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    If You're Single This Valentine's Day, Here Are 32 Things To Treat Yourself To Because You Deserve It

    "I can buy myself flowers." —Miley Cyrus, and you 💐

    Unless otherwise specified, all sizes in this post are listed in women's.

    1. A lace bodysuit for something jaw-dropping to wear with your favorite jeans when you go out with your friends. Or just for wearing around the house so you can say, "Dayummm" every time you walk by a mirror. 

    reviewer wearing the bodysuit in black with jeans
    model wearing the lace bodysuit in pink

    Promising review: "Perfect lingerie or fashionable bodysuit! Fits as expected and it's beautiful quality. Very great seller, came fast with Prime shipping. Thinking about purchasing the other style in white!" —Brianna

    Get it from Amazon for $16.98 (available in sizes S–XL and nine colors).

    2. A ~main character~ candle to serve as a reminder that this story is about YOU, not your crappy ex. And the main character always wins in this movie. The combination of ozone, plum, eucalyptus, and sandalwood will surely provide just the right vibes for romanticizing your single life. 

    the candle on a surface surrounded by flowers and accessories
    Mise en Scènt

    Mise en Scènt is a Brooklyn-based small biz that makes soy candles inspired by film. They've got hand-poured blends for all of your fave movie night flicks — from fantasy to macabre to old Hollywood, and more.

    Get it from Mise en Scènt for $36.

    3. A cruelty-free mascara that over 200,000 people swear by! It's affordable, lengthening, volumizing, and way easier to apply than fake lashes. And sometimes a bomb mascara is just the thing you need to make you feel fabulous. 

    Promising review: "Love it, love it, love it!!! You really look like you have fake eyelashes on. This mascara is amazing! It's not thick and lumpy, and it glides on smoothly and precisely. You feel like you had a makeup artist do your eyes!!! It lasts all day — no touch-up required, no smearing, no clumping. I use soap and warm water to remove. I am 500% completely happy and satisfied!" —Very Satisfied!!

    Get it from Amazon for $4.99.

    And check out our full Essence Lash Princess Mascara review for more details.

    4. An arrangement of farm fresh flowers, which includes ranunculus, lisianthus, and spray roses for anyone who has been listening to "Flowers" by Miley Cyrus on repeat and now wants to actually buy themself flowers. (Psst, you totally should!) 

    a red and pink bouquet of flowers in a pink vase
    Farmgirl Flowers

    Plus, it comes with the cute pink vase!

    Farmgirl Flowers is a woman-founded and predominantly woman-run flower company!

    Get it from Farmgirl Flowers for $99 (also available in a smaller and a larger size).

    5. Or a beautiful bouquet of long stem eternity roses with a porcelain vase for you to put next to your bed so you can wake up with a smile on your face every morning — because no one loves you like you do. This bouquet may be a splurge, but it doesn't require any water or direct sunlight and it will last for over a year!!

    three vases of roses in red and pink
    Venus et Fleur

    Get it from Venus et Fleur for $459 (available in five rose colors).

    6. A cult-favorite Aztec Secret Indian healing mask made with 100% calcium bentonite clay that'll work magic to deep clean your pores and help fight acne and blemishes. It's perfect for a solo at-home spa night. 

    A before-and-after of a person with a lot of acne scars on their face compared to a much clearer complexion with only 3-4 scars still visible
    The face mask jar

    There is a bit of mixing involved — you'll need to add some apple cider vinegar for it to do its best work. This product is cruelty-free and formulated without additives or fragrances.

    Promising review: "I first want to share that I typically don’t share reviews but this product has truly helped clear my skin. My adult acne has been out of control for some time now. I’ve tried everything including hormone therapy which didn’t help. I’ve ended up with a scarred face from so much picking at my acne. I’m sooo amazed by this mask. Yes it dries your face but a good moisturizer does the trick. So thankful for this product. I do masks all the time. Most recent was a black sea mask. It cleaned up my blackheads, but my acne remained. This seems to be doing the trick! Try it out! You won’t regret it." —Danielle Torres

    Get it from Amazon for $14.95.

    Check out more details about this popular clay mask.

    7. Or a pack of 16 Dermal Korea collagen sheet masks if you'd rather have something a little less messy for your night of relaxation. The scents of these cult-favorite masks vary, but they each contain vitamin E and collagen to help make skin clearer, and more elastic.

    the variety pack of 16 face masks
    reviewer wearing one of the face masks

    Promising review: "These masks are amazing!!! Having 'ice pick' scars left over from acne I was told that I'd have to pay for expensive laser therapy because the body can't produce enough collagen to heal deep scars. I've been using these masks for two months and I've seen SIGNIFICANT reduction in my scars. They are almost completely gone!" —Shaun

    Read what another BuzzFeeder had to say about these collagen sheet masks!

    Get a pack of 16 from Amazon for $11.99.

    8. A cropped turtleneck with a sassy cutout and comfy built-in bra, perfect for lookin' and feelin' fabulous — even in the winter. Post a picture in this and your ex will be crying to their friends immediately. 😈 

    buzzfeed editor wearing the crop top in pink with jeans
    the top inside out to show the built-in bra
    Kayla Boyd / BuzzFeed, Klassy Network

    I have bought multiple Brami tops from Klassy Network and I LOVE them! Seriously, sooooo comfortable and cute! Which is my absolute favorite combo. This one might just be my favorite, because the pink color and cutout are so fun, while still being warm enough to wear in winter. I paired it with some high-waisted jeans and got a ton of compliments. Plus, I didn't have to wear a bra! As someone who wears a size H cup, lemme tell you, that alone is an AMAZING feeling! 

    Klassy Network is a woman-owned business that sells stylish clothes, swimwear, eyewear, and their well-known Brami top, aka a top that provides amazing support and doesn't require a bra underneath!

    Promising reviews: "First thing I have to say is THANK YOU KLASSY NETWORK for making this amazing top! Gosh the fabric of this turtleneck peek-a-boo top is sooo perfect. Soft and stretchy and comfortable, holds the girls in, great cleavage. I’m wanting more colors too! Love it." —Kristen

    "I own about 10 Klassy Network tops and this is one of my favorites! It is so stylish for going out in the wintertime." —Kayla D.

    Get it from Klassy Network for $48 (available in sizes XXS–3XL and three colors).

    9. A TikTok-famous rinse-out hair treatment for damaged, over-processed locks — if you're looking for a way to revamp your hair in your single era, but dye isn't for you, then try this! It can be used on all hair textures to help restore it back to a healthier state. Just shampoo your hair, apply this while it's still wet, let it sit for 5–20 minutes, and rinse. You'll notice a huge difference.

    Reviewer photo of hair before using collagen treatment
    Reviewer photo of hair after using collagen treatment

    Promising review: "I am obsessed with this conditioner. It's light enough to use every other wash and it smells amazing. I have ultra fine, curly blond hair that’s extremely prone to breakage and I feel like my hair has grown an inch since using this product. Just bought two more bottles because I never want to run out of this magic." —Lorrie Trautman

    Get it from Amazon for $7.62.

    10. A splurge-worthy pair of travel slippers handcrafted in Italy and made of embossed leather so you can shuffle around your hotel room like the boujee queen you are on your next girls' trip or staycation. 

    buzzfeed editor wearing the slippers in pink
    the slippers being folded into a matching case
    Kayla Boyd / BuzzFeed, Steen

    I have these slippers and I can confirm that they are amazing quality and so stylish! I love wearing slippers at home, but when I'm traveling they are not an easy thing to pack. These totally solve that dilemma! They easily fold up into a cute matching pouch, making them a dream for packing. And when you unfold them, they look perfect! Not misshapen or uncomfy at all. I feel like royalty when I pull these out of my bag and walk around in them. 

    Get them from Steen for $198 (originally $248; also available in more colors).

    11. A fuzzy heart-shaped heating pad to cozy up with when you need a warm hug. Just heat this up in the microwave and then rest it on any achy area for some relief. Plus, it's lavender scented for maximal relaxation! 

    gray fuzzy heart heating pad
    Warmies

    Promising reviews: "Great size and the lavender scent is amazing!" —Sarah B. 

    "Really nice to just lay on me when I’m cold." —Kyleigh P. 

    Get it from Warmies for $29.99

    12. A waterproof shower phone holder ideal for watching TubeTube videos, listening to a podcast, or jammin' to your "single girl swag" playlist while you spend an hour decompressing in the tub. The mount can rotate and it has touchscreen abilities.

    a reviewer hand touching the outside of the shower phone holder with a phon inside
    a reviewer rotating the shower phone holder

    Check out a TikTok of the shower phone holder in action. 

    Promising review: "This waterproof phone case makes listening to music and watching Netflix in the shower so easy!! It’s super easy to put your phone in, fog proof, and easily rotatable. The only thing is sometimes touching the screen through the plastic can be a little difficult, but worked most of the time! It comes with three different backs so you can move it around to many different spots in the house. I got the white color so it would match my shower." —Brittney Steele

    Get it from Amazon for $16.32+ (available in seven colors). 

    13. A heart drop necklace — just because you don't have a partner doesn't mean you don't deserve gorgeous heart-shaped jewelry for Valentine's Day! This gold-toned accessory can be dressed up for a nice event or just worn on a regular day to elevate a casual look. 

    model wearing the gold heart necklace
    Ming Wang

    Get it from Ming Wang for $58.99.

    14. Or a nameplate necklace if you want to channel some Carrie Bradshaw vibes. Don't worry, you'll find your Mr. Big! (Or Aidan, he was arguably a better choice.) 

    Get it from The M Jewelers for $170+ (available in nine metals and three lengths). 

    15. A vibrant striped sweater, because baby it's cold outside! But you can still look on-theme and totally cute in this snuggly find for Galentine's Day with your besties. 

    Promising review: "Yes yes yes. Fits great with still room to be a little baggy, which I prefer with my sweaters. Colors are perfect for fall/winter and exactly like the picture. So happy with this sweater! I washed it prior and it held up great!" —shane

    Get it from Amazon for $36.89 (available in sizes S–XL and 18 colors/styles).

    16. A Stila lip-plumping glaze that'll give your pout a glossy, full look. You'll be puckering up for a million selfies after a few swipes of this. As you should. 

    before and after of a model's lips looking plump and glossy after using the product
    swatches of the lip glaze in 12 colors on three different skin tones
    Stila Cosmetics

    Promising review: "I use the 'Giovanna' plumping glaze over my regular long-lasting lip color. I love that this hydrates, plumps, and makes me feel so pretty :)." —Stila Cosmetics customer 

    Get it from Amazon for $24 (available in 12 colors), from Nordstrom for $24, from Ulta for $24 (available in eight colors), or from Stila Cosmetics for $24 (available in 13 colors). 

    17. A copy of Burn After Writinga guided journal meant to encourages you to explore your feelings. It's time for some much needed ~inner healing~ and we're so proud of you for it! 

    Promising review: "I first saw this book on TikTok and decided to look more into it. I purchased four total because I know some people holding onto things that are difficult to let go of. It’s a great way to look at things from a different perspective and truly hold yourself accountable to different things in your life. I love what it stands for and I look forward to when I burn mine after I’m done. Self love, self care, and meditation for a better state of mind tomorrow is always the goal. I definitely recommend it to those susceptible to change and the willingness to try things different. You’re so much more than what’s been done to you and someone’s inability to see your worth does not decrease your value. Choose you for a change." —Brent Helm

    Get it from Amazon for $7.32.

    18. A pair of light pink New Balance sneakers because they're cute, comfy, and the perfect addition to your shoe collection. Whether you're running errands, going for a walk, or hanging out with friends, these will keep your feet happy and your outfit on point. 

    buzzfeed editor holding up the pink sneakers
    Kayla Boyd / BuzzFeed

    Promising review: "Three words: comfy, stylish, timeless. I feel the pictures don’t do these shoes justice, they look bland, when in reality they are very stylish. The color is far more vibrant in person than it is in the pictures." —Macr

    Get them from DSW for $69.99 (originally $75; available in sizes 6–11 and four colors). 

    You can also find more colors and sizes of this sneaker on Amazon

    19. A plush blanket that's just really, really soft. You're gonna love curling up in this on your couch to binge watch your favorite show. Don't you just love being single and having the ability to watch whatever you want all the time?? 

    A green and white checkered blanket draped on a couch
    The blanket in dusty rose, blue, ivory, and navy stacked on each other
    Amazon

    Promising review: "I saw this blanket on TikTok and I have to say I absolutely love it. I washed it several times now and it’s maintained its elasticity and softness after each wash. It’s warm enough but not too hot for a throw. Absolutely recommend this blanket!" —Amy

    Get it from Amazon for $29.99+ (available in 13 styles and two sizes). 

    20. A chic humidifier lamp to give your room some calming vibes (and add moisture into the air) when you want to enjoy the peacefulness of being alone in your space. Just turn this on, play some lo-fi, and zone out. 

    the mini tabletop humidifier lamp in white
    Multitasky

    It has two mist setting and the lamp has two brightness settings. 

    Multitasky is a woman-founded and -run small business that began in 2020 as a way for founder Julia Xu to create products that were both functional and cute. 

    Get it from Multitasky for $30 (available in two colors). 

    21. A 15-color Milani eyeshadow palette with shimmer, matte, and natural finishes perfect for creating everyday looks. Reviewers say it's super pigmented and lasts all day! This might just become a new staple in your makeup collection. 

    Promising review: "I LOVE this palette! I don’t like to spend a ton of money on makeup, so I thought I’d take a chance on this palette, since it’s such a good price. I’m so glad I did! The shades are so pigmented and there are several that are shiny and look amazing. I’ve had several people ask me what eyeshadow I’m wearing, that’s how good the colors look. They last my whole 12 hour shift, too! I love the warm golds and nudes in this palette, and that some pinks and purples are included as well. I never get sick of these colors, and they are perfect for everyday wear. Such a good value! If you love pigmented eyeshadows, but don’t like to spend a fortune on them just to get good quality, this palette is for you!" —Emily grimes

    Get it from Amazon for $14.97 (available in eight options). 

    22. A pair of high-waisted flare leggings made of an ultra-soft, textured twill material great for everything from hitting a workout class with your homegirl to spending a weekend inside your apartment, ordering takeout and watching reality TV. And did I mention, they have butt pockets!?

    BuzzFeed editor wearing the leggings in navy
    model wearing the leggings in tan
    Kayla Boyd / BuzzFeed, Aerie

    I am a big fan of these leggings! And most Aerie leggings, actually. I was hesitant to wear bootcut leggings again (I probably haven't owned any since high school), but these changed my mind. As someone who wears a size 18/20, I wasn't sure if the XXL would work for me, but the fit was perfect. The material is thick and stretchy so you don't have to worry about them feeling too restraining or being see-through — which are two things I look for in leggings. I also love the matching corset top to pair with them! I felt so cute and comfy in this outfit! 

    Promising review: "Seriously...buy these pants! They are so comfortable, stretchy and very high-waisted! I bought my normal size and they are perfect. I hope other colors will come back in stock because I’ll definitely get more." —Monica

    Get them from Aerie for $45.46 (originally $64.95; available in sizes XXS–XXL, including Long/Short sizes, and five colors).

    23. A bottle of CND Essentials nail and cuticle oil that uses a natural blend of jojoba oil, sweet almond oil, and vitamin E to soften your cuticles and strengthen your nails. Just what you need to treat yourself to an at-home mani. 

    Each day, work the oil into your nails and cuticles and they will begin to grow and strengthen so you don't have to worry about weak nails anymore!

    Promising review: "I had peeling, weak nails for years. Tried everything. I bought this in February. This-size bottle lasted a bit more than a month religiously applying it 2–3 times a day. I was really seeing great improvement, so I bought another bottle in late March. By May, all the peeling had grown out and my nails were getting stronger every day. I then bought the big 4-ounce refill bottle because I never want to run out of it again! Cannot recommend this stuff enough!" —Diana

    Get it from Amazon for $9.90+ (available in four sizes).

    24. A set of four pearl-embellished velvet headbands for a classy look that even Blair Waldorf would approve of. Use this to jazz up your look the next time you take yourself on a date. 

    the velvet headbands in pink, black, brown, and cream
    reviewer wearing the headband in pink

    Promising review: "Beautiful faux pearl-adorned headbands! The material is velvety and great quality. The pearls are attached super well, not worried they will fall off. They are comfortable on myself and still fit my 3-year-old daughter. Great selection of colors: black, cream, pink and a muted mustard shade. Overall an amazing purchase for a good price." —Lisa Velasco

    Get a set of four from Amazon for $13.99 (also available in a pack of 12).

    25. A pair of AirPod Pros (2nd generation) because they have active noise cancellation, spatial audio, and over 24 hours (!!) of listening time with the included case. These are just what you need for playing the background music while you're busy taking over the city. 

    Promising review: "I have purchased every generation of AirPods. When I first read the reviews here, before purchasing these AirPods, I thought people were perhaps exaggerating a bit. But after having them for two days, what they say is absolutely true. The sound is amazing. Light years better than the AirPods Pro 1. It’s hard to believe that the richness of sound and bass can actually be produced by these small speakers. The noise cancellation feature is outstanding; in fact, when I took them out of my ears, and was hit with the onslaught of actual live sound around me, I realized just how effective the noise filtration is. They’re comfortable, fit great in my ears, especially with the choices of circular ear pads that are included, and the battery life is so much better than the previous generation. Love these guys. Very satisfying purchase." —M. SHAPIRO

    Get them from Amazon for $199 (originally $249).

    26. Or a set of affordable and super popular wireless Bluetooth earbuds — just because you're treating yourself on a budget does not mean that you don't deserve high quality! These are waterproof and have over 200,000 reviewers raving about them. 

    These come with a wireless charging case that provides up to 14 hours of charge (with the earbuds able to play for four-plus hours with each full charge). 

    Promising review: "Best decision! These are the greatest headphones ever! I saw them on TikTok months ago and added them to my wishlist. I got a new phone that doesn't have the headphone port so I decided it was time to finally buy them. They are amazing and I probably won't ever take them out of my ears! 😂" —Katlyn D Arnold

    Get it from Amazon $23.99+ (available in five colors). 

    27. Luv Scrub mesh body exfoliator that can be used to cleanse, exfoliate, and assist in getting rid of ingrown hairs. This makes it much easier to clean those hard-to-reach places and it'll last up to 18 months before you have to replace it. Pamper yourself on a daily basis with this clever beauty find. 

    BuzzFeed editor Marquaysa Battle's hand holding the mesh body exfoliator in a dark pink color
    Marquaysa's hand holding the cloth in the shower with the water running.
    Marquaysa Battle / BuzzFeed

    Luv Scrub is a Black woman-owned business, and its mesh cloth design is inspired by a traditional West African morning routine.

    Here's why my coworker loves it:

    "I have keratosis pilaris, which is a fancy-schmancy way of saying I have to work a lil' harder to exfoliate my body. This baby helps a ton. Scrubbing my body with it is super soothing; it feels like I'm slathering myself with a body scrub minus the gritty mess leftover to rinse from the shower afterward. Plus, I really love how fast it dries. It makes me feel good knowing I'm not putting a bacteria magnet on my skin each time I use it. Def get this if you wanna invest more into your body care/self-care routine. 30 outta 10, so recommend." —Marquaysa Battle

    Get it from Luv Scrub for $18 (also available in four more colors).

    28. A gold decorative mirror perfect for using as a catch-all tray or for hanging on your wall for an elegant vintage touch. Be sure to look into this pretty mirror every day and tell yourself how gorgeous you are! 

    perfume and other small items on a white and gold mirror being used as a tray
    the white and gold versions of the mirror hung on a wall next to art and other mirrors as a sort of gallery wall

    Check out a TikTok of the mirror in action. 

    Promising review: "The mirror looks exactly like the pictures and was an absolute STEAL. So glad I found this. It's the perfect size for me to easily see my shoulders from just holding it an arms length away! It's super lightweight, so don't worry about it being too heavy for the nail. It came completely undamaged! Looks super vintage and great for doing hairstyles and makeup in! It can also be a jewelry dish if you're into that kind of thing." —Rhonda Farias

    Get it from Amazon for $18.49+ (available in gold or white, and in two-packs).

    29. A very stylish glass tumbler you can use to take your water or iced coffee with you when you're heading out for the day. You'll feel like you have your entire life together when you're sipping out of this ~aesthetic~ beverage holder. 

    Editor holding glass tumbler with pink silicone lining and pink straw
    closeup of tumbler showing wooden lid
    Emma Lord/BuzzFeed

    Promising review: "I saw this product on TikTok and automatically liked it! I love that it comes in so many different colors and the top is wood. I drink lots of water and needed a cup I could take with me everywhere. I could also put iced coffee in it too. I love that it came with two straws, a clear one and white. I will be purchasing another one for my husband and also one for my mom in different colors!" —Rose

    Get it from Amazon for $15.99 (available in dozens of colors and in multiple packs). 

    30. A bottle of holographic nail polish — idk about you, but I feel like a Certified Baddie when my nails look good! So if you're bummed about being single right now, this mesmerizing polish might be just the thing to lift your spirits! 

    A model with holographic rose gold nails
    Mooncat

    Check out a TikTok of Mooncat nail polish in action. 

    Mooncat is a woman-owned, vegan small business with cruelty-free products founded by Michelle Lin, who shares on TikTok about how nail polish and art was a symbol of rebellion to her as she wasn't allowed to wear it growing up, which inspired her to create a line of unconventional polishes of her own. 

    Promising review: "I received my first one in the mail. It was so easy and smooth going on. Two coats later, AMAZING, vibrant, beautiful color. The way the light dances off of my nails, the sun shining off the polish, the prismatic guess have me mesmerized. Yep, I picked two more colors a week later. My daughter is now hooked as well. We love this polish and will be picking out a few more. This is the ONLY polish that we use now." —Johnine L. 

    Get it from Mooncat for $15

    31. A classic Hanes sweatshirt you can buy oversized to wear with your favorite leggings or bike shorts while you sip some wine and scroll through dating apps. 

    Reviewer in a gray crewneck sweater with bike shorts
    Reviewer in a green version

    Promising review: "I, a 16-year-old girl, got a medium to have an oversized fit. For the people who came here from TikTok: IT'S AWESOME. The material is so soft, and it’s a great price to put together that mini pleated skirt and collar outfit. I ordered the navy blue to see how it would fit first, and I’ll 100% be ordering other colors." —abby

    Get it from Amazon for $12.11+ (available in men's sizes S–5XL and 17 colors). 

    32. And finally, a gift box of 25 bite-size cupcakes because what better way to treat yourself than with adorable mini desserts! 

    valentine's day-themed mini cupcakes in a box with pink hearts on it
    Baked by Melissa

    BTW, this is a woman-owned brand! 

    Promising review: "Purchased a 25-piece Valentine-themed box for my kids. It was packaged beautifully in a Valentine-themed box. It was delivered on-time via FedEx within a perfectly packaged insulated box that kept the product fresh. Cupcakes’ decorations were intact and of course they were delicious. Thank you!" —Maria

    Get it from Baked by Melissa for $47.

    You, unapologetically treating yourself to dinner, a movie, and gifts: