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I'm Curious Who You Think The Jerk Is In These 9 Dating Scenarios

Am I the a-hole for refusing to turn my girlfriend into a vampire unless we get married first?

Welcome to another round of "Am I the asshole?" polls, inspired by the wonderful Reddit community! This week's scenarios all deal with dating and relationships. Read the stories below, then vote on who you think is in the wrong. Have fun!

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Just so you know, some of these stories are based on Reddit posts, but not all of them. They're also not intended to be exactly the same as the original stories.

  1. 1. Alexis's BF, Mutt, loves patterned socks. However, he always wears them mismatched, which she hates. While Mutt is out, Alexis replaces all of his socks with new plain black ones. Mutt is furious. Alexis says she did him a favor. Who's the asshole?

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1. Alexis's BF, Mutt, loves patterned socks. However, he always wears them mismatched, which she hates. While Mutt is out, Alexis replaces all of his socks with new plain black ones. Mutt is furious. Alexis says she did him a favor. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 2. Zig and his wife, Maya, have been trying to start a family. On Zig's birthday, Maya gives him a wrapped sonogram picture and says it's his birthday present. Zig says he's happy about the baby, but this doesn't count as a gift. Who's the asshole?

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2. Zig and his wife, Maya, have been trying to start a family. On Zig's birthday, Maya gives him a wrapped sonogram picture and says it's his birthday present. Zig says he's happy about the baby, but this doesn't count as a gift. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 3. Bert and his boyfriend, Ernie, like to watch Criminal Minds. Bert has a huge crush on the character Spencer and always comments on how hot he is. Ernie says it's disrespectful to their relationship to crush on a character. Who's the asshole?

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3. Bert and his boyfriend, Ernie, like to watch Criminal Minds. Bert has a huge crush on the character Spencer and always comments on how hot he is. Ernie says it's disrespectful to their relationship to crush on a character. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 4. Emilio tells his girlfriend, Vanessa, that he just wants to spend a quiet night with her for his birthday. However, Vanessa surprises him with a party of their closest friends. Emilio is furious and says she threw the party for herself. Who's the asshole?

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4. Emilio tells his girlfriend, Vanessa, that he just wants to spend a quiet night with her for his birthday. However, Vanessa surprises him with a party of their closest friends. Emilio is furious and says she threw the party for herself. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 5. Dean and Rory watch The Witcher together. Dean tells her his theories every episode, sometimes talking over the dialogue. Rory gets fed up and says she'll turn it off if he keeps mansplaining. Dean says she overreacted. Who's the asshole?

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5. Dean and Rory watch The Witcher together. Dean tells her his theories every episode, sometimes talking over the dialogue. Rory gets fed up and says she'll turn it off if he keeps mansplaining. Dean says she overreacted. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 6. Frankie's BF, Jonah, leaves his phone out while he's in the shower. Frankie takes a glance at his phone and sees that he has sexy pics from other girls. Jonah says she shouldn't have snooped and that it's not cheating to have pictures. Who's the asshole?

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6. Frankie's BF, Jonah, leaves his phone out while he's in the shower. Frankie takes a glance at his phone and sees that he has sexy pics from other girls. Jonah says she shouldn't have snooped and that it's not cheating to have pictures. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 7. Arnold and Helga have been dating for a few weeks. They go out to dinner, but Helga realizes she forgot her wallet. Arnold offers to pick up the tab. Helga orders the steak, which is fairly expensive. Arnold says that was rude of her. Who's the asshole?

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7. Arnold and Helga have been dating for a few weeks. They go out to dinner, but Helga realizes she forgot her wallet. Arnold offers to pick up the tab. Helga orders the steak, which is fairly expensive. Arnold says that was rude of her. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 8. Josie's wife, Hope, loves to cook, so she usually makes dinner. She always leaves a huge mess for Josie to clean up. Josie complains. Hope tells her to suck it up, says it's only fair that Josie do the cleaning because she cooks. Who's the asshole?

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8. Josie's wife, Hope, loves to cook, so she usually makes dinner. She always leaves a huge mess for Josie to clean up. Josie complains. Hope tells her to suck it up, says it's only fair that Josie do the cleaning because she cooks. Who's the asshole?
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  1. 9. Liam and his girlfriend, Naomi, live in separate apartments, but Naomi usually spends the night at his place a few nights a week. Liam says she should pay money toward utilities every time she sleeps over. Naomi says that's nuts. Who's the asshole?

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9. Liam and his girlfriend, Naomi, live in separate apartments, but Naomi usually spends the night at his place a few nights a week. Liam says she should pay money toward utilities every time she sleeps over. Naomi says that's nuts. Who's the asshole?
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