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    15 Bluetooth Sex Toys That Will Blow You Away When Your Partner Can't

    Because it's 2021, and that means we should be able to bone without even being near each other.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. An app-controlled Lovense Nora rabbit vibrator with a rotating head so your bae can you give you a blended orgasm from miles away. You can program it to vibrate to custom patterns, custom sounds, and even music...what else could you ask for in a vibrator?, Lovense

    Promising review: "I bought this because of a long-distance relationship and I am very satisfied with my purchase! I often have difficulty climaxing but not with this toy. The app is very cool too — if your partner is controlling the functionality, you can't see what levels of vibration or rotation they are choosing, your screen is completely blank! The surprise gives them all of the control which is nice because that's how real sex could be, and it's still a turn-on for your partner since they have control over your orgasms. I wouldn't say it's completely hands-free since I had to hold the external arm part in the right place but besides that, it stayed in very well for being on all fours. I recommend syncing the device and connecting accounts in the app before you decide to use it as it's not as easy as say adding someone as a friend on Facebook. Definitely buy for long-distance (or yourself) if you are trying to connect with someone say in another time zone or even across the room ;)" —arf1167

    Get it from Amazon for $119.

    2. A We-Vibe Chorus couples' vibrator you can wear during sex to pleasure yourself and a partner at the same time. Just insert it, and your hands are available to control the vibration patterns using the Bluetooth app, or squeeze the remote to intensify the vibration pattern.

    WeVibe, We-Vibe

    Promising review: "This was just the thing my relationship needed. We tried so many programs and so much advice for keeping that 'spark' in our sex life but it always just seemed so forced. We've since discovered that a sex toy like this one, which can be used during sex, doesn't go in some radical new direction— it just makes the sex better for both of us! Chorus adds delicious internal and external massage via vibrations during our lovemaking, and my husband also claims that these sensations feel great for him as well. This one is always what we reach for when the mood is right." —Jules

    Get it from We-Vibe for $199 or Amazon for $189 (available in three colors).

    3. A Kegel exerciser that provides biofeedback via Bluetooth as you strengthen your pelvic floor muscles. Yes, you heard me correctly — you can play video games with your vagina., Amazon

    Kegel exercises can be used to combat incontinence, repair the pelvic floor after pregnancy, increase feeling during sex, and a ton of other stuff! The app has a dedicated training program to suit your health needs, and you can level up, earn points, and share your scores with friends. It's also compatible with both Android and iOS.

    Promising review: "I was at the point of scheduling a consult for a vaginal sling because the leaking with runs, laughs, and life was awful. Have used this one month and noticed a tremendous improvement. No surgery for me." —Jamie E. Hawkins

    Get it from Amazon for $179.

    4. A wearable Moxie panty vibrator that clips into place using a magnet. Now you can feel secure in spicing up any boring old trip to the grocery store, DMV, fancy restaurant, et cetera, with no slippage.


    Promising review: "The Moxie connects to the remote wirelessly and has a decent enough range for home play—unless you live in a mansion in which case you might struggle! The really clever bit of the Moxie is the app; this allows you to control it from anywhere in the world, so long as you both have a phone, one is connected to the Moxie via Bluetooth, and your phone links to your partner's! The app allows total control, varying patterns (even creating your own), and intensity. The app works well once you get it set up and although, admittedly we haven't tried it at any real distance, the connection has always been okay. The other clever part is the Moxie's magnet. You simply put on your preferred pants, get the Moxie in place, and put the disc on the outside of your chosen pants and it's held in place through the magic of magnetism. We didn't notice any slipping or moving, I think the silicone coating helps give it a bit of grip too." —LoveThis

    Get it from We-Vibe for $129 or Amazon for $122.55 (available in two colors).

    5. A luxurious Zalo Queen G-spot vibrator able to TRANSFORM into a clitoral suction toy so you get double the value. On top of that, it connects to the Zalo app via Bluetooth so you or a partner can change up the vibration patterns from afar.


    This powerhouse of a vibrator comes with a suction sleeve that fits right over the top to switch into suction mode! Oh, and it also has a heating function. Oh, and it has real Swarovski crystals on it too, no biggie.

    Promising review: "Holy moly, I cannot get over this toy! It is two-in-one and so much more. The pulsations are great for both g-spot and clitoral stimulation. Best of all, it heats up and is app-enabled too. I love it so much, I bought the red wine and it surely is divine! I loved it so much I bought the emerald green and purple as gifts for my friends." —Janey

    Get it from Zalo for $149 (available in three colors).

    6. A flexible, wearable MysteryVibe Tenuto that provides super-smooth vibrations all around the penis and perineum area for boing-boing time that encapsulates ~everything.~

    Amazon, MysteryVibe

    The Tenuto has six powerful motors that are ALL individually programmable to vibrate through the app; but if that's not your cup of tea, the app has an entire library of vibration patterns preset and ready to go.

    Promising review: "The Tenuto cured my age-related delayed ejaculation. I purchased the Tenuto to help with a loss of sensation issue that is related to aging and being circumcised. My urologist advised me to get a vibrator for the perineum to enhance sensation. The Tenuto has successfully enabled me to consistently climax once again." —Ed

    Get it from MysteryVibe for $169.

    7. A cute bullet vibrator you can program to vibe and rotate by just swiping on an app! The best part is that it can be used internally or externally— it's basically a vibrating sex helper that will make any part of your body feel good., Amazon

    Promising review: "I absolutely love this toy. First, it's easy to charge with the USB cable and clean. The bullet is thick and I enjoy the ridges. The app is easy to download (I have an Android) and syncs up great without any issues. All you need to do is press the button at the end after having the loading screen on app. You can either do hands free (someone controlling toy with swipe of phone screen), or setting it to a mode that allows to you choose a particular pattern. I absolutely love this toy and the interaction. I highly recommend." —Ali

    Get it from Amazon for $59.99.

    8. A powerful vibrating butt plug for any anal newbies (or pros!!!) who want to experience remote booty play., Lovense

    Promising review: "This has got to be the most stimulating product of its kind on the market so far! OMG! It lives up to everything the Lovense company says it will. The instructions in the box are not too clear in the manual, but you can use the online user manual for more up-to-date instructions. The tech support is awesome, fast in a reply back, and extremely polite with my questions. I live in New York and gave control via the app to a friend who is in Tennessee who can control it from there while I am plugged into it. Never know when or at what time, or where I will be wearing it in a store shopping, a business meeting, walking around, or sleeping, as he controls the effects as to when he wants to turn it on, control it and torment me to the point of ecstasy and back. I definitely would recommend this toy to anyone looking for a pleasurable experience." —JoeG65

    Get it from Amazon for $119+ (available in two sizes).

    9. A high-tech Kiiroo stroker that you can sync up with a partner's device for the most realistic long-distance sexytime you could have. You can match your strokes with a partner's so you can mimic their touch!

    Maikel Thijssen Photography, Amazon

    Kiiroo specializes in making interactive teledildonic toys — that means your stroker can connect to virtual reality videos or your favorite webcam performers for an added layer of reality.

    Get it from Kiiroo for $149.

    10. A warming vibrator with an adorable rabbit attachment that'll heat up your sex life (literally). If you download the free Svakom app, you can give complete control to a partner across the world, or even sync up the vibrations with the decibel level in your environment.


    Promising review: "Right from the packaging, you get the sense this is a quality product. The materials used are fantastic, really soft and it feels very well made. I thought setting up the app would be complicated but was pleasantly surprised as it was very smooth to install and use. In terms of the power, there are five modes with five intensities. Certainly powerful enough for us but it was quite loud so not ideal if discretion is important for you. We weren't sure how the warming function would work but it was excellent, toasty warm very quickly! Used with plenty of Lovehoney's Enjoy lube, this certainly had the desired effect and will be our toy of choice from now on." —Sexytime8283

    Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99.

    11. An OhMiBod Esca 2 internal egg perfect for stimulating the g-spot. It comes with a bunch of cool features, like LED lights that light up with the vibrations and an orgasm tracker through the app (because you're sure to quickly lose count).

    Purple vibrator with watch and smart phones
    Ella Paradis

    Promising review: "So my boyfriend and I keep seeing viral videos on social media with this toy. So we thought of trying it out for ourselves. And DUDE!!!! It was absolutely fun, the controls were amazing, though my boyfriend keeps teasing me when we are in a public place. This is definitely a great toy for a couple who loves to make fun and pleasure at the same time!" —Azucena

    Get it from Ella Paradis for $152.89.

    12. A We-Vibe clit massager that doesn't suck (har har har). But seriously, this thing uses airwaves to stimulate the clitoris without directly touching it! Science!

    model holding the clit massager and lying down on the bed

    Plus, reviewers say that the battery life is insanely long, so you don't have to worry about recharging it constantly between ~sessions~.

    Promising review: "This handheld god changed my DAILY life! I was breaking every single toy I bought within a week or two. Mostly because I was using it once a day, sometimes twice, and running it dead each time. Finally sprung for this bad boy and it’s been four months not even one issue! It takes HOURS to die and it only takes like thirty minutes to completely recharge! I’m obsessed! You can control it on the app and see what percentage your battery is at too! Oh, and the lube they sent with it was fantastic! Just now ran out." —gabrielle

    Get it from Amazon for $141.55.

    13. A cock ring with 10 different vibration settings, a magnetic charging cable, and app-connecting capabilities — getting freaky over Bluetooth has never been easier.

    the cock ring on a bedside table with books and a smartphone displaying the app

    Promising review: "This product is amazing and worth every penny, takes the pleasure to the next level! It’s powerful but pleasurable and you're in complete control with the mobile app or side buttons. Use to your advantage, great for foreplay: leave them waiting but control the ring from outside the bedroom give them a little taste of what they're in for. Amazing." —Watermelon

    Get it from We-Vibe for $119 or Amazon for $113.05.

    14. A waterproof internal Egg Vibe with a stem for easy retrieval and a plethora of fun app-controlled patterns. Plus, it can be connected to Bluetooth from up to twelve meters away for hands-free vibrations!


    Promising review: "The app you can download brings a whole new meaning to being in touch with music. This, coupled with a clitoral massager, made me squirt for the first time. That should speak for itself." —Tarryn

    Get it from Lelo for $99.95 or Amazon for $38.97+ (available in three colors).

    15. A prostate massager specially designed to sit right on the p-spot and the perineum at the same time. You can even adjust the exact positioning of the head through the app for maximum orgasm efficiency.


    Promising review: "Better than expected. A new favorite toy! I just wish it were slightly larger. Great for beginners. The phone app works most of the time but sometimes disconnects. You have to enable location sharing for it to work. Why vector needs this information I do not know. The instruction book is a little light on explanations, especially regarding the included remote, but with a little experimentation, it's easy to figure out how to control the device. Once you do, hold on to your horses. You'll be walking funny afterward! And that's a GOOD thing. *wink*" —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $141.55.

    You, getting ready to test out your new Bluetooth-controlled friends: