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1. A remote-controlled prostate vibrator, so you can tease and please your S.O. with nine powerful vibration intensities delivered through its flexible, curved shaft.
The vibrator is 5.2 inches long and 1.5 inches wide at its widest point.
Promising review: "This is my third prostate massager I've bought for my husband to try and I had to write a review telling y'all how great this is because the price is just perfect and I'm glad I bought it. We saw this brand and did some research on them and checked out the site and reviews here on amazon and decided to give a try. Hands-down, this is definitely a body-safe toy with a perfect price, and the vibration modes all meet the pleasure and benefits we are looking for." —mooo
Get it from Honey Play Box for $58.99.
Honey Play Box is a sexual wellness company in California run by a group of sex educators and self-proclaimed lesbian meme queens who are passionate about all things pleasure being positive, inclusive and accessible.
2. A Jack 2-in-1 stroker and packer, boasting representational hues and a ribbed cavity that provides suction to the wearer for a stimulating stroke session.
For packing, it's recommended to be worn with a strap-on / harness, so that it stays put. The stroker cavity stretches and works best for anatomies at least 0.5" in diameter because it will create suction, any smaller and the suction will not be activated.
Promising reviews: "I love this product! The hole is big enough for many sizes to fit and stay on with suction. Amazing and intense stimulation. I tried after using a pump and it helped me stay erect. Best packer I ever owned and I owned most of em." —Jaki
"My partner and I used the Jack yesterday. They are trans masculine and three years on testosterone. We used it in two different ways. The first way, I used a nice amount of lube, opened the stroker and suctioned it and stroked. It worked best with reinforcement by hand. Most FTM strokers we come across seem as if they are designed for trans masculine folks who are more developed growth wise physically. With that being said we improvised and the toy wound up giving amazing results for my partner. They give it a 9/10 and said that they are interested in seeing this develop in different shapes and sizes. I also suctioned it, applied pressure with fingers and performed oral sex. They said it was very pleasurable to be able to receive head and have the point of view visual that Jack creates. It helped with his dysphoria." —Summer
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $59 (available in four fleshtone hues).
New York Toy Collective is a queer-owned retailer that creates high-quality, gender-affirming intimacy toys and products, ranging from packers and binders to dildos and accessories.
3. The Avant P2 dildo, beautifully crafted with premium silicone and gentle curves for targeted internal stimulation. This 6-inch dildo boasts the colors of the Trans Pride flag 🏳️⚧️and a beginner-friendly width of 1.4 inches.
The Pride collection offers an assortment of dildos and plugs inspired by the different Pride flags in different shapes and sizes. Explore the rest of the Blush Avant Pride collection on Enby here.
Promising review: "The way it's curved, the bump is good for bumping bottom growth. It's soft and bendy and fairly slim. Also good for practicing oral on something phallic. It's soft and squishy enough that it is forgiving in a way that harder and firmer dildos aren't. The suction base has strong suction but if I wanted to use it with a strap, I'd check out the stabilizer rings because the base seems like it'd be flimsy for that purpose on its own." —Tristan (on P2 Trans Pride Dildo)
"So soft, high quality, absolutely wonderful! The colors are so pretty too, a great addition to my collection and a perfect first-time dildo." —Katy (on P3 Lesbian Pride)
Get it from Enby for $55.
4. A unique cushion boasting contoured tips for an extra-stimulating sensation, whether you're using it as a dildo base or getting your grind on.
This toy is made of supple silicone and stretches to fit a variety of dildo bases up to 3.25 inches wide.
Promising reviews: "Works great with a harness and pretty much any strap-on dildo my partner and I own. Would highly recommend. Easy clean and came exactly as described. Super-soft material. 5/5." —Jacquie
"This made the base of so many dildos much more pleasurable to me! I use it with and without the harness... Sometimes I will put it on the base of a dildo that I am using manually and then grind against it. Great stimulation!" —Blank
Get it from Wet for Her for $35.96 (originally $49.95; available in black or blue).
5. An FTM fantasy stroker, which is 4 inches long and has an opening just under an inch wide, offering a tight, but stimulating sensation that can be controlled with a simple stroking motion.
If you want to up the ante, because the opening goes all the way through, you can insert a bullet vibrator at the opposite end to create suction and add some rumbly pleasure.
Promising review: "I am SO happy with this!! It's a gazillion times better than any other stroker I've tried. This one looks like it’s legit, not just a little cylinder like most trans strokers. Super euphoric seeing something that looks like a cis male stroker. I'm not even huge on strokers but this is just amazing. Even better with a bullet vibe on one end. The inside texture is great and the outside is beautiful. Love absolutely everything about this, idk how to put it in words. Thx so much for this, and all the wonderful trans products u make!!!! Theyre A+++++++++++" —Fernando Mark
Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $47 (available in custom color combinations).
Fantasticocks is a woman- and queer-owned sex boutique based in Ohio, creating premium-quality silicone sex toys designed for all bodies and desires.
If you're interested in more gender-affirming toys, definitely check-out this round-up of sex toys beloved by trans, enby and gnc reviewers!
6. A 5-inch penis candle by Agreeable Agony created with blacklight wax, so you can enjoy some fluorescent wax play with your lover.
Sensation play that also allows me to burn a dick? Count me in. Remember, the closer it drips, the hotter the wax!
Not a fan of dicks? There's also a vulva version of the candle!
Get it from Agreeable Agony for $12.95+ (available in three styles and 15 color options).
Agreeable Agony is queer-owned and run by a group of kinksters and artisans who create handcrafted bondage gear and accessories, including floggers, sex toys, rope, wax candles, and more. Their mission is to further educate customers on kink and its communities.
7. Or a pitcher of UV / blacklight reactive wax in rainbow colors that warms to the touch for a sensual and visually exciting massage or foreplay addition.
The wax in the pitcher melts at 124–126 degrees F, so it's recommended to increase or decrease the distance you pour from to regulate the temperature. A pour spout offers easy application, and pro-tip: let the wax melt and pool before blowing the candle out and then drip.
Get them from Agreeable Agony for $32.95 (available in standard and UV).
8. An adorable air pulse vibrator because who wants to wait until pigs fly for an orgasm? This little piggie will make you squirm and squeal with its 10 pulsation frequencies and waterproof design.
Perfect for anyone who's ever fancied living as glam as Miss Piggy herself.
Promising review: "This is my first time trying a toy like this. I didn't know whether it would be a comfortable fit but it worked out surprisingly well. Even though it is small, the vibrations get very intense. I was feeling aftershocks long after a spicy shower session. It's also fairly quiet. My favorite part by far though is the adorable design. Even the placement of the charger is cute. I had so much fun using this toy. Definitely recommend." —c.w.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $47.99.
9. A popular hand-sculpted Shilo dildo by New York Toy Collective designed with a poseable core, so you're always ready to pack and play with this toy. It also comes in fleshtone and whimsical hues, so you can make sure your dick is the perfect extension of your truest self.
The Shilo dildo is harness-compatible and anal safe, and boasts an insertable length of 6.25 inches and 1.5 inches of girth. A prominent realistic tip offers targeted stimulation to G- or P-spots.
Promising review: "This dildo is seriously impressive. As a pack’n’play toy, it offers a wide range of value! It folds comfortably and discreetly into the pants (albeit with some effort initially) for longterm wear, feels soft between the legs when walking and sitting, pops out to an impressive length (and girth) when readying for play, looks and feels ultra-realistic to the touch (except bigger, according to my girlfriend), and gives an incredible orgasm, to me as well as my partner, surprisingly! The large base pressed right up against my clit through my Spareparts harness! Not as intense as a vibrator or double ended toy, for sure, but a pleasant sensation nonetheless, and my partner gets the benefit of the huge bulbous head rolling across the G and A spots, as well as the soft, almost skin-like texture massaging everything else, and the realistic veins add a nice touch as well! Altogether, a WONDERFUL experience, from start to finish. I definitely recommend this for people who like experimenting with gender expression, but it would be a delight for everyone else too!" —Anna
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $159 (available in four fleshtone and seven whimsical colors).
10. A Love Bump attachment to pair with your favorite dildo to deliver lifelike sensations with each thrust. Plus it includes a 10-function bullet vibrator to help you get in a good rhythm.
Oh, and if ball-slapping is not your thing — it also functions as a cock ring.
Promising review: "I feel like I’ve been missing out my entire adult life before this thing. Not only do they hang and swing in a pleasing way (which is nice for my identity as a trans man) but when I’m intimately with someone they create a new level of sensation that has led to some very exciting results. The design is complete genius. Thanks NYTC!" —Griff
Get it from New York Toy Collective for $49.99 (available in four fleshtones and four colors).
11. A customizable silicone grinder offered in whimsical color mixes and designed with silicone ridges created with over 80 individual nubs that stimulate.
This unique grinder comes with two straps, so you can attach it to a pillow, bathtub ledge or even your lover's thigh or forearm. It can also be used as a sleeve when held in the hand.
Promising reviews: "I didn't know what to expect but I'm here to tell you guys... With plenty of lube it provides a TON-OF-FUN..! A nice addition to my toy box." —Warren Pouyer Jr.
"This is something totally different that I didn't know I needed in my life until I saw it. I've only tested it out for a small amount of time but I already tell it was a good buy. I am an extremely indecisive person so I said 'glow in the dark' and 'surprise me' and I received a beautiful purple pour. It matches well with other randomized colors I've received from this shop and purple happens to be one of my favorite colors. I would recommend this for people who want to try something new and / or dislike penetration. It has a good feel to it and it comes with straps for unlimited possibilities." —Quinten Forrest
Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $55.
12. A breathable ball-gag designed with adjustable straps for comfort and...um, "communication" between partners.
Promising review: "It’s a present sent by my boyfriend. I really like its size and function. Good quality overall! 5-star rated! Will consider purchasing it next time." —Pattie Z.
Get it from Honey Play Box for $12.99 (available in black and pink).
For more BDSM must-haves, definitely check out this round-up BDSM and kink accessories.
13. The Starsi vibrator, which combines function with full-on adorableness with its supple silicone design and unique star shape that curves and clings all over for out-of-this-world sensations.
Starsi was designed for all bodies to explore pleasure and can be used with the included removable bullet vibrator or without, in case you are a fan of grinding or just want to stimulate areas with a little less intensity.
Promising reviews: "My partner and I have had so much fun with this! It's so soft and all the different parts have such different sensations. The bullet is so strong too, I can only use it on the first setting!! As a nonbinary person I've been so pleased with this toy, it really alleviates any dysphoria I have about playing and it's such a relief! What a lovely toy from an incredible company!" —Kate
"Trans lady here, and I love my Starsi! Soft and versatile. I've never wanted to play with a toy so often. Easy to clean, too. Highly recommended!" —Hay
"I absolutely love this vibe! Very versatile and I can regularly achieve my goals with the vibe. A surprising little side note, I started using it as a packer from time to time and the euphoria from having star shaped junk is 10/10." —Violet-Jane
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $79 (available in coral and pink).
Cute Little Fuckers is a queer-owned small business that features (some very adorable) creature-inspired sex toys, making them less intimidating and more versatile to everyone’s needs.
14. The Jix by Cute Little Fuckers is pretty damn adorable and unintimidating, without sacrificing function. It's an anal-friendly, dual-stimulating vibrator that's compatible with a five-speed vibrating bullet (included) and has a waterproof design.
NGL, the Jix is where it's at. This was my first Cute Little Fuckers toy I personally experimented with, and the reviewers aren't lying when they say that the removable bullet is powerful. I decided to explore how the Jix functioned as a "rabbit" vibrator, and it definitely reaches both spots (G-spot and clit, for me) with ease, and the vibrations go through both its shaft and head simultaneously. It's also hella flexible for repositioning, in case you have a higher G-spot or you want to target the vibrations *around* the clit, instead of directly onto it. I was pleasantly surprised by the power of this adorable little thing, and yes, it got me *there*.
Promising review: "If you like butt stuff, raise your hand! 🙋♀️ Then use it to click 'buy' because this guy is great! Note: It is also good for other 'stuff,' but butts are my fave." —Nyx
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $84 (available in periwinkle and lavender).
15. Or collect them all with a limited edition Super Pride Pack by Cute Little Fuckers featuring *all* of their sex toys — the Trinity, Starsi, Zeep, Jix, Princette, and even the new Shimmer vibrator. Or, there are 13 (!!!) other Pride Packs, so you can get a set that matches your vibe, and each toy is individually packaged, meaning you can keep all your goodies for yourself or spread the love.
Each toy includes a removable vibrator and can be used in versatile ways for every body, which means the party never ends. Depending on the flag, the packs include different toys in corresponding colors.
The 14 limited edition packs are each inspired by a different pride flag and include: Trans Pride, Aromantic Pride, Asexual Pride, Bigender Pride, Bisexual Pride, Gay Pride, Genderfluid Pride, Genderqueer Pride, Intersex Pride, Lesbian Pride, Nonbinary Pride, Pansexual Pride, and Polysexual Pride.
Promising review: "These little fuckers are super cute and also super effective. Their vibrations are strong and not too buzzy. I love that the vibrating bullets are removable, and intend to use them with my harness since I like their vibrations so much. The larger head of Trinity/Trip/Trine is amazing for giving a full sensation without feeling too stretched. Starsi's unique shape is fun to play with and I've already discovered the joys of putting one of the points on my clit as the two legs on opposite sides lay on my labia. The texture on the underside combined with the vibrations is very pleasant on sensitive zones. Princette Puppypus is the only one I've not used yet, but the texture is wonderful and I'm sure it will be a joy to try them out. They're also just plain pretty and I basically have them on full display." —Riley
Get it from Cute Little Fuckers for $129+ (available in 14 styles).
16. An artisan rainbow bubble glass dildo with a gentle curve for superior G-spot or P-spot stimulation and a unique bulb at the end displaying different colors from different angles.
Each bulb tapers for 8'' of textured sensations. This is your friendly reminder that glass is perfect for temperature play.
Get it from Early to Bed for $89.95.
Early to Bed is a Chicago-based, queer- and woman-run retail sex boutique committed to providing an inclusive shopping experience.
17. A full-body harness for penis owners constructed from genuine leather with adjustable buckles and an attached cock ring.
The small fits people up to 38-inch waists and the XL fits people with waists up to 54 inches. Check out the rest of the shop for four other colors besides pink!
Promising reviews: "Very soft and comfy! It took me a minute to find the right adjustment but once I did it fit like it was made for me." —Brian
"Several vendors sell harnesses all over the place but there are only few that go out of their way to provide you with a service of creating something for you, rushing it to your location and following up to make sure you're satisfied. Shop this merchant with HIGH confidence!!!! The harness is OUTSTANDING! The look, feel, smell and fit are all perfect. I wear a large and the large fit perfect with room to go up or down. The hardware is top notch! The color is better depicted, its literally perfect! Opening it was such a gift and along with your purchase you get the most warm hearted HANDWRITTEN thank you note from Marco. I just loved everything about this purchase, I am sure you will too!" —Serg Garcia
Get it from Mama Leather on Etsy for $220 (available with black or silvertone snaps and in sizes S–XL).
Mama Leather is a Brooklyn-based, queer-owned sex boutique that creates handmade leather fetish wear and accessories.
18. Or a vibrant vegan leather harness designed with a strap that attaches to your favorite cock ring if you want to rock a color as bold and bright as you are.
This harness has adjustable straps that offer a customized and comfortable fit.
Promising reviews: "I have been wearing this all day. It is very comfortable. I wore it under my clothes and walked 5 miles without any chafing. It works great with a 2 1/4-inch stainless-steel cock ring. Love the way it looks and feels!" —Dan
"Super high-quality harness!!!! Finally something that is gonna hold up to the stress!" —Clay Wallace
Get it from Play Vegan on Etsy for $72 (originally $90; available in 10 colors and sizes S–3X).
Play Vegan is a queer-owned small business based in Tel Aviv that creates handcrafted, vegan harnesses and BDSM gear.
19. The Jubilee clitoral-licking butterfly, which has nothing to do with X-Men and everything to do with pleasure via dual stimulation from its nine vibration settings and 10 "licking" modes. That means it creates the kind of orgasm that makes you see fireworks.
Promising reviews: "Long story short, this thing had me climbing the wall LOL! Because of the suction, it is hands-free. The 'tongue' is surprisingly soft and flexible. It looked like hard plastic initially. But it definitely does the job, whether on the nipple or clit. Highly recommend." —Atalanta_J
"I am not sure why this product doesn’t have more reviews, but oh my GOD, I just thought I’d share my personal experience. Hands-down the best sex toy I’ve ever used. This made my body do things I didn’t know I was capable of. If you are considering purchasing this product, take this review as your sign to purchase. I promise you and your body will NOT regret." —Sadie
Get it from Honey Play Box for $68.99 (originally $109; available in pink and purple).
20. The XO chrome vibe by Le Wand, a unique internal massager designed for dual stimulation with dual motors in the tip and and tapered base to stimulate your prostate, A- or G-spot.
This Pride Month, 5% of all purchases at Le Wand will be donated to Lambda Legal for their ongoing work to strengthen LGBTQ+ communities and individuals.
This vibrator has six intensity levels with 15 vibration modes that rumble through both the tip and base to simultaneously stimulate the clit *and* G-spot or *perineum* and prostate (or A-spot!). It's also shower-friendly, if you want to get a little wet, and has a travel-lock for when you want to take it on the go!
Get it from Le Wand for $159.99 (available in three colors).
21. A curvy artisan-made glass dildo with a double head and colorful pattern. It's phallic, it's sleek and it's...going into my cart?
Each toy is unique and about 8–10 inches in length.
Promising reviews: "As far as dildos as G-spot stimulation go I have always leaned towards the firmer toys and hated the squishy toys (like Vixskin's line). This comes down to personal preference but if you have leaned towards the firmer types of dildos when picking a silicone toy, glass is likely going to amaze you! I tried glass and have put away all of my silicone toys because even the firmest of them do not come close to the sturdy, smooth build of these fantastic standard glass dildos. The curve on them is fantastic for deeper G-spot stimulation and both ends can be used for different sensations. They are immensely easy to clean and store. All in all glass is my new go-to for dildos now :)" —Smooth Sailing
"Oh my goodness, wow. I bought this as a birthday gift for myself. I picked surprise and am delighted by the color. It’s gorgeous. The weight feels lovely and it’s one of my favorite toys I’ve ever invested in. It’s perfect." —Cate
Get it from Smitten Kitten for $137.99 (available in five colors).
Smitten Kitten is a queer-owned retailer based in Minneapolis that offers affordable and ethically made products, tools and resources on sexuality and pleasure education.
22. The bestselling Pisces The Merman dildo that encapsulates the soft, sensitive and sensible personality we all know and love — not to mention, this one delivers a sort of sensual seduction hard to find on dry land.
My friend talks up this dildo a lot, and not in a playing-out-an-Aquaman-or-fish-erotic-fantasy-way. And the stats speak for themselves: 6 1/2" of insertable length, 2" wide at the head and a body-safe platinum silicone design, so you can go to town.
Promising review: "I am so tremendously pleased with my new Pisces! This is my fourth purchase, I have three models from FC now, and this one is by far my favorite of them all. I chose a split-tone pour with a shimmery blue-gold base and shimmery mermaid shaft. I asked if they could use yellow for the tips and marble some into the shaft — they did — it looks absolutely incredible. This one is my new favorite. The unique ridges and textured tip are lip-bitingly intense, coupled with a generous girth that builds to satisfying fullness. I can’t recommend this shop enough. Thank you again for another fantastic toy. This thing is essentially a work of art." —HiveMind
Get it from Fantasticocks on Etsy for $68.
23. The Butt Stuff Bundle from the makers of the ~incredible~ Ohnut buffer ring, which boasts a convenient assortment of goodies necessary for anyone interested in anal and either new to the game or dealing with a girthy partner or toy.
The Bundle includes B-Vibes anal training kit — three sizes of butt plugs, an anal enema, a lube applicator, a travel bag, and a guide to anal — a 4-piece stack of Ohnut buffer rings, and a water-based lubricant that's compatible with everything!
For the month of June, 10% of Butt Stuff Bundle profits will go to the For the Gworls Rent and Gender-Affirming Surgery Fund.
Get it from Ohnut for $200 (originally $240 and available as either wider or classic buffer rings in jade/sage or rainbow).
24. A rainbow harness designed for all bodies with adjustable straps, snap closures and a sturdy metal O-ring to hold your go-to dildo.
This harness can accommodate dildos with flat bases, "balls" and even double dildos, so there's no reason why you couldn't splurge and add it to your arsenal. For funsies, you could pull on the waist strap like Urkel!
Get it from Early to Bed for $38 (available in small (fits up to 54") and large (fits up to 65")).
25. A vibrating bejeweled butt plug that you can wear to add a little bling in the bedroom or up the ante and explore distance play with its 30-foot remote control range.
This Pride Month, 5% of all purchases will be donated to Lambda Legal for their ongoing work to strengthen LGBTQ+ communities and individuals.
Each plug boasts a glimmering jewel on the flared base and 15 vibration patterns that can be explored with or without the wireless remote. The S/M plugs are 1.45 inches wide and 3.85 inches long, while the M/L plugs are 1.6 inches wide and 4.1 inches long.
Get it from B-Vibe for $125+ (available in two sizes and four colors).
B-Vibe is a premium collection of tech-forward anal play products founded by certified sex educator Alicia Sinclair.
For more vibrators to get that booty buzzin', check out this round-up of the best anal vibrators!
26. A must-have bondage kit with a little bit of this and a little bit of that, so you can play out all your Dom/sub fantasies whenever and wherever.
This little kit includes a pair of wrist cuffs, a pair of ankle cuffs, one blindfold and one four-point hogtie base (without ropes), so you can up the ante on your partner play without breaking the budget. And all of the pieces are uniform with a unique textured vinyl design!
Get it from Honey Play Box for $57.99 (available in pink and black).
27. A hand-crafted confetti glass butt plug because the booty deserves some bold and bright loving too.
A tapered tip, flared base and smooth, cool glass. *sighs dreamily*
Promising review: "Aside from how CUTE this plug is, it was super easy to get used to. This was my first glass experience and I am so glad I decided to bite the bullet and try it! Also...did I mention how cute it is?" —Brittany
Get it from Early to Bed for $35.
Like what you see? Definitely check out this round-up of the best glass sex toys!
28. A waterproof octopus-shaped vibrator that also doubles as a mini flogger, so you can engage in some light sensation play and good vibes after an elegant dinner.
The vibrating end and whiskers both have nine vibration modes to explore and are made with body-safe silicone for simple cleaning.
Promising review: "For anyone who has trouble getting to the happy place this increases sensitivity of those special parts. We use this as a teaser much of the time and it leads to multiple orgasms. As a stand alone it will get the job done with no problem. My wife and I would recommend this item to anyone who has any difficulty reaching that happy place." —Anonymous
Get it from Honey Play Box for $57.99.
When you don't actually *need* a reason to buy sex toys, but obviously you're going to because it's Pride month. 🏳️🌈 🤩
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