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    Updated on Nov 28, 2019. Posted on Nov 21, 2019

    36 Holiday Gifts For Couples Who Have Been Together Forever

    Happy one millionth holiday season together. ❤️

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. A photo book so you can finally bring your memories down from the cloud and into your hands. These are perfect for organizing memories old and new and are basically guaranteed to bring forth a few happy tears.

    The books care completely customizable and come in a ton of different styles, which you can explore here!

    Get it from Snapfish starting at $12.99 (available in eight sizes, as well as softcover and hardcover).

    2. A New York Times crossword puzzle book for flexing your combined vocabularies. You can finish each others' sentences, but can you finish each others' puzzles?


    Promising review: "I love this thing! The print is nice and large, and the spiral binding is super nice. The paper is still newspaper-y which makes it feel like a newspaper crossword without having to lug around a newspaper. I use erasable pens, and they erase great. The boxes are plenty big enough for the letters and the crosswords are all appropriately 'Monday' difficulty. Great thing to have! Can’t wait to finish it and move on to Tuesday!" —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $9.48.

    Think they'll want more of a challenge? Try the Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday versions of this book for increasing difficulty!

    3. A cooking class at Sur La Table that'll expand their cooking repertoire and just be dang fun. Whether it's "Artisan Breads at Home" or "Chocolate 101," they'll have a blast learning new things and maybe employing them next holiday season!,

    Class availability depends on location, so head to their class site, plug in a zip code, and start browsing! Classes are hands-on, last about two hours, and they'll of course get to taste their creation!

    Reserve seats at Sur La Table starting at $59.

    4. A personalized ring engraved with anything and everything they love. Anything from your kids' names to the name of their favorite dessert is an option.


    Because this is a customized item from Amazon Handmade, it will take a few days to create and ship.

    Promising review: "It has now been nine months and these rings are still in amazing condition. They haven't greened or gotten dull. I wear them in the shower and swimming, and no problems. They never come off of me, and I’d recommend to anyone. I plan on getting another one soon to add!" —M

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99 (available in sizes 3–13 and with up to 10 characters).

    5. A ridiculously soft mulberry silk eyemask so they can finally sleep soundly instead of being kept awake by you scrolling on your phone late into the night.


    I have this eyemask, and it's seriously SO soft! I absolutely love it, use it every night, and couldn't recommend it more!

    Promising review: "Feels like a million angels kissing my eyes!!! Great price worth the good night sleep! 💤" —Diana N.

    Get it from Brooklinen for $29 (available in four colors).

    6. A custom couple's portrait to cherish forever and always — just like each other!


    The portrait measures eight inches by six inches and will be based on photos that you send. To ensure you get your portrait before December 25, order before December 1.

    Promising review: "I’m so happy I found Ash’s shop and discovered such a talented artist! I really love how the portrait turned out, it’s just so cute and lovely! Great communication, very reliable and fast shipment. Highly recommended and will purchase again. Thank you, Ash!" —Patricia Aro

    Get it from AshElizabethArt on Etsy for $35+ (it's $35 base price for two people with an additional $2 per added pet up to five).

    7. A beautifully illustrated write-in menu book so they can record and remember all of their impressive dinner party menus through the years, starting with this holiday, perhaps!


    Get it from Amazon for $13.51, Barnes and Noble for $18.12, or a local bookseller through Indiebound.

    8. An Aarke carbonator, because you've personally seen them blow give or take one million dollars on canned seltzer since you met them. No judgement, but the habit could maybe use an upgrade!


    The set comes with the stand/carbonator and a reusable bottle. To use, simply fill the bottle with water, attach it to the carbonator, and pull the handle for a few seconds. CO2 cartridges aren't included but are available in two-packs on Amazon for $59.99.

    Promising review: "I'm really loving this machine! It is super simple and very fun to operate. I love how I can choose how much gas I want to carbonate the water with as my tastes tend to vary daily! I can honestly say it has me drinking twice as much water. Additionally the machine is absolutely gorgeous, it looks amazing on my countertop and feels very solid!" —Claudia

    Get it from Amazon for $219+ (available in four finishes).

    9. Fog of Love, a role-playing board game that lets you act out the trials and tribulations of relationship ~drama~ in exaggerated romantic comedy fashion. Mix things up a little bit without *actually* mixing things up a little bit.


    The game comes with a comprehensive tutorial to play through so you can easily learn the ins and outs of the rule book before being turned loose. And as if this game didn't sound fun enough, there are paranormal romance, it will never last, and trouble with the in-laws expansion packs!

    Promising review: "I have no idea how they’re making money on this game. The pieces are so high quality and the box is so unique. It's great that they’re already prepared for expansions. I love the game play and I’m always trying to show it off to whoever I can. Absolutely love." —Jessica

    Get it from Amazon for $42.99 (also comes in same-sex couple versions).

    10. A uniquely shaped wine decanter — you two didn't think wine could taste much better after switching from $5 to $10 bottles, but this gift is here to prove you both wrong.


    Promising review: "This wine decanter is exquisite. I bought it as a gift and can't wait to see their expressions when they open it. It is very elegant yet sturdy enough to be functional at dinner parties. I highly recommend purchasing this item. Also the packaging was excellent." —Dorrie

    Get it from Amazon for $26.98.

    11. A leather messenger bag for carrying their laptop and work accoutrements in style. It's time for company-issued black polyester bag to retire anyway.


    The bag has two large zipper compartments and fits a 17.5 inch laptop.

    Promising review: "This bag is awesome. I looked for a week trying to find the perfect bag. Most were too small to carry everything I needed. I am able to carry my portable scanner, my surface pro laptop, two Bluetooth speakers, a hard drive, my daily planner, two other books, all my chargers and cables, and my work files, and I have room to spare. This bag is very well-made with high-quality leather. I am extremely pleased with my purchase." —The Man

    Get it from Amazon for $67.99.

    12. Or an Osprey commuter bag for the boo who bikes to work — a fun and noble undertaking that will require a backpack that looks as cool as they do., REI

    The 26-liter pack has a computer sleeve, a separate shoe and clothing pocket, a scratch-free sunglasses and small electronics pocket, a helmet attachment point, outer straps to cinch everything in close, a ventilated back panel, an integrated rain cover so nothing gets wet, a blinker light attachment point, and reflective zipper pulls.

    Get it from Amazon for $119.95 (available in two colors) or REI for $119.99 (available in two colors).

    13. A rain shower head so they always feel like they're bathing at a five-star hotel. P.S. There's DEFINITELY room for two under there!

    Depending on your current shower configuration, you may need a shower head extender to accommodate this piece.

    Promising review: "I have been looking for a replacement shower head for a while, and I could not be happier. Beautifully made completely out of metal unlike some of the other cheap plastic lookalikes. The rain comes out perfectly and consistently. Perfect for a long relaxing shower." —Patrick C.

    Get it from Amazon for $44.99+ (available in two sizes and two finishes).

    14. A ticket stub diary to preserve memories of all of your favorite outings together. Now you'll always have the receipts to prove you saw Parasite 11 times after it came out.


    Get it from UncommonGoods for $14 or Amazon for $12.09.

    15. A set of Table Topics for couples. It may feel like you know everything you could possibly know about each other, but these fun conversation starters are sure to give you guys some new #content!


    Promising review: "Bought this for my wife and I for Christmas, and I have to say is was a lot of fun! The questions are great conversation starters without being about topics that are argument starters. Some questions only take a minute, but others can kill 15 minutes or more. It's really up to you. Really what it boils down to is this: It's a time to put your phones down, turn off the TV, and interact with one another about something that's meaningful but also fun." —Ryan

    Get it from Amazon for $25.

    16. A leather-cloth boxed set of A Song of Ice and Fire, because at this point it looks like Game of Thrones is going to be their life-long obsession and they'll be in need of a collection they can be proud of.

    Barnes and Noble

    Get it from Barnes and Noble for $76.50.

    17. A bathtub caddy so they can luxuriate in the tub with a glass of wine, a book, or even an episode of their favorite show. Pro tip: after holiday stress, set this up to surprise them! Instant swoon.


    Promising review: "Amazing! It has elevated my bathroom to a spa! It really does work as advertised! It stays in place and is sturdy and as pretty as it is functional! You cannot beat this caddy!" —Kerri Boardman

    Get it from Amazon for $42.97.

    18. A three-piece luggage set that's great on its own *or* with a note about a romantic getaway you have planned in the coming year!


    Promising review: "Great suitcase! We brought ours to Italy and trekked across cobble stone streets and dragged it a HUGE distance from our hotel in Venice to the train stop in order to make it to our next destination, and they have held up very well through some rough treatment! They are also very light-weight for those who are flying and want to conserve poundage." —G J.

    Get it from Amazon for $139.99 (available in four colors).

    19. Touch screen leather gloves lined with a cashmere blend so they can not only feel like they're living the life of luxury, but *tweet* about their gorgeous gloves even while they're on their hands.


    Promising review: "Like most other reviewers, I am EXTREMELY PLEASED with these gloves. They are as soft as butter and warm to boot! I am so impressed with these that I'm planning on purchasing another pair for my Mother-In-Law for Christmas." —Liz G.

    Get them from Amazon for $19.99+ (available in sizes S–XXL and 14 colors).

    20. An Instant Pot sous vide immersion circulator, because their culinary curiosity knows no bounds. This tool is the key to cooking almost any kind of food to the perfect temperature, but also...the key to their heart.,

    This tool is by Instant Pot, but you don't have to use it in your Instant Pot. Place the sous vide in a pot of water and place vacuum- or plastic-sealed meat inside to have it heated to the exact temperature you want for perfectly cooked steak, pork, chicken, and fish every single time!

    Promising review: "My husband bought yet another kitchen gadget. He loves to make steak and chicken with this. The steak is great, medium all the way through. It is very easy to use. Cleanup is a breeze. Of all the kitchen gadgets, this one is great because it has minimal clean up and doesn't take up much space. And it works well. Definitely a good purchase for a budding chef." —KimB

    Get it from Amazon for $63.15.

    21. A waterproof Kindle Paperwhite that's perfect for both everyday use and vacation! Whether they're caught in the snow on the way to the car or catching some pool-side rays on a future romantic getaway, they'll always have their favorite books by their side.


    Promising review: "Love this as an upgrade to my very old Kindle. It’s nice that it lights up but still is paperwhite. It doesn’t hurt your eyes or over-stimulate so you ruin going to sleep. Light and much more user-friendly than my last one. Excited for the waterproof-ness so I can take to pool and beach and not be nervous!" —Jamie G

    Get it from Amazon for $129.99 (available in two colors).

    Check out BuzzFeed's ~deep dive~ on the new Kindle in "The New Kindle Paperwhite Is Waterproof, And I'm Bringing It On Vacation".

    22. A shimmery shift dress so they finally have a new outfit for New Year's Eve. Their go-to silver skirt is awesome, but it's been worn no less than five years in a row.


    Get it from Nordstrom for $49 (available in sizes 1X–4X).

    23. A golden set of measuring cups and spoons, because their signature chocolate chip cookies deserve a gold metal. This is like giving them *eight* gold metals (and is a sure-fire way to score more cookies).


    Promising review: "Happy with this measuring set. The cups come on a detachable ring, and the spoons come on their own ring, which make it easy to take them off and on for using and then storing. The color is gorgeous and perfectly matches the gold cooking utensils I bought from the same vendor. As for the quality, they appear well made, as they are heavier than other sets I’ve used. Thumbs up from me!" —Megan Harding

    Get them from Amazon for $23.55 (available in two finishes).

    24. A scratch-off map so you can document your many journeys together and look forward to all the ones you still have left to go.


    Promising review: "I love the map! It’s so fun to sit down with loved ones and scratch off where you have been! It also shows you there are a ton more places to go!" —emily wright

    Get it from Amazon for $23.99+ (available in two sizes).

    25. A personalized whiskey decanter that has their name written all over it.


    Promising review: "Very nice! Ordered and received this decanter in less than a week and it looks great. It came very nicely packaged as well so you do not have to worry about any glasses being broken!" —abigails

    Get it from Amazon for $57.99 (available in seven styles).

    26. A merino and cashmere beanie to keep their precious head not just warm, but luxuriously warm. Well deserved.

    Get it from Hill City for $48 (available in five colors).

    27. A Bodum french press, because it's been 5ever since you bought your starter french press when you first moved in together. Time for one with a non-broken handle!


    Promising review: "I am so glad I purchased the Bodum Chambord coffee press! In the past I have 'gone cheap' only to regret the purchase because the quality of the brewing process was poor. The Bodum is made extremely well, with tight fitting screen and plunger parts so that you get coffee — not grounds! It is easy to take apart for cleaning, and I love the sturdy, tight-fitting handle. Quality product!" —AK Bookworm

    Get it from Amazon for $29.99+ (available in nine finishes and four sizes).

    28. A pair of cozy memory foam slippers to make lazing about the house on Sunday mornings together even more enjoyable.,

    Reviewers suggest going up a size!

    Promising review: "I have a very old farmhouse and the floors tend to get cold in the winter. These slippers keep my feet warm and cozy! They’re durable enough to wear outside too." —momof2

    Get them from Amazon for $16.99+ (available in sizes 5–12 and five colors).

    29. A sweet pair of XO earrings so they always have a little smooch and hug from you wherever they go.


    Get them from fruitionjewelry on Etsy for $40.

    30. A Cuisinart waffle maker that will take your weekly at-home brunches to the next level. Whipped cream hearts, activate!


    Promising review: "I hear an angel choir when I finally sit down to golden, crisp waffles. I had been craving them for months — not the thick Belgium ones, but the old-fashioned, round, thin crispy ones. This is easy to use and makes delicious waffles. I use the setting between three and four, and they come out perfect." —Kindle Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $19.88.

    31. A smartphone vase to make their bedside table a little more joyful. Now when their alarm goes off every morning they can wake up and smell the roses!


    Get it from UncommonGoods for $32 (available in two colors).

    32. A mistletoe Homesick candle that might help to keep the ~spark~ alive in more ways than one.


    Get it from Homesick for $29.99.

    33. A soft-as-can-be eyelash sweater, because you bought them a ton of sweaters in the beginning, but hey — that was a while ago now! You need a new, soft headrest for when you start to doze off on their shoulder watching TV.


    Get it from Nordstrom $59 (available in sizes XS–XXL and seven colors).

    34. A Winc subscription so they can have wine delivered to their door catered *perfectly* to their preferences. For added gifting panache, throw a towel over your arm and have them taste a tiny sip of each bottle like a waiter at a fancy restaurant. Then they can have the satisfaction of slowly nodding their approval.


    Get a gift card from Winc for $60+. When choosing your amount, note that subscriptions start at $13/month (plus shipping if you decide on only one bottle a month, free shipping if you opt for more).

    Check out "This Wine Subscription Service Will Change Your Life" for more info!

    35. A pair of leather Lacoste sneakers to elevate their go-to tee, jeans, and sneaks outfit a bit.


    Get them from Lacoste for $110 (available in sizes 7–13 and two colors).

    36. An Aerograden because, although they're are SO caring in SO many other ways, they have kind of a brown thumb. Help them cultivate delicious herbs — and boost their plant bb confidence — with this brilliant gift!


    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful line, exclusively at Macy's for $129.99 (originally $189.99, available in two colors).

    Check out one BuzzFeeder's full review in "Grow Herbs In Your Apartment With Zero Effort Using This Smart Countertop Garden".

    Your partner opening their perfect, wonderful, glorious gifts:

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    The reviews in this post have been edited for length and clarity.

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