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    69 Movies That Totally Awakened Your Sexuality

    You weren't exactly sure what you were feeling but you liked it.

    We asked members of the BuzzFeed Community to share the movies that β€” oh my β€” sparked their sexual awakening. These were their sometimes sexy, sometimes embarrassing choices:

    1. Blue Crush

    Universal

    "And gay baby me was born."

    β€”ellenc18

    2. Desperado

    Columbia

    "Antonio Banderas and Salma Hayek gave me a funny feeling in my pants."

    β€”kmortification

    3. Fear

    Universal

    "Reese Witherspoon and Mark Wahlberg and that roller coaster scene!"

    β€”sarahm4cb9372dc

    4. Titanic

    Paramount/20th Century Fox

    "I like to say 'I went in a girl and came out a woman.' Leo was the sexiest man I had ever seen."

    β€”abbeyw4cd0a1d09

    5. True Lies

    Universal/Fox

    "It was THE Jamie Lee Curtis scene, you know the one. I just happened to walk in and catch it. Didn't need the movie's context whatsoever. It's also how I learned I'm not totally straight because gahdamn she was the sexiest."

    β€”taylord628

    6. Hook

    Tristar

    "Definitely Rufio (played by Dante Basco) in Hook."

    β€”jmclark1181

    7. Cruel Intentions

    Columbia

    "I first realized I was bisexual during the kiss scene between Selma Blair and Sarah Michelle Gellar. It was a revolutionary moment for middle school me, haha."

    β€”erinc4e346f509

    8. Peter Pan

    Universal

    "This movie caused my sexual awakening when I was 6 years old. The Coldplay piano riff, the shirtless boy sneaking into Wendy's window and whisking her away to a magical land, the kiss β€” how could it not cause my sexual awakening?"

    β€”mikolem

    9. Catwoman

    Warner Bros.

    "When I saw Halle Berry as Catwoman my body reacted in such a way that I had to watch it, uh, at least 400 more times."

    β€”natalyec

    10. Not Another Teen Movie

    Columbia

    "Chris Evans's body was amazing and he has not disappointed since. Definitely the start of a lifelong thirst."

    β€”jazminl2

    11. Far and Away

    Universal

    "It was Tom Cruise and his shitty Irish accent. 12-year-old me didn't realize how bad that accent was or how bugfuck crazy Cruise is. But, honestly...I still love the movie."

    β€”annalee10

    12. The Country Bears

    Disney

    "Umm...does anybody remember the song 'Kick it Into Gear' from The Country Bears? You know, the movie about the singing bears? Yeah, my sexual awakening came from the hot waitresses in The Country Bears."

    β€”keeganp2

    13. George of the Jungle

    Disney

    "Brendan Fraser in George of the Jungle. I mean, he's covered in a loincloth for most of the movie, ffs! But when he puts on that suit, he's still fine as fuck. Plus, lest we forget, that after-shower scene."

    β€”amlynnweb

    14. Labyrinth

    Tristar

    "It was David Bowie. To this day I would fear him, love him, and do as he says. I'd be lying if I said I never thought about wishing the goblins would come and take my own child away so I could marry the Goblin King."

    β€”lacyleathers92

    15. The Breakfast Club

    Universal

    "A coy redhead (Molly Ringwald) who can apply lipstick with her cleavage? No contest!"

    β€”p47cb0f290

    16. Space Jam

    Warner Bros.

    "How could I ever forget Michael Jordan in Space Jam?"

    β€”tabithamayer88

    17. Casper

    Universal

    "At the end, when the ghost became a real boy, that made me feel things."

    β€”sybilb2

    18. Justin Bieber: Never Say Never

    Paramount

    "My eighth grade heart couldn't handle his floppy hair, angelic voice, and underdog story. I wish I could knock some sense into my eighth grade self."

    β€”rebeccalynns40879b8d0

    19. A Hard Day's Night

    United Artists

    "There's a closeup of John Lennon's mouth when he's playing the harmonica in the luggage car...I changed that day."

    β€”marym47d3702f9

    20. Austin Powers: The Spy Who Shagged Me

    New Line Cinema

    "This is gonna sound sooooo stupid, but I was young at the time and kept telling my dad how pretty one of the actresses was. Well, I ranted for about thirty minutes on how pretty she was, lmao. Needless to say when I finally came out to my father years and years later he already knew about it because of my ranting about the female actress."

    β€”hollzy90

    21. The Lord of the Rings: The Fellowship of the Ring

    New Line Cinema

    "Legolas (played by Orlando Bloom) did it for me. I went to see Fellowship of the Rings an innocent child thinking boys were gross, then, three hours later, left the theater a woman in love, thirsting for a water bottle filled with Legolas' sweat."

    β€”butterflybutts91

    22. Purple Rain

    Warner Bros.

    "Prince! Those funky dance moves, that sexy jumpsuit. Unffff!"

    β€”palomal3

    23. Heathers

    New World Pictures

    "Heather Chandler (performed by Kim Walker) from Heathers. I was so gay for her."

    β€”blossomgutz

    24. A River Runs Through It

    buzzfeed.com

    "I was 10 years old and when I saw Brad Pitt and I told my mom 'It's his eyes.'"

    β€”aubreyl47cc6b3dc

    25. The Last of the Mohicans

    20th Century Fox/Warner Bros,

    "The part where Daniel Day-Lewis says, 'You stay alive, no matter what occurs! I will find you! No matter how long it takes, no matter how far. I WILL find you...' I spent an embarrassing amount of time staring at my Daniel Day-Lewis poster, attempting to will a Mohican into existence."

    β€”mommyzombie

    26. The Adventures of Elmo in Grouchland

    Columbia

    "Vanessa Williams as the Queen of Trash."

    β€”zainaamira17

    27. The Princess Bride

    20th Century Fox

    "Westley was my everything."

    β€”clairel482590864

    28. Dirty Dancing

    Vestron Pictures

    "The ORIGINAL, not that ABC abomination. I mean, Patrick Swayze and that hip swivel?"

    β€”meaganw4b3620ccb

    29. Three Steps Above Heaven

    Warner Bros.

    "Have you seen Mario Casas?"

    β€”marivalenc

    30. Jurassic Park

    Universal

    "Only Jeff Goldblum could make almost getting eaten by a T-Rex look so magnificently sexy."

    β€”caitlinc492e96796

    31. Stand By Me

    Columbia

    "Specifically River Phoenix in that white t-shirt."

    β€”j45653cf3d

    32. Grease

    Paramount

    "Have you guys seen John Travolta in that movie? A man who can sing and dance? Help me lord!"

    β€”shewritesff

    33. S.W.A.T.

    Columbia

    "I watched this movie when I was a kid and it was definitely an awakening. Young Colin Farrell came on screen and I was like, 'Wooooow! I just hit puberty.' Minutes later Michelle Rodriquez came on screen and I went, 'Ohhhhhh, okay, yeah I'm definitely bisexual,' haha."

    β€”livb4aeb3db20

    34. Aladdin

    Disney

    "Aladdin, specifically Jafar and red Jasmin. I've never been sure who I was more attracted to in that scene."

    β€”amandav4bb8241e2

    35. Enchanted

    Disney

    "When Amy Adams touches Patrick Dempsey's chest hair, hot damn."

    β€”gabyw47f5137a2

    36. Batman and Robin

    Warner Bros.

    "Uma Thurman as Poison Ivy. She was my first indication that maybe, just maybe, I wasn't straight."

    β€”katlady122193

    37. Velvet Goldmine

    Miramax

    "Ewan MacGregor naked? Check. Jonathan Rhys Meyers at peek twinkdom? Check. Orgy scene with incredible background music? CHECK."

    β€”khatleesi

    38. The Three Musketeers

    Buena Vista

    "I'm a bit embarrassed to admit this, but Charlie Sheen in The Three Musketeers. His character was a very religious man but he was sleeping with women he was never supposed to. It was clandestine, forbidden, and very erotic. All I could say to anyone is I just really liked his character!"

    β€”jbishop1101

    39. Star Wars: Episode I – The Phantom Menace

    20th Century Fox

    "I saw Natalie Portman and started having feelings that used to be reserved only for boys. I didn't even know at the time that a person could like both. I still can't watch the movie without feeling extremely uncomfortable and awkward."

    β€”jessannie

    40. Save The Last Dance

    Paramount

    41. John Tucker Must Die

    20th Century Fox

    "The scene where Beth kisses Kate in the truck made me realize girls were pretty hot. Also, when Kate wore the red lingerie. Jeezus!"

    β€”aub4697

    42. The Man in the Iron Mask

    United Artists

    "Okay, this is very weird, but I attribute The Man In the Iron Mask to my sexual awakening. Every time Leonardo DiCaprio's character was put in the mask I felt *~some type of way~*"

    β€”angp45b53cdd0

    43. The New Guy

    Columbia

    "This is not a good movie but stars the gorgeous Eliza Dushku. In one scene she tries on a series of bikinis, and, well, when this DVD came out it was a game changer for an adolescent me."

    β€”jonalread

    44. Tim Burton's The Nightmare Before Christmas

    buzzfeed.com

    "This is going to sound very strange, but this movie sexually awakened me at the age of twelve. It's the part where Jack needs to get rid of Santa so he can take over, so he sends Santa down the shoot to the Boogie Man lair where he is tied up and hung from the ceiling. The Boogie Man dances around him, teasing him about his lost freedom and how he can't escape, and I got really strange (and nice) feelings about Santa being tied up and 'teased' by the Boogie Man. Turns out, I'm into BDSM and I learned it from the Boogie Man."

    β€”kendraclark

    45. But I'm a Cheerleader

    Lionsgate

    "I'm straight but no one makes me question it like Natasha Lyonne does."

    β€”devins42ea130c9

    46. Jason's Lyric

    MGM/Gramercy

    "That scene on the couch! Woo!"

    β€”chionir

    47. Holes

    Buena Vista

    "I was 10 years old when the film was released. At the time, in my eyes, the main actors were rugged, sexy, manly MEN and I wanted more."

    β€”valerieg41dc211b5

    48. Now and Then

    New Line Cinema

    "The scenes between Christina Ricci and Devon Sawa were peak awkward pre-teen sexual tension. I was also really into hippie Brendan Fraser, foreshadowing my lifelong attraction to slightly crusty dudes."

    β€”nc89

    49. The Blue Lagoon

    Columbia Pictures

    "Completely aging myself. The movie is so wrong, but yet..."

    β€”sheria4fd4c987c

    50. Showgirls

    buzzfeed.com

    "Picture it. Baltimore ’96. I'm 8 years old. My mom rents the basement of a house shared with 4 other strippers and I am left home alone most nights. I start sifting through the VHS tapes and I stumble upon a tape that has Showgirls on one side and Grease on the other. That tape taught me everything I needed to know. I am now a Sexual Goddess β€” and you better keep your filthy paws off of my silky drawers."

    β€”kaylanicoleb2

    51. The Santa Clause 2

    Buena Vista

    Elizabeth Mitchell on the ladder in the beginning did things to my little 10-year-old body that I didn't quite understand. Now I realize that was probably the first clue that I'm a lesbian."

    β€”kelseym46b380de4

    52. The Last Dragon

    buzzfeed.com

    "Leroy (Taimak Guarriello) from The Last Dragon."

    β€”jmclark1181

    53. Dream Boy

    Regent

    "Dream boy. First gay movie I ever saw. Can’t stop since."

    β€”ksenyak

    54. Romeo + Juliet

    20th Century Fox

    "What 13-year-old girl would have memorized Romeo and Juliet word for word without being forced to by an English teacher? This girl. Because I watched the movie every day so I could drink in all that is '90s Leo. I was addicted to that hair and those eyes.... *still fanning myself*"

    β€”kalie

    55. Hairspray

    New Line Cinema

    "I was about 12 or 13 when it came out and I must have seen it four times in the theater, and then every day after school on DVD. Zac Efron as Link Larkin, in tight pants dancing all over the place, really did it for me."

    β€”cumberbabe1395

    56. The Outsiders

    Warner Bros.

    "I'm old, lol. But damn so many cute boys β€” Ralph Macchio, Rob Lowe, pre-couch jumping Tom Cruise, Patrick Swayze, Emilio Estevez, and C. Thomas Howell. Damn."

    β€”catnelsonl

    57. Pirates of the Caribbean: The Curse of the Black Pearl

    Disney

    "I remember being so young and walking out of the theater, knowing that that was a sexy man, and he was the first person I ever actually lusted after."

    β€”jessiel4da0c3e63

    58. Soul Food

    20th Century Fox

    "The sex scene where that guy cheats on Vanessa Williams with her cousin. Ever since I saw that I have always wanted to fuck someone on a wall. Still hasn't happened, though, because I'm not a skinny bitch...please let me know if Jason Momoa has an open marriage."

    β€”dmad13

    59. Black Swan

    Fox Searchlight

    "Totally made me realize I wasn't as hetero as I'd previously thought."

    β€”missyivi

    60. Hocus Pocus

    Disney

    "Sean Murray as Thackery Binx. You only see him for a few minutes but hot damn I thought he was so beautiful! Everything about him made me swoon!"

    β€”nicolegnz1193

    61. Jeremiah Johnson

    Warner Bros.

    "Young Robert Redford is so hot I can't even articulate how he makes me feel. Since becoming an adult I have transformed my boyfriend into a bearded mountain man."

    β€”adsoliz88

    62. The Rocky Horror Picture Show

    20th Century Fox

    "This movie woke the tiger in me. The second Tim Curry threw off that cloak it was over."

    β€”fredzesty

    63. The Sandlot

    20th Century Fox

    "The boys from The Sandlot."

    β€”natelys

    64. Pretty Woman

    Buena Vista

    "A friend of mine put on a copy when I spent the night at her house and β€” upon seeing Richard Gere β€” something changed! I didn't understand it when I was 9, but I still find him to be a silver fox 14 years later."

    β€”rcdmdb

    65. Rocky 4

    MGM/UA

    "Ivan Drago. Yup."

    β€”kimberlyb46fa0ce7f

    66. Like Mike

    20th Century Fox

    "Bow wow in Like Mike."

    β€”cloudymcrawr

    67. Bubble Boy

    Buena Vista

    "This is so embarrassing, but Bubble Boy just got to me. I was awakened and felt feelings I've never felt before."

    β€”emilys405016583

    68. Interview With A Vampire

    Warner Bros.

    "Brad Pitt is gorgeous, and so is Tom Cruise. There's so much nudity and sex I honestly should not have been allowed to watch it. Also, when Claudia (Kirsten Dunst) goes off about being a child forever and wanting to have boobs and have sex...RELATABLE."

    β€”tawncat

    69. Reality Bites

    Universal

    "Ethan Hawke as Troy became the perfect example of every asshole guy I chased after for the next 30 years. Good times."

    β€”rachels400bc03e5

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