He told the Advocate in 1995, "I think I’ve always been bisexual. I mean, it’s something that I’ve always been interested in. I think people are born bisexual, and it’s just that our parents and society kind of veer us off into this feeling of ‘Oh, I can’t.’ They say it’s taboo. It’s ingrained in our heads that it’s bad, when it’s not bad at all. It’s a very beautiful thing.”
Kit came out on Twitter in 2022 after fans accused him of "gaybaiting": “Back for a minute. I’m bi. Congrats for forcing an 18-year-old to out himself. I think some of you missed the point of the show. Bye," he said.
The actor told Variety, "I fully identify as bisexual. I literally just got goosebumps saying that. It feels so good to talk about it, it feels so good to finally be comfortable with it.”
He told Billboard: "I’ve had experiences with men, even while I was dating the woman who became my wife. It was like, ‘Wow, does that mean I am gay?’ And my wife laid it out for me. She calls it ‘two spirit,’ which is what the Native Americans call someone who can love both man and woman. I really like that.”
Daniel told Metro UK: "You don’t have to be one thing or the other. You don’t have to be promiscuous, you don’t have to be polygamous. People define bisexuality in so many different ways. I personally define it as taste and preference."
He actually has an FAQ section on his site where he discusses his bisexuality. When asked how he explains bisexuality, Alan says: "I’m not here to change people’s minds about whether they believe in bisexuality. All I’m saying is that I think my sexuality and most people’s sexuality is gray. I am married to a man. I have a healthy sexual appetite and a healthy imagination. I also have an attraction to women. I’ve never lost it, actually."
He said on Instagram in 2017, "I like to change my hair, I like to take risks with how I dress, I like girls & I like guys (yes), I like growing, I like learning, I like who I am, and I really like who I'm becoming."
In 2016, he wrote on Instagram, "Hey so it's #biweek — the week for the Bi kids to be visible. I try to be visible all the time just by being true to who I am openly, but I know many people struggle with this because of the stigma associated with bi-ness. I know that some of you, probably friends even, are reading this and rolling your eyes — 'oh, he's still holding on to that? Who is SHE kidding?' — and I don't blame you. Not many are open about it so we appear to be very rare creatures, maybe even mythical."