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People Are Upset Victoria Monét Didn't Perform At The VMAs Because She Was Told It's "Too Early" In Her Career

After the seasoned R&B singer/songwriter was denied a VMA performance, the fans went off on social media. Now, it begs the question of why there is a lack of R&B music altogether at the awards.

R&B singer Victoria Monét shared why she didn't perform at the MTV Video Music Awards, and her fans (including myself) were upset.

closeup of Victoria Monét  in a cut out dress smiling for a photo on the red carpet

So, the MTV VMAs took place on Sept. 12 in Newark, NJ, and everyone was in attendance, from Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez to a brief reunion of NSYNC, if you can believe it.

taylor swift accepting her award with n'sync behind her on stage

Of the many celebrities, only a few performed, including Doja Cat, Cardi B, Fall Out Boy, and Lil Wayne. But, alas, there was no Victoria despite the high demand from her fans.

Like this if @VictoriaMonet needs to be performing at the @vmas cause I’m tired, PUT HER ON THE STAGE!

— m a y a (@KioshiWarrior) September 9, 2023
Twitter: @KioshiWarrior

There’s is no reason why VICTORIA MONET should not be on the stage tonight.

— Dae’Kwon. (@boywiththelooks) September 13, 2023
Twitter: @boywiththelooks

why is victoria monet in the audience but not on the stage

— RK Jackson | Atlanta 🛸 (@theerkj) September 13, 2023
Twitter: @theerkj

Recently, Victoria's latest single, "On My Mama," went viral and brought new attention to the singer, who is anything but a newcomer to the game.

While the 30-year-old singer's Jaguar II album could be considered her debut, it's far from her first project. In 2014, Victoria released the EP Nightmares & Lullabies: Act 1, followed by Act 2 in 2015. In 2018, she released Life After Love, Pt. 1 and Pt. 2. Finally, she released her debut album's predecessor Jaguar in 2020.

closeup of Victoria Monét

And the "Coastin" singer's credits don't stop there. Victoria is a songwriter with an impressive background, writing for artists like BLACKPINK, Chloe X Halle, Fifth Harmony, T.I., Chris Brown, and Ariana Grande.

victoria singing on stage with ariana grande

Victoria's work with Ariana includes songs like "Honeymoon Avenue," "Alright," "34+35," and the Grammy-nominated hits "Thank U, Next" and "7 Rings."

After the ongoing support, Victoria explained why she didn't perform, which didn't sit well with the fans, or me, for good reason.

closeup of Victoria Monét  at an event wearing a sheer corset dress

On Sept. 13, Victoria wrote on X, "I see your advocation for me to have performed tonight, and I'm so grateful to you!! Sincerely! My team was told it is 'too early in my story' for that opportunity, so we will keep working!"

I see your advocation for me to have performed tonight and I’m so grateful to you!! Sincerely! My team was told it is “too early in my story” for that opportunity so we will keep working! I’m grateful for YOU, for my tour starting this Friday and for the ability to see some of my…

— Victoria Monét (@VictoriaMonet) September 13, 2023
Twitter: @VictoriaMonet

"I'm grateful for YOU for my tour starting this Friday and for the ability to see some of my favorite people perform tonight and receive the love they so deserve!!! For me, it's part of the story…and in God's time."

closeup of Victoria Monét  wearing a denim mini skirt and a butterfly shape top

The fans were not pleased to hear her team was told it's "too early" in her story, many taking the opportunity to call out the hypocrisy of the awards show's alleged decision.

not to go full yeezy but Victoria Monet “On My Mama” video was better than any video nominated at the VMAs this year, n any video i seen this year period

— #MOST (@jeandeauxmusic) September 13, 2023
Twitter: @jeandeauxmusic

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Fans also alluded to the fact that other artists who were "early in their story" performed, which contradicts the apparent excuse given to Victoria.

Twitter: @LenaVandross

30-year-old Kelsea Ballerini released her debut album, The First Time, in 2014.

kelsea on stage

In 2014, 24-year-old Sabrina Carpenter released her debut EP, Can't Blame a Girl for Trying, followed by her full-length album, Eyes Wide Open.

sabrina dancing on stage

20-year-old Olivia Rodrigo only released her first single, "Drivers License," in 2020 and her debut album, Sour, in 2021.

olivia with her dancers on stage

23-year-old rapper Kaliii performed at the VMAs after gaining popularity from a song on TikTok, and the release of her debut mixtape This Why They Mad Now in 2021.

Kaliii on the red carpet

And, 23-year-old Reneé Rapp just released her debut EP Everything to Everyone in 2022, and her full-length album Snow Angel this year — so it's fair to say Victoria's talented peers are "early" in their stories as well when it comes to music.

closeup of renee singing on stage

As another X user pointed out, last year, Chloe of the R&B duo Chloe x Halle performed at the VMAs with only a single (as a solo act) under her belt, which is probably an attribution of the star power from their connection to Beyoncé, who currently is the most awarded artist in the VMAs' history.

if what is happening to victoria monet doesn’t show you how much parkwood fights for these girls… chlöe performed at the vma main stage with no album out and only one single that was 3 days old. https://t.co/2eS2j4FNfn

— lesego. (@LeeLovesBey) September 14, 2023
MTV / VMAs / Via Twitter: @LeeLovesBey

I think Victoria didn't get to perform with these other women because of the lack of inclusion. Based on the VMA shows over the years, there's a particular narrative MTV is trying to convey, and it doesn't include soulful rhythm and blues music (save Beyoncé). Instead, it's saturated with overtly sexual and provocative performances from women of color.

cardi b and megan thee stallion performing with dancers on stage

For years, music genres like rap, hip-hop, and R&B have been separated from the mainstream categories of pop despite their popularity based solely on the fact that it was deemed "urban music."

This moniker was used to segregate American music created by Black artists because it was believed it wouldn't be received in the same regard as music by white artists. Internationally successful artists like Beyoncé, The Weeknd, Lizzo, and Rihanna have all been pigeonholed into this category.

I’d much rather y’all say that the vmas don’t prioritize R&B than make it seem like Victoria Monet would be a waste of space on that stage y’all looked at last night

— Mel Smith (@iamMelsmith) September 13, 2023
Twitter: @iamMelsmith

The VMAs problem is it’s living off nostalgia instead of trying to be fresh. Telling Victoria Monet it’s too early in her story is crazy considering 10 years ago she would’ve been perfect for a pre show feature at the least.

— Stephen (@TheStevenDwayne) September 13, 2023
Twitter: @TheStevenDwayne

It wasn't until 2020, when Tyler, the Creator called out the Grammys for this "urban" categorization, that these problematic origins were finally addressed.

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Recording Academy / GRAMMYs / Via youtube.com

"It sucks that whenever we – and I mean guys that look like me – do anything that's genre-bending...they always put it in a 'rap' or 'urban' category," Tyler told the reporters at the Grammys. "I don't like that 'urban' word. To me, it's just a politically correct way to say the N-word. Why can't we just be in pop?"

While awards shows like the Grammys, Billboard, and the American Music Awards attempted to rectify the problems by including more R&B artists on the main stage, MTV has relied solely on Black Entertainment Television (BET) to pick up the slack.

I asked the question: if we're working to move away from problematic classifications of "urban" music being labeled unsuitable for the general population, what is the distinction between Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift versus H.E.R. and Jazmine Sullivan? Why can't Black music be represented beyond the rap genre at the VMAs?

And if somebody leaped to the excuse of the VMAs only allowing the top artists to perform, I didn't see Morgan Wallen or Zach Bryan on that stage. I believe Victoria's exclusion wasn't personal. It's a reflection of a narrative long overdue for change.

If awards shows are intended to celebrate all genres of music, let's include everybody you might only see on networks like BET.

closeup of victoria singing with her hand over her heart

Then maybe R&B artists like Victoria can have a chance to be on the stage regardless of how "early" or "urban" her journey may appear.

victoria at the vmas

We can do better, and I put that on my mama and my hood!

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