We recently asked the BuzzFeed Community to tell us which relationship moments that were romanticized in films are actually toxic. Here are some of the best responses.
Note: Some submissions include topics of sexual assault.
1. In Say Anything, when Lloyd literally stalks Diane and then randomly shows up at her house with a boombox.
2. In Fifty Shades of Grey, when Christian forces Ana to sign a contract so that she can't refuse any of his sexual advances.
3. In Sixteen Candles, when Jake aids in a sexual assault on Caroline, and then is still upheld as the charming, sweet love interest for Samantha.
4. In Overboard, when it's supposed to be romantic that Dean is taking advantage of Joanna, a woman with amnesia, by tricking her into thinking they're married.
5. In Shallow Hal, when Hal dumps Rosemary after finding out her actual weight, but she ends up with him anyway.
6. In A Walk to Remember, when Jamie is consistently bullied by Landon only to end up with him in the end.
7. In The Breakfast Club, when Bender ducks under the table where Claire is sitting, peeks under her skirt, and assaults her.
8. In Sierra Burgess Is a Loser, when Sierra lies to Jamey during their whole courtship about her true identity.
9. In Clueless, when Josh is not only a college student hitting on a teenager, but also Cher's STEPBROTHER.
10. In Miss Congeniality, when Eric only acknowledges Gracie's existence after her makeover.
11. In Pretty in Pink, when Andie chooses Blane, a guy who continously humiliates and demeans her, over the sweet, but nerdy Duckie.
12. In Jerry Maguire, when Jerry can't handle his own intimacy issues and disrespects Dorothy constantly, but she still blames herself.
13. In Crazy Rich Asians, when Rachel goes on vacation with Nick and finds out he lied about his entire family.
14. And finally, in The Devil Wears Prada, when Andy's boyfriend is threatened by her success and tries to bring her down.
Note: Some submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.