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“Return to Oz” - the best (and most disturbing) Disney movie ever made

Totally agree! The NYT article is fascinating and heartbreaking. It made me think a lot about the effect that trauma can have on attachment style. I remember learning that children who experience trauma can experience a lot of bullying - basically because an insecure attachment style… Read More

Over the past 30 years, How much fucking money has been spent on movies that are just gratuitous violence against girls and women? Billions? If our society wasn’t so “entertained” by watching girls and women be assaulted and murdered, maybe we could put those resources to a different… Read More

This took me a while to learn... big non-profits (or even small non-profits that have a lot of money) can be just as "corporate" as any of the terrible organizations that are described in these comments. Even a non-profit with a great social-justice focused mission can have terrible… Read More

“Ow, my dick!” My wife and I laugh about this like… once a week

This is a good question. For me, it’s important to have warnings on material that I use to relax or “tune out.” This includes books, movies, and sites like buzzfeed. This is all material that I *choose* to consume, so I try to be mindful about what I’m viewing. I keep it light & entertaining… Read More

Buzzfeed … please add a trigger warning to articles like this. The cover photo and first example make it look like this is going to be a humorous article, and then it dives right into graphic descriptions of sexual assault.

I love and appreciate the femme photos that are included! Around the time that I was figuring out my sexuality, there wasn’t a lot of femme visibility and there was a vibe that being femme meant you weren’t authentically queer (which is just misogyny in disguise btw!). Came here to… Read More

Yuuuuup !!!

#7 is on point!!!!