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    24 Totally Thoughtful Gifts That'll Light Up Someone's Life

    Things to make them belly laugh, happy cry, or just give you a big hug.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI β€” prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. Fill-in-the-blank books for everyone in your life, to make it easy to talk about all the little reasons you appreciate and love them just the way they are.

    Get them on Amazon for about $10 each: the classic "love" book for $9.95, one for sisters for $9.67, one for besties for $10 and one for grandpas for $11.77.

    2. A cast iron skillet that looks like their home state because *clicks heels three times* there really is no place like home.

    Currently they're making five states (Minnesota, Michigan, Illinois, New York, and Oklahoma) plus a full-fledged US map silhouette.

    Promising review: "These skillets are a true unique find. An honest-to-goodness heirloom quality skillet that I know I'll be passing on to my children. The quality of the cast iron is second to none. Not only do they look amazing, they cook wonderfully as well and are not meant to just be a kitchen decoration. I love these skillets and American Skillet Company has been wonderful to deal with." β€”G0Badgers

    Get one from the American Skillet Company on Amazon Homemade for $125.

    3. Or a set of four home state drink coasters complete with their last name for something both practical and personal.

    SugarTreeGallery / Etsy

    The cherrywood engraved coasters come in *any* of the 50 states.

    Get a set of four from SugarTreeGallery on Etsy for $22.95.

    4. A lavender-scented heating pad made with a picture of their face β€” or your face, or any clear face β€” so they can get a warm (and hilarious) hug whenever they need one.


    Also good for your friend who's always cold! Just be sure to order by December 2nd if you want it delivered by Christmas in the US.

    Personalize them on Firebox for $19.09.

    5. A life-size pet pillow perfect for anyone who always makes you put them on speaker phone so they get a chance to talk with their furry friend.

    MrPawsCo / Etsy

    They're five feet high! Note that it comes with just the cover (no inner fill β€” you can add cheap polyfill or beanbag beans) with a zip closure. The photo's digitally printed with water-based inks.

    Get one from MrPawsCo on Etsy for $82.45 (or a smaller, 12-inch size for $28.08).

    6. A pair of long-distance touch lamps to quite literally light up their day every time you think of them β€” touch one, and they both change to a different color.

    Uncommon Goods

    When there's just two lamps, they cycle through a rainbow of colors, but if you wanted to give them to more than one loved one, you can assign each person a specific color, so when they touch their lamp, yours lights up with their custom tone.

    Get a set of two from Uncommon Goods for $170 (or $85 each).

    7. A ring made with the skyline of their favorite city (or a city you visited together! or that you live in!) so they can think of you and your time together every time they wear it.

    CaitlynMinimalist / Etsy

    Get it from CaitlynMinimalist on Etsy for $43+ (available in silver, gold, or rose gold).

    8. A pack of affirmation cards for a little uplifting positivity without an ounce of cheddar, mozzarella, or gouda β€” AKA cheese.

    (You can click or tap on the images above to enlarge 'em if ya want to read what the cards say).

    Promising review: "I love these quirky cards. I work in a busy department in a hospital. I had these LESS THAN A WEEK when they mysteriously disappeared from by desk drawer at work. We enjoyed them so much, I didn't hesitate to order them again (waiting on second delivery now). These are great reminders for me and coworkers when we start the day. They also serve as a pick-me-up if someone is having a bad day." β€”keke

    Get the deck of 50 affirmations on Amazon for $12.71.

    9. An essential oil diffuser locket so they can enjoy their favorite soothing or invigorating aromatherapy scents wherever they go.

    Promising review: "I bought this for my mom, who is obsessed with thieves (a type of essential oil that is supposed to help prevent getting sick). When she is away from her diffuser she puts a few drops on a tissue and sticks it in the top of her shirt so she can smell it all day. She LOVES the necklace and doesn't have to use tissues anymore. It is effective and also stylish and discreet." β€”Lauren Finke

    Get it on Amazon for $12.99.

    10. A beautiful candle scented with all the essences of their home state, favorite city, or even treasured beach cottage for a dose of love and nostalgia each and every time they light it.,

    Get one from Homesick Candles for $29.95.

    11. A pack of stickers made of their face, or their pet's face, or all your friends' faces, to commemorate a year of hilarity and only the best selfies.

    They're printed on durable matte vinyl with waterproof inks, so you can even stick 'em on a coffee cup (that you tell them to hand wash) to gift them their mug on a mug!

    Get them from My Sticker Face on Amazon for $17.99+.

    12. Or to go all-out: A set of cookie cutters shaped like their face. They're basically guaranteed to laugh out loud when you present them with a plate of cookies that are so obviously them!

    Get them from BoeTechLLC on Etsy for $40 per cookie cutter.

    13. A subscription to Lunarly for some nature-inspired self-care (and a candle or plant!) they can enjoy month after month, because subscription boxes = the gifts that really do keep on giving.

    Each box comes with your choice of a plant or candle, plus an assortment of other items to help create a positive space for intention-setting.

    Gift one month for $40 or three months for $110 (a $10 discount) at Lunarly.

    14. A gorgeous photo album you curate from Instagram, Facebook, or just photos you've saved for truly tangible memories you don't need a data plan or wifi to flip through.

    Artifact Uprising

    Get one from Artifact Uprising for $20+.

    15. A snowman doormat that will make your mom saw "aww" the moment she unwraps it from its box.


    You can choose from a variety of snow people in different outfits, with up to seven total. Note that reviewers say it's durable but kind of thin, and while it's technically could be used indoors or outdoors, it's probably best to keep it inside.

    Get it from Walmart for $13.85+ (two sizes available).

    16. A morse code bracelet for a fashionable way for them to wear a secret message from you each and every day.

    adorn512 / Etsy

    Well, your secret 10-character message. (Maybe try invisible ink if your message is more letter-length.)

    Get one from adorn512 on Etsy for $35 (12 cord colors available with gold or silver beads).

    17. A tea sampler box with 28 different loose-leaf gourmet blends in single-serve pouches to warm their chilly winter days.

    Promising review: "My wife drinks the same Twinnings English Breakfast pre-made tea every morning. I wanted her to branch out because I thought it would be fun for her. So I got her this box to try loose leaf tea last Christmas. She LOVED it! Each bag is pre-measured and the variety is incredible. It lasted her about three or four months and she was very upset when it ran out. So I bought it again for this Christmas and I'm sure she will love it all the same. Also, now she is in love with trying new teas and has really honed in on her favorite style, color, and flavor tea!" β€”Dalton F.

    Get it on Amazon for $28.

    18. Or if they're definitely more of a coffee person, a subscription to Atlas Coffee Club, which delivers freshly roasted beans from a different country around world once a month.

    Three-month Atlas Coffee Club subscriptions start at $60.

    Read our full review of Atlas Coffee Club.

    19. A countertop herb garden for the home chef in your life who's always wishing they had time or space to actually grow basil, mint, and thyme outdoors.


    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful line, exclusively at Macy's for $189.99.

    Read our full review of the AeroGarden.

    20. A soft cotton blanket with a full-color photo of your choice woven through it on one side, which doubles as a lifetime keepsake and a cozy throw to cuddle under on a chilly day.

    Even if that cuddling includes spilled hot chocolate, you won't have to worry because the 60x50 throw's completely machine washable. But you have to order and submit your photo by December 5th for Christmas delivery!

    Promising review: "With a short e-mail thread between a representative and myself, I had my custom quilt in less than a week and a half. I received an e-mail stating that I could send the photo I wanted screened to the company's address and the rep would continue to contact me on the process. At one point, I was told that some of my photo may be cut off and I was given options on what I could do i.e. crop photo, add border, etc. I asked for some assistance and the rep decided to add a border, which in turn, would not cut off any portion of my photo. What a relief! I rarely write reviews, but when I received my quilt within a week and a half, looking as beautiful as it was, I knew I had to let you all know it's legit!" β€”Amazon Customer

    Get from Personalization King on Amazon for $89.99.

    21. A scratch-off USA map poster or world map poster that will both help them remember everywhere they've been and inspire them to never stop exploring.,

    Promising review for the USA map: "I saw this on Pinterest awhile ago so when I came across it on Amazon, I was super excited!! I've traveled most of the US while growing up so I am using this with my husband for the places we visit together. I've had no problems scratching off states so far, just be careful to not accidentally scratch places you haven't been (I noticed my fingernail made a couple little scratches on other states while I was scratching off the ones we've been to with a dime). I highly recommend framing this as it comes tightly rolled and is hard to get it flat." β€”CAK333

    Get the USA map on Amazon for $23.51 (not framed).

    Promising review for the world map: "The pictures online don’t do this map justice! The colors are vibrant and the paper is sturdy. I would recommend this map to anyone who wants to track their world travels." β€”Rachel Wolfe

    Get the world map on Amazon for $24.47.

    22. The Five-Minute Journal, which uses ~science~ to encourage a positive perspective on everyday life.

    Julia Reinstein / Instagram: @juliareinstein

    Basically, it takes a few questions that psychology knows help people out, and has you run through those each and every day, complete with an inspirational quote. Every morning, there's a space to jot down three things you're grateful for, three things that will "make today great", and a ~positive affirmation~ (which could simply be what one BuzzFeeder who reviewed the Five-Minute Journal called a "one-sentence pep talk"). At night, there are lines to write down three amazing things from the day, plus two things that would have made the day better.

    Promising review: "A friend sent me this book when I really needed it and then I purchased a second one when I filled it out. It's very simple... Just a few short prompts in the morning and a few more in the evening. I found that it really helped me focus on the positive but also recognize that I'm in control and can make changes. I liked when the book explained that the question about how today could have been better forces you to consider things you can control, not the things you can't (such as "the weather was bad")." β€”G24

    Get it on Amazon for $22.95.

    23. Five pairs of Supima cotton socks embroidered with their name, your favorite inside joke, or just a sweet message β€” because basically every grown up adult needs and loves socks but they'd never buy anything so luxe for themselves.

    Uncommon Goods

    Get the pack of five on Amazon for $50.

    24. An illustrated cameo portrait of everyone in your family that will make your parents sniffle with joy when you and your siblings give it to them at just the right moment.

    Uncommon Goods

    Get it from Uncommon Goods for $75+.

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