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Because by your quarter-century, you should have your shit together.
Repeat after me — cooking is NOT hard. You have multiple recipe books (aka the internet) at your fingertips that will give you the best, easiest and most budget-friendly recipes out there. Take advantage of fresh produce, one-pan wonders and things that you can whip out for a dinner party. It'll not only impress your friends, but ensure that you aren't tempted to eat takeout every other week.
A little time prepping on the weekend so you have meals ready for the week ahead will save you SO MUCH MONEY in the long run. It's honestly silly not to do it and the meals that you make will be way better in terms of nutrition and flavour.
Throw out those old, plastic takeaway containers that stain after a single use and get your hands on some glass containers. They'll last longer, they're easier to clean and they're way better for the environment.
Online shopping makes it way too easy to impulse buy products that may not last the distance. You should invest in things like couches, mattresses and cookware, since you'll be using them every day. Meanwhile, appliances and plants may be something you can save on.
I know, this sounds absolutely horrible. But with working full-time, your body naturally gets accustomed to waking up at a particular time, even if your mind is still dead tired. Instead of attempting to go back to a sleep for a solid hour, it's better to seize the day, finish off everything you need to do and then by the time the afternoon rolls by, you can take a glorious nap to recharge your batteries.
Start off with your wardrobe — are there things in your closet you haven't worn in the past year? If that's the case, then it's time to either dump or donate it. Or are there files you've been meaning to organise, or a stack of old books you've been meaning to drop off at the library? Do it this weekend! Your mind will feel a lot more free once you actually start to remove all the unnecessary items weighing you down.
If they're draining, difficult, unsupportive and make you feel bad about yourself, these so-called friends need to go. They may have been fun and exciting while you were a teenager, but times change, and you to get rid of their toxic and irresponsible energy that's keeping you from being the best you can possibly be.
Doing the small things every day, like making your bed every single morning, or washing your sheets at the end of each week, can make such a huge difference to your mental health. You'll feel more at ease when you come home, especially when it's been a long day and you can sink into your beautifully made bed.
It's time to strap on the big-adult-pants and be brutally honest about who you are and what you want from a relationship. And if that doesn't suit whomever you're with, you need to walk away and stop wasting your time. Don't chase something that won't eventuate.
To do this, you need to become more aware of not only your own emotions, but how to express them to other people. This is called "emotional intelligence" and it can really help you figure out the big stuff in life, like who you want to be and how to get there.
Your free time is precious because it may be the only period where you can practice self-care and get a breather from the hectic environment of life. So don't feel obligated to share it with someone else if you're feeling stressed, or if you simply need some alone time. This means saying no to social events that you don't want to go to, as well as getting over FOMO when you would much rather be in bed.
Get it into your head that you are the leader of your own destiny. You make the rules, you make the calls and only you can decide what is best for your future. This not only applies to things like your career, but the small stuff like seeing a movie by yourself because none of your friends were into it.
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