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    29 Mother's Day Gifts To Just Give Yourself

    Don't get me wrong — your kid's macaroni art is museum-quality, but there are some things your children can't get you.

    We hope you love the products we recommend! All of them were independently selected by our editors. Just so you know, BuzzFeed may collect a share of sales or other compensation from the links on this page if you decide to shop from them. Oh, and FYI — prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

    1. A stemless wine glass that would never judge you, even if the dog eyes you when you go for a third glass.


    Get it from Amazon for $14.99.

    2. A skincare bible with valuable info all about your skin so you can feel like a pro when pampering your face at home. Not everyone has time for facials ok??


    Promising review: "Loveeeee this book. Mahto does an incredible job at breaking down the science behind skincare without missing important information. She also writes it in a user friendly approach - I learned so much, but never felt like I was getting lost. She divided the book into chapters based on skin concerns, so it's very easy to go back through your reading and check in on current skin concerns you might have. I can't recommend the book enough! My only qualm is that she rarely cites any sources in her book, which is confusing to me since it's so scientifically focused. Still worth it, though!" —kahleesi1453

    Get it from Amazon for $16.65.

    3. A patterned swing dress you'll be twirling in well into summer.,

    See our write-up of this amazing dress.

    Promising review: "This dress is perfect! This dress is elegant and even has large pockets, which is perfect to hold a smartphone and/or lip balm. While I normally wear a size small, I read other reviews which said to buy one size larger, and I'm so glad I did. I highly recommend purchasing this dress." —Amber

    Get it from Amazon for $22.96+ (available in sizes S–3XL and 19 colors).

    4. Coffee and a Classic — a service that sends you a classic book and a hot bevvy of your choice, whether it's coffee, tea, or hot cocoa.


    Each box will come with a novel in the genre you pick (classic literature, children's classics, or classic non-fiction), a drink of choice (coffee, tea, or hot chocolate), two bookish items, and a bookmark. Ooor, if you choose the standard box, you'll also get a snack and a mug.

    Get it from Cratejoy for $28.49+/month.

    5. A badass mama camper mug or a fox's sake option, because your kids can't use that kind of language but you sure can.

    Scary Mommy, Amazon

    Get the heart mug from Scary Mommy for $16 and the fox mug from Amazon for $9.97.

    6. A funny tee so you can drop hints about what you'd really like for Mother's Day.


    Get it from Amazon for $16.99 (available in sizes S–2XL and 12 colors).

    7. A sensual selection from beloved sex toy shop Lelo to try out after the kids have gone to bed. Maybe the Sona, the Soraya, or a massage oil candle?


    The max melts at a lower temperatures so you don't have to worry about burning yourself. It comes in three scents: vanilla and crème de cacao, snow pear and cedarwood, and black pepper and pomegranate. The Sona stimulates the entire clitoris with gentle sonic waves so it can prolong the big O and make it better than ever. It's also pretty quiet, which is always a plus. Read more about the Sona here. The Soraya is a popular dual massager that hits the clit and G-spot at the same time.

    Get the Sona for $69, the Soraya for $239, and candle for $34.90 from Lelo.

    Get 20% off the Soraya, Mona Wave, Ora 2, and Lily 2 using the code BUZZMOM19.

    8. Or something from Maude, like a minimalist vibe, organic lube, or a massage oil candle so you can enjoy some much-needed you-time in style.


    This silicone vibe comes with three speeds and has a 2.5 hour runtime. You can charge it with USB and take it wherever you want thanks to its discreet design. The organic lube is made with aloe so it's ultra-hydrating. It can be used with toys and condoms, and is paraben free. Read BuzzFeed's full write-up on this awesome sex toy brand.

    Get the vibe for $45, the lube for $25, and the candle for $25 from Maude.

    9. An Olay clay mask stick to make applying a face mask quick and mess-free.


    The mask is made with a pink mineral complex and Kaolin clay to help refresh tired skin. Just swipe on, leave for 10 minutes, and wash off with warm water.

    Promising review: "I have always loved the results of clay masks, but hated all the time, energy, and mess involved... luckily, Olay has changed everything for me. This stick provides all the benefits of a clay mask in an easy-to-apply 10 minute form. My skin looks completely renewed — clean, bright, smooth. I feel like I've been at the spa all week; my skin looks AND feels amazing!!!! No matter if you have a crazy work week, kids, a husband, and dinner to make... you can find time for this, all the benefits of a clay mask in 10 minutes. Try it, you'll love me forever!!" —cbowman1986

    Get it from Walmart for $9.94.

    10. A visit from a cleaning pro from Handy, because let's face it, no one else is gonna clean the house that day.


    Weirdly, taping sponges to your toddler's feet just doesn't cut it.

    Promising review: "So thoughtful and incredible attention to detail — my cleaner is the best! My home is spotless and smells amazing whenever my cleaner takes care of it for me. I would recommend her without hesitation." —Elizabeth H.

    Get a quote on your first home cleaning from Handy.

    11. A gorgeous terracotta bong that totally passes as a vase so you don't have to an awkward convo about it with your kids.

    Sackville and Co

    These bongs are handmade in Mexico by ceramicist Maye Lopez. They're made with terracotta, making them a very convincing vase!

    Get the bong on the left or right from Sackville and Co for $160.

    12. A bag of low carb, sugar free, gluten free, soy free, nut free brownie mix for an inclusive treat everyone can enjoy.


    Promising review: "I'm not a fan of sugar. I'm 24 but it just doesn't agree with me. So when I visited my parents my mom started RAVING about these brownies because she's on a keto diet and has a huge sweet tooth, well....I ate three huge portions and she was mad but I'm already making more upstairs as I type this! Delicious! Wouldn't know it was sugar-free unless you told me." —meh

    Get it from Amazon for $12.99.

    13. A desk plaque to point to the next time your kid comes at you with 101 questions.


    Get it from Amazon for $8.75.

    14. Mom Time Delivered — a subscription box filled with everything you need to kick back and relax after a long day of being the world's best mom.


    Each box has a different theme and can be sent every one, two, or six months. You can find all sorts of goodies inside like spa items, artisanal treats, and handmade gifts. Everything is from small businesses and companies owned by other moms.

    Get it from Cratejoy for $26.67+/month.

    15. A jelly face mask and butt sheet mask so you can hydrate the candle at both ends. That's how that saying goes, right?

    Free People

    The unicorn jelly mask is made with ferulic acid, vitamin B, and collagen to nourish your skin. It also has glitter and star sequins that are safe to put on your face so you can feel young at heart and face. Speaking of being juvenile, the butt mask goes right on your rear and gives it a shot of hydration. It comes in one of four types: Shake It, Bite It, Squeeze It, and Slap It.

    Get them from Free People: the face mask for $19 and the butt mask for $9.

    16. A beautiful necklace featuring your birthstone so you can rep your birth month in style. Fellow October babies, hello!


    Get it from Nordstrom for $50+ (available in 12 stones).

    17. Or a dainty zodiac necklace you'll be starry-eyed over.


    Get it from Amazon for $7.98+ (available in 12 signs).

    18. A question a day journal so you can take a moment to reflect and be introspective each day. It's great for busy moms who don't have a lot of time to sit around journaling.

    You answer one question each day for the whole year. The following year, you go back and answer the questions again. After five years you can see how much has changed. See our full review of this journal.

    Promising review: "I am a busy mother of four and never have time to do anything extra. So when I found this journal, I thought maybe this could be my answer since I always want to journal, but never have the time. Because there are only a few short lines to fill in each day, I have been able to keep up with writing and it's actually been nice to spend five minutes a day, jotting down a thought. I have since bought a few more for some of my family members and they love this journal as well. It's so practical and something that anybody can find time for." —Emmy

    Get it from Amazon for $14.58.

    19. An Aerogarden countertop garden to give you access to fresh herbs at all time. The days of buying a whole bunch of mint when you only need a couple leaves for your mojito are over!


    This handy device has an LED grow light that automatically turns on and off. It also reminds you when to water or add plant food so it's foolproof. It comes with seeds for Genovese basil, parsley, dill, mint, thyme, and Thai basil. See our full review of this Aerogarden.

    Get it from BuzzFeed's Goodful line, exclusively at Macy's for $89.99 (available in two colors).

    20. Mommy Hacks — a lifesaving subscription service that sends you helpful products that everyone will love, like bread cutters, night-lights, and bedtime stories.


    Each box has six to eight products and a retail value of at least $50.

    Get it from Cratejoy for $33.33+/month.

    21. A tongue-in-cheek gym bag sure to make you smile.


    Get it from Amazon for $35 (available in six designs).

    22. A weighted blanket to help anxious or restless sleepers. Consider this something that will tuck YOU into bed.


    Read our fill write-up on this weighted blanket.

    Promising review: "Wow! My family purchased this for me for Mother’s Day. I received it yesterday, and slept through the night last night for the first time in months. In addition to anxiety, which I thought it would help with, it calmed my legs (I have horrible restless leg syndrome) — something I didn’t expect it to help with." —Amazon Customer

    Get it from Amazon for $63.50+ (available in 12 sizes and weights, and five colors).

    23. Or a pom-pom lined blanket you can hide under when everyone starts yelling "mom!"

    Apollo Box

    Get it from Apollo Box for $59.99 (available in three colors).

    24. A decadent cacao spread that's a step up from Nutella. You might have to hide this from the rest of the family.


    This paleo spread is made with ghee butter, but is lactose free.

    Promising review: "This stuff is a pot of gold; it’s delicious! I’m hooked on the regular ghee butters made by this company but this is nothing like them. It’s definitely more of a chocolate spread than a butter. Very sweet yet balanced. Like someone else wrote, this is sort of like Nutella and anything you’d use Nutella on this serves as an even better substitute to add that extra component we all know and love: coffee. To me, this is Nutella for adults and I’m glad I don’t have to go another day without it." —Caitlin

    Get it from Amazon for $12.49 (available in three flavors).

    25. A pair of Allbirds, aka comfy clouds you can walk around in, or more realistically, run in when your kids get up to no good.

    Taylor Miller / BuzzFeed

    BuzzFeed Reviews declared these to be the best mid-price range pair of everyday sneakers!

    Get them from Allbirds for $95 (available in sizes 5–10 and 16 colors).

    26. A luxurious rainfall shower head so you can pretend you're ducking your head under a tropical waterfall.


    Promising review: "This is a nice large square shower head. It's easy to install; however, as it is larger, I noticed we needed more teflon tape than the smaller ones. This one really feels nice on your skin as it is coming out in so many holes and the water really goes over your whole body. It is great indoors and would also be perfect for an outdoor shower as it is stainless steel and made well." —Alice Ceballos

    Get it from Amazon for $22.98.

    27. A beautifully packaged candle from Otherland to light up your life.

    It comes in nice light and airy scents like Canopy (fig, ivy, and mint), Rattan (sandalwood, amber, and moss), and Chandelier (champagne, saffron, and leather).

    Get it from Otherland for $36 (available in five scents).

    28. A pair of cozy slippers you may never want to take off.

    Get them from Amazon for $12.99+ (available in sizes 5–12 and 20 animals).

    29. And a matching pair of underwear and dog bandana for you and your furry child.


    You can also get socks, bras, or a onesie to match!

    Get a dog bandana from MeUndies for $12 (available in two sizes and three colors) or see everything you can get in a brunch pattern shown above with prices starting at $12.

    Need something for YOUR mom? Check out 49 Of The Best Mother's Day Gifts Of 2019.

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