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If you or your partner has a dick...
1. A dual cock ring designed with stretchy silicone to help your penis-packing partner stay harder for longer, so you both get yours. This dual ring won't be noticeable at all under bae's gray sweatpants, so definitely worth it.
This versatile ring can be worn in several ways: solely on your dick, one ring wrapped around the D and the other around the balls, or wrap them both around your balls! Pick your poison, it's your pleasure!
Promising reviews: "A friend of mine recommended this rubber ring to try it and omg this is insane. If you're like me and like to try new things to satisfy you partner, you should definitely get not one but two of them. One for home and another one for the go! Five stars!" —Enmanuel
"This thing is lovely. First, it’s BEYOND comfortable. Too many c-rings make everything feel awkward, but not this one. It was all-too-easy to stretch it over and put it in position, and my partner and I LOVED IT. Not to mention, it’s super easy to clean up afterward." —Marcus Megahee
Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in black and burgundy).
2. A uniquely shaped vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory with rabbit ear attachments to stimulate your lover's clitoris with each stroke during PIV. Make the most of what remains of summer by ensuring you both get yours.
Or, use it with your fingers to finger your lover or wear it during a blowjob for added stimulation to the perineum during oral. The vibrating component boasts two motors with four settings and a "flirt" mode.
Promising reviews: "The shape is perfect for my penis, and she quite enjoyed the vibration. Very soft to the touch and super easy to use. Highly recommend." —Anonymous
"This is great for amping up intercourse for both the wearer and his partner. I definitely need lube to get it on and off as it is rather tight on me. Once on, it is comfortable and stays in place. We have several Fun Factory toys, and while expensive, have always been impressed with their quality and functionality." —Anonymous
Get it from Lovehoney for $99.
3. A cock ring designed with a textured vibrating pad to stimulate the clit or balls — your pick.
The silicone ring stretches to fit a variety of penises (or dildos) and the vibrator has five speeds and patterns for up to 25 varying intensities.
If this cock ring seems a little too fancy, here's a list of cock rings to introduce to your play.
Promising reviews: "This is a great addition to solo or couples' play. The ring is super stretchy and can fit around any of our toys. Loved when she was on top. She was able to grind on it without having to hold a heavy vibrator. Super quick and easy to clean and charges quickly! Its pretty quiet considering how intense the vibration can be." —Howard Martin
"This vibrating ring is made out of good quality material. It's soft and stretchy with a nice snug fit but not too tight. It can be worn in a variety of ways and used in different positions. The vibrations are pretty powerful while also being relatively quiet. The battery lasts quite awhile but charges pretty quickly. And best of all it's super easy to clean because it's waterproof and can even be used underwater. I highly recommend this product. It's not too expensive and was shipped discreetly." —NSFB
Get it from Amazon for $39.66.
4. A vibrating stroker that looks like a manta ray and is probably just as powerful. Six speeds and six patterns turn oral sex, masturbation, and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.
Promising reviews: "This toy is worth every penny and maybe double that. I have a ton of toys (I like trying new things) but this one is the one I always go back to. I like using it both dry and with lube as they are totally different experiences with this thing. Saw a review and was intrigued, but was a little hesitant given the price. I shouldn’t have worried." —Anonymous
"I got this toy for my partner for his birthday. He's bought me lots of toys over the years and I wanted to gift him his own toy that we can also use together. He enjoys the pleasure it brings, in the bed or in the shower. It's pretty powerful, has lots of options and settings, and feels good on my clit too (though a bit too strong of vibrations for me). We've only used it once together so we still need to experiment a bit more with positions for it to bring us both to climax but this is a really awesome, high quality toy so I am hopeful!" —Lilliana
Get it from Fun Factory for $139.99 or Amazon for $139.98 (available in three colors).
5. A Jack 2-in-1 stroker and packer, boasting representational hues and a ribbed cavity that provides suction to the wearer for a stimulating stroke session. What better way to show off your bottom growth to your cuffing season roster than with a new dick you can pack and play with?
For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.
Promising reviews: "I love this product! The hole is big enough for many sizes to fit and stay on with suction. Amazing and intense stimulation. I tried after using a pump and it helped me stay erect. Best packer I ever owned and I owned most of em." —Jaki
"My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).
New York Toy Collective is a Black- and queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.
If you or your partner prefer extra clit stim...
6. An Eva vibrator by Dame designed with flexible wings to tuck under the labia and nest on the vulva, stimulating them with three vibration intensities. *hint* Introduce it into couples' play for extra good vibes.
Promising reviews: "I think my husband enjoys it more than I do. I find myself trying to keep it in place and adjusting it, but it's still worth it. We just need to continue experimenting... ;)" —Diana W.
"I looked at this product for a long time, but was skeptical. I finally decided to buy it and I’m so glad I did! I love using this with my husband. It gets me there every time. I love the different speed settings. The only thing I wish is that it were remote controlled so it would be easier to change the speed. This also stays in place surprisingly well and feels very comfortable." —Halie T.
Get it from Dame for $135 or Amazon for $121.66+ (available in quartz or fir).
7. An adorable (and waterproof) bullet vibrator with 10 settings and a discreet design, in case you like to take your ~O~ on the go.
Promising reviews: "This little thing sure has a lot of 'umph' power for something that’s no bigger than a lipstick tube! Other reviewers all say it will die a sudden and inexplicable death but this lipstick is cheap, and forewarned is forearmed so I bought two. I’ll just keep replacing the spare. 😂" —Kaye
"I got this vibrator less than a week ago and it is everything I wanted. First of all, super cute, perfect 'pocket' size, and the material is nice to the touch. The most important part is that the vibration speeds are powerful for such a tiny vibrator. This is perfect for clitoral/nipple stimulation. I've used it with a partner to much success, but already have plans to take it with me when I travel for a 'quickie' and to be discreet. If clitoral orgasms are a thing for you, get it. I've had other bullets in the past that look, feel, and 'act' CHEAP! This definitely NOT one of them. I can't believe I got it for this price." —Ashleigh N.
Get it from Amazon for $10.28.
8. A discreet bullet vibrator boasting an angled precision tip, so you can directly stimulate your clit with its 10 powerful vibration modes. When your new boo thang is begging for more, just pull out this handy and powerful partner.
Oh, and this petit prince is waterproof, too.
Promising reviews: "This little vibrator is absolutely amazing. It does not take too much time for it to get the job done. It is great solo, with a partner, or with other toys. Highly recommend. I need that extra bit of stimulation through sex and it does it…. Leaves you shaking." —K.C.
"I think the title of my review says it all, happy wife/happy life. The power is perfect and helps provide a great assist with executing the goal, especially when your partner requires certain stimulation for a happy ending." —Oscar Leal
Get it from Amazon for $13.99.
New to sex toys? Check out this post of tips, tricks and toys for anyone new to masturbation or looking to explore their body further!
9. The Le Wand Grand bullet vibrator, which takes things up a notch with an extended design for versatility, a powerful combo of 11 vibration modes and four intensities to explore, *and* a body-safe metal design that's perfect for temperature play.
Because this vibe is made of metal and rechargeable, it has a waterproof design in case you decide to take it in the bath, shower, or other aquatic trysts. Each vibrator also includes two removable textured silicone attachments: one ring and one classic bullet sleeve to help heighten sensations.
The Le Wand Grand bullet vibrator is beginner-friendly, but if you think it might be too much, there's also the Le Wand Bullet (but just FYI the Grand is 40% more powerful and bigger).
The Grand bullet is part of Le Wand's Chrome collection.
Get it from Le Wand for $104.99 (available in three colors).
Regardless of your lovers genitalia — these toys will be a big hit (some even literally!)...
10. A powerful miniature wand vibrator created with supple silicone for a soft-touch feel and 20 functions to take you right to that blissful, blurry edge.
Promising reviews: "I thought I knew what an orgasm was until I bought this thing. My soul leaves my body every time I use this and it never disappoints me. The battery life is fantastic and the vibration strength, oh my god. Do yourself or your partner a favor and buy this. But heads up, your partner may not need you anymore." —Mackenzie
"I have loved and used it so much I have bought at least 3 of them by now. They last forever, AMAZING strength (a serious rival, every other vibrator I've purchased since has let me down because this one sets the standard so high!) and the perfect size to slip in between you and your partner while intimate. It is little louder than some other 'quieter' toys but it is not that loud. It WILL work for you, I guarantee it!" —richard green
Get it from Amazon for $19.10+ (available in six colors).
Check out this round-up for more sex toys under $25!
11. A wireless, rechargeable version of everyone's favorite massage vibrator: The Magic Wand. This upgraded beauty has four rumbly speeds and four powerful pattern modes to explore and can even be used while plugged in if it runs out of juice mid-session!
Promising review: "This toy is my FAVORITE! I have Never squirted until I got my Magic Wand. To be completely honest… I have had several wands and they always fall apart or they die too fast. I have had the Magic Wand for already 3 years and it still looks and feels brand new. I was skeptical about it due to its size, but to be honest it has been the best toy I have gotten for myself. I have also used it with my partner and they love it as well! I love how easy it is and discreet looking it is. Yes, there are several settings and my favorite is the second setting. It's been so good to me. It still looks brand new and is working as if I just got it. If you want to spice up things in the bedroom then this is the one. Not only do I feel the powerful vibration but I also love that my partner was able to feel it while we were intimate. The only thing I don’t like is how bulky it is and it does hurt when using it with my partner during certain positions but that’s cause it's so big. But that toy, alone, is still my go-to." —Tati1999
Get it from Lovehoney for $149.99.
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BTW it's really easy to upgrade your Magic Wand, no need to wait — just check out one of these attachments.
12. The best-selling Mason dildo, designed with an 8-inch insertable length because bigger bodies deserve the same gratifying stimulation as smaller ones. Literally, this dildo was created for anyone who has and/or loves bellies, butts and penetration.
I'm a bigger gal and this dildo brings me so much joy. Just, yes. Anyways, this dildo is made with body-safe and hypoallergenic silicone, harness-compatible, boilable for cleaning and sterilization and has a girth of 1.5 inches.
Promising review: "My partner absolutely loves it! The big head hits all his 'right spots.' The length lets us naturally do all kinds of positions. For me, it is truly my cock. It matches my skin almost perfectly, too. A great cock by NYTC!" —Zach
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $169 (available in four flesh tones and four whimsical hues).
13. A hand-sculpted artisan dildo, just perfect for play with several design options including gentle curves, a suction cup base, and a girth to make your eyes roll back.
The pictured dildos and plugs are all part of Blush's Avant collection, with several representing the colors of a specific Pride flag for their über-popular Pride collection. Each dildo is a different length and girth, so you literally can't go wrong. For info on why these dildos are great, check out my Blush Avant Purple Rain dildo review.
Promising reviews: "Small but fun. If you're looking for girth, this isn't for you. It's short and skinny but the texture is smooth and very fun. Colors are pretty too. Great for beginners or first timers at receiving!" —nich (on P3 Beauty Avant Pride dildo)
"First, this thing is HUGE, especially for a novice to certain play. My husband wanted to try it, with that kind of half afraid and half excited. We had tried smaller toys but they are often rather firm and frequently somewhat uncomfortable. Not only is this one pretty colors it is soft and flexible but with a firm enough core to use (big pink marshmallow is how my hubby describes this one). The head is very large and be warned that you need to prep the recipient a bit and take your time. The ridges can make vigorous play uncomfortable after a little while and this is a bit longer than the standard sizes. It has ended up being hubby's favorite, though. We would certainly purchase again and are even looking at others in this collection to change things up." —J. Heath (on D3 Summer Fling Avant dildo)
Get them from Amazon for $59.99+ (General collection) and $24.99+ (Pride collection).
14. The Fusion dildo is a unique harness-compatible dildo designed with a ridge along the base intended to stimulate the wearer during penetrative sex. With this innovative toy, it doesn't matter if you're a top or bottom, because EVERYONE is going to get off.
Promising reviews: "It was very pleasurable for myself and my partner. It takes a little bit to position well and then the harness needs to be done up tight for maximum effect but that's relatively easy and from there it's very fun to use." —Nia T.
"Absolutely amazing!! My partner and I love using this and it’s so easy and quick to clean. The slight curve also works wonders!" —Kelsey
Get it from Wet For Her for $62.95 (originally $69.95 and available in three sizes; also available in pink and black).
15. The *very* popular Joque harness, created for versatility with adjustable straps that fit waists up to 65 inches and an elastic O-ring that's compatible with a variety of dildo bases.
This harness also has internal pockets in case you want to place a bullet vibrator for added pleasure.
Promising reviews: "This is definitely worth the price. It has great variety in the sizing for the wearer. You can use a vibrating dildo with it and you feel the stimulation. Also there are pockets you can add items to for your stimulation. The ring is very hard to get the dildo into, but it works out because it does not come out during use. The comfort to the wearer is phenomenal. Recommend for any experience user." —Customer DBG
"I was so exhausted one night after my partner and I had some fun, that I fell asleep with it on and forgot it was still there. It’s extremely comfortable but super sturdy. Also, very easy to throw it in the mesh bag it comes in and toss it in the laundry. I let it air dry though. Great product!" —divertida9
Get it from Amazon for $134.95 (available in two sizes and three colors).
16. A stimulating cushion, offering versatile use as a comfortable base for your favorite dildo or strap-on *and* providing a contoured grinding pad, if you prefer to hump your way to climax. Avid peggers and grinders should add this to their collection, stat.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25" W.
Promising reviews: "This was awesome. She used this on herself, and she took me from behind and drilled me like a star!!! Usually she can only handle a few min then she is sore from the toys, but with this she must have been up me for 49 min nonstop pumping away on me. Wow, this made pegging amazing and she used a 14-inch-long, 3-inch-thick toy and we both loved it. She said it gave her some pleasure also, that’s why she could do it so long and without the pains. Love this." —D man
"I will never not use this thing. It is soooo soft. feels so nice AND hits that sweet spot every single time. My girl and I love it. 🥇🥇🥇" —Brie Sews
Get it from Amazon for $36 (available in four colors).
If you're into discreetly wearable sexy hijinks....
17. An egg vibrator that won't clash with your favorite lingerie and will get you off with seven vibration modes and or personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app. A wearable vibe is a great intro to mutual masturbation and even power play because doing chores and getting a little buzz in your vagina would be...startling to say the least.
The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.
Promising reviews: "When I saw they had an updated version of it I had to try it and it is wonderful. I have not had any connection problems with it and love the new charging port. The Lovense 3 is a little more powerful than the 2 and I like that also. My partner and I love this new version. It is a wonderful toy for long distance play or in person. The app allows me to give him full control no matter where he is and we both enjoy that. I would highly recommend this for couples that can't always get together in person." —Kelli
"Lovesense has changed the game forever! While is has some things they can still improve on, I stand behind this product for self-play or foreplay with your significant other. The music feature was such a pleasant surprise. The vibrations ride the bass and it changes in intensity appropriately and on cue with your favorite song... your favorite song will be your favorite FAVORITE song on a whole other level....*pauses for deep reflective breath*. The ability to also customize vibrations to your liking is a big plus as is the ability to still 'engage' with your partner so long as they have cell service. My second favorite feature? I don’t need freaking batteries. A win all in itself." —T. Antoinette
Get it from Amazon for $129.
Check out this round-up if you're interested in more wearable vibrators that'll have you buzzing!
18. A sleek and silky prostate massager boasting six vibration modes to cycle through alone or with a partner using the app or wireless remote control to deliver dual stimulation to the prostate and perineum.
Promising review: "The Vector absolutely stands out from other prostate massagers. Using the app, you can adjust the head (that's right, it can change angles!). Once it is inserted this baby isn't going anywhere. The thin passage at the base ensures it doesn't keep slipping out. You can easily walk around without people noticing, unless they hear the vibrations. Testing all the different rhythms and strength of the vibrations, I found myself in a nice relaxed state where I could just enjoy the sensations it was providing. I feel that with more use and experience with this toy you won't have any problems in having a hands-free orgasm, leaving your body shaking and drowning in euphoria. Overall this prostate massager hits a new level and I would recommend it for new or experienced users alike. You won't be disappointed." —JustHereForTheCake
Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $139.
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19. A versatile panty vibrator that'll stay put while your lover controls its adjustable vibration modes and speeds at close-range or from afar. And don't worry, underneath all those autumn layers your secret is safe (unless you tell).
Unlike most panty vibrators, this one is strictly external and has a magnetic cap to help it stay put as you walk, sit, lounge or whatever else you plan on doing.
Promising review: "This product is amazinggggg for long-distance relationships and even solo play. All different kinds of patterns, or you can make your own. Battery life lasts pretty well and it’s pretty discreet and stays in place well. I’d say that it is just a tad louder than what I expected, but I think that setting can be adjusted in the app. I’d definitely 100% recommend this — especially to long-distance couples." —Leah J.
"I'm not sure how people say this doesn’t work from afar, because this works. My partner and I live a thousand miles away and we got this and he controls it from a thousand miles apart. You have to learn how to actually use the app. I 10/10 recommend this." —maricelis torres
Get it from Amazon for $119.
20. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of your favorite songs, mimic your own custom patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app.
Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and a flared base helps the plug stay put.
Promising reviews: "I absolutely love this product. The fact that you can use it over a wireless connection and video chat with your partner is a tremendous thrill when you cannot be together! It feels incredible and the charge lasts a long time. The only downside is that it sometimes loses connection if the phone controlling it is too far away or the signal cannot reach the device because the wearer is moving around. Despite that little drawback, it is stellar. If you are on the fence about purchasing this item because of the price, I will confirm that it is worth every dollar. And totally discreet in public as well. ;)" —Firefoxxx
"We have had a great time with this. I bought the largest and it took a bit to get used to it. We are a couple of states away from each other and he has had a great time setting me off while I’m at work or doing things around home. The vibration is very intense at the highest setting and at the lowest just keeps you on edge. Being made of the material that it is, you have to keep it clean and let it air out, so it doesn’t smell if you get any fecal matter on it. Definitely recommend!" —JayyDee
Get it from Amazon for $89+ (available in four sizes).
To keep things wet and comfortable, no matter what kind of play...
21. An 8-oz. supply of water-based lube because there is zero shame in adding a little assistance and 80,000 people (and counting) are willing to back me up on that.
Promising review: "I have eczema so my skin is super sensitive about everything that touches it, but I have great news, as it didn't burn me or leave me any damage! The feel: It feels great and is definitely runny. This could either be a bad thing or good thing for people as I know some people like it thick (this ain't it if you're looking for that). I'm using it for toys as it works great for it. I did notice that it does dry up but just by a little. So you don't have to worry about it drying up instantly after applying it as it definitely lasts through the session. This stuff can last a while as I barely pour much out of the bottle and it was enough to coat and get the job done. Would definitely recommend for anyone that likes lube that isn't super thick or needs lube for toys! Also for people who have eczema like me or sensitive skin." —Senpai Names
Get it from Amazon for $9.99.
22. A travel-sized bottle of silicone-based Überlube that fits in your purse and comes with two refills, so you're always stocked and prepared for a frictionless good time.
Latex-safe and waterproof, this lube is designed to last as long as you and help keep things moving (just don't use it with your silicone sex toys!). This kit comes with two refills, but once you've run through those you can buy travel-ready Überlube refills to place in the container!
Promising reviews: "Great lube and perfect container. Both product & container are very high quality so no worries about leaks in your luggage. The packaging just looks like any other cosmetic container; so no awkward moments of anyone asking: What's that?...like they would if they saw other personal lubricants in your luggage (think going through the airport) or even in your bathroom. Plus you can use this lubricant to calm your frizzies. Buy some! You'll love it." —Tia L
"Would recommend travel-size container be a little larger. Even though product goes a long way might have to take one and a refill for a two-week trip." —A.J.
Get it from Amazon for $27.99 (available in black and silver).
23. An anal lubricant boasting an extra-thick, water-based formula that'll last way after the arousal stage. This is great for any anal-enthusiast because who knows what your next hook-up is going to reveal when the clothes come off...👀
Promising reviews: "My 'lining' is rather sensitive and many water-based lubes that I use ended up burning my ass. Not Jelle. It is the perfect lube for me to jam a girthy 10-inch on the first try." —KH
"Doesn’t take much to do the job. Been using it for about a year. Might need a a little more if it’s an extra long session, butt a little goes a long way. See what I did there. This was a game changer. This has made a drunk night experiment type of adventure into a Friday afternoon lunch break kind of thing. And it’s made her climax so much faster. It’s definitely possible to get her to enjoy this activity. Even initiate it. It just takes the right ingredients. Also cleans up easily." —RamJam
Get it from Amazon for $9.26+.
And check out this list of the best anal lubricants for more options!
24. The OG Butters Lube designed with a vegan, oil-based formula that can be used in any and all your holes, as well as with your favorite toys and other body-safe materials, for slippery — never slick — fun.
Promising reviews: "This lube is amazing! My boyfriend is rather endowed and he’s my first. This lube made things easy and comfortable for sure." —Kai Welsh
"Very slippery and long lasting, feels good in any hole. Zero irritation. Keep some dedicated rags handy for clean up and wash separately. Wipes right up off of skin easily. Good company and nice people. This is premium lube, get some." —eric reed
Get it from The Butters Hygienics Co. for $3+ (available in six sizes and bundles).
The Butters Hygienics Co. is a Black- and queer-owned business based in Michigan that creates products using simple ingredients and hand-crafted in the owner's kitchen. In true millennial fashion, they want you to be able to afford quality body products that do what the bottles say they do.
25. A water-silicone hybrid lubricant that can be safely used with latex, rubber, and plastic, so no need to be afraid to pull out that battery-operated ABS plastic vibrator you bought as a teenager and have kept ever since for...nostalgia.
Promising reviews: "I don't understand the reviews that say this gets sticky. It absolutely does not (ok, it never has for us). It will dry out but not in a gummy way. Have noticed that the closer you get to the bottom of the container, the less time it lasts. Has NO flavor or aftertaste so compatible with oral activities." —Roberto E. Arance
"This is an amazing product. It feels very natural. I have tried many different lubricants and this one is my favorite hands down. There is no sticky residue, no smell, no itching or reaction with either my husband or me. We will continue to purchase and use this product in the future!" —Thetexascharmedlife
Get it from Amazon for $11.05+ (available in 2-oz. and 3.3-oz.).
26. A convenient travel-sized lube duo by Maude featuring their organic aloe-based water lube and hypoallergenic silicone-based lube, both of which are vegan and pH-balanced for a feel-good time. If they don't think they need lube...do not cuff them, tbh.
Promising reviews: "I really thought people were overhyping these in the reviews, but bought them anyway. I personally have issues with sensitivity with most lubes. And for the ones that didn’t cause me irritation, I found they weren’t the most pleasant after some time or after re-application. Neither is the case for either of these. I have had no adverse reactions. And while I have found that both of these needed re-application (at least in my case), neither got goopy or sticky or weird afterwards. They both behaved as if they had been newly applied. My boyfriend and I both agree that these are the best lubes we’ve ever tried. Highly recommend. Trust the reviews. Just get them." —Jordayne
"Easy to apply, silky smooth to the touch, and natural in the nose, this is exactly the type of bedside accessory I was looking for. ;)" —Alexandra A.
Get it from Maude for $20.
27. An Ohnut set of four unique and oh-so-convenient buffer rings constructed with a stretchy, body-safe material to fit your favorite penis or dildo and offer extra cushioning during penetration.
This unique wearable is designed to help people manage pain and customize penetration depth (depending on the number of rings worn) without sacrificing sensation. Though it's stretchy, Ohnut is designed in two sizes: Classic and Wider, which can be determined based on condom sizing!
Promising review: "I bought these because my wife looked into them and thought they'd be a good idea to make sex a little bit better for her and hopefully still as good for me. Thankfully after purchasing and trying them out, I can say they are worth every penny! My wife is more satisfied and happier to have sex, and I still feel amazing as well. The Ohnuts don't take any longer to put on than a condom if you stack them prior (stack them prior...it's awkward stacking while they're on), and they give you the feeling of deeply penetrating without hurting your spouse, who can now focus on enjoying sex instead of embracing pain. They are also really easy to clean and come with a small cloth bag to place them in if you don't want to have side conversations about Ohnuts, which is entirely up to you. Overall, I 100% would recommend." —Q.D.
Get it from Ohnut for $65 (available in jade and aloe).
Ohnut Co. is a women-founded wellness company that believes in ending the cycle of silence and discomfort, so people can rediscover the joy of connection.
28. A vaginal plug, so you can gear up for any large dildos or girthier partners you may be entertaining. This plug is contoured specifically for multi-point vaginal stimulation and created with *super* squishy silicone for comfortable wear before, during or even after play.
TBH, this might be the squishiest toy I've ever handled. It's elegantly curved and kinda looks like a vagina, so all you have to do is fold and insert. It's designed to help enhance clitoral sensation, deliver deeper internal stimulation, and it even has a slightly flared base for discreet wear and effortless retrieval. Also, it comes in a variety of thicknesses, so you can choose whatever's most comfy for you and deliver that full feeling you've been craving.
Note: These plugs are intended for vaginal use only and not recommended for anal. Check out the following link in case you want to explore anal toys created with the same squishy silicone (these have a flared base for safety).
Promising reviews: "I just bought this along with the Tango X after getting tired of my rabbit vibe being too uncomfortable to sit with between orgasms. I'm 30, never been sexually active with a partner for various reasons and sex toys are something I've only recently begun to appreciate as I become more comfortable with intimacy and learn my own body before trying to share it with others. So I'd classify myself as a beginner and for that, this plug is amazing. I'm not able to handle anything large but the softness of this silicone is no joke — even the small was kind of daunting to me but it just popped right in, and I can barely feel it when I'm not playing — the most noticeable part is definitely the base, and even then it's not uncomfortably noticeable. This acts as a major upgrade to clitoral orgasms for me, it's like blended orgasms without all the effort and buildup that those normally take. And it's a lot of fun on its own, too!" —Kat
"I find myself very surprised, in a good way. This toy has impressed me so much that I had to leave a review, which I have never done on this site! It’s a great little thing to leave in for an hour or so and tease yourself, before some actual fucking. I used the size small, since too big can be a bit painful for me. It also stretched me out a bit so I probably would have been comfortable taking a size that normally would be too big for me. Left me dripping wet. Excellent on all fronts!" —Lesbian
Get it from Peepshow Toys for $42+ (available in four sizes and four colors).
Peepshow Toys is an immigrant-owned sex toy boutique that promotes sex-positivity and education by only selling products created with body-safe and non-toxic materials.
29. A set of glass anal dilators that range from 2.7 inches long to 4 inches long and 0.8 inches wide to 1.5 inches wide. That size range makes them perfect for anal training, not to mention the bulbous head and flared base.
This set is perfect for anyone interested in anal sex and wanting to work their way up to girthier or heavier toys. Since they're glass, these training toys also allow for temperature play and can be used with any kind of lubricant you choose.
Get it from B-Vibe for $129.99.
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
30. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. When one of your lovers decides to flip you mid-session (with consent, of course) this pillow will be there to catch you and keep things comfy.
This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.
Promising reviews: "Love it! 'The usual' positions feel so different and new with the Pillo and it's helping me and my partner explore positions one of us usually doesn't enjoy. I was surprised by the price of sex pillows when I first started researching but the quality is so good I understand now." —Jae
"You might be thinking 'I don’t need a pillow specifically made for sex — I use my own pillows and those work just fine.' NO. The shape and firmness of Pillo are unmatched. You can use it for SO many different positions and it is discreet looking enough that you can throw it on the couch or bed with your other pillows. My partner and I do not have sex without this pillow anymore. Highly recommend!" —Gavin H.
Get it from Dame for $95.
31. A Liberator flip ramp that can be used as a ramp or converted into an ottoman, so you and your partner can explore and enjoy your (new?) favorite positions.
It's a ramp! It's an ottoman! It's improving your sex life! This convertible cushion is created with high-density foam for comfortable support and a moisture-resistant lining underneath the removable cover. Flip the furthest side of the ramp on top for a versatile block shape or use the classic ramp shape to help find the right positions for superior stimulation alone or with a partner.
Promising reviews: "The multiple positions and easy use enables easy changes in positioning enhancing our sex life. Used it nearly every night for two weeks and still found different ways to use it!" —Jerry in Vancouver
"Great addition to add some spice. Fabric is soft and soft stuff gets stuck to it easily. Thank goodness the cover comes off so you can wash it." —jen bardsley
Get it from Amazon $179.99 (available in four colors).
And definitely check out this post for even more products to keep on-hand for any spontaneous hook-ups!
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