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Straight Guys, Tell Us About Your Same-Sex Hookup Experiences

Well, have you?

I'm just gonna get right to it, folks: Sex between consenting adults can be a fun, funny, and even awkward experience.

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And we definitely don't shy away from covering the topic in a light, serious, or educational way at BuzzFeed.

And sometimes those experiences are more about, well, experimenting. So that got me thinking...straight men, have you ever hooked up with another guy?

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Maybe you were best friends with your roommate in college and one thing led to another during a lonely weekend and you both decided to give each other a ~bro job.~

Sex scene in "Kill Your Darlings"
Sony Pictures Classics

Let's try to forget that I used the phrase "bro job" and instead focus on your experience. Does your roommate also identify as straight? Did you enjoy it, or did you stop after a few minutes because you realized it wasn't for you? Maybe you and your roommate even kept this fling going all year.

Perhaps you and your girlfriend had a threesome with another guy, and even though you're not sexually attracted to men you were still pretty into it because you saw how turned on your girlfriend was.

A sex scene in "Y tu mamá también"
20th Century Fox

Maybe the experience was super freeing for you, and now you're much more open to doing stuff with him in the threesome. Or maybe you have strict rules so your bodies don't even touch during it – hey, I don't know!

Or maybe you had a different experience entirely! This is a judgment-free zone, so if you're a straight man who has had a same-sex hookup, tell us about in the comments below! If you want to remain anonymous, you can use this Google Form!

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The best responses will be featured in an upcoming BuzzFeed Community post!