years of internet use but this thing is great. I thought it was going to be a bullet but it's not, which was disappointing at first but I used it and didn't have to do any work, as it did the job in less than 20 seconds. Very impressed and maybe in love idk. Buy this." —hannah

    Get it from Amazon for $19.99+ (available in two colors).

    10. An infusion pitcher they can use to make "spa water" with cucumbers or other cut-up fruit. They forget to drink enough water and it's time for a change!


    And it's dishwasher-safe so they don't have to avoid using it bc they don't have time for hand-washing.

    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful line, exclusively at Macy's for $19.99.

    11. Or if chopping fruit and putting it in a pitcher still seems like something too time-consuming for them, a water bottle marked with a hydration schedule might help them increase their H2O intake.


    BTW, they're made from non-toxic and BPA-free Tritan plastic.

    Get two from Amazon for $19.99.

    12. A reflective pullover for the person who can't/won't justify a gym membership but loves to go on runs around the neighborhood when they actually get some free time.


    Oh and it'll also just look really cool if they were it out running errands.

    Get it from JCPenney for $32.40 (available in sizes XS–2X).

    13. And some cozy joggers that'll be a stylish step up from their go-to sweats without sacrificing comfort.

    American Eagle

    Get them from American Eagle: men's for $19.98 (two colors, sizes regular XS–3X, tall L–3X) or women's for $39.95 (three colors, sizes 2XS–2X)

    14. A birthstone pendant necklace for the person who doesn't have an aversion to jewelry, but never finds the time to plan out *which* piece to wear with each outfit. This'll be a gorgeous lil' go-to!


    Get it from Nordstrom for $50+ (available in 18 color combos).

    15. Aromatherapy shower bombs your own personal hype man who loves the idea of a bath bomb but never has time for soaking in the tub will use ASAP.

    Gorgeous Soap / Etsy

    Perhaps they have a box of unused bath bombs kicking around in their bathroom cabinet? They can simply place an unwrapped shower bomb on the shower floor (or a shelf) away from the stream of water to release aromatherapy vapors. So they can add it to their normal routine!

    Get them from Gorgeous Soap on Etsy for $4.95+ (available in several pack sizes and scents).

    16. A 12-pack of under-eye gel masks fit for a pampering sesh that'll perk up their dark circles — even if it's when they're chugging coffee and packing kids' lunches in the wee morning hours.


    Promising review: "These work like a dream. I use them in the morning while having my cup of coffee and they instantly make me appear more wide awake and less puffy. They're comfortable to wear on the face, don't slip and slide everywhere, and stay where you place them. I can hardly even tell I have them on — they're lightweight and very soothing on the skin. They have this great cooling effect to them as well, which I love feeling first thing in the morning." —Macy Ikerd

    Get them from Amazon for $21.95.

    17. A 15-pack of soothing sheet masks might just prove to be the easiest dose of beauty self-care they do, even if it's just for a few minutes while the baby naps!


    This would be nice for someone who'd like softer skin but is all, "WTF is a serum?"

    Get them from Amazon for $15.89+ (available in four combos).

    18. Or a butt sheet mask that'll make them laugh when you give it to them. Cue to a few days later when you receive an "I love this thing" text.

    Free People

    Get it from Amazon for $9.95 or Free People for $9 (available in four types). Or snag a four-pack from Amazon for $32 so you can try one out yourself too ;).

    19. Moisturizing socks they only need to wear for 20 minutes to feel the silky smooth benefit down to, in, and around their toes. After all, they're toe socks!


    Promising review: "These are the best gel socks I've ever used. They actually work to soften my skin. My feet have been getting really dry to a point where they hurt. I've used many moisturizers and other sock treatments but none really worked well. These socks work great. The only issue I have is that they don't fit your toes like they do in the picture. My feel look like Fred Flintstone, but I usually wear them when I go to bed, so that really isn't a big deal. Some nights I can keep them on all night and some nights only for a few hours, but I'm always pleased with the softness of my skin the next morning. I've also washed them a couple of times and they still work great afterwards." —L. Helfert

    Get them from Amazon for $14.99 (available in three sizes).

    20. Or perhaps some animalistic reading socks for a plush feel, even if they don't have time to actually read while wearing them.


    Get them from Amazon for $12.99+ (available in 18 styles).

    21. A phone cleaner/charger the person who's on the phone every waking minute — even in the bathroom stall at the office!!!!! — would actually use.


    Basically, it'll sanitize whatever fits in there so you can close the lid, like eyeglasses.

    Promising review: "This is very, very easy to use. Open it, put in the phone and close it. Yup, it's that simple. No chemicals to use, no cloth to use. I clean my phone now every time I come home. It's can't hurt. Good peace of mind." —Mr. Bunch

    Get it from Amazon for $59.95 (available in nine colors).

    22. A rosewater spray they can keep on their vanity or desk for a mid-day moisturizing mist that'll make them feel fresh as heck.


    "Seriously, it only takes a few seconds to spray your face!" —you to them

    Get it from Amazon for $10.29.

    23. "Buck naked" boxers that won't pinch, stink, or make them sweat so they can concentrate on all the selfless acts they have on their schedule instead of pondering if they have time for an underwear change post-work.

    Duluth Trading Co.

    Get them from Duluth Trading Co. for $22.50 (available in nine colors and sizes S–4X). And check out some fun patterns!

    24. A gorgeous line-a-day journal they'll feel inspired to fill, unlike the four regular empty (but beautiful!) journals they have decaying on their bookshelf.


    Get it from Amazon for $11.70.

    25. An overnight lip mask they can just apply like lip balm and then reap the moisturizing benefits come morn!


    Promising review: "I am s.h.o.c.k.e.d. at how well this little lip mask works! I'm currently taking Accutane — which dries out your entire body, especially the lips — and I used this last night right after I scrubbed the dead skin off in the shower and it's still on this morning and my lips are buttery soft! It has a beautiful citrus-y scent. THIS IS A HOLY GRAIL." —Robin Maahs

    Get it from Amazon for $9.51.

    26. Beautifully packaged Japanese oolong tea in case they are forever sipping some free office tea and you want to treat 'em to a fancy upgrade.

    Free People

    FYI, this loose-leaf tea is a light floral that's rich in anti-oxidants and anti-inflammatory properties.

    Get it from Free People for $28. Also check out the company's other tea flavors of matcha, green tea, and turmeric herbal blend.

    You to your selfless loved one:

    Comedy Central

    Reviews have been edited for length and/or clarity.

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