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35 Fucking Infuriating Things That Happen In Every Rom-Com

You had me at "rom-com moments that annoy you".

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We recently asked the BuzzFeed Community about the things that annoy them the most in rom-com movies. Here are some of the best results they submitted.

1. Airport dash scenes. Why do they always need to rush to the airport?

PacificCoastNews
PacificCoastNews

Why not just call them? Or book a plane ticket? They're not gonna drop off the face of the Earth.

LauraH2410, Pandapanda124 and Mike Hernandez, Facebook

2. Also, let's be honest, airport security is a joke in rom-com world.

Universal Pictures

3. Single people can apparently afford to have really nice apartments in big cities.

20th Century Fox
Universal Pictures

How is that possible? We can afford a box in a basement.

bybdauthor

4. And then there are the small details that just don't add up.

For example, in Leap Year they go to an outdoor wedding, in Ireland, in February! And then to top it off they sleep on a bench after said wedding. The average temperature in Ireland in February is 5°C (41°F).–emmat4b381ccdc
Universal Pictures

For example, in Leap Year they go to an outdoor wedding, in Ireland, in February! And then to top it off they sleep on a bench after said wedding. The average temperature in Ireland in February is 5°C (41°F).

emmat4b381ccdc

5. There's always a guy who is an absolute jerk who somehow becomes the main love interest.

He's a jerk. No thank you.–sushigal007
Touchstone Pictures

He's a jerk. No thank you.

sushigal007

6. And what about the "he's a fuckboy but there's something different about him" clichè? Hmm?

–Cadyj1392
Universal Pictures

7. Or a man who pursues a woman who isn't interested in him or even vehemently dislikes him.

Is this OK? IS IT???–Larken
Paramount Pictures

Is this OK? IS IT???

Larken

8. In fact, the normalisation of the stalking that characters do to win or win back the ones they want is pretty worrying when you think about it.

Is stalking OK? Let me think... Nope.Kate Sheard, Facebook
20th Century Fox

Is stalking OK? Let me think... Nope.

Kate Sheard, Facebook

9. There's also always the message being sent out that guys are the be-all and end-all of EVERYTHING.

What is with all these women who have wonderful lives, Nora Jones-beautiful kitchens, and supportive friends, but somehow they are deeply unhappy because they are single? SINGLE! GOD NO! There's more to life than getting a guy, btw.–allisonb4b7da2348
20th Century Fox

What is with all these women who have wonderful lives, Nora Jones-beautiful kitchens, and supportive friends, but somehow they are deeply unhappy because they are single? SINGLE! GOD NO!

There's more to life than getting a guy, btw.

allisonb4b7da2348

10. And what about the cheating? SO. MUCH. CHEATING. And it's condoned and always results in ultimate happiness.

Touchstone Pictures
Columbia Pictures

Please see: The Notebook, Love Actually, You've Got Mail, Letters to Juliet, Something Borrowed, to name but a few...

danie87, Picospeaches, and marthaj4b4ecca41

11. Apparently females only have one kind of job – being a writer or working in fashion.

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20th Century Fox

Every other profession must be run by men.

gabbyf4f98bf5f8 and ScuzzleButt

12. There's always a friend who's unlucky in love because she's too outspoken and confident to get a man.

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Warner Bros. Pictures

What is wrong with confidence?

rwash1997

13. And what about the questionable relationships that are actually kinda creepy in rom-coms?

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20th Century Fox

Cher ends up dating her stepbrother in Clueless. I KNOW, they're not blood-related, but that's still kind of weird, is it not? And the teacher falling for a pretend student in Never Been Kissed. Don't tell me that's not odd as well.

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14. Makeovers. So. Many. Makeovers. Apparently you can only get a guy if you conform to society's beauty standards.

–laurad4169b4382
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15. Especially by just taking your glasses off. Apparently glasses = ugly, no glasses = instant attraction.

Miramax Films
Miramax Films

Great message to people who can't help it if they have to wear glasses, guys.

BlueBirdZoe and Bill Poon, Facebook

16. Apparently all married people are sex-deprived.

Stereotypes are real.–kelseya42b0aeac5
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Stereotypes are real.

kelseya42b0aeac5

17. And what is it with kissing in the rain?

Don't even get us started on that cheesy line.–doomsicle, tyrannosaurusjess, and Katie Bingman, Facebook
Rank Film Distributors

Don't even get us started on that cheesy line.

doomsicle, tyrannosaurusjess, and Katie Bingman, Facebook

18. And the fact the girl is never wearing waterproof mascara. She must always have black streaks down her face.

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19. ALSO...the lack of communication. A lot of these plots could be fixed if they just had ONE one-minute conversation.

Do you know what words are? Good. Use them to explain the situation to the other person.–Jessi Watson, Facebook, hollycc, isabelladee01, elisevb2595, judahachenry, and lexy9898
FameFlynet.uk.com

Do you know what words are? Good. Use them to explain the situation to the other person.

–Jessi Watson, Facebook, hollycc, isabelladee01, elisevb2595, judahachenry, and lexy9898

20. The girls always have a lot of orgasms every time they have sex. Every time.

Another thing that gives us unachievable expectations. Thanks.–Yas Langley
Columbia Pictures

Another thing that gives us unachievable expectations. Thanks.

Yas Langley

21. And have you ever noticed the double standards throughout rom-com storylines?

"Nice guy dates bitchy girl, usually for a long(ish) time. Nice girl likes nice guy. Blah blah blah, stuff happens. Nice guy kisses nice girl – cheating on current bitchy girl – but is still the good guy."(HOWEVER if bitchy girl kisses/shags someone else she is in the wrong. Double standards or what?!)"Nice girl and nice guy end up together and no thought is given to bitchy girl who may not actually be that bad. No one gives a thought to the fact that bitchy girl may have just had her heart broken, but it's fine because the 'good' couple end up together in the end." –rebeccad4368d6a5f
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"Nice guy dates bitchy girl, usually for a long(ish) time. Nice girl likes nice guy. Blah blah blah, stuff happens. Nice guy kisses nice girl – cheating on current bitchy girl – but is still the good guy.

"(HOWEVER if bitchy girl kisses/shags someone else she is in the wrong. Double standards or what?!)

"Nice girl and nice guy end up together and no thought is given to bitchy girl who may not actually be that bad. No one gives a thought to the fact that bitchy girl may have just had her heart broken, but it's fine because the 'good' couple end up together in the end." –rebeccad4368d6a5f

22. And with it comes slut-shaming.

Sony Pictures

Newsflash: Girls like to have no-strings sex too. Also, virgin-shaming also isn't cool fyi.

–Sara Rose Moreira, Facebook

23. Then there's the rom-coms that feature super toxic friendships.

For example, in Something Borrowed the two main characters are supposed to be BEST FRIENDS but Rachel sleeps with her best friend Darcy's fiancé! Oh and Darcy sleeps with the guy she thinks is dating Rachel. Best friends don't do that shit. –alyssab4eeb7f267
Warner Bros.

For example, in Something Borrowed the two main characters are supposed to be BEST FRIENDS but Rachel sleeps with her best friend Darcy's fiancé! Oh and Darcy sleeps with the guy she thinks is dating Rachel. Best friends don't do that shit.

alyssab4eeb7f267

24. The gay best friend who is only there to be a sparkly accessory who makes the occasional funny quip.

Because that's the only role they could be there for. Stereotypes, man.–emmfarc and Dawn Sardella-Ayres, Facebook
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Because that's the only role they could be there for. Stereotypes, man.

emmfarc and Dawn Sardella-Ayres, Facebook

25. When the man is 20 years older than the woman, and not only is it not an issue, no one notices.

–audreys4a6196a57
Buena Vista Pictures

26. When one of them always decides to quit their job and leave town because love will never happen for them in a city of 5 million people.

Maybe they don't need to do anything that extreme. Just maybe.–kend4fe281761
Columbia Pictures

Maybe they don't need to do anything that extreme. Just maybe.

kend4fe281761

27. Or when the girl decides to leave town at the exact moment the guy realises she's the one for him.

OH THANK GOD, he JUST got her in time.–jodiel4ee6cd574
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OH THANK GOD, he JUST got her in time.

jodiel4ee6cd574

28. All the times we see people calling off a wedding at the last minute, maybe even as the guests are waiting.

Pretty selfish tbh. And can they really throw away thousands of pounds just like that?–belenl2 and alyssab4eeb7f267
Columbia Pictures

Pretty selfish tbh. And can they really throw away thousands of pounds just like that?

belenl2 and alyssab4eeb7f267

29. No matter how dumb, old, or awkward the dude is, the woman is always young, skinny, and attractive.

How about the other way around for a change?–Dawn Sardella-Ayres and Annie Mills, Facebook
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How about the other way around for a change?

–Dawn Sardella-Ayres and Annie Mills, Facebook

30. In fact, the lead female is almost always super slim and incredibly attractive.

Screen Gems
20th Century Fox

Friends With Benefits, 27 Dresses, Pretty Woman, Sweet Home Alabama, What's Your Number?, Good Luck Chuck, How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, Maid in Manhattan, My Best Friend's Wedding...

–Sara Lee, Facebook

31. And the cast is always predominantly white.

Has it ever occurred to people that not only white people have relationships?–jennyb27
20th Century Fox

Has it ever occurred to people that not only white people have relationships?

jennyb27

32. And the timescale for people to fall in love can border on ridiculous.

Universal Pictures

You've known them for two minutes!

– Left Back at Home NCFC, Facebook

33. When a couple are out to dinner and one of them says something suggestive and they make sexy eye contact, then the film smash cuts to them bursting through a bedroom door making out.

So many questions. Did they finish eating? Did they just start making out at the table?! Who paid the bill?!? Why didn't they take home the leftovers??–jillianmccabe3
Universal Pictures

So many questions. Did they finish eating? Did they just start making out at the table?! Who paid the bill?!? Why didn't they take home the leftovers??

jillianmccabe3

34. The public gesture at the end that wins back the girl.

Just like that. So easy. Also... does it have to be in public? I would kill them, not jump into their arms.–Sara G
Touchstone Pictures

Just like that. So easy. Also... does it have to be in public? I would kill them, not jump into their arms.

Sara G

35. And they always follow the same formula.

"Girl/guy hates something in their life (job, living situation, etc.) they have the best friend there for comic relief (sometimes a slutty friend, sometimes a gay friend). Usually they're either secretly in love with someone, or still pining over an ex. Either they end up dating the wrong person, and that wrong person does something douchey, or they fall in love with the random stranger/friend that's been there all along – yet (not-so-plot-twist) they have some sort of fight/fallout that gets resolved by some big romantic gesture or speech that makes every sap cry. And there is your basic plot summary for 80% of chick flicks."–Taryn McCarl, Facebook
Sony Pictures

"Girl/guy hates something in their life (job, living situation, etc.) they have the best friend there for comic relief (sometimes a slutty friend, sometimes a gay friend). Usually they're either secretly in love with someone, or still pining over an ex. Either they end up dating the wrong person, and that wrong person does something douchey, or they fall in love with the random stranger/friend that's been there all along – yet (not-so-plot-twist) they have some sort of fight/fallout that gets resolved by some big romantic gesture or speech that makes every sap cry. And there is your basic plot summary for 80% of chick flicks."

–Taryn McCarl, Facebook

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