#1 its not always like that. There are lots of people interested in all types of different dynamics. BDSM is like Subway, it’s all customizable.
#2 never. I repeat never, learn anything about BDSM via 50 Shades
I agree but I’m not so sure about the amazon one they link to for 16$!
Response to How Do You Eat These Things?:
The KD with hands made me laugh. Once I was really drunk and just wanted to eat KD so I was going to eat it with my hands, then a friend handed me a spoon and I decided to use that to transfer it from the pot into my hand to eat it instead of using the spoon