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    Here Are 34 Sex Toys And Accessories To Really Spice Up Your Partner Play

    From c-rings and butt plugs to handcuffs and sex furniture, we've got great suggestions for ways to spice up your couple's play.

    1. A waterproof vibrating cock ring that adds a little ~something something~ to both parties involved.

    This cock ring boasts stretch silicone and a textured bottom to help stimulate the perineum or clitoris with its five vibrating speeds and five modes.

    Promising review: "WOW! My girlfriend and I LOVE this! The times we have sex have definitely become more frequent and it's such a turn-on for me to able to get my girlfriend to climax over and over, especially because it's always been difficult for her to climax from penetration alone. If you're looking to spice up your sex life or wanna recharge the spark in your relationship I strongly STRONGLY RECOMMEND YOU BUY ONE FOR YOU AND YOUR PARTNER!!!" —Ezequiel Canizalez

    Get it from Amazon for $39.99.

    2. An Eva vibrator by Dame designed with flexible wings to tuck under the labia and nest on the vulva, stimulating them with three vibration intensities.

    Hand holding orange vibrator
    Gif demonstrating use of vibrator on vulva
    Negesti Kaudo / BuzzFeed, Dame

    Promising reviews: "I have used this once with my husband and UGH I cannot wait to keep trying it out! It’s surprisingly easy to put in place. The silicone is super soft, no rough edges or any uncomfortable feeling! The three different vibration settings will be fun to explore, but WOO that highest setting is strong. 😅 Anyway, I love the idea that I don’t have to worry about holding a vibe during sex! Hopefully it only gets better from here! 😍" —Grace R.

    "OK, the Eva II is a game changer. It’s insanely comfortable and easy to use. The three levels of vibration are perfection (level three is...life changing). I bought this to use with my husband but have only used it solo so far. Eva is the second toy I’ve ever purchased! I honestly had the most intense orgasm I’ve ever had with the first use. I highly recommend this and can’t wait to use it with my husband. It does take a bit of moving around at first to figure out how it fits best for you!" —Kelsey R.

    Get it from Dame for $135 (available in papaya and ice) or Amazon for $123.25+ (available in three colors).

    3. A unique butt plug designed to simulate the feeling of rimming with rotating anal beads in the shaft and a vibrating tip that hits your favorite spots. Because nothing screams spicy like a rim job, am I right?

    Rimming plug 2, petite and XL with wireless remotes
    @bvibe_social / Via www.instagram.com

    The set includes a vibrating butt plug, wireless remote, three B-Vibe enamel pins, carrying case, greeting card and sticker.

    This 1.5-inch diameter plug has seven rotation patterns and six intensities to explore and stimulate your P-spot as you start (or continue) your journey into anal play. Also, it's splash-proof!

    Looking for something a little larger? Check out the Rimming Plug 2 and the Rimming Plug XL, which have all the same features but a little more length.

    Promising reviews: "I purchased the rimming plug petite after the thrilling experiences I had with the Snug Plug. The rotating beads in the neck on their own are amazing and then add in the vibrating tip... exhilarating!!! With the remote, you can just relax and discover what patterns and intensity turn you on. Very innovative." —TK (on Petite)

    "My partner is skeptical when it comes to anal toys. But she absolutely loves this plug. Being wireless there is no messy wires in the way. And having rechargeable batteries is just fantastic. She loves the feel of the rimming action. She was satisfied many times. Best butt plug on the market hands down." —JAV (on Plug 2)

    "I worked up to this for a while. I’m a straight male, heard about prostate play and the benefits, and began experimenting. This is the best product I have used! It’s still always a challenge to get in, which makes it that much better." —Ronan (on XL)

    Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in three colors) or Amazon for $145+ (also available in Rimming Plug 2 and XL).

    B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.

    Don't worry, we've rounded up the best anal vibrators if you wanna keep that booty buzzin'!

    4. A satin blindfold to elevate your solo or partnered sesh by heightening and relying on your other senses for some semi-mysterious sensation play.

    Model wearing red satin blindfold
    Model wearing black satin blindfold and heart pasties
    Lovehoney

    Promising reviews: "Surprised my OH with this one date night. Haven't really tried bondage and stuff like that so this and some nipple clamps we got were a good start. Made the sensations more intense and the fact she didn't know what I was going to do drove her crazy. Fun, easy way to spice it up some!" —Colorado C.

    "I love a blindfold so much but some let you down if they are uncomfortable. This one is so comfy to wear and when positioned right neither me or my husband could see a thing when wearing it. We both love to be blindfolded because it heightens the pleasure, I would always recommend using one." —TheaD

    Get it from Lovehoney for $7.99 (available in three colors).

    5. A stainless-steel Wartenberg pinwheel that's a great introduction to pain with 22 rolling metal spikes that offer different sensations based on how much pressure you apply.

    Metal pinwheel with spikes
    Amazon

    FYI, be careful during play and communicate with your partner, because this toy is also technically a medical device and if pressed too hard could potentially puncture the skin!

    Promising reviews: "All Imma say is fellas get you one! Center of the back from the base of the neck straight down between the cheeks you won’t regret it! Trust me!" —Jason Love

    "Love this item. It adds just the right amount of sensation when you are running it over your partner's skin. A blindfold adds to the feeling." —Scott A. Misko

    Get it from Amazon for $9.49.

    6. A submersible Satisfyer Pro 2 with over 40,000 5-⭐️ ratings from viewers because of its nondirect clitoral stimulation and 11 pulsating suction intensities.

    It might just be Amazon's most beloved sex toy, seriously.

    Promising reviews: "I have been waiting for something like this forever. Helped me to get over that edge. Best thing since sliced bread. I highly recommend this." —etheldrea

    "This is the most intense orgasm I’ve ever experienced. I have a favorite vibrator, but this quickly replaced it. I cannot stress enough just how much this thing blew my mind. I can’t imagine using it on the highest speed. I couldn’t wait for my husband to try it out, and it’s probably a good thing because I think he would have totally been intimidated. Do not think for the price it’s cheap or won’t get the job done because it absolutely will, again and again and again. It is a bit noisy, but I don’t care. Anything that can make me cum like that can be as loud as it wants. Wow. Just wow." —Sabrina H.

    Get it from Amazon for $45.95 (available in three colors)

    Into blowjobs and cunnilingus? We've got you covered with a list of sex toys that simulate oral sex!

    7. A vibrating cock ring designed to amplify partnered play with an ergonomic and adjustable design that's comfortable enough to wear under your clothes for discreet sensations. Plus, like many We-Vibe products, this ring includes a wireless remote and can be controlled using the We-Connect app.

    Models holding black cock ring and wireless remote
    Model demonstrating size of ring with fingers
    @wevibe / Via www.instagram.com

    This waterproof ring includes a custom fit link for adjusting the size (35 mm without) and has 10 preset vibration settings to explore. But definitely download the We-Connect App, so you can have an unlimited amount of vibes to play with!

    Promising reviews: "I got this for my bf who never tried a ring before and he loved it. He wears it a lot in bed and we also tried it in public once it was really fun. He can also put this around his fingers when he's fingering me which is basically a mini vibrator that I don't have to hold." —Haley

    "It's very comfortable and would fit a lot of different penis sizes. Not only great to wear yourself but it takes finger play to the next level too!" —Brandon

    Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $129.

    8. A discreet wearable egg vibrator that won't clash with your favorite lingerie and will get you off with seven vibration modes and or personalized patterns using the Bluetooth app. You don't even have to invite bae over to use this toy because of the long-distance option!

    Pink egg-shaped vibrator next to cell phone
    gif of egg-shaped vibrator in water to demonstrate strength
    Amazon, Lovense

    The ergonomic egg shape means this discreet vibe stays put, so you can wear it out and about (if that's your thing) and control the vibrations effortlessly from your phone. No one would suspect a thing and with a five-hour battery life...this toy can probably outlast you.

    Promising reviews: "App works great super powerful and quiet. All I had to do was send an invite to my bf and he instantly was able to connect and control this thing. AMAZING!!" —Rachael M.

    "I use mine on Chaturbate mostly. Connects super easily, which was something I was worried about. The app is easy to use and this device works great for me on Chaturbate. Super comfy, sometimes I forget I have it in." —Vallaria

    Get it from Amazon for $129.

    9. A convenient two-piece BDSM kit to get you started featuring Unbound's Tether tape and Orion cuffs. This petite pack offers two very dependable options for gift-wrapping your lover.

    Blue handcuffs
    Blue body-safe tape
    Model wearing tape as bra
    Model wearing cuffs
    Unbound

    Promising reviews: "The tape was super easy to use! My partner really enjoyed themselves and stayed completely comfortable yet restrained the entire time. If you like using duct tape or other around the house items, switch to this! It's fantastic." —Lauryn A. (on Tether)

    "Honestly, I didn't even realize orgasms could be altered by your position until these babies. Love the color, comfort and accessibility. I wish there was a longer extension for alternative locations." —pame c. (on Orion cuffs)

    Get it from Unbound for $42 (originally $52) or separately on Amazon for $12 (tether tape) and $39 (orion cuffs).

    10. A rabbit vibrator inspired by Fifty Shades that satisfies with 36 different vibrating combinations and dual motors for simultaneous external and internal stimulation.

    Black rabbit vibrator in water
    Lovehoney

    This rabbit vibrator weighs in at 10 inches long with an insertable length of 5.5 inches and soft, silky, body-safe silicone that's submersible, offering thrilling rumbles as you play. If Christian Grey had a penis that did all of these things, could you really blame Anastasia for falling for him?

    Promising review: "My friend told me to buy this and that she orgasms in 40 seconds. I didn’t believe her, first time trying this I left a big wet patch on my grey sheets. I’m not even a huge toy fan but this has me wanting to use it every night! I love it!!" —Cookie

    "I don’t think I was prepared for how amazing this actually is. You can orgasm in seconds if you’re not careful. The vibrations feel amazing. Me and my husband love using this, especially when he’s in my ass. There are literally no words, you’ll be seeing stars." —LaLaa

    Get it from Lovehoney for $99.99 or Amazon for $69.99.

    11. A hefty 8-inch stainless-steel dildo that offers a delectable weight and feeling if you want to treat your lover to a unique sort of pleasure.

    This stainless-steel beauty weighs 2 pounds, so you'll definitely feel it.

    Promising reviews: "Hits the P-Spot perfectly!!! Also great for the wife's G-Spot!!!! Would highly recommend for solo play and for couples!!!!" —James C.

    "Product will make your partner squirt. I would recommend pairing this with a magic wand as well. Problem my girlfriend and I encountered is it’s actually too intense for her, and now she requires to be tied up, so I had to make a follow up trip to HomeDepot. Solid rating at 5/5, will spice up your intimacy time." —M. Allen

    Get it from Amazon for $72.

    12. An improved version of the OG, the Magic Wand Plus has the same reliable plug-in cord, with an updated silicone head and four powerful, rumbly vibrations that might just end up shattering the receiver's view on pleasure.

    Magic wand corded Plus massager
    Magic wand cordless rechargeable version
    Magic wand mini cordless massager
    Amazon

    The OG Magic Wand is also formerly known as the Hitachi, just to avoid confusion. Also available in Rechargeable (cordless version with multiple speeds) and Mini (a travel-friendly, cordless version).

    Promising reviews: "First off, for this price you cannot beat the quality of this product. I've spent twice as much on massagers that couldn't even match this wand's first speed. My partner and I love it, it's a complete game changer in and out the bedroom, because let's not forget, it's a massager! It works wonders all over the body and miracles on your sweet spots. If you're someone who has a hard time climaxing or feel like you never fully finish, like I was, this will absolutely get you there. I don't wanna run on too long, so I fully recommend this product and cant stress enough. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME LOOKING FOR BETTER, this shit is the OG." —Liz

    "I have sworn by my 'magic wand' for many years now. It is essential in my collection. It's basically all I need now. It's beyond bliss and great fun with a partner but I forewarn you now: once you try it you will never be able to live without it!" —Melissa D Sallee

    Get it from Amazon for $67.25+ (available in three styles).

    Here's even more wand vibrators if you're in the market, right now!

    13. A folding sex chair designed to clamp onto your favorite wand for hands-free pleasure. And when you're done, fold it up and tuck it away.

    Black folding chair with black wand vibrator
    Black folding chair with wand vibrator in center hole
    Folding chair with pink realistic dildo in center hole

    Everyday, a sex toy blows my mind. Today, it's this one. If you have a dildo, vibrator or wand, why not strap it into a chair and go for a hands-free pleasure ride? If BDSM is more your jam, tease and torment a partner with your favorite remote-controlled toy or even incorporate this chair into your next strip tease. The possibilities = endless.

    Promising reviews: "I am blown away by how perfect this is!!! Very sturdy chair, with a strong clamp to hold wand. Well worth every penny!!!" —H

    "Game changer. I’ll admit I’m the more vanilla one in the relationship, so I wasn’t sure when he brought it home where the benefit would be since I enjoy my wand perfectly lying down. But after about 10 seconds I understood. On display for him, hands behind the back or free to play. It holds it securely enough that you can gently tease or grind away as hard as you wish. Height can be adjusted perfectly to your sweet spot. Very versatile in that you can switch out toys, add restraints to the mix, or keep it soft. Folds up and tucks away nicely when you need to hide your kink from the creepy maintenance guy. Solidly built and easy to clean. Big fan." —EC

    Get it from Amazon for $269.99.

    14. Or...If you want something more discreet, here's a convenient rigging harness for the Lovense Domi 2 mini wand vibrator boasting 3D printed strap holders and adjustable straps to keep your wand in place, even while your sub squirms from the intense stimulation.

    Black wand vibrator in black strap holders with straps
    3Deviants / Etsy

    This specific listing is for the Lovense Domi 2 wand vibrator, but there's also a strap holder for the Magic Wand Rechargeable vibrator (available here on Lovehoney), a Le Wand rechargeable vibrator (available here on Lovehoney), the Doxy wand vibrator (available here on Amazon), and more. Check out the entire shop to find a harness for your preferred wand vibrator.

    BTW, the standard straps are about 30 inches long and fit dress sizes 2–20, but extra long straps are available upon request!

    Promising reviews: "This shop was super easy to work with and so helpful! I needed extra length on the straps I ordered and thought I’d be a bother with all my questions—that wasn’t the case at all! The seller was so nice and helpful. I waited a while to do a review because this was part of a surprise for my partner—and we loved it! It fit perfectly on my toy, and I can still use it without the straps if I want to. Such a clever and amazing product. My partner has trouble with spacial understanding and so using ropes is not it for him. But this was super easy and he had no trouble. Love it!" —Kate Ramlee

    "Amazing, fits the Domi 2 perfect, straps to my wife's legs perfect...then just let the Domi 2 do its work while she was tied down. We both love it! Well-made and easy to set up. Would recommend." —John Hill

    Get it from 3Deviants on Etsy for $27.99+ (available as individual holders or holders with straps).

    3Deviants is a family-owned small business based in New Hampshire and devoted to creating size- and gender-inclusive 3-D printed BDSM accessories for kinksters of all abilities.

    15. The Puff compact suction vibrator boasting five pulsation intensities to help spread the love, leaving your partner breathless, lusting for more and both of you wondering why you didn't have one before now.

    Model holding green suction vibrator above mirror
    Model holding pink suction vibrator next to box
    Unbound

    Ah, good ol' Puff. *sighs dreamily* Every time I think I have found a new favorite sex toy, I go back to this one and am reminded all over again why I love it. There's only five intensities: simple, to the point — and I like to start at 3 and end at 5. It's incredible for edging, if you want to enjoy a longer session and it's also perfect for quickies. It's my go-to shower toy because it's waterproof, and I have actually considered just leaving it in the bathroom, but I won't. True story: it died on me the other day mid-session for the first time (I've had it for over a year and maybe charged it...twice?), so the battery lasts longer than you for the most part. Anyways, this is the toy I recommend to all of my friends and I have several who own it, and it's also the toy I recommend to random strangers I meet who are looking for new ways to come because yes...when you're a sex toy writer, that's a thing that happens. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my Unbound Puff review.

    Promising reviews: "Powerful and one of a kind. This purchase was for my wife on V-day. It was her first ever suction vibrator, and literally her mind blown. No pun intended. Small, quiet, and user friendly. Only difficulty was the slightest movement between her and I could easily get the Puff off the right spot. May take some time getting used to, so we’re hopeful with more practice we can overcome this small issue. Very happy with the results." —Bryan A.

    "I’ve decided to write a review after owning this toy for over a year and it’s been my new favorite toy. I’ve used it solo and with a partner and every time is just chef's kiss. I always thought I just couldn’t squirt and a year later with this toy, at 30, I’m able to experience squirting with this fun toy. I’ve also accidentally dropped it in the washer twice and it’s been totally fine. The battery is great. In one year I’ve only charged it once and never had to experience a dead vibrator. Highly recommend." —Dee

    Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).

    16. A sleek and silky prostate massager boasting ten vibration modes for you to cycle through with your partner using the app or wireless remote control to deliver dual stimulation to the prostate and perineum.

    Couple in shower holding black prostate massager
    We-Vibe

    Promising reviews: "This is the best toy, once you try this your ass you will get addicted. Nice and powerful, hits the perfect spot, and nice during sex or sitting on a chair rocking your hips. Makes your load huge when you come and gives you a powerful orgasm. I had to try a real cock after and now love the feeling. It's also amazing for the G-spot and clitoris my wife and her friends love it in them with my cock at the same time as well, it really vibrates both genitals." —Anonymous

    "This was my first entry into prostate play and I wanted something that was approachable in size but also had vibrations in case I needed a little extra help and boy did it deliver. This is a rumbling vibrator and I love that the app allows you to fully customize both the inside and outside massager motors so that you get the exact vibrations to take you over the edge. This is great for both solo and partner play even when my wife is in another state we can have app sessions to stay connected. I also find that it helps me last longer and have stronger orgasms while having sex. It’s a pricey toy but the quality and power of the rumbly vibes make it a favorite of ours." —Anonymous

    Get it from We-Vibe or Amazon for $139.

    17. A soft, wedge-shaped Pillo by Dame that supports all your favorite positions. With a partner, this versatile pillow will be there when you need it (but it's also great for solo-time, too).

    Model stretch on indigo wedge pillow
    Pillow angled on couch for full view
    @dameproducts / Via www.instagram.com, @dameproducts / Via www.instagram.com

    This wedge-shaped pillow is designed with a machine-washable cotton cover and water-resistant lining in case things get a little messy. A handle on each side offers support no matter your favorite position.

    Promising reviews: "It’s really amazing how much of a difference this makes. We are a gay male couple and I wasn’t sure if the pillow would be good for same-sex couples but it definitely is. The firmness is great for ALL positions. It surpassed my standards." —Leonardo D.

    "Quality made and good firmness. A pillow to use for more than good sex positions and support. Washable cover is a plus." —Patrice B.

    Get it from Dame or Amazon for $95.

    18. The Starsi vibrator, which combines function with full-on adorableness with its supple silicone design and unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations.

    Hands holding pink star-shaped vibrator
    Cute Little Fuckers

    Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.

    Promising reviews: "My partner and I have had so much fun with this! It's so soft and all the different parts have such different sensations. The bullet is so strong too, I can only use it on the first setting!! As a nonbinary person I've been so pleased with this toy, it really alleviates any dysphoria I have about playing and it's such a relief! What a lovely toy from an incredible company!" —Kate

    "I cannot say enough good things about this purchase. The Starsi knocked it out of the park! The surface area of the toy is wide enough to cover the entire internal and external portions of the clitoris complex. The grooves are both soft and distinctive enough to have a grind that is satisfying. Additionally, it is easy to hold and grip; no toys flying out from under you right when you most need them. 5/5 stars for the number of consecutive orgasms we had with it!" —Anonymous

    Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (available in coral and pink).

    Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.

    19. A vibrating stroker, which allows all penis-packing pleasure enthusiasts to up the ante on their stroke game with 12 vibration modes to explore and a waterproof design.

    Model in bed holding green vibrating stroker
    Bejeweled gloved hand holding pink vibrating stroker
    @funfactoryusa / Via www.instagram.com, @funfactoryusa / Via www.instagram.com

    This sleek vibrating stroker is inspired by the appearance and power of an actual manta ray. It's designed with waterproof silicone, six speeds and six vibrating patterns to turn oral sex, masturbation and couples' play into a mind-blowing time for anyone with a penis.

    Promising review: "Replaces the old Rub and Tug any day of the week. If you're looking for a special night in for yourself this is the toy you need. Lube on up, get in the mood, and power up. Moreover this toy is great for couples' use as well. During penetration the toy allows you to easily move it up and down the shaft rubbing against the vulva and clitoris or just keep it on the shaft to make yourself the vibrator they love. If you're looking for some extra fun oral sensations with your lady or guy friend you might want to bring some water-based flavorful lubricant as the toy really shines when you can move it up and down the shaft. I would highly recommend to everyone with a penis." —Thomas H.

    Get it from Fun Factory for $139.99 or Amazon for $139.98+ (available in three colors and jewel-tone).

    20. A versatile bed restraint system that includes four adjustable cuffs and restraint straps that fit underneath your mattress, so you or your lover can be immobilized with comfort.

    Woman restrained to bed by wrists
    Black bed restraints with two wrist and two ankle cuffs
    Sportsheets

    Promising reviews: "I absolutely cannot say enough great things about these straps. They are versatile, discreet, convenient, extremely durable, well-made, and a ton of fun. Highly recommended for anyone who loves to spice things up in the bedroom." —AB

    "These are very good. Wasn't sure if the velcro would be strong enough, but it was! She loved them and I loved them. If you are looking for a great addition to fun in the bedroom I highly recommend getting these." —N. W.

    Get it from Amazon for $41.90.

    21. A miniature wand vibrator with 20 vibration patterns and eight speed intensities, making a great toy to use on your partner if they constantly (and proudly) bring up their preference for clit or tip stim.

    Promising reviews: "Loved everything about this product. Feels amazing for me and my wife. That's right, ladies, I said me — a man. My wife will use this on my shaft and near the forbidden cavern. All I can say is it’s cumtastic. For my wife she loves all the different modes it offers. I recommend this to everyone I know. #makesexgreatagain" —Dylan Ellis

    "I never had the courage to buy myself something like this. But wow I am glad I did. There are like 20 pulse options, and vibration strength options. I love that the rounded top is flexible and soft. It can move around and it’s comfortable. Don’t be like me and overthink it. Just BUY IT! You deserve it and so does your punani. 🌸" —Happy Woman

    Get it from Amazon for $18.95+ (available in five colors).

    22. The G-Plume — a smooth silicone G-spot vibrator that'll reach your lover's favorite spots, so they can enjoy each of its 10 vibration settings. A curved shaft and bulbous tip offer effortless handling for internal and external stimulation.

    Model holding orange g-spot vibrator
    Goodful Wellness

    This internal vibe by BuzzFeed's Goodful Wellness is also waterproof and rechargeable.

    Promising reviews: "I got this as surprise for my wife, and did it! We used this together and was great." —P.

    "My girlfriend wasn't sure a vibrator could get her to the mountain top — but it did, and did and did." —BC

    Get it from Hustler Hollywood or Goodful Wellness for $45.

    23. The Lelo Dot offers pinpointed stimulation directly to your S.O.'s clit with a sleek tip that moves in an infinity loop at eight powerful vibration settings. An ergonomic handle allows you both to explore all the possibilities of its innovative elliptical movement.

    Hand holding pink vibrator above water
    Teal vibrator on display
    Lelo

    Promising reviews: "I was nervous due to the reviews, but I’m glad I took the chance to try this new toy. I could easily orgasm with this but it doesn’t give the fastest orgasm and that’s fine for me, it’s not a race. If it’s too intense directly then I like to hold it on the side of my clit or away so it’s vibrating from a distance. You can also lay it flat so you don’t have to use the tip. I really enjoyed learning how to use this toy and it’s absolutely beautiful. It’s also quiet which I appreciate. I think it’s more of a solo toy due to the learning curve but if you have a patient partner then it could work for two." —Happy Kitty

    "I love this little vibrator more than I expected to. We bought it for partnered play because the tip is slender and would fit between us nicely — that’s true! I was also surprised at how powerful the vibrations are and how *incredibly* quiet it is. We’ve now used it sharing a vacation house with others and had exactly zero concerns about it being overheard — however it made the risk that I might be greater. 😉" —User1984

    Get it from Lelo for $140 or Amazon for $112.55+ (originally $179 and available in three colors).

    24. A realistic masturbator with a stimulating 3D textured interior that'll knock your partner's socks off and introduce a whole new level to your couples' play.

    Realistic stroker in white case
    Transparent realistic stroker with clear case

    Promising reviews: "Tried this on a whim. It was my partner's first time trying a toy like this and he was skeptical at first but really enjoyed the experience :) 5 stars! Easy to use, easy to clean, definitely satisfactory. ;)" —K

    "Seem to not have any downsides, it feels amazing to use, either by yourself or with a partner. The build quality on this is excellent, and due to both ends being removable it's extremely easy to clean up afterwards. Being able to unscrew/switch off the top to add extra pressure is great and has led to some of the strongest orgasms I've had." —Mikae

    Get it from Amazon for $26.89+ (available in five colors).

    25. A dual-stimulating vibrator that boasts 10 vibration settings and 12 intensities, not to mention innovative suction technology that'll stimulate your lover's clit all the way to nirvana. Sometimes, sitting back and watching your OH is exactly what it means to be in the right place at the right time.

    model eating lollipop and holding pink womanizer duo
    @womanizerglobal / Via www.instagram.com

    It also has Smart Silence technology, which means it turns itself off when not touching your body. And it includes a secondary suction tip, to make sure you have the perfect fit for a custom (kinda) blended orgasm. 

    My colleague Taylor Steele owns this toy and loves it, saying it's definitely worth the price: "This is the toy that, if it somehow went missing, I'd probably die. I'm. Serious. I love the size and feel of the Duo. Its 12 pressure *and* vibration modes leave nothing to be desired...because everything you could want is right here in one luxurious package! And I love that it senses when it's no longer needed and goes into sleep mode (until I'm ready for more, of course)! Please treat yourself to this toy. It *will* make your life better."

    Promising review: "I have never seen my wife orgasm like that before. She was hesitant when I told her how much the Duo cost and she didn't even want to use it, scared that she might not like it and we couldn't return it. However, she finally tried it and she immediately became a believer. Like, I expected it to be good, but the way she came? Way way better than I even imagined." —Bob

    Get it from Womanizer or Amazon for $153.30 (originally $219 and available in four colors).

    26. A dual cock ring designed with stretchy silicone to help your penis-packing partner stay harder for longer, so you both get yours.

    This versatile ring can be worn in several ways: solely on your dick, one ring wrapped around the D and the other around the balls or wrap them both around your balls! Pick your poison, it's your pleasure!

    Promising review: "So I bought this wanting to try it out because I have never used anything like this before. My wife was totally against it until we tried it out. She noticed a difference in performance and size! Definitely worth the try to intensify your climax!" —Christopher

    Get it from Amazon for $9.99 (available in black and burgundy).

    27. A convenient door jam sex swing kit created so you and a partner can elevate your sexual trysts (literally) whenever and whenever, as long as you have access to a sturdy door.

    Model on door swing with partner
    Lovehoney

    Plus, it has a padded seat for extra comfort, sturdy hand grips, and even stirrups if you really want to try out some aerial intimacy. This swing holds up to 325 lbs.

    Promising reviews: "Bought this for my wife as she requested it. Good quality, very sturdy, some of the positions and angles are great. Only downside would be that the straps can get caught and difficult to reposition mid-session. But other than that, nothing bad to say." —Anonymous

    "We’d just about explored every position until this thing came along and turned my partner into the sexiest acrobat. 😮‍💨 The ease of setup and use is second to none and the pleasure you get out of it is phenomenal!" —Goldennights

    "This is the second swing my husband and I bought. It was much more comfortable than our previous one. I highly recommend this product. I loved that my husband could penetrate me deep and hard. It will definitely provide intoxicating pleasure that will have you screaming in pleasure. Remember to put the swing on the right side of the door...or you will definitely break it off the hinges. 🤣" —Jondeeznuts

    Get it from Lovehoney for $79.99.

    Since you're here, you might as well peruse the rest of the sex furniture and sex swings to figure out which one goes best with your home aesthetic.

    28. A flexible vibrating butt plug that'll sync to the beat of your favorite songs, mimic your own custom patterns, or buzz along to user-created vibration modes already on the app.

    Hand reaching for black butt plugs
    Amazon

    Supple, body-safe silicone offers a waterproof exterior and a flared base helps the plug stay put.

    Promising reviews: "Exactly as described, and exceeded expectations. This is a great buy for individual’s who seek self satisfaction. This (Multi Pattern Vibrating) plug is also a fantastic idea of fun for couples who look to spice things up a bit. Personal Care Products couldn’t get any better. Extremely happy with this purchase, and look forward to purchasing more products by this brand." —William Gardener

    "We have had a great time with this. I bought the largest and it took a bit to get used to it. We are a couple of states away from each other and he has had a great time setting me off while I’m at work or doing things around home. The vibration is very intense at the highest setting and at the lowest just keeps you on edge. Being made of the material that it is, you have to keep it clean and let it air out, so it doesn’t smell if you get any fecal matter on it. Definitely recommend!" —JayyDee

    Get it from Amazon for $89+ (available in four sizes).

    29. A unique strap-on compatible dildo that's designed to stimulate the wearer with an ergonomic base that grinds against the clit, so you and your lover can both get off no matter which role you like to play.

    Pink dildo
    Dildo in black boxer harness to display ridge on bottom
    Wet For Her

    Promising review: "I've been on both the giving and receiving side with this toy and really enjoyed it. My girlfriend was able to orgasm from topping with a strap-on for the first time with this toy. The texture and firmness of the toy is also great." —Anonymous

    Get it from Wet For Her for $59.35 (originally $65.95; available in three sizes).

    30. A chic velvet collar that comes in an assortment of styles, one of which is sure to match your vibe as a couple. Whether it's a simple bow, bells, or a padlock, show off your OH in and out of the bedroom.

    Reviewer wearing pink collar with bell
    Reviewer wearing black collar with white padlock

    This collar is adjustable and 19.5 inches long.

    Promising reviews: "This collar is my go to accessory. I wear it whenever I get girlie. It is made out of a super soft material and the best thing is it is plus size friendly. I weigh 260 and it fits comfortably with plenty of room to spare. It is heavy duty and won't break or rip easily for you more adventurous couples. I took the bell off because it is super noisy so maybe not suitable for daily wear in public unless you take the bell off. Quality product right here." —Juniper Thompson

    "If I could, [I'd] give this a 100 stars. I got the black one with the red bell. The quality is perfect. If you want something that look fabulous, your significant other is going to love it so much. My husband was so turned on by this collar. It will spice up your bedroom. Please get this collar. I am going to get different colors." —Lee Jones

    Get it from Amazon for $11.99+ (available in 45 styles).

    31. A compact silicone finger vibrator in case physical touch is your love language and you want to add a little oomph to your play with 10 vibration modes controlled by a single button.

    Turquoise, pink and purple finger vibrators displayed at different angles
    @vedo.toys / Via www.instagram.com

    Promising reviews: "I bought one of these a few months ago, and just came back to buy a second one, that's how much I like this vibe. Now I've got one at my place and one at my boyfriend's because I don't want to do without it. While I don't prefer this for masturbating because it doesn't have quite enough oomph for me solo (I will go for my Magic Wand or Womanizer over this), I really like it for partnered and penetrative sex. I usually grab it during sex right when I need that last little push :) and it does the trick. It's a great size and so easy to hold with the little finger grips that I can comfortably use it in many positions with a partner. Would definitely recommend if you are looking for a low-fuss (and relatively low cost) vibrator to easily incorporate into your partnered sex." —Jane

    "Ok...this one is incredible. So many uses from nipple stimulation to clit stimulation (during solo or partnered play!!) to giving some vibration to the perineum; me and my partners love this toy. It’s so versatile and strong enough to give a great sensation, while being easy to hold. Also this is a GREAT on-the-go toy as it has a travel mode so it doesn’t accidentally buzz when you don’t want it to." —Meaghan Booth

    Get it from Spectrum Boutique or Amazon for $45.99 (available in three colors).

    Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive retailer run by self-proclaimed "Dildo Duchess" Zoe Ligon to provide customers with curated collections and resources.

    32. A uniquely shaped vibrating cock ring by Fun Factory with rabbit ear attachments to stimulate your lover's clitoris with each stroke during PIV. This toy is a twofer and just under $100, so... worth it?

    Hands holding green cock ring
    Black cock ring surrounded by gold
    @funfactoryusa / Via www.instagram.com, @funfactoryusa / Via www.instagram.com

    Or, use it with your fingers to finger your lover or wear it during a blowjob for added stimulation to the perineum during oral. The vibrating component boasts two motors with four settings and a "flirt" mode.

    Promising reviews: "I’ve never loved anything as much as I love this. All my partner has to do is wear it and just lay there. Gives me multiple long orgasms." —Barbara

    "This little toy is not messing around. There was such a (good) mess. Towels were soaked through, sheets were soaked. Waterproof mattress pad had a slight puddle. Dear lord this toy is the best vibrator I've ever had." —Red A.

    Get it from Fun Factory for $99.99 or Amazon for $93.77 (available in green and black).

    33. A versatile bondage board, so you can play out your favorite BDSM fantasies wherever and whenever (that it's legal of course) before simply folding it up and out of sight until next time.

    Board unfolded
    Board folded
    Amazon

    The board has convenient D-ring attachments, so you can use your favorite or preferred restraints, which are not included.

    Promising reviews: "This thing is awesome. Solid construction, plenty of attachment points. Nobody is escaping from this." —Zapp Brannigan

    "Great product and built strong. My partner and I have so much fun with this. Folds up easily and fits under our bed. Totally would recommend if you are into bondage!" —D

    Get it from Amazon for $218.42+ (available in 42.5" and 65" L).

    34. A vibrating masturbator sleeve that does away with all the bulk of a classic masturbator but still delivers with 10 vibration settings and a customized snugness based on your grip and rhythm on your partner.

    Reviewer holding black ribbed stroker
    Reviewer displaying removable bullet and textured piece

    There's a little bump at the top for an even more stimulating touch to the base of the tip, and ridges on the inside so that every movement offers stimulation.

    I don't have a penis, but this looks incredible, and I want it.

    Promising reviews: "Where do start!!!!! This has brought so much more spice into the bedroom. My bf was a bit scared at first, but this has changed our sex life big time!!! It’s a must, I don’t use it often, but I love it and so does my bf." —Denise S.

    "A fantastic masturbation product. All frequencies have a lot to offer. The frenulum tickler is the big plus. This product can make me cum in seconds." —Dale

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99.

    You, and your OH, after spicing up your sexy time:

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