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    23 Gifts For Loved Ones You Secretly Think Need To Get It Together

    Nothing says "I love you" like a reality check.

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    1. This board game by NRMA Insurance called HELP! The Game, which is the perfect way of subtly coaxing them to get their life together.


    Not only will this gift provide them with hours of boundless fun, but the real-life scenarios and situations will definitely get them thinking about how blessed they are and how important it is to remember and protect that. The premise of the game is to keep your assets as secure as possible in the face of risks that can pop up at any given moment. It's the ideal present for anyone in your life that lives and breathes the "she'll be 'right" attitude, without thinking about the consequences.

    Buy it from Help! The Game for $25.

    2. This cold brew maker that they can keep in the fridge, so that they can stop spending a ridiculous amount of money on their iced lattes.


    To make the coffee, all they need to do is load coarse grounds into the stainless steel basket, pour filtered water over and let it sit overnight. Then serve the delicious drink come morning. *Italian chef kiss.*

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $24.79.

    3. This yoga mat, so that they can't make excuses about not having one the next time you suggest going to a class together.


    Promising Review: "I've been doing 10 minutes of bedtime yoga each night and not only have I become more flexible, I've found that my back and hips are less sore and I sleep much easier — which is amazing, considering my anxiety levels are currently through the roof. This one also has guiding lines, so you can make sure all your positions are perfect before hitting your first yoga class."

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    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $39.99.

    4. This memory foam pillow with cooling gel, so they're never overheated at night and are less likely to wake up on the wrong side of the bed in the morning.


    This is the number one best selling throw pillow inserts on Amazon. This pillow will keep their neck aligned with their spine all night long. Plus, the cooling gel pads keep heads and necks cool while they sleep, so it's perfect for summer.

    Five-star reviews: 1,920+

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $60.90.

    5. This glare proof, waterproof Kindle that means they can finally read all of those books they have on their list.


    This Kindle is super light and they can read the screen in direct sunlight without an obnoxious glare getting in the way.

    It also connects to Wi-Fi and will give them instant access to over five million e-books, some of which are COMPLETELY FREE.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $169.

    6. This stylish pair of blue light blocking glasses, because if they're been complaining about feeling extra tired lately, it's probably because of all the screens they've been looking at.


    These glasses work by blocking out the blue light from screens, which can cause eye strain, headaches and inability to sleep. So, if they've ever mentioned any of these symptoms, get them a pair and they'll love you forever.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $35.90.

    7. This magnetic phone holder for their car, so that they aren't tempted to take their eyes off the road.

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    This phone holder comes with a magnetic disc that can be stuck to a phone or phone case, for instant 360° GPS viewing ability.

    Promising review: "I have been through so many phone cradles. Time after time, phones will just fall after driving over a speed bump and not provide the security they promise. This magnetic device is brilliant — I never have to worry about my phone falling and can view the screen in both landscape and portrait mode with a single rotation. The base of the holder extends and tilts in any direction, making it perfect to use in either the driver or passenger front seat."

    Mariela Summerhays

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $17.99.

    8. This hot air brush that'll make it easier for them to dry their hair faster in the morning, saving time and energy.

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    The brush uses hot air and ionic technology to get rid of frizz and leave their hair looking and feeling as smooth as silk.

    Promising review: "I’ve never been any good at styling my hair. It’s long, thick and stuck somewhere between a wave and a curl. The only time it looks good is when it’s an unintentional fluke and no one is around to see it. When I have an event where I want it to look great, I normally have to wash, blow dry, straighten and if I want some more volume, curl it again. As you can imagine, I don't that often — normally it's just a wash and air dry.

    I decided to give this product a go because it's a hair dryer and brush in one and I thought it could save my hair some heat damage and get those long, bouncy waves I've always dreamed of — without having to spend an hour and a half on it. Now, maybe I need more skill in the blow dry with brush departments (tips welcome), but I didn’t get the gentle waves I wanted. I will say this though, it did straighten my hair pretty well and it only took 15 minutes. So for ease of convenience and everyday wear (along with the cheap $$) I’m happy with how it turned out.

    Clare Aston

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $34.95

    9. This Echo Show 5 that'll help them multitask and get things done.


    This present is perfect for anyone who finds it difficult being organised and multitasking. They can use the Echo Show to set an alarm, bring up their to-do list and play their morning tunes so they can get ready for the day.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $49.

    10. This emoji timer by Tasty, so that they never burn a single cupcake again.


    Timers can be incredibly useful when cooking, baking or even just measuring how long it takes to shower, so they'll never run out of ways to use it. This timer goes up to 60 minutes and is super easy to use with a simple twist functionality.

    Buy it from Big W for $10.

    11. This pack of beeswax food wraps that will keep their food fresh and sealed to sustainably keep their food waste to a minimum.


    These wraps are reusable for up to 12 months and are perfect for wrapping sandwiches and bread, cheese, dry deli meats and bowls.

    Buy a three-pack from Amazon Australia for $15.50.

    12. This makeup bag that's perfect for those (ahem — me) who have a hard time packing their makeup away after using it.


    This makeup bag uses a drawstring mechanism to open up and become a makeup mat, then closes to turn back into a makeup bag.

    Buy a two pack from Amazon Australia for $12.76.

    13. This posture corrector, which will fix the slump they inevitably get from sitting at their desk all day.


    I know I'm not the only one who, at the end of the day, feels aches and pains in my shoulders and back from sitting at the computer. Without fail, my neck has slowly inched forward and I've slouched into my chair. This back brace is made of a breathable material, with extra padding applied to the armpit area for extra comfort. Eventually, they will have built enough muscle strength in the new, properly aligned posture that they'll no longer need it!

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $15.99.

    14. This rotating makeup organiser, so that they don't end up buying the same lipstick shade three times because it's fallen to the back of their drawer.


    This organiser has multiple compartments, so that they can customise their product display based on everyday vs. night out use.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $29.99.

    15. This self-development card game that encourages critical thinking and personal growth.

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    Last year, Flex Mami (@flex.mami) blessed us all with a self development card game called REFLEX, which is all about critical thinking, self-awareness and analysis. Each card will encourage them to sit and think about their own decision making and morals, so if they're all about growth, they'll love them. The cards are themed around important topics such as love, life, death, politics, religion, purpose, career and more.

    Buy the Blue pack from Flex's online store for $29.95.

    16. This weighted cotton blanket to keep their racing thoughts at bay and coax them to sleep.

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    Weight is evenly distributed throughout the stitching of the blanket, making it feel as though they're being hugged as they sleep. This blanket uses sand pellets for the weight distribution rather than fibre, so that they can use it all year round without feeling too hot.

    Read about my experience using a weighted blanket for the first time here!

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $100.99.

    17. This foam roller that'll force them to take care of the muscles they work out at the gym.


    This roller is soft and high quality, meaning it'll last them ages. It also comes with free online instructional videos, which is perfect for beginners who want to take care of their body, but don't know how.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $57.

    18. This laundry hamper, that'll encourage them to pop their dirty clothes somewhere other than the ground.


    If they're someone who likes to put off laundry day for as long as possible, getting them a space saving and aesthetically pleasing hamper is a great idea. This one is made of super durable polyester canvas (they can actually punch it) and it's compact-able, so when it's not in use they can pack it away with ease.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $59.95.

    19. This self-charging robotic vacuum, so that they never have to perform the literal worst chore in the world again, while appearing like a clean queen.


    This robot will not only clean their floors, but it knows when it's low on battery and will return to it's charging station all by itself to juice up again. As long as they set it to vacuum twice a week, they'll basically never need to think about vacuuming again. Plus, if they can't get a pet for whatever reason, they can stick some ears on this guy and live their best vacuum-parent life.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $299.

    20. These Face Halo makeup remover cloths, perfect for the friends who refuse to wash their makeup off before bed.

    BuzzFeed / Hameda Nafiz

    These makeup remover cloths replace up to 500 single use wipes, so not only will you be reducing their waste, but they'll also have no excuse not to get their eyeliner and mascara off before bed.

    They reach deep into pores to remove makeup and impurities and when they're done using it, they can just toss it into the wash up to 200 times. You can get the remover cloths in black or white on Amazon, or you can get them in dark red, or a gorgeous PRIDE edition from the Face Halo website.

    Buy a pack of three from Amazon Australia for $30.

    21. This 60-day high performance planner, so that they can keep their productivity in check.


    This 60-day journal has blank dates, so they can actually start using it at any point in the year. It features daily goal boxes, evening scorecards, weekly habit assessments and everything else they need to become the boss they're destined to be.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $25.90.

    22. This time marked water bottle, because "I don't like the taste of water" is no excuse for poor hydration.


    This 1L water bottle indicates times throughout the day, so that they can turn drinking water into a habit. The bottle also tells them why they should be drinking water — which will hopefully guilt them into prioritising hydration.

    Buy it from Amazon Australia for $28.99.

    23. And finally, this pack of reusable meal prep containers, because as much as I love sandwiches, they are a sad, sad lunch.


    These containers are stackable for easy storing. Plus, they're microwave, freezer and dishwasher safe. They're also in a bento style, so you can keep your sauces and food separate, which will make them extra fresh when you dig in during your next meal.

    Buy a pack of 15 from Amazon Australia for $24.95.