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1. The Puff compact suction vibrator — it's beloved by beginners and more experienced 'bators who enjoy riding the five intensities to climax over and over again. BTW, you should definitely rub-a-dub-dub your clit with this toy in the shower — trust me.
It's me. I am 'bators. JK, but seriously — I love this toy. And every time I think another one has shown up to take its place, I am reminded by the compact size, easy handling, and very very discreet noise (when pressed against the body)...that this toy is my ride or die. I tell everyone I know, and now I'm telling you. Never used suction? Get the Puff. New to sex toys? Get the Puff. Just want to expand your ever-growing collection? Puff. If you need to know more about this sex toy and why I personally love it, make sure to read my review of why Unbound's Puff is my favorite sex toy.
Promising reviews: "Listen. All I can say is…buy this immediately. I fell out of bed the first time I used it, saw god for the first time, and was convinced I broke my 🐈. 10/10! Also hella cute, charges fast, and you can take it in the shower! Perf for beginners <3" —kat
"I’m new to all of this. My friends literally raved about Puff for a year before I finally decided to get one. I did not know…I could feel like that. It is amazing. It took me some time to fully utilize the suction feature in the Puff, but the vibration itself is *chef's kiss*. I also used it once during sex with my boyfriend, and phew!!! I don’t even know if I have any words. Great for beginners!" —B.
Get it from Unbound for $48 (available in quartz and mint).
2. A realistic masturbator featuring a stimulating 3D textured interior that'll knock your socks off and introduce a whole new level to your solo sessions.
Promising reviews: "This is a new level and I hate to say, it's kinda better than the real thing in a few ways. It's almost TOO good and since it does not expand like a real vagina, it stays pretty dang tight. If you are wider than 2 inches it's going to be an even tighter squeeze. The entire tube is about 9 inches so if you are longer... look elsewhere or you'll be popping out and you won't be able to use the suction aspect of it at all because the end cap is there. I'd say the perfect size you should be to enjoy this is anywhere from 4–7.5 inches length and 1–1.75 inches wide not measuring around but just across." —Bob Benkosky
"WARNING: This thing will make your toes do gang signs. I was skeptical, read all the reviews, and pulled the trigger. I’m telling you, if this thing was warm, with lube it would be identical to the real thing." —Juan Disimo
Get it from Amazon for $26.89+ (available in five colors).
3. The Empress 2 clitoral suction vibrator by Vush boasting a waterproof design and 40 potential pulsation and vibration combinations to explore.
Promising reviews: "OMG this is the most incredible vibrator I have ever owned! The sensation is like oral on steroids times a thousand! So. Much. Pleasure! Love all the settings and variations (and I'm usually averse to all the patterns on a standard bullet vibrator but maaaan the ones that go like a wave...Jesus!). Easy to use. Easy to clean. Made me squirt for the first time in years. Sensational! " —Chloe M.
"I was a little skeptical if I'm honest, but after seeing so many good reviews I thought I'd give it a go as it was at a discounted price. Well, I can happily say I love it! I was amazed at how quickly I came — literally, a couple of minutes — and the level of pressure was really good for me on the lowest setting. I tried the slightly higher intensity level which was good too, but not any higher personally. I really like the mixture of patterns too...keeps it interesting and some are actually pretty close to the sensation of real oral." —Susanna K.
Get it from Vush for $160.
Vush is an Australia-based sexual wellness brand that’s all about self-love and creating IG-worthy sex toys that’ll rock your world and match your aesthetic.
4. A palm-sized vibrator boasting a "tongue" with nine vibrations and nine licking motions, meaning it can l-l-l-lick you from your head to your toes, but no, really.
Promising reviews: "After my first use (shoutout for arriving in the mail charged) I came like NO OTHER! I didn’t know how I was going to feel about the tongue but it reminded me of the best head I’ve received so obviously I was in love. I mean it when I say my first immediate thought was, I will no longer need a man because I have this toy. 😂 So if you wanna ditch your man, woman, person, and whoever else, this toy will keep you satisfied probably better than they can. 12/10" —TJ
"With the price of this I didn't expect much...but WOW. I am shocked at how awesome this little gadget is; so awesome in fact I don't even get two minutes in using it before it's game over for me (in a really good way). It's easy to use alone or during intercourse for extra intensity (good lordy), waterproof, soft/smooth, easy to clean, charged fast, and holds the charge for a shockingly long time. It has more speed/intensity options than I need but having the option to go up is nice. Overall very very happy I stumbled across this little gem." —Kieley Sue
Get it from Amazon for $25.98+ (available in five colors).
5. A unique anal plug made to simulate the feeling of rimming with rotating anal beads in the shaft and a vibrating tip that hits your favorite spots.
This 1.5-inch diameter plug has seven rotation patterns and six intensities to explore and stimulate your P-spot as you start (or continue) your journey into anal play. Also, it's splash-proof!
Looking for something a little larger? Check out the Rimming Plug 2 and Rimming Plug XL, that have all the same features but a little more length.
Promising reviews: "Got this about six months ago and it instantly became my favorite toy! The rimming beads may be the best sexual sensation I’ve felt in my life! My orgasms with this are some of the best I’ve ever had too! 11/10, best sex toy ever." —Happy Bottom
"I was bent over and am normally keen to move through positions but this toy’s different settings provided that excitement for me. I made my boyfriend stay in the same position the entire time. The toy provided deep pressure, a lovely rim job and having vaginal sex while it stayed in led to my mind reaching different levels of pleasure until it all came at once. This orgasm was one where you realize what matters in life and provided a reset to my mind, body and soul. My vagina was tingling for an hour afterwards. On certain settings, your partner can enjoy the vibration with you. We used it on him this morning for prostate stimulation and he laid there speechless for a half hour afterwards and only said, 'Just how you described. 10/10.' Cough and breathe deeply to get it out. Definitely purchase, take it slowly and enjoy the ride." —Gwynne
Get it from B-Vibe for $159.99 (available in three colors) or from Amazon for $123.43+ (also available in Rimming Plug 2 and XL).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
6. A sleek and curvy G-spot vibe created with a flexible design to move with your body and reach all the right spots inside and out.
At 7.6 inches long and 1.5 inches wide (at the largest point), this vibrator sets itself apart with 10 unique vibration modes.
Promising reviews: "It is as close as you’ll come to experiencing the real thing. And let me tell you, the orgasms keep coming." —Jeri
"Happy orgasmic Monday with teal vibes!! Receiving this was the highlight of my day. First, the pictures do not do it justice...it's so soft and flesh-like. 10 O to the triple MMM Greatness settings. I only made it through half of them before I climaxed and quickly climaxed with round 2! (Less than two minutes to pure bliss.) I love that it's a barely there plugin. No awkward plastic handle, no batteries to fidget with. Did I mention it's waterproof?! All I can say is Tracy's Dog has done it and my rating is AHHHHmazing!!! Perfect for solo play as its curve hits all the right spots. Ty Tracy's Dog!!! You definitely need to get one!!" —Angela Dumais
Get it from Amazon for $32.98.
7. A Jack 2-in-1 stroker and packer, boasting representational hues and a ribbed cavity that provides suction to the wearer for a stimulating stroke session.
For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on/harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.
Promising reviews: "My favorite packer I’ve ever had. It’s a gentle packer (with coconut oil, of course) and a very affirming realistic toy. Great for solo play. The ribbed sleeve inside feels amazing. I could not get enough of it for months." —Lola
"My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans-masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker, suctioned it, and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for transmasculine folks who are more developed growth-wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They gave it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with my fingers, and performed oral sex. He said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in three flesh-tone hues).
New York Toy Collective is a Black-, woman- and queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.
8. A dual stimulation rose vibrator, created with an egg-shaped bulb to deliver a little internal action, while its nine-speed tongue petal can stimulate your clit, nipples, and soul (apparently).
Promising review: "Omg. Don’t have anyone to 👅 you?? NOT A PROBLEM ANYMORE. Wow, these toys are getting so advanced it’s amazing. Feels sooo similar to a real tongue. And has a vibrator on the other end so it’s even better. 😂 This made me climax in a way I never have before. 10/10 recommend." —Mel
Get it from Amazon for $36.99.
9. The scintillating Satisfyer Pro 2, boasting 11 intensities of no-contact clitoral or T-growth stimulation, so you can ride wave after wave of pleasure.
There's also a more in-depth review written by an Intersex Male person, if you're interested.
Promising reviews: "There aren't many reviews on here from trans men, so I thought I'd throw my opinion out there in case there are other guys out there looking for something to spice things up. This toy is heavenly. It works well on many different parts of the body, and I have had fun exploring different places to try it: clitoris, nipples, etc. I love the simplicity of the vibration settings. You can turn the vibration up one level at a time, making it easy to build up to a climax slowly, or you can jump up multiple levels and get things done quickly, if that's your thing. I am so glad I bought this toy, and when this one finally dies I will buy another one. I've had it for a couple months and it's held up great. 12/10 seriously recommend this product for anybody with a clitoris. You will NOT regret it." —a. b.
"Before this toy aka bae, I was a hoe. I've taken the steps to admit it and do something about it. Today, I can proudly say bae has cured me of my hoe-ly ways. This is the equivalent of the best head you ever had from somebody and taking that person's mouth home with you. Idk about you but I related heavily when Drake said 'I just want sum head in a comfortable bed, it could all be so simple.' 😍🥰 Life Is Good." —Dominique
Get it from Amazon for $34.95 (available in three colors).
10. A transparent masturbator sleeve designed to envelope your dick (or clit!) with stimulating massage beads for a mouth-watering good time, whether stroking or adding to fellatio.
Promising review: "I'm a trans man who has been on testosterone for 10 months. I haven't had too much clitoral growth associated with testosterone so I was worried about the hole being too large for me to fit in, but it works really well! I definitely encourage buying this product." —H.d.H
"I absolutely loved this with lube. It is so squishy and soft it almost felt like my girlfriend was deep throating me even though she wasn't. It's easy to clean and its material is pretty durable. Feels great and a great masturbation aid too other than just using it for getting BJ's with it. 10/10" —Antonio R.
Get it from Amazon for $9.63.
11. The Bouncer is a unique 7-inch dildo designed with three rotating weighted balls in the shaft (hehe) that roll and bounce around during use for a sensation unlike any other. Plus, it has a suction-cup base in case you want to stick it and play hands-free.
Promising review: "This toy is absolutely incredible. I don't have much experience with toys because until now I never found the right thing. Vibrations are just distracting to me. I prefer exciting penetration, and this one... I've never seen anything like this. The width is a tad intimidating, but once my imagination has me all worked up, it's everything I could possibly want. I use it solo without the suction. The only thing that could possibly make this better would be to not be the one doing the work. It is large, so if I'm not at the right angle (or if I'm at too good of an angle), there's slight pain, but, like, the kind that makes you go cross-eyed. The sensation of the balls inside is really exhilarating. They give me a little something extra that helps me feel like someone else is doing the deed. I haven't orgasmed like this in years. I used it twice today, and I switched to a smaller, less interesting toy for round three. That got me started, but I anxiously came back to this for a successful, glorious experience. I think I might be obsessed." —Ashley
Get it from Fun Factory or Amazon for $99.99 (available in red and black).
12. An easy-to-hold clitoral stimulator that offers the most realistic simulated oral sex you can probably get with a machine thanks to its suction cup creating a seal against your body with three intensities to explore. After the seal is set, just sit back and enjoy the powerful tongue attachment's nine licking modes getting sloppy with your clit (or nips or other places you want to be licked). Pro-tip: Don't be stingy with the lube when you play with this one!
Promising reviews: "It feels incredible and has multiple settings you can try. There is a strong suction but I really like the tongue part. It's seriously almost, if not better, than the real thing. 👅" —Rosemary
"I decided to give this a try after not being satisfied with some of the other 'popular' toys and man I'm mad I even wasted money on anything else. I'm very big on oral stimulation and this gets the job done. The tongue is soft and big enough to feel like the real thing but not too rough even on higher speeds, as I've experienced with some other toys in the past. The suction is pleasant but strong so be careful lol. It's easy to clean and the battery life LASTS! I misplaced my charger and it lasted months on a single charge. Of course, this will vary depending on how long and often you use it, but in my case, I didn't need prolonged sessions cause it was effective quite quickly. If you are debating on trying, just go with it. You will not be disappointed." —Monique Wiggins
Get it from Amazon for $39.98+ (available in green and pink).
13. A 2-in-1 prostate massager equipped with a cock ring to help it stay in place while you enjoy its seven powerful thrusting modes delivering targeted stimulation to your P-spot. Not to mention, the seven vibration modes that target the perineum and balls for even more stimulation.
Promising reviews: "Was unsure how well this toy would work... The most incredible stimulating toy I have ever bought! Very strong motors, serious thrust, and incredible vibrating. It feels like the real thing! I enjoy it immensely! Easy to clean and the remote is very easy to use. The charge lasts for a long time. Would highly recommend — it almost makes hookups unnecessary." —jack clopein
"Nice size — it’s giving boyfriend dick. Really mixed my guts; the vibration on the gooch part is really nice and smooth. If you’re worried about the c-ring part, it’s very stretchy and not tight at all, very comfortable to use. The only gripe is that it comes out easily, but that’s a plus when you’re finished. Can’t wait to use it with my partner." —Ikenna
Get it from Amazon for $39.66+ (available in four styles).
14. The Poco vibrator by MysteryVibe, which is ingeniously designed for G-spot stimulation with a flexible body shaped to resemble fingers and dual motors, so you can feel all 16 intensities no matter where it's placed.
Promising reviews: "You will not be disappointed! Using Poco is like having an ultra-thick, dual-motor-controlled finger pleasure you, that unlike most human fingers, won't get tired. It's pretty perfect." —Laura
"There are so many times when we wish we had a discreet, compact, powerful vibrator tucked away in the bedside drawer to play with, forget about the world and reach new levels of euphoria. That’s exactly what I got from the Poco vibrator! The best pocket vibrator in the market by far!" —Claudia
Get it from MysteryVibe for $139 (originally $199).
15. A vibrating masturbator sleeve boasting a sleek, minimal design with 10 powerful vibration settings and a customized snugness based on your (or a partner's) grip and rhythm.
There's a little bump at the top for an even more stimulating touch to the base of your tip, and ridges on the inside so that every movement offers stimulation.
I don't have a penis, but this looks incredible, and I want it.
Promising reviews: "Love the product. The ribbed style made it feel so good and better than the real thing, almost. Definitely recommend this product to those needing to get some toys." —Spyro
"A fantastic masturbation product. All frequencies have a lot to offer. The frenulum tickler is the big plus. This product can make me come in seconds." —Dale
Get it from Amazon for $23.99.
And check out this round-up for even more strokers that feel like the real thing.
16. A popular hand-sculpted Shilo dildo by New York Toy Collective designed with a poseable core, so you're always ready to pack and play with this toy. It also comes in flesh-tone and whimsical hues, so you can make sure your dick is the perfect extension of your truest self.
The Shilo dildo is harness-compatible and anal-safe, and boasts an insertable length of 6.25 inches and 1.5 inches of girth. A prominent realistic tip offers targeted stimulation to G- or P-spots.
Promising review: "This dildo is absolutely fantastic. I can easily pack with it because it flexes, so it creates many opportunities for spontaneity. It’s super durable. The head and girth are absolutely perfect for someone or a couple looking for an above-average dick without being too huge to use. My girl LOVES how this dildo feels. She can’t get enough of it. I highly recommend it to anyone, especially those who like to be able to 'pack and play.' This is worth every penny." —J.
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $159 (available in four flesh tones and seven whimsical colors).
17. A Love Bump to pair with your favorite dildo to deliver lifelike sensations with each thrust. Plus it includes a 10-function bullet vibrator to help you get in a good rhythm.
Oh, and if ball-slapping is not your thing — it also functions as a cock ring.
Promising review: "I feel like I’ve been missing out my entire adult life before this thing. Not only do they hang and swing in a pleasing way (which is nice for my identity as a trans man) but when I’m intimately with someone they create a new level of sensation that has led to some very exciting results. The design is complete genius. Thanks NYTC!" —Griff
"I love these so much I bought a second pair because my partners have all said they love how these feel slapping against them. Also great to flip upside down with the rechargeable bullet vibe for extra stimulation during missionary positions." —Hans Von Straphon
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $49.99 (available in four fleshtones and four colors).
If you want more toys that aren't too phallic or realistic, check out this round-up of gender-affirming sex toys and sex toys beloved by LGBTQ+ reviewers!
18. A waterproof clitoral suction vibrator that has innovative technology to stimulate your clit without direct contact.
This little toy has an ergonomic design for easy handling and six vibration modes to blow your mind.
Promising review: "I. LOVE. THIS. TOY. I work in an adult store and have tried just about every toy you can imagine. I'm really big on direct rumbly clitoral stimulation and regularly use the Hitachi/Vibratex magic wand. I actually PREFER the Womanizer Pro40 over my magic wand. My Womanizer not only gets me off faster than the magic wand but it also doesn't numb me out (aka overstimulate the nerves) so the toy can be used for foreplay...or during...or even after sex and it's waterproof so you can bring it in the bath. It's not a silent toy, but it's definitely quieter than my magic wand...so I'm happy! The sensation feels what I can only describe as a blow job for the clitoris. It's not quite a suction, but it does have a very light push and pull of air inside the device. It feels amazing, and as stated doesn't numb you out (which is shocking considering how intense the orgasms it produces are). The controls are easy to use, it's rechargeable, it fits comfortably in the hand, it's small enough that it's easy to travel with, and it honestly looks like a facial cleaning brush (three cheers for discreet toys!). There is nothing I don't like about this product. Get one. NOW." —Dovahqueen
Get it from Amazon for $69+ (available in five colors).
19. A textured silicone vibrator with 12 vibrating modes and a realistic-inspired design, so you can finally give your favorite spots the attention (and stimulation) they deserve.
Promising reviews: "Has a great amount of vibration, with different levels. Comes with a nice cloth bag to keep it stored in. Easy to clean and feels like the real thing! Would definitely recommend." —Parish Hubbard
"I absolutely love this product. It has become my go-to massager. It's waterproof and recharges easily and quickly. It makes very little noise for those times when I need to be discrete. It's also contoured to give me a good grip, whichever way I decide to hold it, perfect for those 'hard-to-reach places.' Oh, and it has some power, real power. Plus it's very pretty, and it comes in a lovely velvet bag. Treat yourself right and buy it." —CS
Get it from Amazon for $16.99 (available in burgundy and purple).
20. A flexible silicone dildo because it has a unique texture, allowing for added stimulation with each thrust — plus a suction cup base to help it stay put.
This 6.9-inch dildo offers just over 5 inches of insertable length above its realistic balls and is 1.81 inches wide.
Promising review: "This 'Blue Magic' here is amazing and I’ll buy it again and again if needed. It came well packaged and in all original factory packaging. When I pulled it out I was a little iffy it it would deliver. It truly has a realistic feel once you touch your privates with it. It’s an addictive feeling that makes your body crave more. For me, it felt just like the real thing. I was very satisfied once finished and felt proud of my new go-to pleasure piece. Overall, the price and product deserve more stars than I can give it." —Sarita M.
Get it from Amazon for $13.99+ (available in nine colors).
21. The Arcwave Ion, a one-of-a-kind masturbator by the makers of the Womanizer clitoral vibrators that uses the same famous Pleasure Air technology to deliver pulsating stimulation to the tip of your penis. Your dick will be like "Wow" after a couple of rounds with this one.
This masturbator is designed with waterproof silicone, which offers effortless cleaning before and after. It also includes a convenient charging station that also quick dries your toy between uses. FYI, the website states it takes at least 5 uses to get the hang of the Arcwave Ion, so make sure you test it thoroughly.
Promising reviews: "If I wrote this review a week ago, I would have given it 1 star. It takes a few sessions and practice to find that sweet spot but once you do… I thought my brain was going to explode. Now I just let myself go and let Ion do its thing, and it's a long-lasting orgasm every time." —Ron_88
"Love blowjobs? Then this is the toy for you. No toy comes close to the Ion in terms of delivering that singular feeling of someone sucking/licking the head of your cock, and it's a great use of the air pressure tech you're seeing in more and more sex toys. Really hoping that they make more versions of this and improve on the premise. BTW, use a lot of lube." —NickyDubs
"Perfect for me…but understandable if it's not for everyone. For me, I love being stimulated on the head of my penis, and that's where Arcwave focuses the pleasure. It's also not designed for traditional pulling-on-your-penis stimulation a la masturbating and if you prefer that, then you're likely better off sticking with your trusty ol' hand. With enough lube for easy and comfortable insertion, the Arcwave will feel just like there's someone sucking and licking on the head of your penis — and who doesn't like that?" —DJ
22. A rainbow-striped realistic dildo that's 8.14 inches long with a gently curved shaft, 6.22 inches of insertable length, and a suction cup base, so you could technically use it any and everywhere.
Promising reviews: "Honestly, sometimes better than the real thing! Used it almost every day since I got it and it gets the job done. Very soft, but not too soft that it's difficult to put in, so great for beginners. I'd say worth every cent and very easy to clean." —Someone
"It’s literally the closest to the real thing I’ve ever felt. It looks extremely realistic also. 10/10 would recommend." —kira
"Dare I say it, I think this thing is better than real life. As much as I love a real one, this one I can grip the base of and it's flexible enough that it hits *all* the right places. Add a little wand in for front action and it will wind up being very loved! It looks super realistic too! In my pictures, I have people questioning if it's real or not until I zoom out! Cleans up super easy too (not the sticky silicone that just attracts ALL the hair). 10/10 recommend. It IS 7 inches though, so if you're not used to that length, it takes some adjusting. But not much, it just feels too good!" —Themamahedgehog
Get it from Amazon for $17.99+ (available in three colors).
23. A reusable Tenga Spinner masturbator, which comes in an assortment of styles, each with its own unique internal texture that spins around your shaft as you stroke for a lifelike squeeze.
Promising reviews: "I like spinner sleeves because one: they feel just about as real as real can get. And two: they come with a EZ dry bottom to best keep your sleeve from becoming stinky. Very durable and lasts for a while. Coming from a man that can last from 1.5–4 hrs." —Justin
"Fantastic tool. Feels insanely good, quiet, washes easy, and priced well. Great tool for edge training too. Leg-weakening finishers." —Anything once
"Screw all those high price ones that are just stiff and barely textured... Not only does this thing twist with the slightest of ease, but the suction is intense!!! Highly recommend. You're going to be amazed." —Hopp
Get it from Amazon for $23.75+ (available in five styles).
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