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    21 Gifts If You Want To Spoil Yourself This Valentine's Day

    No one knows how to spoil you quite like yourself.

    1. An empowering sticker because you're awesome and could probably use a reminder from yourself every once in a while. Buy a few and stick them on your laptop, water bottle, or anywhere you'll be able to see it often for your daily dose of inspiration. 

    A close up of the sticker
    Katie Abey/Etsy

    Katie Abey is a UK-based, woman-owned small biz that sells clothing, stickers, cards, pins and more with colorful and funny illustrations. 

    Promising review: "Love these stickers! They're so bright and pretty and give me the boost I need. 😊" —Claire

    Get it from Katie Abey on Etsy for $2.59.

    2. A satin robe so you can feel super fancy and comfy while you kick back on the couch and binge You on Netflix because Joe will be getting all of your attention this Valentine's Day.

    BTW, it also has pockets!

    Promising review: "This product deserves the highest possible rating! Honestly, I feel like I paid $100 at Nordstrom or Neiman Marcus — it’s so well-made, the fabric is very soft, and the robe fits so well. There are no loose threads or any imperfections whatsoever. The color is breathtaking! Seriously, just WOW!!!" —Natalia Gucciardo

    Get it from Amazon for $14.99+ (available in women's sizes XS-XXL and in 21 colors).

    3. And a pair of personalized fuzzy slippers for a cozy night in. These slippers are soft and luxurious — because you deserve nice things.

    The slippers in various colors personalized with different names
    Lace and Ruffle Shop/Etsy

    Lace and Ruffle Shop is a small biz based in NY that sells customizable robes, pajamas, slippers, and gifts for brides and bridesmaids. 

    Promising review: "My sisters and I absolutely love these personalized slippers. They are cute and comfy!" —Tanisha

    Get it from Lace and Ruffle Shop on Etsy for $21.49 (available in four colors and four sizes).

    4. lace bodysuit because you don't need to spend a lot or have a S.O. to dress up in some lingerie.

    A model wearing the plunging neckline bodysuit in purple
    A reviewer wearing the bodysuit in black

    FYI: It's got an adjustable strappy back, and reviewers recommend sizing up.

    Promising review: "I've never posted a review before but I felt like I needed to do it this time. I’m not a confident person when I’m talking about my body, but I felt AMAZING in this bodysuit! Do yourself a favor and buy it — show your curves and feel amazing like I did!" —A.

    Get it from Amazon for $16.14+ (available in women's sizes XL–4XL and in 12 colors).

    5. A world bucket-list scratch off poster so you can keep track of all of your traveling adventures. Depending on the one you choose, you'll be able to scratch off any US state, country, or National Park you visit.

    A model scratching off a state one the poster
    Kristin Douglas Art/Etsy

    Kristin Douglas Art is a woman-owned small biz that sells accessories and items perfect for anyone who loves traveling.

    Promising review: "Easy to assemble with frame (it is magnetic) and easy to scratch off. Packaged nicely." —Anahita Mostaghim

    Get it from Kristin Douglas Art on Etsy for $31.45+ (originally $37+; available in three versions, two colors, and with or without a frame).

    6. An adorable knit sweater if you ~wear your heart on your sleeves~ and you're proud of it.

    A model wearing the red sweater with white heart patches on the elbows
    A reviewer wearing the sweater in gray

    Promising review: "I absolutely love this sweater! I think it's probably my favorite piece I've purchased the last few months. The material is really warm and comfy, not scratchy like I thought it would be." —Nicole Julum

    Get it from Amazon for $30.98+ (available in women's sizes S–XL and in 15 colors).

    7. A blinged-out knotted headband that'll upgrade any hairstyle (or turn a bad hair day into a great one). These headbands have various charms on them and come in fun colors.

    Five of the headbands in various colors and styles
    Twine and Love/Etsy

    Twine and Love is a small business that sells handmade hair accessories, jewelry, and purses.

    Promising review: "The cutest headband!! It's so fun and I received so many compliments!!" —Allison Tarrer

    Get it from Twine and Love on Etsy for $38.99 (available in five styles).

    8. An LOLworthy mug if you are totally and completely single and proud. Alexa, blast Single Ladies by Beyoncé.

    mug reading
    mug printed with hearts and pizza with text
    Mug printed with checklist
    Look Human

    Get the plants, pizza, or fictional character mug from Look Human for $10.99+ (originally $14.99+; available in two sizes).

    9. An Instax Mini Bluetooth phone photo printer so you can print your fave pics right from your phone. Surround yourself with snaps of everything and everyone you love — including cute photos of yourself.

    The pink, phone-sized printer printing out a pic
    Three of Kayla's Polaroid-looking photo prints with a tie-dye border effect
    Kayla Boyd/BuzzFeed

    BuzzFeed Shopping editor Kayla Boyd loves hers! She writes: 

    "This is one of my absolute favorite things I own. This adorable portable printer allows me the joy of having physical photos plastered around my room, without having to carry around a bulky camera that never fits in my purse. In addition to looking cute on display in my room, I've also loved using prints in my planner and on vision boards. I've even printed out some quotes I found on Pinterest. And if you are already a fan of Fujifilm Instax Mini cameras, then you'll be thrilled to know that this printer uses the exact same film. The printer is super user-friendly and allows you to print off ~any~ picture from your camera roll through the Instax Mini Link app. Once the app is connected to your printer, you can important your photo and then you're given tons of creative options. You can adjust the crop of your photo, add a filter, or even make a collage! Another useful thing I've used my printer for is finding an old picture of me and a friend, popping on a 'Happy Birthday' filter, and giving it to them in a frame as a gift." 

    Check out her full Fujifilm Instax Mini Printer review for even more.

    Get it from Amazon for $99.99+ (available in five colors and with or without film included).

    10. The Foreo Luna Mini 2, a sonic facial cleansing tool, to level up your self-care routine. This tool will remove dead skin, dirt, oil, and makeup from your face in a snap.

    Maitland using the pink version with the text
    A close up of the cleansing tool in light pink
    Maitland Quitmeyer/BuzzFeed, Amazon

    All you have to do is add your fave cleanser and choose from eight intensity settings and you're good to go. It will light up and buzz when it's time to move on to another section of your face.

    Promising review: "I've used other facial cleansing brushes, but none can compare to the Foreo Luna Mini 2. I'm noticing my pores are getting less noticeable and my skin looks great. I am 68 years old and have always taken good care of my skin. I'm very pleased and impressed with my Mini 2. It's a great size for my hand and is gentle yet thorough in cleaning my skin. I was very happy with the price that I paid — it certainly is worth it. And I don't have to charge it every night. Charging every six months is okay with me! I would recommend this to everyone." —Lois S.

    Check out BuzzFeed Shopping editor Maitland Quitmeyer's full Luna Mini 2 review

    Get it from Amazon for $104.52+ (available in five colors).

    11. heart-shaped lip gloss so you can show your lips the love they deserve. This gloss is made with nourishing oils so you can get that pop of color and all the shine you crave without your lips feeling chapped.

    Several tubes of the lipgloss in different shades
    Amazon

    Promising review: "I never had the perfect lip gloss until this. The gloss is so smooth, moist, long lasting and smells so sweet. The lip gloss on my lips look so natural. I'm deeply in love with the brand and would buy more to wear. Extra bonus Kaja lipstick is anti animal cruelty and vegan friendly." —Princetta

    Get it from Amazon for $17 (available in six shades).

    12. A glam, vegan, faux-croc Macbook case because you deserve wayyy more than a basic laptop case. 

    laptop with the lilac case on the back of the monitor
    Chic Geeks

    Chic Geeks is a Black woman-owned business specializing in tech accessories.

    Promising review: "I can tell it’s much higher quality than other cases I’ve bought. The only problem is I want all the colors now." —T. Mitchell

    Get it from Chic Geeks for $95 (available for nine different models). Find more colors here.

    13. A silk pillowcase so you can catch some Z's and get some ~beauty sleep~ in luxury. This pillowcase is gentle on hair and skin and it has over 12,000 5-star ratings. 

    A model sleeping on the pillow
    Amazon

    Promising review: "For years, I've been told I should get a silk pillowcase because it's great for skin and hair. I finally bought this one and it's one of the best purchases I have ever made for myself! The quality is great, it feels awesome against my skin, my hair looks fantastic in the morning, my skin looks better than ever, and I'm just super impressed! Do yourself a favor and buy one — you won't regret it." —Lesanna Dahlen

    Get it from Amazon for $19.99+ (available in seven sizes and 28 colors and prints).

    14. An awesome hoodie embroidered with the Lizzo-inspired lyrics: "Baby, I'm the whole damn meal." Because, duh — you totally are! And now everyone will know, too.

    The white pullover hoodie with a front pocket and the small embroidered graphic on the chest
    Stylish Sista/Etsy

    Stylish Sista is a Black woman-owned, Brooklyn-based shop that features all sorts of pop music and self-love inspired stickers and goodies.

    Get it from Stylish Sista on Etsy for $45 (available in unisex sizes S–5XL and in four colors).

    15. A warm blanket because reviewers are saying it's the best blanket ever. This blanket is reversible and has soft flannel on one side and fleece on the other. Did I mention it has over 60,000 5-star ratings? 

    The blanket in light gray on a bed
    The blanket wrapped with a ribbon

    Promising review: "One Amazon reviewer said it was 'addictive' — and it is! Comes in an array of beautiful colors and sizes! Affordable as well! Lightweight, warm, and luxurious! I gifted one in teal to my nephew who loves it. One in gray to my friend. Three for me in mauve, blue, and teal so I can share for guest as well as coordinating seasonal colors! Don’t hesitate to buy this luxurious, comfortable blanket!" —Joann Ianniello

    Get it from Amazon for $21.99+ (available in 27 colors and four sizes).

    16. A fun keyring if the only kind of "noods" you're interested in right now are the kind you can scoop up with chopsticks. 

    A close up of the keychain
    Punky Pins/Etsy

    Punky Pins is small biz based in the UK that sells pins, patches, phone cases, and stickers 

    Promising review: "Absolutely love this keyring — so fun, exactly what I was looking for, for my keyset. Great colours and feels steady. Would recommend!" —Sahina Bibi

    Get it from Punky Pins on Etsy for $12.94.

    17. A heated eye massager so after a long day, you can fit in some much needed self-care. It has five different massage modes, a 15-minute timer, and Bluetooth capability so you can also play music to help you relax and kick back. 

    If you have any eye problems, talk with your doctor before using this.

    Promising review: "I saw this product on one of Amazon’s must-have TikTok videos, and I knew I had to get it. It was so worth it — even though the price may seem higher compared to other sellers, this is for sure a good investment piece. The quality is top-notch, the strap that goes around your head is comfortable, and, most importantly, the duration of each mode is long enough that it doesn’t interrupt your rest. I work a 12-hour night shift as a nurse, and this technology has helped me get through the night easily. 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽" —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $50.53+ (available in three colors). 

    18. A pair of anti-Valentine's Day conversation heart stud earrings if you want to express how you really feel. These studs look like the traditional candy hearts we are all used to seeing around this time of year, but they definitely don't have the mushy sayings we're used to.

    A pair of heart earrings that say
    Conversation hearts that say things like: Ew, hard pass, not today, nope, hell no, boy bye, bite me, piss off
    Brown Cow Creatives Too/Etsy

    Brown Cow Creatives is a small business that sells handmade earrings, ornaments, and more. 

    Get them from Brown Cow Creatives on Etsy for $11.50+ (available in 10 sayings and six colors and in a pack of three. Custom pairs also available).

    19. A neck and back massager because who doesn't need a spa day? And better yet, one that won't cost and arm and a leg. This massager has eight modes, a car adapter for on-the-go relaxation, and a carrying bag.

    reviewer selfie throwing up peace sign with the neck massager on her shoulders
    The neck massager, glowing red with heat

    Promising review: "This is the best purchase I've ever made in my life! This is a beautiful mystic machine that will make you so incredibly happy. I was able to get knots out of my shoulders that even massage therapists can't get out. I would fight someone for this, like wild Black Friday fight someone for this. I love that you can choose which direction to have it massage. The heat portion makes baby angels sing. I'm using this right now and I'm pretty sure I can hear a harp with baby cherubs flying around." —Kelli B

    Get it from Amazon for $44.99 (available in two colors).

    20. Or a shiatsu massaging pillow so you can have an awesome massage at home on your fave chair. I have one of these, and OMG!! It feels amazing and it can be used on your neck, back, and even legs. 

    Promising review: "Best Father's Day gift! I bought this for my husband for Father's Day and was pleasantly surprised. The massager is compact and not bulky, but covers a great amount of area. My husband loves using this when just hanging out in the living room with our 2-year-old son, or when watching TV on the couch, or even when working in the home office. We have yet to bring it in the car with us but so far we love this product. The option to turn off the heat is great too because sometimes we don't need it hot. All in all it's a great massager for the price and best part is I also get to use it, too. " —agnes s.

    Get it from Amazon for $42.45.

    21. A shirt with positive sayings to remind you that you are enough, you are capable, and you are loved.

    A model wearing a shirt that says
    Afrodits/Etsy

    Afrodits is a small biz based in Houston, Texas that sells clothing and tote bags.

    Promising review: "Can’t wait to show this off. Love it and the message it sends." —Kendra

    Get it from Afrodits on Etsy for $9.99+ (available in adult, youth, toddler and baby sizes and a sweatshirt version).

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