My First Dildo Was The Purple Rain By Blush And It's Incredible, TBH

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today...to talk about my favorite dildo. 🍆 💜

Meet the Purple Rain (D2) Avant dildo by Blush. AKA Prince. Y'all, this is the one. It's beautiful, curvy, durable, high-quality, under $50, and everything anyone would want from a dildo. I'm practically in love with this dildo and couldn't wait to tell my besties about it, and now I think you need to know, too.

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It's part of Blush's Avant collection, a line of artisan-crafted dildos and anal plugs created with premium silicone in various shapes and sizes, ranging from slim and beginner-friendly to girthy and realistic. There are two sub-collections: the original Avant collection and the Pride Avant collection, which has dildos and plugs inspired by different flags and color representations in the LGBTQ+ community.

The summer that Prince passed, I was fortunate enough to see Beyoncé at the Formation Tour in Chicago, and she literally performed "Purple Rain" by Prince as it was raining onto Soldier Field, and so if you can imagine how incredible and unforgettable that experience was, you can imagine how damn good this dildo feels.

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Did I buy this dildo because it was beautiful? Yes. Was it worth it? Again, yes.

Because of its premium silicone, the Purple Rain has a bit of squish to it, so it adapts to your body when you insert it. It's also flexible, making it easy to use in various positions like doggy style or cowgirl *and* perfect for beginners, too!

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It's designed with a suction cup base, which means — if I want to — I can attach it to the shower wall, tub basin, headboard, etc., and use it effortlessly. I tested the suction on my side table when I unboxed this dildo, and it *literally* picked up the whole table when I tried to remove it.

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On the left, is me literally picking up my table because the suction cup base of this dildo is so strong. On the right, I'm effortlessly picking up a mirror with the base.

Because the base is round and flared, it makes this dildo perfectly suitable for anal since the base will prevent it from slipping all the way in or making it too difficult to remove.

And yes, that base also means it's harness compatible, so you can use it with your favorite strap-on harness and indulge in some strap-on sex with your lover. Want proof? Here's what one reviewer had to say:

Promising review: "This piece works really well in a strap-on that I bought elsewhere, and also for self-pleasuring! Not too long to wield on myself but not difficult to wield on others either. I find it cleans easily, and the suction cup makes it such a cute addition to my shower!" —Emma C.

Here's a popular harness ($119.95+ from Amazon) that can definitely accommodate the Purple Rain! Or if you want to shop around, read more about some of the best strap-on dildos and harnesses.

OH, and I can't forget to mention it's designed with a delectable curve that touches *all* the right spots and specifically targets the G- and P-spots.

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The specifics: Purple Rain is 7.5 inches long with 6 inches of insertable length. Girthwise, it's 4.5 inches around and 1.5 inches wide at its widest point.

Make sure to use either a water-based or hybrid lubricant with Purple Rain since it's made of silicone. Lube is going to help reduce friction during penetration for a smooth ride, so I definitely recommend it if you're a beginner or going to attempt to use this dildo during double-penetration.

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Here are a few compatible lubes that are popular on Amazon:

#Lube Life ($5.99+ on Amazon) is a popular water-based lubricant with over 100K reviews and is a simple and straightforward lube to help things go smoothly.

Sliquid's hybrid lubricant ($18.95 on Amazon) is created with a blend of water and silicone, making it versatile enough for vaginal and anal play.

Wicked has a silicone-based lubricant specifically for anal play ($9.83+ on Amazon) in case you plan on using your dildo internally from the back.

Finally, because of the silicone design and non-porous nature of the Purple Rain dildo, it's *very* easy to clean, whether you hand wash, wipe down or boil it.

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Personally, I use these antibacterial wipes when I'm in a rush or before a session, since they are easy to use and disposable. Before storing, I'll hand wash the dildo with antibacterial soap and then follow up by spraying it down with toy cleaner. I clean my toys thoroughly and often enough that I don't feel the need to boil them, but it is an option.

Want to up the ante on enjoying those good G-spot vibes? Pair this dildo with an external toy like my preferred clitoral suction toy the Puff, which simulates oral using air pulse technology and delivers mind-blowing ~feelz~. OR...(and I've done this as well) use your favorite arousal serum to help amplify all the sensations, inside and out.

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The Puff Compact Suction vibrator by Unbound ($48 on Unbound, Anthropologie, and Urban Outfitters; on the right) is my tried and true clitoral toy. It's waterproof and has five intensities, so you can slowly ride each one to bliss while enjoying the dildo inside you.

You could also try a wand vibrator, like the powerful Le Wand rechargeable wand vibrator ($179.99 on Le Wand; on the left) or this miniature Shibari wand vibrator ($19.95+ on Amazon).

The Foria arousal oil ($48 at Madewell and Anthropologie) is my favorite, and it can be used externally and internally. It truly does help you feel everything because of its CBD formula and blend of organic extracts, which help increase blood flow and arousal. I recommend applying the arousal oil before you play, then using lube for penetration. The oil's not compatible with latex condoms, but it won't break down the latex-free, non-porous dildo.

Oh man...where are the words? I think everyone should have the Purple Rain dildo, tbh. This bad boy is *literally* perfect, like...aptly named for what I can only imagine Prince's dick was like. I feel like Prince, being a sexual icon, would also love this dildo. But you don't have to just believe me: It has a 4.7 star rating on Amazon, and other reviewers love it, too.

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I got mine from a small business, Spectrum Boutique, because there were more in-depth reviews of this specific toy than on Amazon.

Promising reviews: "This was my first toy, and it blew my mind and changed my life. It's firm yet flexible, and the longer length is good if you, for instance, like a hand on it as you go at it. I've tried squishier and textured toys since, but they don't do it for me like this. A+ would recommend for beginners or anyone." —Katiepmann

"Ok, so I ordered this a couple months ago, and I use it REGULARLY, like daily. Feels soooo real. It’s squishy but also has firmness, and it’s so soft to the touch. Feels lovely paired with the water-based lube that I also ordered from this site. And it’s so cute!! Suction cups to everything well. 10/10." —DakotahC

"I fell in love with first touch. I was looking for a dildo that would fit my strap-on harness and that I could bond with as my dick. This one is so soft to the touch, I cannot keep my hands off it. Plus the super strong suction on it is perfect if, say, you would like to ride the wall...it will hold strong!" —NOODS

So what are you waiting for? Get it from Amazon for $39.45 or Spectrum Boutique for $44.99.

You ready to try the Purple Rain out for the first time:

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The reviews for this post have been edited for length and clarity.

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