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Here Are 10 Controversial Arguments — Who's The A-Hole?

Am I the asshole for forbidding my mermaid daughter to trade her voice for human legs?

Below are some scenarios inspired by the amazing Reddit community "Am I the Asshole?" Read the stories below, then vote on who you think is the asshole in each scenario. Have fun!

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  1. 1. Mike downloads an episode of Game of Thrones to his laptop to watch on a plane ride. The woman behind him, Holly, asks him to turn it off because her small child can see. Mike says no. Who's the asshole?

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1. Mike downloads an episode of Game of Thrones to his laptop to watch on a plane ride. The woman behind him, Holly, asks him to turn it off because her small child can see. Mike says no. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 2. It's Dave and Pat's anniversary, and Pat cooks a romantic dinner. Pat knows that Dave HATES mushrooms, but he insists this mushroom chicken will be delicious. Dave refuses to eat it and says Pat should have made something else. Who's the asshole?

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2. It's Dave and Pat's anniversary, and Pat cooks a romantic dinner. Pat knows that Dave HATES mushrooms, but he insists this mushroom chicken will be delicious. Dave refuses to eat it and says Pat should have made something else. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 3. Frankie's BF Jonah is really into gaming. When he buys the new Animal Crossing, Frankie says she'd love to play with him so they can spend time together. Jonah says no, she'll mess up his island. Frankie is offended. Who's the asshole?

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3. Frankie's BF Jonah is really into gaming. When he buys the new Animal Crossing, Frankie says she'd love to play with him so they can spend time together. Jonah says no, she'll mess up his island. Frankie is offended. Who's the asshole?
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    Frankie
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  1. 4. Phil and Lil go to a holiday party. Phil eats meat but doesn't like any of the dishes except for the vegetarian one. Lil thinks that Phil should save that food for vegetarian guests like her. Phil says that's dumb, there's plenty. Who's the asshole?

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4. Phil and Lil go to a holiday party. Phil eats meat but doesn't like any of the dishes except for the vegetarian one. Lil thinks that Phil should save that food for vegetarian guests like her. Phil says that's dumb, there's plenty. Who's the asshole?
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    Phil
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  1. 5. Al babysits his 1-year-old granddaughter, Tina, and decides to take her to see Santa at the mall for the first time. Tina's mom, Linda, is upset and says that she should have been the one to take her. Al says it's no big deal. Who's the asshole?

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5. Al babysits his 1-year-old granddaughter, Tina, and decides to take her to see Santa at the mall for the first time. Tina's mom, Linda, is upset and says that she should have been the one to take her. Al says it's no big deal. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 6. Lola and Tiny broke up but remain close friends. Lola posts a throwback photo of her and Tiny's Disneyland trip — not a romantic pic, but they were dating at the time. His new girlfriend, Shay, asks her to take it down. Lola says no. Who's the asshole?

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6. Lola and Tiny broke up but remain close friends. Lola posts a throwback photo of her and Tiny's Disneyland trip — not a romantic pic, but they were dating at the time. His new girlfriend, Shay, asks her to take it down. Lola says no. Who's the asshole?
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    Lola
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  1. 7. Blair makes her friend Jen the maid of honor for her wedding. However, Jen has a large tattoo on her arm that Blair finds distasteful. She asks Jen to cover it up during the wedding and wear a dress with sleeves. Jen says no. Who's the asshole?

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7. Blair makes her friend Jen the maid of honor for her wedding. However, Jen has a large tattoo on her arm that Blair finds distasteful. She asks Jen to cover it up during the wedding and wear a dress with sleeves. Jen says no. Who's the asshole?
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    Blair
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  1. 8. Francine and Brian are having a baby girl. Francine wants to name their daughter "Karen," after her late grandmother. Brian thinks that people might make fun of the name because of the meme and says no. Francine is offended. Who's the asshole?

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8. Francine and Brian are having a baby girl. Francine wants to name their daughter "Karen," after her late grandmother. Brian thinks that people might make fun of the name because of the meme and says no. Francine is offended. Who's the asshole?
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    Francine
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  1. 9. It's Pam's birthday. Her husband, James, surprises her by cleaning the whole house while she's at work. He says it's her birthday gift. Pam is kind of disappointed in the gift, and James is surprised. Who's the asshole?

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9. It's Pam's birthday. Her husband, James, surprises her by cleaning the whole house while she's at work. He says it's her birthday gift. Pam is kind of disappointed in the gift, and James is surprised. Who's the asshole?
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    Pam
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  1. 10. Jules offers to treat Rue to lunch. Jules buys a large order of wings to share, and they eat at her house. Rue takes the leftovers home without telling Jules. Jules thinks this is rude, but Rue says she thought it was her treat. Who's the asshole?

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10. Jules offers to treat Rue to lunch. Jules buys a large order of wings to share, and they eat at her house. Rue takes the leftovers home without telling Jules. Jules thinks this is rude, but Rue says she thought it was her treat. Who's the asshole?
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    Rue
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