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    29 Valentine’s Day Gifts That’ll Help Bring Some Excitement To Your Night

    These just might be more for you than for them.

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    1. A Savage X Fenty satin and lace bodysuit so you can prove you *are* the gift, plus a little help, with this one-and-done outfit. Easy AND sexy?! Unreal.

    Savage X Fenty

    Promising review: "So, I fell in love with this piece. I ADORE the style and it makes me feel like a f****** goddess!!" —Marleana

    Get it from Savage X Fenty for $37 (originally $96; available in sizes XS–3X and two colors).

    2. A wildly popular clitoral massager that'll help you deliver wave after wave of orgasms for your partner thanks to this unique, clitoral-stimulating design. It's built to absorb sonic waves and transmit them back to your clitoris, *and* it automatically increases intensity when pressed harder against your body for consistent pleasure.


    Promising review: "This is my first pleasure product, but I can’t thank myself enough for purchasing this. It blew my mind how amazing this product is. I didn’t think I would enjoy it so much, but it’s hella awesome and I would totally recommend to anyone who doesn’t want a pleasure product that involves penetration." —Lelo Customer

    Get it from Lelo for $111.20 (originally $139; available in three colors).

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    3. An embroidered garter belt to help them get a ~leg up~ on making their ensemble extra memorable.


    Promising review: "Very sexy garter belt! It fits nicely and stays right where it should. The black and red look nice and the lace at the bottom adds to the overall look. The straps are adjustable to be just the length I needed, and attach a bit more securely than ones I've had in the past. Would buy again." —AshleyAndMike

    Get it from Amazon for $11.99 (available in sizes XS–3XL).

    4. A bottle of lavender-scented massage oil, because this'll help set the ~mood~, courtesy of its combo of jojoba oil, almond oil, and vitamin E that add to a sensual massage (without any greasiness).

    Promising review: "My partner told me this was one of my best purchases on Amazon and that I should put it on auto refill, haha. This stuff is not too greasy, but oily enough to allow your hands to glide easily, which makes giving a massage much more effortless. The smell is mild and the oil isn’t too messy and absorbs nicely. A little of this stuff goes a long way and I imagine I can get 30-40 massages out of this bottle." —Sonsam

    Get it from Amazon for $9.95.

    5. A pair of glitter heart nipple covers for probably inspiring MAJOR ❤️heart eyes❤️ — I hope you're ready for them to never want to take these off. They live in them now.


    Get them from Boohoo for $6.

    6. A vibrator necklace with four control settings so you can either get your S.O. gorgeous jewelry with ~perks~, or use it as a spontaneous rendezvous on your date*.


    *In accordance with the law, of course! Its four control settings are low, medium, high, and **pulsing**. Not only is it discreet and silent, but it's totally made of body-safe materials!

    Promising review: "My girlfriend wanted this and I have to say it's been well worth the money. It's very cool that it's USB rechargeable, and it packs one heck of a punch for its size." —James K. Huggins

    Get it from Amazon for $69+ (available in three colors).

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    7. A faux fur–trim nightie that'll help them live a certain lifestyle called "date night, but make it fashion."

    Forever 21

    Promising review: "I got it in pink so it could be a little more transparent. I love the black too so I will be purchasing that one, as well. It’s very lightweight and sexy! I would definitely recommend!" —Jalecia D.

    Get it from Forever 21 for $25 (available in sizes 1X–3X and two colors).

    8. A Corksicle whiskey wedge glass to both end the night with an Old Fashioned (is there a sexier drink? I think not) without paying bar prices *and* give them something they'll genuinely always want to use.


    It comes with the glass and the top mold for making the ice wedge.

    Promising review: "Purchased this as a gift and it was a huge hit. The packaging was really well designed and looked awesome. The product actually works too! It kept my whiskey drinks cold for the whole night without swapping out the cube. Surprisingly, the glass was actually really nice quality as well. Tip: Plan ahead of a party by freezing multiples! Freeze your ice and then pop it out, bag it, throw it in the freezer, and then freeze another! Works great for keeping your drinks cold for as long as the party lasts." —Loladex

    Get it from Amazon for $17.95 each.

    9. A soft body-safe ring, because this'll help make penetration more comfortable for people who experience pain during sex. It can be worn externally, is adjustable, and won't sacrifice any sensation.

    Urban Outfitters

    It's latex-free and adjustable!

    Promising review: "This product is such a game-changer. I’ve been suffering from painful intercourse for the past few years and nothing really gave me relief. My doctor prescribed a steroid cream, but that did nothing for me. I used this as a last resort, and OMG, I didn’t experience that intense pain at all!" —jai143

    Get a set of four from Urban Outfitters for $65.

    10. A set of glittering LED tea lights for giving them a way to ~set the mood~ without burning down the apartment. Sometimes they just bring too much of the heat, you know?

    Promising review: "These are great-looking! I like glitter, especially gold glitter, so this LED candle really fits my expectation. The light is soft and gentle, and makes my room cozy and warm." —Kristin Cox

    Get a set of 12 from Amazon for $9.99+ (available in two styles).

    11. A lace robe so they not only feel extra dressed up on V-Day, but can seriously upgrade their loungewear when wearing this all the time — who knew relaxing could feel so luxurious?


    It comes with matching underwear!

    Promising review: "Exquisite lace design! It is so soft and silky on your skin and looks gorgeous. I love the purple color that I chose. It also came with matching panties to complete the set and a beautiful silk ribbon to go around your waist. Very pretty outfit." —Ashley

    Get it from Amazon for $17.79 (available in sizes S–XXXL and five colors).

    12. A curved handheld vibrator that'll prove three isn't really a crowd after all when nestled between you and your partner. It boasts ~four hours~ of uninterrupted use *plus* eight stimulating patterns — this will definitely be their favorite gift of all time.

    Plus it's scented and waterproof!

    Promising review: "I purchased one of these a little over a year ago and the moment I started using it I knew I would never masturbate with my fingers again. I had no idea how much more intense and enjoyable orgasms could be until I began using this vibrator. Instead of masturbation being difficult and a bit uncomfortable right up until that actual orgasm, this little device makes the entire session fantastic. I wound up telling my sister, who is disabled and has difficulty with fine motor control, about it so she got one and is able to hold it perfectly without issues or assistance and it has drastically improved her quality of life as well. If you are on the fence about purchasing this, by all means, go for it, you definitely won't regret it." —89ji

    Get it from Lelo for $111.20 (originally $139; available in three colors).

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    13. A pack of non-latex, lubricated condoms to give them the gift of practicing safe sex while feeling luxurious thanks to their *extra smooth* design. Plus they're soft, comfortable, and incredible sensitive so they'll still feel everything.

    Lifestyles Condoms

    Promising review: "So I was skeptical about getting these condoms because of their price and the quantity in the package. However, these are worth every penny! I never enjoyed sex with a condom until now. The reviews aren’t lying when they say these are great." —yesenia

    Get a pack of 24 from Amazon for $11.17.

    14. A satin V-neck teddy, because this'll look amazing both alone and with bottoms — aka they'll be able to show if off all night while on your date.

    Promising review: "This is soft, slinky, and fits like a dream. The strings allow you to select how you want the top portion to fit —high or low, right or loose. Love it." —B. Choate

    Get it from Amazon for $2.99+ (available in sizes S–XXL and nine colors).

    15. An aromatherapy diffuser for encouraging them to swap out their nightlight (it's ok if they still have one) for something that more appropriately sets the mood — at least just for tonight. And! They can use it to create a soothing atmosphere the rest of the year.


    Did I mention it changes between seven colors and has auto shut-off?

    Promising review: "This is the perfect little humidifier. I love the lights and the mist settings. It's simple to fill up and rinse out if need be. I have it at my desk to alleviate the dryness from our way-too-stuffy, way-too-hot-and-dry office. My face used to get so dry, my skin would start itching and burning by the end of the day! The lighting helps create a really nice and soothing workspace (those harsh office lights are a killer on your eyes!) It almost looks like a spa! I’m recommending it to everyone on my team so they get one too!" —MsAnonymous

    Get it from Amazon for $16.95.

    Need some essential oils? Get a set of six from Amazon for $9.99.

    16. A bottle of all-natural lubricant formulated with your sensitive-skinned bb in mind so you can both enjoy a mess-free way to get ~excited~ about your night together.

    There's no glycerin and it's water-based!

    Promising review: "I’ve tried about five different types of lube by now, all leaning on the natural, no glycerin, or weird chemicals side. This one is hands-down my favorite. It has more lasting power than others and the texture does not turn gummy once dried. It has no strange plant taste, either. Overall I’m sticking to this brand and feel no desire to explore any other lube at this time. I’m that happy with it." –Chinadoll

    Get it from Amazon for $16.95+ (available in two sizes).

    17. A set of thigh-high fishnet stockings that'll create an effortlessly sexy outfit for them, with an even better *reveal* at the end of the night.


    Promising review: "These are amazing. I hesitated so long to buy these, because I have thick legs. The 'one size' thing seemed like a no-go for a size 12 with curvy thighs. Don't worry, though! They will fit, and they won't even squeeze at the top." —chloe katelyn fuselier

    Get a set of four from Amazon for $14.99 (claims to fit one size; available in five styles).

    18. A bottle of aromatherapy bath salts in the scent ~seduction~ (aka mandarin, pink pepper, sweet patchouli, and agar wood) to let you two soak in each other's happiness all darn night.

    Free People

    Get it from Free People for $28 (available in three formulas).

    19. An embroidered lace lingerie set complete with a bra, underwear, thigh-high socks, and garter, because this'll help them go all 👏 out 👏 when it comes to feeling their best.


    Promising review: "Okay I was a tiny bit scared to buy this, because I am curvy, but I was soooo wrong! It fits my figure so nicely! The bra and garter belt have adjustable straps that you can adjust to your liking and the material is so nice! Totally worth the price, I love it so much! This is my first lingerie set and I’ve never felt sexier. I thought the undies were going to be too small, but they were perfect!" —Jammie Gutierrez

    Get it from Amazon for $29.99+ (available in sizes 34A–40D and three colors).

    20. A flexible, vibrating cock ring for including someone who's clingy in all the right ways. It'll make *both parties* happy by delivering waves of vibrations, again and again. Your partner will be very grateful for you after this.

    Promising review: "My partner and I enjoy the Tor2 quite a bit! It's a high quality toy and the different intensity vibrations won't leave you hanging!" —1fruitycat

    Get it from Lelo for $111.20 (originally $139; available in three colors).

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    21. A pair of double-lock handcuffs so you two can really up your foreplay game if they've been looking to ~shake things up~.


    But — and I can't emphasize this enough — be responsible and don't lose the keys or you will have to call the fire department and ruin your night.

    Promising review: "I bought two pairs to handcuff my partner to the bed, during 'adult time.' The double lock mechanism won't allow them to accidentally tighten the cuffs on their wrist while they're squirming around during their multiple climaxes. They are also super durable and will keep them in the naughty chair." —Larry C.

    Get it from Amazon for $15.98.

    22. A Kama Sutra playbook filled with interesting positions that'll give you two some new ideas (and probably squeeze a workout in, tbh).


    Promising review: "An updated, easy-to-read version of the famous Kama Sutra, with added extras. Perfect for me and my partner, as they've always wanted one but found them too complicated/intimidating." —Anna

    Get it from Amazon for $10.95.

    23. Or! A punny adult coloring book to stay true to your extremely mature selves and also get some...ideas.


    It has *35* coloring pages chock full of things like "lecherous llamas, suggestive sloths, and uncouth unicorns." Your imagination is really about to run ~wild~.

    Promising review: "Lovely and silly coloring book. You'd think this is a gag joke or novelty product but it has the hallmarks of a good adult coloring book: good paper quality with only one image printed on each sheet of paper. The animals tend to have a lot of white space so you can color them in a more complicated fashion, while the backgrounds tend to be small so you can mindlessly color them in flat colors." —phy

    Get it from Amazon for $5.99.

    24. A wedge pillow reviewers use for making deeper penetration easier and more accessible — your S.O. will bless this tool for doing 90% of the work while they get all the rewards.


    Promising review: "We bought this strictly for sex and it works great! It's much cheaper than the liberator wedge — a fraction of the price." —hardcore

    Get it from Amazon for $31.99.

    25. A plunging lace teddy to help them switch it up from their usual nighties — tell them don't worry, their big tee will be waiting for them tomorrow.


    Promising review: "I got this in a 4XL because of the reviews saying the sizing runs small, and it fits me perfectly. The material is very soft and extremely comfortable to lounge around in. I am 5'2", approximately 300 lbs, and couldn't be happier with how this fits. 10/10 would buy again." —Emily Rasbeary

    Get it from Amazon for $4.88+ (available in sizes L–4XL and five colors).

    26. A pair of lace crotchless panties, because these'll let them keep their ~look~ on long after getting undressed — priorities.

    Reviewers say to size up!

    Promising review: "I love these! I ordered them a size larger than I regularly would and they fit perfectly! I would love to try more products from this company. They are so delicate-looking and comfortable. They have held up very well so far." —Tina Hartman

    Get them from Amazon for $4.99+ (available in sizes S–XXL and six colors).

    27. A pair of satin eye masks for keeping the mystery alive in the bedroom — best case scenario, you make them guess chocolate flavors while feeding them.


    Promising review: "They are a great length where you can easily wrap it twice around your eyes and tie it on the front, that way your partner can lay on their back without the knot bothering them behind their head." —Cristofer

    Get a set of two from Amazon for $5.99 (available in six color combinations).

    28. A set of satin bed sheets so you can easily create a whole new bedroom aesthetic before they arrive (are we still in my small apartment??) for an overall luxurious *ahem* evening.

    This set includes: one flat sheet, one fitted sheet, and two pillow cases! They're machine washable, but use cold water.

    Promising review: "Material is gorgeous! It's silky, shiny, and soft. They survived the first wash. Looks stunning in a romantically-themed bedroom. Will order again in this color and others. I love this item!" —Tracy D.

    Get it from Amazon for $24.99+ (available in full–king and in seven colors).

    29. A much-loved Shibari wand massager that'll make this Valentine's Day a night your partner will never forget — be warned that they'll beg for this every night after.

    BuzzFeed Reviews

    It has 20 pulsation patterns, eight speeds, and smooth silicone for a sturdy grip. And it's body-safe!

    Promising review: "Bought this as my first vibrator not really sure what to expect, now I don't even know what hands are for. Sure it never took me that long to get off by myself, and I could finish around ten or so minutes if I really wanted to. But this. THIS. The first time I tried it I came in less than a minute. And after that just orgasm after orgasm. This thing gives you eyes roll into the back of your head nothing else matters spasm your socks off orgasms and I couldn't be happier." —Oh my

    Get it from Amazon for $27.98.

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