misswib

I knew it was time to walk away when she told me I’d changed and she didn’t like it. I knew I had changed, but for the better - I’d come out of a year-long depression and had found real happiness. She needed me to be vulnerable, so she could control the friendship. My happiness

I have way too many to mention, but at the moment, my absolute favourite is The High Low. It’s a pop culture show hosted by two amazingly smart woman from the UK, who cover everything from Taylor Swift to period poverty - no subject is too low brow or high brow for them.

The Marshmallow Test by Walter Mischel - it’s about delaying gratification

I dreamt I gave birth in the bathroom at a party, but I was standing up the whole time - so when the baby “came out” it hit the floor headfirst. I just burst into tears, assuming the baby was dead, didn’t think to try and pick the kid up or check if it was ok. My husband came into… Read More

If something is important to you - don’t think about it too much, just go ahead and do it. If you don’t do it, you’ll regret it a load more than if you do it and it doesn’t work out.

South Africa doesn't have that many prevalent serial murderers, we do however have one really insane one - Norman Afzal Simons, known as the Station Strangler. He had 22 known victims between 1986 and 1994 - all of them young boys between the ages of 9 and 13. Simons raped and sodomised… Read More