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Which Of These Red Flags Would Make You Stop Dating Someone?

What's gonna set your alarm bells ringing?

  1. 1. On your first dinner date, you realise they eat with their mouth wide open.

    On your first dinner date, you realise they eat with their mouth wide open.

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1. On your first dinner date, you realise they eat with their mouth wide open.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 2. The person you're dating is really good looking, but they have poor personal hygiene.

    The person you're dating is really good looking, but they have poor personal hygiene.

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2. The person you're dating is really good looking, but they have poor personal hygiene.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 3. You find out that the person you're dating is still living with their parents.

    You find out that the person you're dating is still living with their parents.

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3. You find out that the person you're dating is still living with their parents.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 4. You go over to their house for the first time and realise they are really, really untidy. The whole place is an absolute mess.

    You go over to their house for the first time and realise they are really, really untidy. The whole place is an absolute mess.

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4. You go over to their house for the first time and realise they are really, really untidy. The whole place is an absolute mess.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 5. You don't like the way they dress.

    You don't like the
    way they dress.

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5. You don't like the way they dress.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 6. On your first date, they bring up their ex constantly.

    On your first date, they bring up their
    ex constantly.

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6. On your first date, they bring up their ex constantly.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 7. After dating for a little while, you realise they've slept with one of your close friends in the past.

    After dating for a little while, you realise they've slept with one of your close friends in the past.

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7. After dating for a little while, you realise they've slept with one of your close friends in the past.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 8. The first time you have sex, you realise you're definitely not sexually compatible. The sex is seriously awful.

    The first time you have sex, you realise you're definitely not sexually compatible. The sex is seriously awful.

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8. The first time you have sex, you realise you're definitely not sexually compatible. The sex is seriously awful.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 9. On one of your dates, they reveal that they cheated on their last partner.

    On one of your dates, they reveal that they cheated on their last partner.

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9. On one of your dates, they reveal that they cheated on their last partner.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 10. You find out that the person has only just come out of a long-term relationship and you're unsure if you're the rebound.

    You find out that the person has only just come out of a long-term relationship and you're unsure if you're the rebound.

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10. You find out that the person has only just come out of a long-term relationship and you're unsure if you're the rebound.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 11. Alternatively, you find out that they've never been in a serious relationship before.

    Alternatively, you find out that they've never been in a serious relationship before.

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11. Alternatively, you find out that they've never been in a serious relationship before.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 12. While trying to organise dates, the person is really flaky and constantly pulls out of plans at the last minute.

    While trying to organise dates, the person is really flaky and
    constantly pulls out of plans
    at the last minute.

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12. While trying to organise dates, the person is really flaky and constantly pulls out of plans at the last minute.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 13. While dating them, they start to come across as very jealous and they don't seem to like it when you hang out with your friends instead of them.

    While dating them, they start to come across as very jealous and they don't seem to like it when you hang out with your friends instead of them.

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13. While dating them, they start to come across as very jealous and they don't seem to like it when you hang out with your friends instead of them.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 14. On your first dinner date, they're rude to the waiter/server.

    On your first dinner date, they're rude to the waiter/server.

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14. On your first dinner date, they're rude to the waiter/server.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 15. The person you're dating is exceptionally flirty with other people and that doesn't seem like it'll ever change.

    The person you're dating is exceptionally flirty with other people and that doesn't seem like it'll ever change.

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15. The person you're dating is exceptionally flirty with other people and that doesn't seem like it'll ever change.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 16. When you meet their friends, you really don't like them. They're seriously awful, and the person you're dating acts differently around them.

    When you meet their friends, you really don't like them. They're seriously awful, and the person you're dating acts differently around them.

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16. When you meet their friends, you really don't like them. They're seriously awful, and the person you're dating acts differently around them.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 17. You see them drunk for the first time and they're a completely different person, not to mention they're an absolute mess.

    You see them drunk for the first time and they're a completely different person, not to mention they're an absolute mess.

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17. You see them drunk for the first time and they're a completely different person, not to mention they're an absolute mess.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 18. While dating, you realise you have different political views. They're not just different, they're the complete opposite.

    While dating, you realise you have different political views. They're not just different, they're the complete opposite.

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18. While dating, you realise you have different political views. They're not just different, they're the complete opposite.
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag
  1. 19. And finally the person you're dating is a really, really nice person but they're just kind of... boring?

    And finally the person you're dating is a really, really nice person but they're just kind of... boring?

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19. And finally the person you're dating is a really, really nice person but they're just kind of... boring?
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    A red flag and I'd stop dating them
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    A red flag but I wouldn't stop dating them
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    I don't think this is a red flag

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