caramelldansen

i mean, shonda rhimes is black. if she wants to elevate black people in her own show instead of having an all-white cast for the 283748th time, i really don't see the issue. i'm sure she's very aware of how horrible colonizers were to her own people.

my husband and i are ace, so never ✌️

sure nepotism is rampant in hollywood (as well as literally everywhere else) but i appreciate buzzfeed for reminding me how out of touch i am with pop culture

mood. commenting that the cheater is horrible with no ire towards the abuser tells me what kind of person some of these people are.

been there. partner cheated on me constantly, was emotionally, physically, and sexually abusive. i was ready to just off myself when i started talking to the person i eventually cheated with. knowing i was loveable might have saved my life.

i almost died from menorrhagia that lasted about 7 months. i had been doing a lot of work on myself, eating healthier and working out 4-5 times a week; i was the healthiest i've ever been. every obgyn lectured me about my weight. when i explained my routine, they brushed it aside… Read More

takeout — too expensive, not as good as what i can cook, dubious nutrition. hair dye — i'm 34 and gray, oh well. dyeing my hair constantly was making it thinner, dry, and destroying my curl pattern. fancy beauty products — i make my own. my hair and skin have never looked better.… Read More

none of these are attractive, they're terrifying. shoot a computer today.

lolwut

i'd rather die than date a cishet.