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I Am Super Duper Curious If You Would Call These 10 Situations Cheating

There's morally gray areas, and then there's Rory and Logan.

Here's the deal: I'll give you several imaginary relationship stories, and you vote on whether you would count them as cheating or not. Assume all relationships here are monogamous unless stated otherwise. Have fun!

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  1. 1. Sophie and Maxine decide to take a break from their relationship to focus on themselves, but hope to get back together. They don't specify any rules. Two days into the break, Maxine hooks up with her friend Riley. Is this cheating?

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1. Sophie and Maxine decide to take a break from their relationship to focus on themselves, but hope to get back together. They don't specify any rules. Two days into the break, Maxine hooks up with her friend Riley. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 2. Carter and his girlfriend, Serena, go to a party. At one point, Serena overhears Carter being very flirty with another woman and telling her that he would totally hook up with her if he were single. Is this cheating?

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2. Carter and his girlfriend, Serena, go to a party. At one point, Serena overhears Carter being very flirty with another woman and telling her that he would totally hook up with her if he were single. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 3. Emily has been dating her girlfriend, Paige, for over a year. Whenever her ex Maya is in town, they meet for coffee to catch up. They never hook up, but Emily doesn't tell Paige about these meet-ups. Is this cheating?

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3. Emily has been dating her girlfriend, Paige, for over a year. Whenever her ex Maya is in town, they meet for coffee to catch up. They never hook up, but Emily doesn't tell Paige about these meet-ups. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
  3.  
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 4. Harry borrows his boyfriend Ron's phone to make a quick call. While he's using his phone, Harry notices a bunch of sexy pics from other guys saved to his camera roll. Ron says he's never done anything physical. Is this cheating?

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4. Harry borrows his boyfriend Ron's phone to make a quick call. While he's using his phone, Harry notices a bunch of sexy pics from other guys saved to his camera roll. Ron says he's never done anything physical. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
  3.  
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 5. Ethan and his boyfriend Jackson have been dating for a few months. Ethan never deleted his dating apps off his phone and, while he doesn't message anyone, he still likes to swipe occasionally when he's bored. Is this cheating?

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5. Ethan and his boyfriend Jackson have been dating for a few months. Ethan never deleted his dating apps off his phone and, while he doesn't message anyone, he still likes to swipe occasionally when he's bored. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
  3.  
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    No, this isn't cheating.
  1. 6. Tina is happily engaged to her boyfriend Jim. She likes to write fan fics with her online friends in her spare time for fun — they sometimes write sexy scenes together, but it's all just fictional. Is this cheating?

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6. Tina is happily engaged to her boyfriend Jim. She likes to write fan fics with her online friends in her spare time for fun — they sometimes write sexy scenes together, but it's all just fictional. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
  3.  
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 7. Veronica is in a sorority and has a date party coming up. Her boyfriend Archie can't make it, so she takes her friend Reggie as her date. They don't do anything physical, but she doesn't tell Archie about it until after the party. Is this cheating?

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7. Veronica is in a sorority and has a date party coming up. Her boyfriend Archie can't make it, so she takes her friend Reggie as her date. They don't do anything physical, but she doesn't tell Archie about it until after the party. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 8. Josie and Finch have been dating for a few weeks. Josie goes on a camping trip with a group of friends, including her ex Hope. There isn't much space, so Josie and Hope end up sharing a tent. Is this cheating?

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8. Josie and Finch have been dating for a few weeks. Josie goes on a camping trip with a group of friends, including her ex Hope. There isn't much space, so Josie and Hope end up sharing a tent. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
  3.  
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 9. Bert and Ernie have been seeing each other for a couple of months, but haven't explicitly defined their relationship yet. One night, Bert runs into Ernie and sees him on a date with someone else. Is this cheating?

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9. Bert and Ernie have been seeing each other for a couple of months, but haven't explicitly defined their relationship yet. One night, Bert runs into Ernie and sees him on a date with someone else. Is this cheating?
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
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    No, it's not cheating.
  1. 10. Finally, Spencer goes to a party with her friends while her boyfriend Toby stays home. After a couple of drinks, she ends up making out with one of her friends. She feels bad and tells Spencer about it immediately the next day. Is this cheating?

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10. Finally, Spencer goes to a party with her friends while her boyfriend Toby stays home. After a couple of drinks, she ends up making out with one of her friends. She feels bad and tells Spencer about it immediately the next day. Is this cheating?
  1.  
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    Yes, this is cheating.
  2.  
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    Hmm, it's definitely sketchy.
  3.  
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    No, it's not cheating.

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