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    Updated on Oct 30, 2019. Posted on Oct 27, 2019

    Selena Gomez Opened Up About Toxic Relationships And How She Believed "Fighting" Was Love

    "When you're young...you have this codependency that you think is love."

    This week, Selena Gomez released two new songs — “Lose You to Love Me” and “Look at Her Now” — which are both seemingly about her ex Justin Bieber.

    And in a new interview on The Zach Sang Show, the 27-year-old singer not only opened up about the emotions that went into her new music, but she also shared her feelings on love now.

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    Skip to the 23:00 mark to hear her thoughts.

    Here's what she said on past love: "You're in a phase of life where you experience love for the first time and I think that that can just be a little toxic."

    On future love: "I want to know what that love will look like next for me. I want it to be real and I don’t want it to be co-dependent or messy, or lack of communication."

    On being "super, super single for two years": "I’ve been having way too much fun being on my own."

    On how she would “do so many things differently”: “I would be very transparent. I don’t have room to buffer things that I need or that I want."

    On love overall: “I never want to lose the sense of love that I imagine it to be. I don’t want to be jaded or bitter from anything. I believe that it exists."

    Selena admitted that she "loves love," is still a "hopeless romantic," and that she's "happier than she's ever been."

    So happy that our girl is out here loving life! It's what she deserves ❤️❤️❤️!!

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