You realise that an inordinate amount of people are past victims of abuse, particularly intimate abuse from partners? Some people can’t help but be volatile and passionate. I consider understanding their reactions to be an act of compassion. Why does our current culture value “distant cold logic” about things that are heinous and *deserve* to be emotional about? If you’re NOT emotional about vulnerable people having the shit beaten out of them and not receiving justice - I’m sorry, I think there’s something wrong with you.