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      I’ve taken Plan B twice; the first time I was just fine, no side effects or anything. The second time (a few years after the first, so not close together to cause issues or anything), my period ended up being screwed up with weird spotting in between for about six months after. I finally went to the doctor (finally had insurance to do so) and got put on a regular birth control pill, which made my periods regular again, but I don’t know how long it would’ve affected it if I hadn’t. (Plus nausea and cramps for a couple days after taking it.) Weird how it can affect things that way!

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      i feel like most of these apply to young teenagers.
      but as for having sex with the same person - it feels GREAT, actually. we know each other, we’re used to each other, we’re comfortable, we don’t have to worry about uncertainty and “what if” and “what is he/she thinking” and all that bullshit. wouldn’t “switch it up” for the world.
      as for the engagement photos - a lot of times, it’s part of the wedding photo package, so your photog can meet with you and get to know you.

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      My mom had a bagless vacuum ever since I was old enough to run hers, and I’ve always had one as well. I have no reason to know how to change a vacuum bag. I don’t think that makes me less “adult”, but whatever. Also I can’t afford regular dentist visits, so I guess that makes me a child too. Does “fear of spiders” actually have an age limit? I don’t actually know what “fix a puncture” refers to - a puncture of WHAT? I’ve hosted my family for Christmas, but I’ve never “thrown a dinner party”, so I suppose that can’t count. What constitutes a “proper” cup of coffee? Isn’t a “proper” cup of coffee a cup of coffee you ENJOY? Does it matter if it’s “proper”? And let’s see - I guess my terrible memory for names makes me a child too, because we all know that no one who is a REAL adult has any kind of memory problem. Never. *sigh*

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      Sometimes I get on Tumblr and find myself frustrated with the “whiny SJW” type who seem to take literally every word a person says and find offense. Then I come back into the “real world” and read FUCKING BULLSHIT like this, and have to grudgingly admit there’s a reason for them taking it too far the other direction.
      As a fully-proud-of-who-she-is white girl, this is the biggest steaming pile of bullshit. “Oh no, we cast a couple black actors? WHAT WILL THE WHITE ONES DO??” I cannot BELIEVE it is 2015 and this is fucking happening. Thanks, media. You couldn’t have possibly just gone for positivity.

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      My husband (whose hair was not actually all that long at the time) kept getting from our families “it’s going to look like TWO WOMEN standing up there!!” at our wedding. “how will I know which one’s the GIRL?” he also got called “ma’am” a lot (sometimes intentionally), and he WAS told to get a haircut before an interview (he’s a consultant, so he was interviewing with a client of his home company, and his home company made him cut his hair to look “neater”. because long hair can’t be clean. ever.) He keeps it chopped off now just because it’s easier that way if he has to do another interview, but man, it’s stupid…

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