kath b

this is nuts lol i have trouble waking up for myriad mental reasons but i would never ask a roommate to come wake me up. at some point you have to find a solution; mine is a very loud traditional alarm clock that’s across the room. it goes off, i shoot out of bed, am on my feet before… Read More

she was only 18 at the time. i’m so sure you were acting with total autonomy and never felt pressure to do anything at that time. especially not when being told that it’s your job with 30 people expecting you to come do it.

just like #7 says

i used to work in a fine dining restaurant and with like, 90% accuracy i could tell whether someone was wealthy based on how casually they were dressed. i had a couple who were regulars and they always came in wearing sweatshirts, spending $300+, whereas if people were really dressed… Read More

i said the same below, but i don’t think the actual orientation is the problem! we can’t help what our preferences are. but i think when you say it off the bat, it makes people feel like they have to prove themself to you. or maybe that’s just me! but i think it’s something you are… Read More

i don’t think that intellect is a bad thing to care about internally, but i do think that stating that in your bio—especially using the term—is pretentious and just reads as judgmental. when i see it, it makes me feel like i have to prove that i’m not dumb. as a woman, i already feel… Read More

don’t blame the state as a whole for our shit government. i’m so tired of people vilifying the residents and talking down to us and making it seem like it’s our fault that our leadership is corrupt.

i disagree. sex is a part of the human condition. i think if done tastefully, they often add so much to the dynamic. for example, “portrait of a lady on fire”’s intimacy scene is beautiful and cinches the relationship between the two leads.

hbo now has intimacy coordinators on all shows with sex scenes. i’m working on one right now and he even makes sure the stand-ins are comfortable. it’s been really nice to see. they also keep a closed set for every intimate scene and turn off all monitors except for the essentials… Read More

totally. one of the talent on my current show is very private, but she’s still kind. she just keeps to herself between setups and she has every right to her privacy!